Second date date. A lot of people when they go out on a date, like to wait for the perfect moment to go in for that first kiss. Oh my gosh, you have to you don't like panic inducing out. For some people, that happens at the very end of the night, while you're walking them back to their car. Classic. For Brooke, it happens three seconds after she makes eye contact. What was your name? But for one of our listeners, Barry, he says, the perfect moment actually came after the date
was over, which I don't really know what that means himself. Idea, I have that happy moment too, and I'm alone. I guess we're gonna find out in just a second. But first let's say hi to him, Barry. What's up man? Welcome to the showy gush Barry? What is it just me? Or did we have a moment right there? And he did? Know? Maybe they did. I'm sensing something. Don't hurt it. Don't rain on people's moments, Jose, I think I would have felt it. I'm in the moment as well. I'm leaning in.
I don't know about you've got are you leaning I'm here? Okay, that's a rejection, yea. All right, never mind, Well, I guess tell us about the girl that you want us to call today. What's her name? Her name is Sky? And how did you meet Sky? That's always our next question. She's friends with my buddy's girlfriend, so kind of a friend of a friend. Okay, Yeah, had you guys hung out quite a bit prior to your date? We actually met for the very first time on our first date.
So it was like a setup then, not really a setup, like, you know, my friend put us in touch and then we started texting each other. And yeah, when your friend puts you in touch with somebody to go on a date with them, that's called a set up. They yeah, no, I mean they just like, you know, they didn't like plan the data any again, like you guys go together? Do you want to get married now? And all garden
on Saturday. I've already made reservation. I've an event planner now, entire life all right, so connected the two of you, Yeah, and you guys agreed to go out. Yeah, I mean we texted back and forth for about a week or so. And what was that? Like? We you know, I had good chemistry over text and uh. At one point she mentioned she was a really good cook and okay, I jokingly like, I was like, oh, you better prove it. Oh that is actually a really good response word taken control.
So she invited me over for dinner. You know, it's a challenge accepted, right, all right? I know, and you're already going over to her place. I mean, what were you feeling. Were you excited, nervous? Oh? Yeah, for sure. I mean that's kind of like a big move for a first date, especially when you haven't met someone before. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, it's a really good sign. It means she trusts you too. Yeah. I don't any guy to
their home. I think its a lot that they met through friends, because friends can always vouch for their friends. Like if you're friends with my body, then of course you're It's one line of defense that comes down. Yeah, for sure, for sure. So how did things go when you guys met up? You know, I brought over some dessert and a bottle of wine. You should never show
up to someone's house empty handed. I'm mostly talking to Alexis because she's young, and I don't think she knows that yet anything, all right, And so that was dinner right from the moment I walked in you know, obviously I haven't seen her before, but she looked amazing and really good conversation over dinner, and true to her word, she's really good at cooking. Yeah, she made this awesome lasagna. It was incredible. I mean she took time because lasagna is,
Oh it's time intensive. Unless you get the stove first one, you just pop that. Yeah, oh god, it is good. That technically counts as homemade. Yeah, I guess she's serving you. Was on there for thirty two people. Yeah, so dinner went well. Did you guys do anything else? So we finished in her pretty quickly and overcome a little bit of awkward silence. I ask she had Netflix and if she wanted to watch a movie, because there was a
really awesome movie on Netflix. You know, when I see a really funny movie or when I see something really good, I want to share with other people, you know what I mean. Yeah, I'm sure that's why you asked. That's why everyone asks to watch Netflix, because I want to share a really great program. I mean, okay, so I put on Grown Ups Too with Adam Sandler. Have you seen it? It's incredible Grown Ups Too. It's not very romantic. Yeah,
it's an interesting first date choice. I mean, I feel like if you're laughing and having a good time, that is romantic. Yeah, but it's a questionable laugh, you know, it's like that's gonna guarantee to laugh like Adam Sandler. That's like you're hanging with your bros. And maybe you're smoked too much. I mean, my strategy when I'm trying to show romantic movies to have like a really good looking guy to get the other person in the movi, okay, so that they can close their eyes and not see
your face out with you. Yeah, I don't think you guys appreciate the comic genius that is Adam Sandler. I don't. I guess not turned me on. But you know that's okay. What did she think of the movie? She laughs, She laughs a little bit, a little bit like a normal Adam. I mean, okay, yeah, you know, we were eating tie watching a movie and I wanted to make a move, but I just couldn't find the right moment, and so that was kind of a bummer. During coron ups too,
you couldn't find a good moment. It's pretty amazing. So many romantic pieces of that shocks me. I still can't believe that. David Spain and Evin James on the screen too. Oh yeah, Chris, Oh my god, maybe I'll better luck and grown ups three twenty times, so they have to grow up. So those guys are satured in life royalty. I don't know why. Yeah, no notice. Respect. So how did the night end for you? So? I just gave her a hug and I left her place. Okay, Okay,
that seems that's okay. And then one of my friends lives by, so we ended up at a bar in the area and we just had a couple of drinks. But here's the thing I regret is, you know, I was kind of kind of loose, and it was probably a little overconfident, and so back to her apartment, and it was probably around midnight or so, maybe a little after Wait, did you tell her that you were coming back or you just went back? No? I just went back. What did she say she answered the door? No, No,
she didn't answer. But from where I was parted, I could see that she had just turned off the light in her bedroom, and so you know, that was when I realized that, like, you know, maybe it had accidentally been a little creepy. I guess I'm just picturing you're standing outside her apartment drunk. But Sky, let me and I'm confident enough to kiss you. Now that's such an out of Sailor movie classics. So have you reached out to Sky since the day? Yeah? I did under a
couple of texts, but have not heard back. Okay, all right, all right, man, Well we're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Sky for you, and we'll try and get your second date update. Okay, all right, thanks guys, all right, hang on second. During the last song, I've been googling most romantic Adam Sandler quotes of all time? Okay, what'd you come up with that? Wait? Did anything? Come on? I'm actually excited for that. I have a few contenders here.
First one, now, that's what I call high quality H two old, or maybe this one? Why don't you just go home? Ball? Are you too good for your home? Doesn't get much hotter than that one? Oh wow. If you're wondering why am I bringing up these steamy Adam Sandler lines here, one of our listeners, Barry, went on
a date with a woman named Sky. She cooked them a meal at her place, and then Barry put on the movie Grown Ups Too, and waited for the perfect moment to go in for the first kiss, which shockingly never came. And his biggest regret is after he left her apartment, he had a few drinks and then returned around midnight with his liquid confidence, but she never answered the door. It was almost that Romeo and Juliet balcony scene, and now he's hoping that we can get a hold
of her. Barry, how you feeling good? Okay? Very well? I mean, Barry, there's a lot on the line, like this girl she cooked for you, Like, how are you really feeling? Yeah, I mean I'm voteful. I've heard you guys work your magic before, so you should. The matter is, I've been single for a really long time and Sky is just recently single, So I just I don't want to let the opportunity go. You know, she's a catch, and I feel like she's not going to be single
for long. Okay, that's good. Let's give it a show out here. I'm Gonnadasky's number and we're gonna get you a second date. Update you ready, I'm ready? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Sky. Her Hi, Sky. My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing. I'm okay, Hi, Hi, how are your energy run up there? Hey? We're a morning show. Okay, okay, and we're doing something called a second date update. Have you ever heard of that before?
I think so? Yeah, okay, okay, smile coming through the phone. But basically, a second date update works like this. If you go out with someone and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you can email our show and we'll reach out to them for you to try and figure out the reason why. Oh okay, okay. And so somebody emailed us in regards to you. His name's Barry. Yeah, that was a bad sounds guy. Ye Oh, I'm sorry. Okay, Yeah, I know, Barry. Yeah, it's okay. You don't have to
fake it like you like him if you don't. But we're just trying to figure out why you've been avoiding him. All right, Well, let me first say, I'm sure he's a very nice guy. Oh man, that is a setup for something bad. Yeah. She doesn't even say like he is a nice guy. I'm sure he is. It was a blind date, so those are always risky. Yes, they are always risky. But it was a blind date, but it was like true friends, so it felt kind of okay,
you know. Yeah, so Barry has told us a lot about your date already, about how you guys met and that you cooked him some dinner over at your apartment, and he put on the movie Grown Ups two. Yes, how did you feel about that? Well? I hadn't seen Grown Up one when they did tell him, But you don't need to see one. Did it really make some It's got a lot of plotline there. It wasn't a book first, ye, all right, But honestly it was not the movie that was like the issue. I don't really
know everything that he told you. But before we even met, we were taxing back and forth and it was like it was fine, But then he was asking all these weird questions about my apartment, which seems odd, like what kind of questions? Just like what my amenities were? Like he used the word amenities. Do you think he was just nervous or something like? Well, no, it was definitely on purpose because he showed up to the date with a bag of laundry. What what do you mean we
did his laundry? On our date. No, no, he did not tell us that. No he did not. He didn't tell you that. That was kind of like the big thing. He showed up with a bag of laundry, and then I spent like a lot of time you actually did it well. He couldn't seem to get my wash or dryer situation, so I was like explaining where the buttons were, and then I wound up popping him like sort through his dark and slights. It was just so weird. What was his explanation, like that he doesn't have it in
his building? Would it be okay if he did it here? But it was definitely a moment where I was like, oh, that's why he was talking about my amenity. Oh my god. I don't know. Maybe it was some kind of test to see if you're really wife material. What wives don't do laundry anymore? Just in nineteen fifty. I was like I could for him. I did his laundry. I felt like his mom, like yeah it does. And he made you watch grown ups too, like I didn't even make
a move. So and I don't know if you know about this, but he said after the day ended, he went out and then came back around midnight hoping to see Yeah. So the movie ended and I kind of didn't know how to end the situation. And he was like, you know, my friend loves down the street. Would you mind if I go and meet them for a couple of drinks while my stuff in the dryer? And I was just like yes, Like I didn't know what to do.
He left his clothes at your out. Yeah, so he left and then I just was like cleaning up our stuff, and then when his clothes were dry, I put them in a big bag and put him outside my door and just kind of went to bed. And I did hear him knocking, but I was like, I mean, it's not like he forgot anything or like, oh wow, well that makes sense. Oh yeah, but he didn't even stay do the dishes after you cooked for him, Like all of this didn't Were you doing a teenage boy? Yeah?
At first I was like, wait, do I not know how dating works anymore? And I was like no, I think he doesn't know how to work. Oh my gosh, this is crazy because he never mentioned anything about that to us. What that was like the biggest thing that like I couldn't stop thinking about the whole time we're eating dinner, and I can hear it like tumbling around
the waher. O. God, I wonder why he did that, And I really know, I really would like to ask him, no Sky, because I need to tell you Barry's on the other line listening and he wants to talk to you. Oh yeah, wait wait, no, that's a joke. Great, it's not a joke. Barry there, I'm here, Oh Barry, Hi. Well, I mean I don't I don't know what to say. I mean, best of luck, I don't know what to say. That is the best response ever, Barry, What the hell are you thinking? You brought laundry over to her house,
lay machine, some of the dishwasher. You don't bring dishes over? Well? I mean I have a dishwasher. Okay, that's not God, dude, it's not the point, Like, can't you see that? That's overstepping, especially on a first date. It also made me things like you like me at all? Or would you just go out with anyone who has a washing? I will say in unit is pretty sexy. No, I mean it's like I like you a lot. I mean, like the
washer joy situation is a bonus. But I can venmo you for the detergent I should have offered no, that's that's fine, that's totally okay. We don't need to be friends on venmo Verry. No woman wants to be a mom to a boyfriend. I didn't really think of it like that, you know. I thought it was kind of just like a bonding experience. It was like an activity
we can do together. Oh. I mean, I could see it being romantic in an Adam Sandler movie maybe, But in the real world, Barry, that's not really how it works. It's not like a couple of goals. I'll do my laundering my Grandma's from now on, So next time we'll have like a more normal date without you know, um, you know what I hold on hold on Sky, don't go job at the conclusions here, guys, because it's very important for me to ask right now, if you would like to go out on one more date with Barry,
we will pay for it. Maybe go to a laundry mat will just give you a big bag of coins, do some laundry together. I think I have to like trust my gut and the idea that I was uncomfortable off the bat. It means like you don't go on a second date. So are you sure. I mean I'll do your laundry too. Oh oh, that's even weirder. I'll fold your panties for your girl. Broken Jeffrey in the morning,
