Second dat day. If you're not on a dating app, how else are you meeting people out there? Nowadays? It's a great question, you're not yea, yeah, especially these days right one of the one of the most popular options is to meet through friends. Yeah, and that can work out. You have a lot of friends. But it makes me think back. It makes me think back to my experiences on this show because I think of all of you as my friends, at least they did over the years.
You purposefully set me up on terrible dates. But it's funny, Like, it's not funny. What do we talk about studio Once having breakfast with a young lady and everybody mocked me. So funny, I go on dates myself. I mean, we're not gonna make fun of the girl you're going out? Would that? Yeah? Okay? Well, the whole thing is, I don't really know about being set up by friends anymore.
I don't know if it's a good thing. But that's how Mark met a woman that he went out with recently, Abby, Mark, Are you sure these people are really your friends that set you up? Was this all a ploy to get you on this show? Honestly, I have no idea. My buddy Brian, you know, best friends my entire life, so or so you think, well, yeah, so he sets me up with this girl he's known for a little while, but we've never actually, you know, hung out or anything. Okay,
And what did he say? I mean, did I mean he obviously like pitched it to you? Right? Yeah he said? What did he say you'd love about this girl? Well, you know she's outdoorsy, she loves hiking. Does it often? You don't have to lie Mark, Yeah, he said that she was hot. Yeah, yeah, that's yeah. Yeah, I know you're dancing around, but it's okay to admit that they set you up because she was a active Yeah. Well I think he knows me and of course, yeah, okay, good.
So what was the lead up to, uh going out with Abby? Did you see each other in person? Did you talk on the phone? Text? Well, we texted a little bit, but primarily we were just DM through Instagram. Yeah. I got to see all kinds of pictures. I was very happy. Boy. I was in the Navy, so I like doing some crazy stuff and so oh navy man. Oh, I mean my brother in law was in the Navy, and I wouldn't call him a crazy dude, what were
you doing in the navy. I've heard so many things about Nabe being super cool and then also, well it's like tux marines. I don't know, but we don't care for them. I know it's true. My dad was a marine. My brother in laws in the Navy. They've always said, yeah, we don't really get along to the Okay, Well, back to Abby, how was your date with her? I thought it went really well. What did you guys do? We
talked before? She makes pretty good money, which I was interested in because I myself I have my own business. Can I ask you? Did you ask her how much money you made her? I mean, how did that come up? Well? In a lot of the photos I saw, she always looked very nice, very put together, very professional. And I met her after she got off work, and she did she looked beautiful. Um, she definitely has this very high
level job. Okay, all right, that's good. I mean that's attractive someone who has goals and it has a good career, absolutely right. Plus, rich people have that like rich smell, you know the smell I'm talking about, right, Mark? Oh, she smelled very nice, Yeah, wealthy smell. I don't know though, Sometimes I've seen a lot of girls that have designer purses or Louis Vaton's. They're broke, they spend all. Then he met her after her high paying jobs. You're right there.
So how was your connection with her on a personal level? Well, I thought it was pretty good. I found out she was in the Peace Corps. Cool. The Navy's not beefing with the Marine Corps, not currently, but you never know. I guess a good happen. Okay, don't leave that up to the coast Guard. Yeah yeah, well no one, not the colost guard. Okay, sorry, didn't bring that up. We keep getting sidetracked from your date. But you're a very interesting guy, you are, so tell us anything else memorable
about your date. Okay. So it was the end of the night. We pull up to her house. I am buckle because I think I am going to go in for a kiss. Okay, So I go and she turned and I practically wind up kissing the car door window. So either she had no idea what I was doing or I just totally misfread every phone. Yeah yeah, I mean it's a pretty bad one. And the thing is is, if a girl wants a kiss at the end of the night, she'll linger she's not yeah, and like some
ninja move or something. Yeah, So I don't know. What do you think, Mark, what do you think turned her off during your date? Well? I thought I did it just that everything right. You know, I was a gentleman. I would open the car door everything I've pulled out for a seat when she was going to sit down. What did you do wrong? I feel like sometimes I just come off as a little it's a little too engaged. Maybe this is like read a job interview and they're like, well,
I'm kind of a perfectionist. That's my flaw. Oh you're too perfect from her? Okay, too much? Yeah, I listened too hard. You know how those Navy guys are. They're just too good. Yeah. Well, here's what we're gonna do. We're we're gonna play a song. You just drop anchor stay where you are. We'll come back. We'll call Abby before you try and get you your second date update. All right, thank you so much. And I don't think
that's a Navy saying, Jeff. If you're just tuning in for the second date update, we've got Mark on the phone. Mark is a former Navy man who served honorably for his country out on the open seas, but recently he was dishonorably discharged from his first date with a girl named and Mark. I forgot the most important question. If the navy's in town, why wasn't I informed about this? Usually I'm at the docks holding the bottle of bubbly, So can you just please maybe text me next time
you guys are gonna dock? Absolutely? Absolutely, thank you, Mark, always hanging out at the port. Mark's date ended with him going in for a kiss, but Abby did a last second spin move to get out of it, and he told us the only reason he could think of for why he's not getting a call back is that he did his date too perfect. Yeah, he was too engaged, too interesting, too good looking. That's probably which Mark, as a fellow perfect man, I feel you brod. You guys
common It happens all the time. Oh my god, No, Mark, the one thing we didn't ask you. You were set up by friends. Have you checked in with your friend to see why Abby isn't calling back if they know anything. I talked to him, but I kind of avoided talking about the subject because I know he's going to talk to her pretty soon, and I just want to touch base with her or get like a third party perspective,
because I really did. I thought I was a gentleman and I do pretty well, and I unfortunately date a lot of gold figures here and there. And you already told us that she had a job in plenty of money yourself. All right, let's move forward. Yeah, let's just let's just get to the call. Will dial Abbey's number and find out why she would dare reject mister perfect? You ready? Yeah, i'd like to know. Okay, I'm a dot the number right now. Hello, Hi, I'm looking to
speak with Abby. Yeah, this is Abby. Hi Abby. My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh okay, okay, are you familiar with the show a little bit? We'll take it that works for us. Yeah, thank you, thank you for listening even a little bit. So the reason that we're calling is
we're doing something called a second date update. If you don't remember what that is, it's where if you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can email our show and we'll reach out to that person for you to figure out the reason why. Okay, all right, and so recently you went out with a guy named Mark. Yeah, and now you're you're not calling
him back. Mark says he had a great time with you, and he's hoping to understand better why you've been ghosting him, because, according to him, it was a pretty flawless date. Now, wow, that's interesting because he was really set on. He feels like he did everything right, open doors, paid for dinner, mentioned that he's in a navy, listened intently. Yeah, he mentioned he was in the navy. I wouldn't say he
listened intently. I feel like I heard a lot about just everything he's doing, all about the navy, all about this business. And I don't feel like there's anything Grandpa listen too. I didn't really get to talk one of those people you're just saying that. He talked about himself the whole time on the day, didn't ask you any questions. Now, it was pretty one sided, Okay. I mean sometimes I feel like that happens when people are nervous and they're overcompensating.
Do you think that could have been it? No? I think he was perfectly confident. You think he was perfect No? Oh, I heard, I thought, I mean, confident isn't bad? Was it more like egotistical? He just really thought himself. And then look at the end of the night, you know, we're leaving, there's like a homeless guy in the parking
lot and he hands me his phone. I was like, hey, get a picture of this for me, and he like takes money out of his wallet and wants me to take a picture of him giving money to the homeless person. And then he posted it, like right there in front of them on Instagram and said making money's not hard. Being inspirational shouldn't be either. Oh my god. Yeah, And I was like, I'm done. Okay, So you don't support
him giving money to homeless people? Is that what's happening? No? No, I don't support him being a That's what I don't support. Oh my god. And he's just like using a homeless person as a prop for likes like that is that's cool? Man, doing a good favor for people. Don't post it that it takes away all the good favor. Way hold on. I guarantee each one of you in this room has done something good for charity and then posted about on
your social media. Difference between participating in a charity right and wanting people to also donate, Okay, and a call for action. That's why he did it. Sounds like he's like, you guys can be inspirational. I'm doing my part. You guys can do yours. There's a difference between that and like literally giving someone just some change, taking a picture of it and then saying it's all about me. It's about how inspirational I am. It's never about helping the
other person. It's about what I did started. I see what you're saying. It's just hard to tell, you know, when you're right when you're dealing with a lot of attention every day. So it's hard, that's true. I mean I do like attention. Yeah. So so here's the thing, Abby, you felt like it was a disingenuous move because after
he gave him some money, he posted about it online. Yeah, it was just I don't know if it's just to impress me or if he just says this all the time, but either way it was If it was just to impress you, he would have left that moment between you two absolutely, and like taking the photo like it was premeditated even Yeah, and that's one of the reasons they didn't want to kis him. At the end, I was just like, ah, yeah, you should have kissed the homeless guy. Yeah.
Well at this point, Abby, I do have to tell you something you might find even more disturbing. Okay, I need to tell you. Marksman on the other line listening, and he heard everything that just said. He wants to talk of course. Yeah, Mark, you there? Hi? Abby? Oh why did you say it like that? Mark? He is not happy. Well, I'm yeah, I'm disappointed a little bit. Abby. I feel really bad that you got the wrong idea.
A lot of things are about reputation, and if something gets documented on Instagram, it's good for your reputation, especially if you're doing something kind, you know, And I really think that's important. And maybe somebody you know sees that and they think, oh, all right, here's five dollars and in my case, here's twenty because I have a lot of money. Okay, I mean, I mean that was a great He did it for his reputation. Abby, Why don't you understand? Oh I know, No, I mean, Mark, here's
the thing. It's great to do nice thanks for people, Okay, but like you don't need to like put it on the internet. You don't mean. I mean, I'm I just think in the future when you're out with other girls, who's not like the right move. You're not impressing anybody to be nice. Just to be nice. You don't need to go out of your way to show how nice you are. What do you think, Mark? I just think if you're not going to post about it, then who
sees it? Like really, who needs to see it? Defense you're trying to say you're spreading the word of getting charity is good, Yes, spreading the word. But you're a rich person. You're just supposed to share money. She's got you, Mark, I mean, I don't even think we're asking the important question here, the most important in question, which is Mark, how many likes did you get on that post? Was it worth it? Yeah? I got about seventy five, all right?
And how many likes did the homeless man get? Well, that's seventy five people that maybe would be giving to a homeless person today because Mark signaled that it's a good thing to do. Thank you. I told you guys, that was a great person. That's okay, that's guys. I gotta wrap it up like I'm at work. Clearly I'm not going out this guy again. Well, hold on, hold on, hold on, But before you go, Abby, I need to ask you, would you like to go out on one
more date with marcause we'll pay for it. Now, we don't have as much money as Mark does, but well, we'll pay as much as we can and we'll post this podcast about the charity you do. I like how we're lecturing Abby, who was in the Peace Corps. This is ridiculous. Yeah, it's gonna be a hard now. I think, don't blame you. That's not very charity bull of you. Yeah. Mark, I think you just kind of need to like reevaluate why you want to do kind things for people and
find a better reason. Or I could just go out with a hotter girl because I have lots of options. Oh wow, people with lots of options always call us for help. Well, actually, Mark, if you're wanting a girl that appreciates money, our social media coordinator Lexus are you. Are we talking billions? Billions? We're talking a couple of hundred thousands. Thus, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning