Second Date Update: Middle School Melee

let's not give up on these people so quickly. I feel like the only times you ever say that is when the people really have screwed something. I can feel you giving up already. I'm just saying, whatever happened, whoever said whatever to whoever. Let's give them some grace. Okay, Let's give them some leeway. Yeah, can make mistakes. Let's be the healers that are listening. Audience deserves to hear. That's so hard you're plotting your own speech. That's the

type of energy we're looking for listeners to. The only can we ask that of you today? How you feel like you're setting me up for something? But sure, half hearted, sure is the best We're going to do. Today, Thomas. So we're in a mildly safe place, she says she. We have welcome to the show Man. Thank you, thank you for having me, Thomas. We're ready to hear about the date that you went on. Tell us about who it was with. So it was with Marie, okay, and

she is somebody that I knew in middle school. Out when I said old flame, I didn't realize it was that far back. Really, Yeah, did you guys slow dance at a at a middle school dance before? Um? No, we were never closed. Okay, she actually beat me up. Oh when I was a kid. She's like, You're like, you're so beautiful to me. Yea. Is she still scary or no, she's not as scary when we're a little bit intimidating to me. But she's not nearly as scary anymore.

Did did she remember that you're the guy that she beat up? Yeah? So maybe I'm jumping ahead too much. But when I went out on the date with her, actually wore a boxing helmet, like boxing like headgear. Rematch. Let's do this now, let's go. What did she say when you showed up wearing that? She laughed, She thought it was great. She knew exactly what what it was. Oh my god, that's actually pretty funny. How did you guys reconnect just for a dating app? Oh? Wow, you

guys matched on a dating app? Cool. Yeah, so I'm like recently divorced. I got on the dating app and and she was on there, and I didn't recognize her. Like I've sort of recognized her, but not completely. You're like, can I get a picture of your fists coming towards my face? Then I'm recognizing. But it's kind of crazy how many people like stay in town like after high school, like you're all in the same community. Still, that's great. Yeah, it was great. Um, so what did you guys end

up doing for the date? Well? I just pecked her like, hey, just want to meet up for dinner. We just went to like a sports bar and had some food and oh that made her headgear not stand out as much since yeah big big fan. Yeah, what was the chemistry? Like I thought we had like great chemistry at first. I thought we had great chemistry. I thought everything was like good you know, conversation, like energy, the whole thing. Like I just felt like we had a really good

dynamic at first. Yeah. Yeah, so like I guess this was a dumb move on me. But I told my mom. You know, it's a small community, so we all kind of knew each other. There's parents and all that stuff. Yeah, and my mom actually ended up showing up on the date. Oh yeah, I don't blame I feel like my parents are the same. If I was like, you remember the blankety blanks from she did? She like, brook, Brook, don't give up. You're ready to quit on this feeling. It's

feeling bad. How long? How long was the interaction with your mom? Please tell me? It was like, I'll put the judgment. How long did she stay on your day? She didn't stay that long. I mean she showed up, said hi, I gave her a hug, But like, I didn't tell her to come meet up with this. So I hope that she didn't think it was like set up or something by me. Oh yeah, I don't know. Honestly.

It could just be that, like, suddenly there's the adult, sexy version of you, and then when you introduce the mom, all she could see was the dorky, junior high version of you that she beat up. Harsh. Yeah, some people in this room actually use their moms as their wingman to this day, isn't that right? Alect? I do think a guy I would like me more of them, But it sounds like it didn't work out quite that well

for you. Now. You say that the chemistry changed totally after the mom So that's you're thinking that's where everything went wrong. Yeah, I think so. I mean the date didn't last much longer after that, Like we pretty much just like we paid, We hugged, and that was it. Yeah, like a chess bump. Yeah yeah, bro activity But okay, have you reached out to her since that happened? Yeah, and it's nothing nothing. Yeah, has your mom tried reaching

She bet her? Not like I didn't ask her to go. Well, we'll find out for sure when we play a song come back call Marie for you your old middle school bully. I just want to like let you guys know that she did beat me up. But I did get a few licks then too, so it wasn't like on the ground. Okay, Well we're gonna do it right after this with your second day up date. Hold on. You know they say in middle school, if a boy has ever mean to you, it's because secretly he actually likes you, and he just

doesn't know how to show it's true. Sometimes it's true an adulthood. But I didn't realize when a girl in middle school roughs you up, it means she wants to go on a date with you twenty years later. See if you've manned up at all in that time. That's why I never got beat up by any girl. That's how Thomas reconnected with a woman named Marie from back

in his middle school days. They went out to dinner together, and the weird part of it was when Thomas's mom showed up unannounced halfway through just to say hi to Marie again. My gosh, So that obviously through a wrench into the romance part of the day and hasn't seen her spoken to her since. Brooke, is there any final things that you want to say to Thomas before you

ruin it once we get Marie on the phone. I mean, your mom ruined it, it sounds like, and that was a bad move on your mom's part, and you definitely need to have a conversation with your mommy about boundaries. Yeah, and I promise if you guys get me a second date, I promise I will not tell her about anything. I will tell her where we're going. That's a good rule to live by, yeah, secretive. Ye all right, So I'm gonna doll Marie's number. We're gonna see what she has

to say. You ready, Thomas, yep, Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey is this Marie? Yeah? Who's this? My name's Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Um okay, yeah, exactly. This be such a weird phone call. Again. Well, I'm I'm cleanly in here. What's going on? This is something we do call the second date update? And one of our listeners, Thomas, reached out to us because he

says he went out on a date with you. Oh Dot, you're being connected, okay, yeah, yeah, So he's been having trouble reaching you after the date and he's not one hundred percent sure why. He does have a little bit of a idea of maybe what caused it, though, Um, well, not that it's any of your business. But I was on a business trip bread after that date. I had to actually leave early to catch an early flight in the morning. Oh oh, so maybe you haven't called him back?

Just have you been just too busy? Yeah, I just got in town. Oh were you planning on getting back with Thomas then and having another date. Okay, so maybe we were reading it right. What's going on? Yeah, it was kind of cool. I don't know if he said anything to you, but we knew each other middle school, and yeah, we heard the story about how you actually beat him up once. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, that sounds like

a fond memory for you. Yeah, and he told us that he wore headgear when he showed up to the date. Was that fun for you? Well, it was right on the razor's edge of being totally too nerdy to be able to handle. But yeah, well you have to be really hot to pull off like wrestling headgear. It's funny. He's got that kind of like cute, nerdy Ryan Reynolds thing going. That's a bad thing. Do you think Ryan

Reynolds is nerdy? No, she's a nerdy version of Yeah. Yeah, okay, he kind of pulled it off because at first I was like, oh god, no, please, oh please, But then you know, it kind of was funny and you know, like we took care of the elephant in the room. Yeah, I beat the snot out of him in sixth grade. Like it sounds good? Yeah, I mean what else did you think about the date his mom? Yeah, showed up. Yeah, we're hoping wouldn't bring that out. We also know about that,

and he says that up. I mean we're back in sixth grade. Oh my head. Defense. He had no idea that she was gonna just randomly showed up. He didn't invite her there. He felt the same way what you just said was like, oh, just like, did it bring you right back to junior High? Is that way? Oh? Yeah? No, just like do I need a haul pass for a second date? I mean, we just it was weird. You were excited to see his mom and like share some old stories. Oh hell, now, yeah, it's probably not the

mood that you were going for. But oh can you I mean, can't you forgive him for that? It clearly wasn't It was out of his decision. Yeah, well okay, so maybe that's out of his control. But I was actually thinking about getting back in town and maybe giving him a calling, going out again, because it was she know was it was a great hit up until that point. An his mother hold me? Did you say called to his mother called me? How did she get your phone? Oer?

I mean, it's a small town. We all grew up here. We don't know each other, so I mean it. She probably called my mother and got my cell phone, didn't you say, I get this call? And she says, why aren't you not coming my Tommy back? He had a wonderful time with you. Oh, so getting a call from a radio station isn't making it better? Why are you Tommy? Like? What fresh hell is this? I mean, it is just what. It's gonna keep going on like yeah, until you actually

call him back and go on a date with him. Clearly, No, he has no idea that his mom called you. Do you know that? I don't know. I don't know. I'm telling you he doesn't know. Yeah, I don't think he knows. We should ask him if he has any idea, because Tommy, because I was calling Tommy Thomas, our Thomas is on the other line listening. He's been there the whole time. He wants to talk to you, Marie. Yeah, to her now, Yes, Um, I had no idea you And I apologize. I don't

know what compelled her to do that. I really apologize. I promise you. There are barriers I will like set up barriers for this in the future. Will never happen again. Physical barrier, not just like your mom told me on the phone. In addition to raeming me out for not calling you back, she also said that she's spoken to your ex wife over the years and just between us girls, he's hot in the stack, no sad in the stack. And I'm like, oh no, Thomas, is your mother right

about that? I actually just want to jump out of my second story window right now. I feel like Jeffrey, of all people, has empathy for you. He's got a mom like you have a mom like this. She signed you up for a dating app without you even knowing about it, but then you just get used to having her in the room when you're kissing the girl she chews on. She actually does have a lot of knowledge of it. I can see your mom like, let me just take some pictures. Yeah, I feel bad. Do you

feel bad for him? You got to feel a little bad for Thomas. Oh no, I do. I feel really bad for him. But do I need to jump into that kind of mojo? I know it doesn't sound like you could handle his type of mojo. Jo does sound like a mom, Thomas. I do think that you need to take a little bit of responsibility here because apparently you told your mom that Marie wasn't calling you back. Yeah, one hundred percent. I mean, but I just didn't know that that was going to turn into her calling and

trying to like get to the bottom of it. Well, and I hope the conversation was, Hey, mom, don't show up to my dates because now my date isn't calling me back. Yeah. I definitely should have probably brought that up. I mean seriously, Yeah, you don't talk to your mother that way. Marie. I just want to say, like, I'm so sorry that she reached out to you. I did not know that was going to happen. And then on top of all of that, we're on the radio right now,

and like we're putting all this stuff out there. So I just want to say, I'm like very mortified that that happened, and I'd really like to go back out with you. I just, you know, I'm sorry about everything. That sounds pretty sincere to me, to my ears, Marie, how do you feel about that? Well? Could you pinky promised me that your mom's not gonna have anything to

do with it. Like I said, I'm gonna definitely have a talk with her about like everything that's happened, I'm maybe not stop talking well, I mean I can't stop talking to her. I mean she is my mom and good boy, good boy. Yes, yes, So let us step in here for a second and ask Marie, Marie, would you like to go out on another date with our little Tommy. We'll pay for that date now that you know the whole story, you know everything. Yeah, I think

I would. Yes, that's actually cute. I do feel like we need to call his mom in like an awkward Tuesday and like set some ground rolls for your guys. Did did she just say yes? Because he's such a sexual dynamo, the mom's actually no comment. Okay, nice guy's got it, Tommy, jun you're going to be going on talking about something else. Yeah, broken Jeffrey in the morning.

That just goes to show no matter how bad the date is and how bad the aftermath of the date is, if you bring a heartfelt apology and swear it'll never happen again, you have a shot for another chance at love. Yeah, anyone can do it. I have such hard emotions on this one because I wanted it for Thomas. I want him to have another chance because he deserves it, but for her. If I was her, I'd run. Yeah, I'd run for the hills. I'm sorry, but you marry the

mother too. Yeah, I don't want well, I mean it, seriously, it was hard to come back from that. Not only does moms show up and embarrass you on the date, she calls after the date and tells her he's a dynamo in the sack just like his dad. That's a death sentence for ninety nine point nine percent of these calls. But somehow we worked a miracle. Well, yeah, I think that his moves in the bedroom worked a miracle according to his mom. Yeah. Yeah, we teamed up on that one.

I think if this segment ever gets played in England, we're going to get knighted for it. Okay, Yeah, jeff that's that's what I'm holding on. Okay, you keep hoping for that, all right. And I also hope that more listeners send us emails asking for second date updates, because we can all the person you wouldn't calling you back. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,