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Second Date Update: Like a Fine Wine

Dec 05, 201614 min
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One of our listeners (Henry) has very very specific taste in women. He likes his ladies on the Older side. There's nothing wrong with that. But he's upset that his date Jodi isn't calling him back after their night out. What went wrong? We'll find out in the Second Date Update.
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Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put away that mouse and get out of the house. Join in the Loop, Seattle's brand new activities club just for singles. Put in the Loop Singles dot Com today Brooking Jewels second dat Day. Everybody has their type when it comes to dating. There's some guys that like blonde girls, some guys that like brunett's, some guys that like women whose hair is graying and needs to be dyed to be blonde or brunette. Sort of like Henry, who's on the

phone with us right now. Henry likes the old ladies. At least that's what his email said, Henry, how are you doing all right? How were you good? So your email said that you like elderly women. Huh not elderly women? Yeah? How old are we talking? Like? You know, fifteen twenty years older than me? WHOA, that's you're like the opposite. I like it in the other direction. I like fifteen to twenty years younger. But why do you like the older women? Henry? Just morse stuff to talk about, don't

a lot to talk about? School and what you're gonna do? And yeah, and they can they pretty much like you know, mostly they've figured out what they're doing. Yeah, and they can educate you on things like the Great Depression they have lived through. How old are you, Henry twenty two? Wow, you are young? So you like to go out with women who are in their forties? Yes, okay, tell us a little bit about the girl who you want us to call it. Well, I shouldn't call her a girl.

The woman who you want us to call the day. Her name is Jody. Okay. We met in a gardening expos like the Garden Expo for old ladies. Well, like, it's harder to meet women that are older than I am, and uh no, this is a place that I've found work. Did you go to the garden Expo to specifically find a woman or did you happen to be there hanging out? No? Like, no, I go there. I don't go there just a you know,

troll for women. But I mean, you know, I look around and I try to meet people, Maybe strikes up the conversation, go out, maybe have a romantic time. So how does one hit on somebody at a gardening expo? Take me through that. Well, she was standing there looking at an exhibit. I saw her. I walked over and said, Hi,

my name's Henry, and she introduced herself and we started chatting. Okay, and you asked her out right then and there, but immediately okay, we walked around and looked at some different stuff, and then I did ask if she wanted to go out? And what was her response? Because I just imagine, I mean, how old is she? Again? Just four? You probably looked twenty two? Right? It a beard? Okay, extra years? Yeah, But I think if if I'm forty four and a twenty two year old girl asked me out, I'd be

excited about that. I think that women would probably feel the same way, like, oh, this little twenty two year old wants a piece of mama. What did she say? She looked flattered, and she gave me her number. Nice and I told her I'd call her. You got to call her, by the way, you can't text her. You actually to call and it's a landline at her house. That's funny. So what did you guys do when you actually went out? We had some Mexican food and we had a good time, had some margarins. Was how was

the conversation between you two? It was good. We talked about you know, cooking and stuff and travel and film. Did the age gap ever, like become an issue? Um, not really. I mean I kind of am into older stuff anyway, and it just works out. Okay, we went out dancing after dinner, went to a club. Okay, Yeah, we got to the club and got some drinks and danced for a long time. It was fun with eighties night. So they're playing a lot of music from her youth.

And was there chemistry between you guys? You know, it's funny because I thought she was she might be uncomfortable because there were so many people so much younger than her there, But she seemed super into it and like just kind of in her element. Yeah, that's what I was going to ask you if you took her to like a club where there was a bunch of twenty two year olds and then like she was one of the oldest people there, or it was a lot of young like a lot of people in my age, I guess, okay,

And she seemed to enjoy herself. Oh yeah, she may have been having more fun than I was, all right, had have been like two decades since she's been out to a club. I mean, maybe she seemed to be having a blast and like super excited that this was happening. We're talking about her like she's an eighty year old she was gonna break a hip on the dance floor or something like that. I mean, yeah, all right, So anyway, it seems like I had a good time, and you

can't understand why she's not calling you back. Yeah, And it's just hard to meet quality women like this, so I appreciate the help. All Right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, hang up brooking Cuban in the morning. Second updates if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Henry is on the phone. Henry has very specific taste in ladies. He likes them aged like a fine wine. He likes

the old ones. He likes him to be about twenty years older than he is. He's twenty two, and he wants us to call a girl to day who is forty four. They ended up meeting at a gardening expo because that's where he goes to meet his women. They ended up going to dinner out to a club. Says that they had a great time and can't figure out why she's not calling him back, and Henry, I never asked you this when I talk to you just a second ago. But I'm curious because I have a buddy

who actually does this. He loves to date women that are in their forties even fifties, because he says that they're easy. Is that why you do this? No, not at all. No, you didn't even he didn't even make a move on or did you? Like you guys didn't even kiss at the end of the night. No, we didn't, just other than dancing very close. And then my friend says that basically a kiss at the end of the night is like going all the way with these ladies

like that. For them, that's a kiss. So I'm surprised that you didn't get any, you know, because their time's running out. They gotta get it in while they can. Yeah. I just really enjoyed the conversation. All right, Okay, I know you guys are like laughing and joking about this, But I like older women because they're very attractive to me, and they're just more mature and they have more to talk about them. I guess what's the latest Kardashian episode. See,

I'm the opposite. I like younger women because they are less mature and they haven't been completely ruined yet by another. So I like to be the guy that just ruins their life. Do you sound like you're horrible to day? I am about right? Actually am? So that's cool? All right, I'm gonna do the phone of her right now. So's gonna get on the phone. You're ready? Yeah? Okay? Hello? Can I speak to Jodie please? This is she? Hi, Jody? How are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel

in the Morning. Who Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Oh okay, Hi, Hi, how are you? I'm good? What can I do for you? Well? I'm calling you today because one of our listeners recently send us an email about you. They did, yep, they did. His name is Henry, and you guys recently went on a date. Okay, yes, I remember Henry. Okay, Well, Henry really enjoyed your time together, and he emailed us because apparently you're not calling him back and he would love

to see you again. So he asked us if we could get you on the phone and find out why. Okay, I think that was good. I don't really understand this. So it's a segment that we do on our show called the second Date Update. Basically, if a listener goes out with someone and then gets blown off, they email us to see if we can get that person on the phone and ask why so Henry. Henry thinks that you've blown him off and don't want to see him again, but he's curious to find out if he did something

wrong on the date or if you just don't like him. Oh, do you mind talking to us for a couple of minutes and just telling us a little bit about your date with Henry? Sure? I guess I can. Okay, So first of all, I guess tell us a little bit about Henry. Did you like him? Oh? He was very nice and sweet and I enjoyed his company. Okay, were shocked when he first he asked you out on a date? A little? A little, but you know, he was very nice and we seem to have some things to talk about.

So I went, were you shocked because of his age difference? He did tell us that he's quite a bit younger than you. Yes, he is, And I was a little comfortable telling him my age at first, because I didn't know if he thought I was younger than I am. Okay, so when he first started hitting on you were like, uh, this kid doesn't know that I'm a lot older than he. Kind of yes, you know, I you know, like I said, he was a very nice He was very nice man.

Did you guys went out and seemed to enjoy yourself right, I mean, was there something weird that happened in the evening to make you not want to go out with him again? Well, we were, we were having you know, we were fine, but then he started it with in the It was in them on the ride out there in the car, and it creaked me out a little bit.

He was being very very He was complimenting me a lot, like on the way to the restaurant or when you guys were leaving the club when we were well, no, no, no, when we were on the way to the restaurant, he said something about me having very soft hands like his mom's. Yeah, he did. I could see how that would be a little weird. So was it right there where you're like, Okay, I don't know if I want to hang out with

this guy. Well, I mean I thought maybe he was nervous and he was just trying to be nice, so I let it go. Then he said that I had a really sweet, very calm sort of voice. And then he also said like his mom's Oh he gave you a couple of compliments and then just said that you remind him of his mom. Yeah, did you did you? Did you approach that at all? Like, hey, do you have moms? I mean, I don't know if you No, No,

I mean I thought he was nervous. Then we had dinner and we had a nice time, and we were drinking. We were at the club and we were on the dance floor and we were grinding and he was like, my mom doesn't do this. No why Maybe he thought it was a joke, but you know, and he was laughing and I laughed, but no, Um, do you feel like he has some sort of weird is she thing going on? I hate to just then I did. Then, Yeah, I was very surprised. I mean, I've you know, I'm

pretty open, but I don't know about the mom. Yeah, that's a little much. I can see why. So that's why you're not calling him back and don't want to go out with him again. I've been called a cougar, but not mom. Creeped me out enough that I think this was a one time thing. All right, that is understandable, Jody. I should also let you know that Henry is actually on the other line listening to this conversation. Oh oh, hey, hey, do you have anything to say to Jody? Henry? H um,

oh my god. Well let's say it then, Henry. Uh wow, I'm trying. I'm trying to think about the nights do you have telling her that everything she does reminds you of your mommy? I don't think I said mommy. Is that why you're dating older women, Henry? Because you have some weird mom thing happening? No, I was just trying to compliment her, And sure it sounds weird now, but I didn't then. No, it did sound a little strange. It sounded weird. Boy. Uh, I don't know. I I

just really thought you were cute and liked you. And I sorry I brought up my mom too much or at all? No, no, thank you, but yeah you did, and it's uncomfortable. I mean, I'm I'm pretty open to the things, but you know, you brought yourm off and I'm a dance floor. That was a lot. Yeah, you grinding with your mom a lot, Henry. No, she she my mom. I don't think grimes. That's good to know. Well, I don't need to know that. Yeah, I mean when I said my mom didn't do this on the chance

we were drinking. It was a joke. It's like a fun joke. Okay, it's a joke. If you hadn't already brought up your mom and compared her to her two other times prior in that, No, you just don't get it. It was funny, you know, It's one was like you had to be there jokes, Henry. It wasn't funny the first time, the second time, and definitely not the third time. Yeah, Henry, if you're if you're into dating older women like Jody, I don't compare him to your mom. Should be pretty obvious.

It should be obvious. I mean, just you guys just don't understand. I didn't. It was a joke, all right. Well, Jody, would you like to go out with Henry again? You'd love to take you out on the second date. We will pay for it. No, maybe you should go out with his mom. Say that is so something his mom would have said. I'm sorry, Henry, you didn't get a second date. That's all right. There are plenty more places to meet women I'm interested in. Yeah, like at your

mom's house, your parents house. See that was funny. Yeah, broken jupil in the morning,

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