Second date updates. We get emails for second date updates all the time from listeners who have some really interesting names, or other emails from listeners who just flat out and misspelled their own name. That makes sense as our caliber of where we're at. I mean, let's be honest, that's our audience. Yeah, so I'm curious which one it is today because the guy who wrote us signed it jst N. There's no is it like cool to write your name now without any vowels? Take vows out of that too,
Let's find out he's on the phone right now. Is it just some it's Justin, but it is spelled j TM. Okakay, it is Justin. Did you say hold up? You said all caps too? Yeah, it's all caps. Okay. Why is there no vowels in your name? Because you know, when you see it on a piece of paper, like there are a million Justins in the world, but there are
on a lot of Justin's without any vowels. I get immediately catches the there's probably not there's a reason why there's not a lot of people with this because it doesn't make any sense. I just feel like you're one of those people, like it's my personal brand, and I really need to brand myself. It sounds like a handle. Why are you like a rapper? No, I'm actually kind of an influencer, all right, there was, It was a personal brand type of thing. Okay, So justin without the vowels.
Tell us about the girl that you want us to call today. What's her name? Her name is Casey. She does that valence in her name because when you could just do K and C and it would actually make a lot more sense than yeah, influence. So how did you meet Casey? Well, she left a comment on one of my TikTok's and we kind of chatted in the comment session for a while, and then I moved it over the DMS and we exchanged information and then we talked on the phone and that went. Well, that's pretty cool.
I mean, I mean that you guys live in the same area. Yeah, right, because with TikTok, it could be she could have been from anywhere in the world. I hate to go back, but just to be clear, what's TikTok? Jeff, Jeff, do TikTok? Well, not all of our listeners do. OK, You're right, he's a social media app. You can create video. So what was the TikTok video that she commented on. There's a bit of a halfh trend about self love. So I surprised myself with flowers and I sold my
entire apartment and video of you doing self love. I'm listening, dude, he filled his apartment full of flowers. But for me, okay, when you said a video of me doing self love, I my mind went all sorts of places. No, no, that is not TikTok. That is only fans, different different situations here. So she commented on your video, and then what happened, Well, we talked on the phone a bit, and she's also an influencer a bit or she wants to be. I said, well, I could give you some tips.
You know. It's kind of like a half work date. So we went to this really cool restaurant that to a couple of my influencer friends recommended. It's really unique because it's this outdoor fire pit things. They have a like fifty foot outdoor fire pit and they cook on the thing, kind of like a Banny Hannah. Oh yeah, I've seen those. I've seen those. Yeah. No, the restaurant sounds great, but you haven't mentioned anything about Casey, what
did she think? What was she like? She's super cool, She's tiny, She's kind of like Maizie from Game of Thrones. She's a little bit tom buish but really cute. And her hair was actually shorter than in her pictures, so I was a bit surprised, but still it didn't change anything. She was really cool off though. I liked that. Look. I don't know the description just I wouldn't want to be described like that, but I don't like what good different than my photos in shorter hair, hurescover, So just
doesn't sound like your stereotypical TikToker. That's what I think is maybe saying, I don't know, but Justin wasn't tracked dirt no matter what. So that's that's the important part, right Jess, Yeah, for sure. Here's the thing, Justin. I mean, you guys obviously are really into TikTok and being influencers, which is cool. Is there any way she would have
mistaken this as like a professional hangout and not a date. Oh. We kind of got right into the nuts and bolts, like the behind the suge stuff of how you maximize followers and algorithms. Yeah, the algorithm exactly this is romantic. Yeah, it couldn't think it was a context thing. You gotta like, I don't know you had to be because if you're on the same page, I don't know. I'm looking at your guys social media and like you could use a little help. But so like the people who really do
that day in day out, like it's a different language style. Yeah, if you know, you know, I get So did anything weird happen during the night. I don't know. There was this one kind of awkward moment, and I wouldn't say there was one hundred percent to blame because I don't know. My friends kind of pranked me, friends pranked you during the date. One of my friends is kind of climbing.
He told me that if you go to this restaurant and you say to the waiter, I have over a hundred thousand followers and I'd be happy to post about the restaurant, then he'll kick a couple of things off the bill. So I tried that, and the waiter had no idea what I was talking about. Yeah, prettys thank you. I think it's getting like more deluded that excuse for servers like, oh, I have a million followers on oh
I just think it's it sounds so pretentious. Yeah yeah, but I wouldn't have done it if my friends hadn't told me. It was like a sure bet that's true and your own So you got shot down in front of your date. That we was her reaction to that. She kind of rolled her eyes. But you know, when the waiter left, we called them anub and you know we got back on. Oh, she rolled her eyes at the waiter. Wow, I thought her eyes at you. Yeah, it was the waiter. Okay, wow, maybe there's some here
after all. So we'll play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Casey for you, and we'll try and get you your second date update. All right, Justin Justin, it's Justin. It's still Justine. Okay, OKAYRB bro second D if you're just tuning in for the second date update. We have a social media influencer name Justin on the phone. It's Justin. Yeah, it's a lot, it is. It's Justin with no vows.
I don't know why I want to add like four ends to the name as soon as I just I don't know, it's just just want to legally changed it. Well you you legally changed it. Justin. Yeah, because it's like one thing to have a handle, but now I can copy by that name because literally my name, you're the real thing. Okay, So Justin, would you be available after this for some free social media advice for us?
Because it sounds like you weren't impressed with any of our accounts, right, I mean I can give you some point as sure. Okay, you're going into the app Brooke and Jeffrey accounts and you don't like the work, Well maybe this will be better after we get a little bit of tips from a pro. But going into this bitter at all. Anyway, back to the second day, Justin met a girl named Casey after she commented on one of his TikTok videos. They went out to a nice restaurant.
There was a little bit of an awkward moment when Justin tried to get their meal comped by mentioning that he's an influencer with many many followers, but the server just gave him a little bit of a weird look and nothing came out of it. Oh my god, it's like the worst feeling too, Justin. I have tried like twice in my life to just cut a line to get in front of the line, like waiting to get into a club or something, and my friends will brook don't know, you do it? Do it? I'm like, okay,
I'll do it. And then you go up and you're like, yeah, it feels so bad. Yeah. So after that, Casey has not been responding to just justin. We never asked has your Instagram game been subpar after the date two? Because maybe that's why she lost interest. No, actually, I posted a picture of us together on Instagram kind of a gift to her. That's like a bump because and she hasn't posted anything. But maybe that makes you seem needy and listen, when you're an influencer, posting someone is a
bigger deal than normal. Yeah. I don't know. I think maybe she's just using you Justin. Yeah, but then why didn't she post? See that's why I'm confused. Okay, she's a terrible influencer. Well, let's get to the bottom of this the old fashioned way by giving her a call and just asking her straight up. No, we're just gonna call. She's not going to answer. Let's find out here we go. I'm a dollar number right now. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Casey. Yeah, this is her Casey. You answered, Hi,
who is this? My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're really hoping that we could talk to you today. What is this about? This is about your dating life. I know you were hoping for an interview about your social media you know, influence, but that's not what this is. Okay. So what we're
doing something called a second date update. That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can email our show and we'll call your date for you to try and figure out the reason why they've ghosted. Recently, you went out to a restaurant with a guy named Justin. Maybe you know him as Justin. Yeah, yeah, I know who you're talking about. Did that feel like a date? Yeah? I think so, okay. I mean it was kind of like we were just
getting to know each other and talk about some business stuff. Also, but I don't know, it wasn't a date. Yeah, yeah, no, he thought it was a date. I just thought that maybe you weren't calling him back because you thought of it as like a professional relationship or something. I mean, he didn't make any moves, so I guess could go
either way. Yeah, because here's the deal. Justin told us all about how the two of you met and how you guys went out to dinner, and he also mentioned a little bit of an awkward moment that happened towards the end of the meal when he tried to get things comped by mentioning that he's a social media influencer. Oh yeah, I mean, honestly, I felt like the waiter was just trying to make him look bad. Okay, so
you're on his side on that one. He felt like that was the moment where maybe things turned for him. Uh No, Actually there was another thing that happened before that, even Okay that he did probably the algorithm talk Alexis was that it was math. Would you be willing to tell us what that moment was, because Justin has no idea. He thinks everything went really well up to that moment when he was paying for the meal. Yeah, it's kind
of weird. Before our food came even I went to go use the restroom, and when I was coming back to the table, I saw him switch our plates, like we ordered the same thing, and he swapped the plates. Had you guys already eaten off the plates. No, like they just brought the plates and then I saw him switching them him. That's weird. Why would he do that?
That's what I'm wondering. I I mean, he went to wash his hands before eating, and I swapped him back just in case, because that was super weird to me. Nice I would have immediately thought that he was trying to poison me. Maybe he was. I don't know. I just had a little more food on it. What do you think? Why do you think he did that? I don't know. Maybe he just thought one looked like it had more food or look or less fatty or something.
I don't know. Sounds realistic, Okay, okay, And that gave you enough of a reason to not want to talk to him anymore. It was just weird, And yeah, I didn't know how to ask about it. Is Well, I know the perfect way to ask. You can do it right now, because I need to let you know that Justin's been on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my god, Yeah, just hold on. You're sure you switched our plates back? WHOA? What is that kind of Yeah? Why are you asking that? Um man? Oh?
This is embarrassing. Um I was doing you a favor because, um man, I can't believe you switched them back. Oh my god, dude, you're freaking us out. You're freaking Oh she's the one that damn me. I'm scared too, right now? What things about? Okay, okay, let me explain. So I was doing you a favor because when they put the plates down, right, I noticed that you were facing toward the bonfire and so you had gone to the bathroom, and I thought, oh, this is totally graham worthy, like
you get the plate befoeground fire in the background. So I moved around to your plate and I was snapping some picks and then I sneezed, uh and uh. I didn't want you to be weirded out by like me having to tell you when you sat back down, So I tried to switch them, and I didn't know that you saw me switching. God, you sneezed on her plate of food. Oh, I see what you're saying, Like I
understand even that picture that you could see. So when you swapped them back, Casey ended up eating the sneeze plate. We ordered the exact same thing by like you wouldn't have known. That's why it was so weird. Oh my god, you should have asked, Casey. I mean, that's actually like he was trying to look out for you. Oh my god. I'm a little bit disturbed, but it's actually kind of hilarious. I haven't gotten sick yet or anything, so I think it's probably okay, Okay, there you go. That is a
good attitude. Yeah, I don't know why it is that. I mean, is that worse or better than what you expected? His reasoning was, I mean, it's better than drugs or poison, like well, I don't depends on the drugs, depends on the rug anyway. I don't know what the algorithms are for how this would turn into a successful second date update, but let's just give it a shot, Casey, would you like to go out with Justin with no vows one
more time? We will pay for it a sneeze free minus the mucus meal that I feel like I did need to say. If the sneeze free is guaranteed, then yes, I'll go out with him again. It's like the cutest, grossest one we've ever dined, Justin, can you hold to that? Can you not sneeze for an entire date. Awesome, I totally care. Excuse me, I'm so sorry. I am so sorry. That was a total a Yeah, okay, oh that's your second date. Update? How come it's so quiet on this freaking Jeffrey in the morning
