Second Date Update: Hot Girl Jumper

out without peeing yourself challenge? Yeah didn't, got ye. That might be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen, is facing in her love life right now. She's worried maybe she was too attractive during her first date. Oh my god. Okay, we'll try not to make fun of you right out of the gate. I don't feel sorry for you already. What we want to learn more? How you doing? Hey? Oh look, you guys are ridiculous. I'm sorry. I just this was a one knife phenomenon. I am

not that hot hot girl anyway. Let's hang up on this girl. We're just joking around with you. Christ tell us about the guy that you ended up going out with. What's his name? His name is ben I don't even know if you could call it going out. I was already out, so okay. So last week I was supposed to meet up with my friend just get some drinks

or whatever. Girls nights. Yeah. I have this thing where I like to wear these one piece outfits now, like a jumper, like a jumper yeah yeah, yeah, like those babies were that you zip up from the foot all the way to the next I will say, I wish they had a zipper down below, because go to the bathroom in a jumper is really okay, So sorry, keep going,

You're you're looking good. So I'm saying, it's a bar, waiting from my friend and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me. Okay girl. Yeah, it was like a total

sausage party. So I had all the attentions that there's this one guy in particular who was just like absolutely my type from head to toe, Like oh, he was even wearing like the outfit my high school crush used to it that was like my favorite outfit with like green corduroys and a little black polo shirt and he had a beard just like he was way taller than me. It's it's good that you got over him. So did

Ben approach you then? No? I mean I thought maybe he was looking my way a little bit, but like I said, I was really feeling myself, so I went up to him. Yeah, there you go. As you watch all the other boys be jealous but not cool, never been in your situation in I'm for you. How did it go? Well, Okay, here's where it gets a little bit weird because I've never had anything like this happened to me before. So I'm like, I'm sitting with him, and I'm chatting with him, and I'm clearly into him.

And the bartender comes over at inch Abrups because some other guys sent me a drink. Oh brood, while you're talking to the guy that you wanted, and competitive guy being like, hey, bro sorry, I see you. She walked to you, but I still got her attention over here. Did he seem to like that, like as like a challenge or did he seem to be put off by it? I mean, he had a beard, so it's pretty hard to tell. Was he mostly beard like I just actually more like five o'clock And that was like a little

bit awkward. So I kind of used that as an opportunity to like show him that I was into him. So I kind of looked at the other guy like thanks, but what the heck and just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben actually him feel but here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again. What whoa same dude? Like, same dude, just can't know different dude? What can you

send me a link to your jumps? I had like some sort of magical magnetism going on, and I just I just I just like saluted that guy awkwardly, like okay, captain, and you sound hysterical. I mean through it all, you sound really funny too, like hot an well, dude, Ben and I were laughing our butts off all my like, he's hilarious too. I'm thinking about setting you a drink

right now. The bar seems like the coolest place. It's got Captain's, it's got Lumberjacks Brooks over in the back saying like, how do you do How did this interaction between you and Ben? How did that end? Well? I mean eventually my friend let me know that she wasn't coming, ohh, and I was like, that's actually fine, I forgot about and we hung out for the rest of the night, had a fantastic night. He gave me his number, I gave him my number. Yes, and I mean that's basically been.

It's like he texted me back, but like with no enthusiasm. We haven't made plans. Did you ask him if he was single? Like point blank? Oh my god, no, I have not. Actually, this is mind blow because even if he wasn't interested in you, the fact that you were like literally swatting other men away in front of him and then telling him you were so interesting like that alone would make a guy just him one thing to give attention, it's one thing to also reject other attentions.

I've been seririzing because obviously I've been thinking about nothing but this, and maybe he like stalked me online. It is like, okay, she's not always that hot. Oh the lights on at the end of the night. There you have to understand, Like for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is, I don't have to put an outfit together. It's like no effort. Yeah, they're really so, It's like I don't want to make up. Yeah that's true. I'm

with you, Okay, you and your magic onesie. Hold on, we're going to play the song, we'll put back, We'll call Ben for you, and we'll try and get your second dade up date. Okay, okay, I'm suddenly feeling very self conscious. Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the sequel that Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dreamtime Listen and the magic Dude attracting Onesie link. Because yeah, she went out and wore there's one specific jumper that made

her look real fine that night. So guys at the bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing, except it was happening while she was sitting down with the one dude that she really wanted to be with, a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently more beard than body. Yeah, but she's worried. Maybe all that attention from other guys was a little bit intimidating to Ben and it could have scared him away. How could a

guy with a beard like that be intimidated. I don't know what happened, but he's not asking me out, so I mean, whatever it is, I want to know. Okay, maybe his beard got caught on the door and he shuts. He can't get home to make the call to you, so let's find out here we go. Hello, m Yeah, yeah it sounds right. Hey is this Ben the beard? What I mean Ben? Ben with a beard? Uh? This Ben? Oh he's not sorry, he sounded exactly like I thought.

I think Ben just flustered everyone in the road. Ben. Sorry. My name is jeff Um. I also have a beard, but probably not as nice as yours. I host a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're hoping to talk with you a little bit. Uh sorry, you're a radio show. Yeah. You can also hear us on podcast too, if you want to look us up on like Spotify, any of that. We're there. Uh all right, cool, that's all we wanted to say.

Thanks for your time. Then, no, we're really calling because we're doing something called a second Date Update, and we're trying to help one of our listeners get ahold of you. Okay, her name's Kristen. Have you met her out at the bar the other night? Yeah, it wasn't really a first date. Yeah, uh, I don't know. Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a really cute jumper on. Most guys don't recognize that stuff. Yeah, good cleavage. Now you speaking our language? No,

Oh my gosh, I do I know who that girl is. Yeah, to talk to her, she sounded awesome, like funny. She wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah, really fun. Yeah, she's super fun. Right, Okay, I'm sorry she told you that we hung out or something. She told a radio station that we hung out. She said that she met you out at the bar the other night and was having a really nice time. And then afterwards, it's been kind of hard getting ahold of you, and she's curious

why Wow, this is this is so crazy. Yeah, I know this isn't a normal thing that happens, but we're really hoping to help her out because she's a listener. Who does that? Who does that? That's someone that feels a really strong connection with somebody that they met. And she just sounds like confident and awesome. But like she did say, she didn't like point blink, ask you if you were in a relationship. Oh no, I'm not in a relationship. But like, okay, thank god, I'm not in

a relationship with her. Oh ye, why would you say that? Oh, she's I think that she's just kind of messed up. What did she do something to you? I don't know. I was the situation was like I saw her at a bar, and like she came over to me and we started chatting, and she was really funny. I mean like she got like a drink from another guy. I guess, Okay, yeah, she mentioned that to us a little bit. Is that something that intimidated you? I mean not really not at first.

I mean I thought it was kind of funny that a dude was doing that. But when it happened again, because it happened like a second time, I was like, oh, hell no, this is ridiculous. Yeah, but how are you How are you blaming her? It's not her fault. So, like the situation that happened was like she had to leave for a hot second to step out to like talk to her friends because against the friend wasn't coming. But when she was outside, I like walked over to

the guy who had set the drinks. Oh, like, hey, do you mind not doing that? I'm talking to the

squirrel right now. And it kind of what makes me look a little bad, or it feels like you're being competitive, which is like so Childlike, that's not bad to go talk man to man real quick and to say hey, bro, yeah you know you know you're not causing a scene, right, yeah, you want to wrestle beards over now if he's like, back off, but if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to talk with her, and you know, I think she's interested in me. So what did he day? He

said he didn't send it. What. Oh, so then you just obviously got the wrong dude, Yeah, like it was somebody else. The bartender said it wrong, No, because like the bartender pointed to the guy out. Oh yeah, because they're across the room. So the bartender was like, from him, So you went to the bartender. So I walked over the bartender and I asked the bartender and he was like, I can't really disclose that. What I thought he just pointed the dude out. Just want to start a fight

or something? Was what did he say? It was just weird that he was being coy and I called that out. I was like, why do you carry you literally pointed the guy out before And that's when he told me, which is that I guess this is something that she does that Kristen does she pays the bartender to like send a drink to herself from some random guy. Every like, Oh, really, do you believe that I'm gonna start doing this? I

think you think that's true. Yeah, because the second he like admitted it, he was like, don't tell her she does this often, Like she comes in and does this every month or so, like he he did it for like a few months for her. Though, that's kind of nice. Yeah, yeah, you think that's a red flag. You don't think it's

just kind of funny. That's so justful. It's so weird that I feel like it's just trying to pump up her own confidence that some people need that, especially if they're going to go approach another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to do as a woman. True, it's I mean, it sounds so outland as you guys are all believing it. I'm still not sure if this is actually true. Okay, I think we should just ask Kristen directly, Kristen, did you pay the bartender to send you drakes? Of

course not, that's ridiculous. Oh, christ Ben, I forgot to tell Christens on the other line listening, she wants to talk to you. This is so embarrassing. Oh I'm embarrassed, but this is embarrassing for everyone. Honest. Okay, first of all, that is not even true. That's complete nonsense. I would never do that. But let's say theoretically someone did that. That's hilarious. I don't believe. I was listening and Ben's all like, oh, she's messed up, And I'm like, have

you never seen the movie Clueless? Remember she sends herself chocolates and flowers. Yea, when they were in high school. I don't think they could be in a bar for somebody that's denying it. You sure do know a lot about this system works. Oh my god, you guys the magician never reveals their secrets. Is it not even that cute? Then? I'm trying to like, I mean that here's the thing, doesn't even matter, Like, who cares? She sounds awesome. I

am awesome. Yeah, as you should confident. There's no doubt about I mean, you can kind of hear what she's saying right now. She's making it seem like it's not that big of a deal, but she's like not owning up to it, but she kind of is owning up

to it. And if you're starting off on the wrong foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or maybe telling the truth, and I already don't want that right off the bat, So um, you are, like, I feel like you're taking this really really seriously, considering we were a couple of random strangers that met in the bar and had a laugh and I just wanted to know you all right. Well, then if you think I'm taking it too seriously, then just own up to it. Then I'll ask you again, did you do it? Yeah?

Of course I did. Yeah, how I love it? Though it's like all of us and said she didn't do it. It works. It's what Dane is. It's like, you know, trying to make yourself feel better, trying to make yourself look the best. She just used a different method. Why well, I'm I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I do need to let Ben know that there's another woman who wants to send you a gift card to go on

a date. Would you like that gift card? Ben? Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that. Uh you know what? Sure? Yeah, why not? But you have one strike against you right now. You know when you want a warning. Okay, sounds like a naughty thing. Yeah, okay, agree. You know I have never ever cheated or anything like that any ever my life. Why did you have to insist that no one asked nobody. I'm starting to worry. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning,