Second date up to date? What counts as dating right now? I think that's a fair question. Like if you only see each other between the hours of three am and seven am and you're never sober for that, is that That's how I used to date. I thought that was dating. If you've only bought you socks from them online? Is that dating things online or some circles? I think that might qualify. And one of our listeners emailed us because she isn't sure if her hangout should be considered worthy
of a second date. Update Okay, she said she was hoping that we would do it. Well, we have low standards, so I'm sure we will. And she's actually lucky that the first four people that we tried calling this morning didn't answer yes. Because of that, Nicole, you are worthy of a second date. Welcome to the show. Thanks every lesson Hoya Resort, and Nicole, we look forward to helping you, even if you've only bought someone's socks recently. Okay, Okay,
well I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start telling us what's going on? Nicole? Who are we trying to call today? We're trying to call Evan, I wasn't sure if you'd answer it because it was actually, um, we had a virtual date, not an in person date. Oh, I think that counts more than like a three am hook up as a date. I mean, it's thoughtful, it's planned out right. Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date.
I actually I actually prefer it. You know, when you meet people online, there's a lot of build up, and then you meet up in person and sometimes it's really awkward, like we don't look like their picture and they have no personality, and then you're you're stuck. Yeah, with a virtual date easier, right? Is that why you chose to do a virtual date? Because you've had such a bad run with online dating, or because you can start a virtual date with no pants and no one would know.
It usually makes a date go better even in person. Exactly a little bit of both, a little bit of both. Okay, I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of video like chatting at all, But it sounds like you can talk a lot, so it sounds like it'd be good for you. Meant that. I think she meant that as a compliment. Is there any nerves going into a virtual date? Like, do you have any butterflies or anything like that, or do you just not expect much? You know, No, I
do have nerves. I was a little nervous because he had a really fun date plan. So Evan said that we should meet up on online and do a virtual burrito date, which I thought was really, what does that mean? Sounds messy? No? No, And it wasn't messy because his idea is that we would buy three different frozen burritos, the same ones, and then we would try them together on you. But I thought was really cute. But I kind of like to like find the best frozen burrito.
It's not it's not about angle the brand, well, we don't know the name of it, but it's that orange one that one. Let's try and focus on the date and not the food. Hung up on broke. How did your frozen burrito date go? It was really fun. We had a bean and cheese burrito, a meat and cheese burrito, and then just cheese. Okay, okay, yeah, okay, And did you guys like the same one we did? We both thought the bean and cheese was the best. We had
a greeting system. It was a one to ten like in the Olympics, like we wrote it down and held up a little sign so we could both see it. Scalet one to ten. How sexy did Evan look eating burrito? I'm gonna I'm saying ten. Okay, the highest right yet? Burrito boy? All right, so how do you end a burrito date? But you got to go to the bathroom? Yeah, a sprint to the toilet? No, luckily, what how does it end? You know? We just we finished burritos. We're
just hanging out and talking. You know what. We broke the ice and I just was told on the I was taking bass guitar lessons, which is something really fun. But he asked me to play a little bit. So I played a little bit of my songs, just the bass guitar of it. Yeah, the bassis are always the hottest. I don't know, thank you. I find a bass player extremely attractive. Okay, did he like your bass playing? I
think he thought it was cute. I mean I thought it was silly and fun, Like I don't know, that wouldn't be the turn off, right, it was awkward, like what did you do? Just sit there? But he asked for it. Guys gets a slider out and like the thing you only played one song, right, you didn't give them a full concert, a full set. I mean I played like a bit of different songs, I see, and we're talking like real songs, not like old McDonald or
something that's fine too. She's no like another one bites his dust or like burnees love and touch and squeeze in good. And that's impressive even if you're not good that at least. But you're worried that it like turned him off. Did his mood change or something after you're done with your bass plan? I didn't think so. I
thought it was fun. We just kind of like chatted a little bit more, and then it kind of came to its own and we said goodbye, and I mentioned him about going on a real date, yeah, and he didn't seem as interested anymore as before we met, virtually, like you stopped messaging me back that much. And I started to think about, you know, like all the things I worry about with a with an online date or virtual date. I was like, do I not look like my picture? And I started I asked my roommates. So
I don't know why he's kind of dated out. It sounds like you've covered a lot of basses there. I think why, I don't want to ruin our segment, but it's because of her burrito choice obviously different. It's possible. I'm Nicole. Do you have your bass guitar with you right now? It's in the other room, but it's it's here. Would do you think maybe we could get a sample of your bass guitar playing, just so that we know this is research, so that we know what we were
working with. Uncomfortable people playing music, that's me. I'd have to get my amp and get it set up. Well, that's good because we actually have to play a song. So we're gonna leave, we'll come back, yeah, and then you can play us a song when we do your second date update right after this. Okay, all right, hold on second Date. I'm purposely bumping into this segment without any music because we got our own in house band today.
I've never been so excited about the second part. It's just one person, our listener, Nicole, who we've been talking to about her dating life. We're going to get to that in just a second, but she's an up and coming bass player. Nicole. We asked for a little demonstration because you played a little bit of bass on your date. So what are we going to be hearing today? I'm telling you I just started this month with another one bites the dust. Okay, okay, before you get I'm going
to introduce you. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to the stage for your listening pleasure. Nicole and the finger flips that would give her a second day I think, oh my god, Okay, flooding. Yeah, all right, now we've heard the YouTube version. Now play it yourself. Way better than I was expecting you to do. After this one month of lessons that was legit as long as we could tell yeah, we're doing and we all did, that's all
that matters. You did a great job. So if you're just joining us, then you don't know why Nicole played. It's because during her virtual date with a guy named Evan, she played the bass guitar to show him what she's been doing, along with tasting some frozen burritos with him. But after that, she's been having a hard time organizing an in person meet up. So we're gonna call Evan and ask what's going on. That is, if you didn't
die from embarrassment just now, Nicole, embarrass you. Yeah, I just hear you in the background kind of like laugh, moaning or something. I'm still breathing. You're still breathing. Okay, okay, here we go. Take a deep breath. Yeah, we're gonna dial Evan's phone and we're gonna trying to get you a second date. I just hope that another one doesn't bite the dust. But yeah, let's do it. Hello. Hey is a seven? Yeah cool? Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My name's jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in
the Morning. We're hoping to talk with you a little bit about your dating life. Uh okay, well I'm not interested, So could you take me off your list? You know? No, Yeah, it's not us. It's actually somebody that you went on a date with who's asked us to call you. Her name is Nicole. Oh so this is a real call that yes, dial one to sign up. Yeah, so what's
going on? This is called a second date update? And Nicole reached out to us because she told us that you guys went on a virtual date together and she's been trying to hang out in person, but she's confused why that isn't happening yet. Yeah. Well, uh, to be honest, I don't think an in person date is going to happen, So thank you. Okay, Oh that's too bad. I mean she seems so fun loving and your date sounded awesome. She told us that you like put together what would
we call it? A burrito battle? Yeah, we had burritos. It was fun. It was a fun date. Don't get me wrong. But if I must get into it, Nicole is a liar. Whoa, that's heavy. Well what I found out that she lied to me about her age? Oh? Oh damn, bro, Like, I mean, is that how much a big deal to you? Like? Yeah, how much? She told me she was twenty nine, but I found out that she was actually thirty? Wait year? Are you? Was
that a joke? No? That's the red fla to me, Like, what a stupid thing to lie about, especially by one year? Oh no, what that is so dumb? Angle, Yeah, why would you lie about something tiny like that? Maybe she honestly forgot what did you ask her age? No, it's listed on her dating profile, that's true. Who cares it's one year? Well what does that mean to you? Evan? Why is that such a big deal that she's one year off? Well, she's lying about that? What else could
she be lying about it? Just maybe she made her profile when she was twenty nine and she just never updated it has your birthday it update? Yeah, okay, if you're that concerned about it, Evan, then you should have asked her. Yeah, but this was after our date and I wasn't gonna just text her about that. You're just gonna move on? Well, are you okay if I ask her that question? Because Nicole's actually on the line and she's been listening this entire time, and I'm happy to
do that for you. Oh great, So yeah, here she is, Nicole. Is it true? Did you lie about your age to Evan? Um? I wasn't like lying directly to Evan. It's not that big of a deal on my dating profile. I said, yeah, I'm twenty nine. It's one year. It really bothers you confirm. It's just really weird, like why why one year? Like I see, if you lied by like five years, I almost wouldn't respect that morel really honestly, like, okay, wow, I would be actually more uset if like I met
someone and they were like forty instead of thirty. That's a big difference. This is one year and I really feel weird that I have to explain this, but I was on other dating websites and I have found that if you say you're in your twenties, you get way more matches. So it was just a way to just maybe brought in the field and they get to meet
more people. So you were just trying to optimize your matches by going down one year, Evan in your twenties, Evan, what do you think is that a reasonable excuse for you? I mean, I buy it, but I don't feel weird about it. How old are you, Evan? One? Oh, I thought it was going to be something like I don't date women in their thirties because I'm twenty three or something like it. More if she would have told you she was thirty, you would have been cool. Yeah, I
don't know. I think like she's gaming the system a little bit. Isn't that what dating maps are? Four? Though? Geeah, you obviously on your range set that you like twenty year old like people in their twenties. Yeah, you know, Evan ought to say on your profile you said that you were athletic and fix for your building that question, and I don't know, you look a little more average to me. Wow, first of all, I was sitting down for the entirety of the thing. I think I look
way better standing up. Yet when I stand up to sitting down and eating three burritos, looking like at ten while doing it. Okay, Obviously Nicole's feelings are a little hurt Evan because it just it seems like a pretty superficial reason not to call her back. It sounds like if you would have just asked her her age, she would have told you yeah, I guess so, and I
kept her reasoning to be honest. Okay, you know it's okay. Honestly, this is probably good because that's going to bother you and you're gonna not call me back or even talk to me about it. It probably is better that we don't see each other again. Old sounds like he was just wait, wait, wait, but now that I've heard your reasoning, like, I'm into it, let's not give up on It's just like that all right now. You called me a lot. The first thing you said about me on the SOLL
was I'm a liar. No thanks, but you did lie. It's wrong. Oh man, this is like such a little thing. Guys, I know what it's like they're already in their first fight and they haven't even met in real life. Yeah. Yeah, she is kind of going towards her midlife though, Brooks. So, but I'm still willing to offer to send you guys out on another date. And Evan, it sounds like up to this point you were into it. Yeah. I mean, maybe I I jumped to conclusions too quickly and I
probably should have just asked. But I'm into it. But if she's get it okay, Well, Nicole, he admits that he made a mistake, and which is a huge thing right now. Like to find a person who could admit they were wrong and learn from it like that is a good quality to have. I mean, Nicole, maybe you jumped to conclusions when you said that you wouldn't go out with him based on one thing that he said. So can we meet in the middle here and go out to one more time and we'll pay for think
of the burritos? Ten I can prove that build there he got now, And maybe what would do it is if he's honest with you right now and he tells you what he really thinks about your bass playing. It was pretty solid for someone who's live been doing it. A month. But it was honest. It wasn't over the top glowing review. It wasn't horrible. It was like, it's pretty good. I would like to hear more. Come on, all right, fine, stop yelling me. Fine a second day,
Nicole to celebrate. You want to play a little bit of bass guitar on the way out? Yeah, I'm like, I don't trying to think it would No, maybe not Jeffrey in the morning. It's rare that we try and get a date for somebody and then they change their mind after hearing what the reason was, and then change their mind back again to Yet that was a good roller coaster we were on. Yeah, yeah, I mean I kind of understand though. Somebody comes at you real hard
and it's like she's a liar. Yeah, yeah, you're not gonna like him a lot. But even more rare is that the caller says no at the start, and then he says yes too. Yeah, and now you're doing a chart that's really hard to follow at this point, but yeah, we get we get where you're coming. Yeah. I don't know. It's like there's some sort of mercury and retrograde thing happening, or is this a sign that those two are definitely going to get married. Oh wow, that doesn't happen that often.
Sowhere in the middle pretty much. Yeah, it could just be like what Brooke was saying during the call that nowadays a lot of people are jerks in the moment and then they won't admit that they're wrong. Yeah. I think it's what's wrong with humanity right now, is that we're all so scared of being wrong for some reason. Well, I disagree with that, So you're right, you're canceled now, right. Maybe I'm wrong. I apologize, but I really do hope that Nicole and Evan are both in this for the
long haul. And if they are, then I told you so. And if they're not, then we'll do an update update and blame it on book. Anyway, I'll go for one of those two. But if you ever want to get a second date update, you can always email the show. We'll call it the person who wasn't calling you back.