Second date. One of our listeners, Jewels, emailed us for a second date update, and she's worried that after it was all said and done, she may have come across looking a little high maintenance. That's all right, we'll find out the details about that in just a minute. But first, Jewels, welcome to the show. Hi. I love you guys, so very happy and yet not happy to be here. Well, let's do a little quick high maintenance test just to
start things off. Okay, tell me, have you ever posted a status update or a meme that says if you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best. I have not posted one of those. Good. Have you ever sent a coffee back because your name was misspelled on the cup? I've never sent it back because of that, but I've definitely made a point to say something. Okay, well, we're on the line there, but let's find out if you were high maintenance on the date. First.
What's the name of the guy Eric, Eric? And how did you meet Eric? This is a blind day. We met from friends. I literally showed up. I had no idea what you looked like. Oh my god, that you didn't stock him at all. You didn't look up any of his socials before you, guys met Well, I couldn't because my friends. I love my girlfriends. But like, they did not do me a solid here. They met him out when I wasn't with them, and they all have boyfriends, so they saw that like we would hit it off.
So they just gave him my number, but didn't ask for his full name or his Insta or anything. Oh my god, that's kind of like if you want to keep doing a true blind day, would you want to do it? So how did things go when you actually met up with Eric? It's hard to say. So. First he invited me to go to this bar that I'd never been to, I've never even heard of. When I got there, it was like an underground bar, like I had to go down steps and there were no windows
and stuff. Yeah cool, unless you have to get away fast from a blind days with a stranger like he could have been a murderer. So what was he like? Well, it took me a while to find him because there were a lot of people there, so I text him, I said, hey, where are you? I'm here when I got there, and he said, come find me. I'm the most attractive guy here. Oh, come on, that's just trying to be flirty. I mean it is adding yourself up for a failure if she goes to someone else. Yes,
exactly did you find him? Off of that? Did you find him right away? No? I went up to like the best looking guy that I thought was there, and I asked him, like, hey, are you Eric? And he said, I can be tonight. That guy's got game. Yeah. Okay, did you ever find Eric? Yeah? So I was about to leave, and then I was like, you know what,
I'm just I'll call him, Like this is ridiculus. So I called him and I hear a phone ring and I turned and there he is And I found him, and sure, maybe he was trying to be flirty like you guys said, but like he was not the most attractive guy there, Like he was like top four or five, okay, not even top three. Yeah did you tell him that? No? Oh my god? No, Okay, So what you're were you able to actually get a good conversation going once you found him? Yeah? I mean we had a really good
time in all. Honestly, at a certain point, like I couldn't see him really, it was really dark. I just like got the courage to ask to go somewhere else, So we leave. Take me to this outdoor beer garden that's pretty close as walking distance. Okay, super fun. But I dressed up for a bar, so I was free thing and I stuck it out for a little bit because I really didn't want to see high venants. But like, after like fifteen minutes, I was like, I have to
go somewhere else. Shall I asked to go somewhere warmer. Oh my god, I don't. But that's not high maintenance. I mean, like I shouldn't have gone there in the first place. Why. I mean, as a guy, if a girl's like this bar's too dark, this bar's too cold, This bar makes me feel funny when I walked through the doors, like I want to it is a lot yea. And then get more money and take me to a
private bar. Exactly. This bar is too poor. I think that he should have an understanding of that, Like you're freezing your butt off, you can't have a good time. What did he say? So he invited me back to his place. Oh yeah, that's a good opportunity for him. I didn't want to do that. It was a first day, you know, like another option that's not good enough for her. It's a first day five star hotel. I would have
been okay with that until you got there. I mean, you may be high maintenance in other ways, but bar location, chag doesn't sound high maintenance to me. So did you guys ever end up at another place? So then we walked to a nightclub, but it's too loud, and then you go into like a b stro and it's too expensive. You know, I don't want him to like do that on the first date. So finally we just go to a normal bar. But I'm wearing like the same exact outfit as the waitresses. Yeah, did you leave or did
you ask the waitress to go change outfits? No? I did not. We we stayed. And did you joke about it? Did you laugh? Yeah? I mean I brought it up. I was like, oh my god, do you think I should get a job here if it doesn't work out in my office? That's funny. I mean it sounds like you're starting to recover after you know, a bar crawl without any of the fun. So how did the night end? We hugged, no kiss, and honestly, I liked him and
I do kind of agree that. I feel like he might think I'm high maintenance, but it was really all just circumstantial. And that's what I want to make clear. Do your friends call you high maintenance? They don't. I'm really not a high maintenance person. Like I maybe sound high maintenance, but like you see now Brooks suddenly flopping. She's like, actually, now, the more I hear you talk, you do sound a little bit him. If it looks like chicken, it tastes like chicken, it's rebably chicken. I
don't know. It's not bad friends, Okay, maintence if you just own it. At least she's aware. Juels, we're gonna play a song, all right. I don't know is this song okay to play for you or would you like a different song. Either way, we're gonna come back and we'll call Eric for you. We'll try and get your second date update, all right, Jules, Oh thank you. You guys are like making me so nervous though, no, no, I don't want to make you nervous. Okay, hold on, Okay,
we'll be right back. If you're just tuning in for the second date update. We're on the phone with Jules, who's worried she may have come across looking little high maintenance because she asked to move locations about six times throughout the night, and no matter where they went, she always found something wrong about each place. It's like the Goldilocks of bars. Yeah, you know, whether it was the temperature or the lighting or the outfit of the weight staff,
no place was good enough for Jewels. It's interesting, though, as picky as she was about the bar, she was surprisingly low maintenance about the actual guy, because she told us he was only the fourth best looking man at the bar. And I would imagine a truly high maintenance woman would only be willing to date number one or number two. So, Jewels, you're actually looking pretty chill right now. Us. Yeah, well, I don't know. I think that brings her back up
to high maintenance. Yeah, but it's not looking too bad for you, Jewels. I mean, you guys make me sound so terrible, so I feel like it is. Looking back, was any of what I said not an accurate recap? I mean with a sin which it's accurate the spin okay, I mean it wasn't looking for things to happen, but things were happening to her. I'll give her that I don't know, I think you would have to, like by the third place, you just have to kind of suck it up and realize that that's where you're at. But
that's okay, I mean, that's in the hastules. The only concern I have is, I mean, have you tried to reach out to him or you just jumping straight to us for help. I texted him after I didn't get that like next day, follow up okay, and st nothing. So now I'm kind of like, yeah, okay, something is weird. Okay, So you just want us to relate to him that you're not high maintenance? Yeah, yeah, let him know like I'm a cool person. You know, I'm not a parable
all right, but let's give this a shot. We're gonna call Eric for you, and we're gonna try and get you your second date up to you. Ready, I am ready? Okay, Here we go down the number right now. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Eric. Who is this is this Eric? I asked you first, Jeffrey. Um, okay, yeah, yes, this is Eric. Okay. I just wanted to make sure thank you for answering. So now you got to tell him who you are. Yeah, So all right, no, don't hang
up please. My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh okay, okay, we're doing a segment on our show called a Second Date Update, and we'd like you to be a part of it. Are you familiar with the Second Date updates? Not really? Did I like win something? Or yeah? I know A lot of people ask us that I never really know how to answer. No. Apparently radio stations are like famous for only one thing, and that's giving away free stuff. Yeah,
we give away free It's true. It's possibly you may have won something. But first, let me just tell you how this works. Okay. So you recently went out on a date with a woman and afterwards you're not really getting back in touch with her. So she's emailed us get a hold of you to try and figure out the reason why. Oh all right, okay, and her name
is Jules, remember Oh yeah, yeah, okay. Well she told us about the night that you guys spent together, and I mean it sounded pretty fun for the most part. She's just wondering how you thought of it. Did you have a good time? Yeah, I had a pretty good time. You know. She was nice to be around. I meant, I don't know if she told you, but we ended up like going to five or six different bars in one night. And I thought the first place was fine,
it's actually my favorite bar that's in town. And then we got to a bar where like she was dressed like the people that were working there told us about that that she had the same outfit on as the waitress. Yeah, and we were we were able to laugh about that. We had fun. Oh, you were totally okay, Okay, Well, if that's the case, if you think that she was cool and you had a good time with her, then
why aren't you actively pursuing her because you don't. She's mentioned that she's reached out to you a couple times since your date and hasn't gotten a response back. Well, I mean, she was really pretty, but it was just kind of weird for me. Do you guys know Catherine Hegel, Yes, Catherine Heigel, Yeah, the blonde that was in Um Grey's Anatomy forever and then she's done a ton of different wrong pombs. Yeah, and she got canceled for a while, but now she's trying to make a comeback. Yeah, what
about her? So? Uh, the whole time we're sitting in this bar. Something in the back of my head were going, you look like somebody who is it? And then once we left, I realized she looks just like Catherine high Goal. Oh this important. So I like, I'm a real movie buff. I love to watch movies, and so like, when I realized that that's who she looked like, I just could not stop thinking of all the bad movies Katherine Heigel grin in. I just, uh, you just couldn't. I couldn't
get that. It's funny because Katherine Heigel is like known for being high maintenance, I think too, kind of like the big stories like blacklisted in Hollywood for a while, and I see her whole movie list here and I only recognize like two of them and I met both of them are horrible. But you're not on a date with Katherine. You're on a date with duels. Yeah. Didn't you have fun with Jewels? Yeah? Like I said, you know, I have fun. But I couldn't get that out of
out of my head. And then when we did have to hop from bar to bar to bar to bar, like it just I mean, it just made her seem a little bit more highly highly It's that's that a bird. No, that's an adjectively. You don't want to be high? Yeah, meaning like one did the have in a high left manner. Yes, Okay, excuse me, but I've heard enough. I need to jump in here. That is the most ridiculous excuse for ghosting I have ever heard kind of back that way, Jewels,
you jumped in before. You're supposed to a very high gol moving. To be honest, I don't honestly like, I don't even want to see you again. Let's stop this. First. First thing is I need to let Eric know that that is Jewels on the other line. She's been listening this entire time and she wants to talk to you. Yeah, she was supposed to wait until we call her in. That's all the rules of this normally work, Juels. I
mean me, Look, the world are moves. Okay. Well, I'm just saying you don't want to get blacklisted from our second data. Okay, stop it. Jeffrey, Hey, I think that first you should take it as a compliment just because he doesn't like Catherine Hegel's movies or high goals movies. She's a beautiful woman, Yeah, I mean she really is. Yeah, I don't want to make you seem like I thought you were ugly, because you're not. You're really pretty on the outside. Yeah, you know what, it's fine. I thank
you for saying I'm really pretty. I think you're really pathetic and I'm just over that. Joels. Don't be upset. Honestly, it's one of the better reasons why someone has not called someone else back on this show. I mean, it doesn't really have anything to do with you. Yeah, and it's his opinion about her movies, like you were totally out of it. Well, I mean except for the high
maintenance part. But I mean you probably agree with us Jewels, right, we all hate twenty seven Dresses, and I love that movie. You do not nobody loves that movie. But I'm really glad though, Honestly, Like I'm glad I have this clarity because like, no offense, Eric, but like this was not worth a call, like this is you. You just seems so weird to me, Like I'm over it. Well, I hope you can meet someone that looks like Emma Stone or something. I don't know. She does make some pretty
fun movies. I really like Chemist La Lands, Super Bad. Okay, shut up about Emma Stone. Okay, okay, you brought her up. Yeah, I didn't think you guys would go like Gaga over her The Amazing Spider Man. I think it just sounds like, you know, maybe your guys's chemistry isn't quite right. I guess it really is the chemistry thing. But really it's not the chemistry thing. It's for sure that you're really weird. Oh okay, okay, all right. I mean I was trying
to be nice. But if you want to go out like a d lister D Lister, I mean, she has a brand new show on Netflix. She's clearly doing very well. You might be intimidated by strong women. No one's seen that show. Let's be really good. I heard you ever watched it? I haven't watched it. Time normal. This is the part where I would ask if you guys would like to go out on a date again. Yes, maybe
something happened in the No. No, maybe you can go watch a Katherine Heigel movie together that we we're gonna have a plot twist at the end and totally it didn't work out. Yeah, Eric, Sorry, Hey, well what can you expect from you know, go four as the most attractive guy in the room, Jeffrey in the morning,
