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Second Date Update: Fondue Or Fondon't

Nov 07, 202216 min
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The guy in today’s Second Date thought he did everything right on his night out, but it might be what he DIDN’T do that got him in more trouble…

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Second dat. Some guys like it when a girl is really upfront and just tells you exactly what she wants instantly. Well, depends on what she's telling you. I mean, if she wants you, then you're probably into your best friends. Yeah, I want s E g W A y segue, tour of the city. Oh what girl wants. But one of our listeners, Cammy, takes the opposite approach in her dating life. She tells guys exactly what she doesn't want right in her dating profile. A lot of people do that. I

keep it that short. She doesn't want is liars. Okay, Cammy, everybody welcome to the show. Hey, thank you. Do you really put no liars in your dating profile? How does that come up? Well, not no liars. I just right in bold, don't lie to me, which I think is fair. You know, if they're liars, then that won't deter them, right Like, they'll just lie and say that they never do that, or they'll just swipe left on you and make sure that you never have a conversation. Yeah. I

don't think so. I want somebody who's open to my lives. That's what I want. The only person that would be would be like some kind of polygraph person who's like, look, I can detect lives, so go ahead. And so it must have worked. Somebody matched with you, right Cammy, Yeah, okay, this guy means Vince matched the thing. Yeah, he actually responded that. He wrote like I won't I think you're

perfect and a little smiley face. Oh already nobody happened. Ye. Did you feel like it was a sincere message or were you skeptical? Um? I mean I look flattered, you know. So I responded with a little like blushy smile and it was kind of like off with a start. Okay, I saw you, But do you think he was being sarcastic to make you laugh? Like, oh you're perfect, You're the most great girls? A bad joke. Okay, so you trusted him at first? Okay did you meet up with

him in person? Yeah? How was that? What was it like when he first saw him? Well, he was really cute, but more importantly, he was just like basically, this is how it started. He wanted to grab dinner and I asked if he ever had like fondue before, and he said, fawn don't, which I was like, what I feel funny? Yeah, A lot of credit so he hadn't had it before he had it. Okay, Okay, you like dad jokes, you like honest people with dad jokes. I love it were

very different. Okay, so you went and got fondue together. Yes, I knew a really good fond of place and I told we should go. And I love those places for dates like there it's always like dark lit. Usually fundu is always what they serve at the key party. So you know it's a good move. Okay, that's a little old school, but okay, don't ask me how I know that. Let's just talk. We're just gonna talk more to Cammy.

Can't we tell us about your fondue experience? And if there was an upside down pineapple at the table next to you, I mean, honestly, if there was, I wouldn't even have noticed because I was having so much fun. Oh great, Yeah, what did you guys bond over when you were like talking and stuff? Well, before we even got on this state, we just like memes spammed each other. Oh me, meme spammed I see? Yeah, ok yeah, like funny means we were just sending each other all the time.

I mean, it's a good sign that you guys have the same sense of humor. That's always like such a good chemistry thing. Yeah. Well, we go to the restaurant and we have a really nice time. I mean, this guy was so generous. We just like had appetizers, dinner, dessert, drinks the waiter yea. And I mean at the end of the night, we had like a little romantic moment. I mean, how could we not. Okay, I'm so giddy. Did you right off of your lips? Oh my god? Well,

I tried a little line for myself. I was just I can't remember how you said that you faun don't or whatever. Um, And I was just like, I think if I asked you for a kiss, you should say fund if you ask for a kiss. But okay, it worked. How was it? How was the kiss? Oh my gosh, guys, I lost my mind. It was good. It was kiss. That's the last one. That's we get one punt out of the way, Pecorino, please, So how did how did it end? How did you guys leave it that night?

So it was basically after the kiss, and to me, I was one hundred percent certain we were going to have another day. Yeah, I was one hundred percent certain for you you haven't used him at all. We basically texted just the day after okay, and then never again. That's weird. Okay, we're going to turn off your microphone. I mean when you were texting the next day, like, was there anything odd about his communication? No, he was

still like really cool. A couple of memes back and forth, and she said that he had a great time and its weird. Okay, how long has it been? This has been a week in two days now, okay, all right, wow, something's up for sure. Yeah, I agree. We need to get some answers for you. So you just hold on a second. Okay, we're gonna come back. We'll call Vince for you and get you your second date update right after this. All right, Cammy, thank you? Faun. Will they

or fun? Won't they? We're going to continue, that is the question. You know they're going to be saying, I fon due at their wedding, so cute? How cheesy is that? Yet they do what they want? It's not your wedding. Did I have to say cheesy? Yeah? I didn't mean

to do that. NATCHO didn't really work. Yeah, we're gonna move on from all the fondue puns here and try and help out Cammy, hopefully get her date Vince on the line and find out why he's been ghosting after they went out to a fondue restaurant and had a great time. I mean, honestly, it sounded like the perfect date, really special, nice dinner and kiss. I know, sharing, which nowadays is like the ultimate love language. If you're sharing,

it's definitely your love language. That's yea excited all the boxes. And so I wonder if maybe this guy is seeing another woman and Brooke knows all the available men in the area. Brook on the internet there was a Prince, but not I don't remember a Vince. Yeah, it's suspicious for sure. So let's call this Vince guy possibly hiding his Prince, and we'll see what he has to say. Cammy, you're ready, Yeah, I'm ready. All right, we'll fix this for you. Hello. Hello, Do we have a Vince on

the line here? Yeah? Who did? Hey Vince. My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. What is this about? It's about segment we do on the show called a second Date Update. What's going on here? We heard from one of our listeners, Cammy that you've been ghosting after you guys hung out at fondue the other night, and she doesn't understand why. Yi. I mean her description of the day, she described it to us, sounded amazing. Yeah, I guess the date was fine,

we had good conversation. We want to I've never been well yeah, I mean we here, so I'll stop you like we've heard all that. She told us that you went to a fondue restaurant and she described it as a really fun, really great night. She said, you were really funny. You guys shared a kiss at the end. It was super romantic. I mean, you sound kind of I don't know if you're rushed right now or something. I just this is just all kind of very strange.

What random radio calling me about a date that I had. Just we know, we're not trying to grill you or anything. We're not trying to come out. No, no, we're not doing the the fondue jokes. But she even said that you had a cute like fon don't want to lie to you or something, and she used that as the line before she kissed you. Yeah, so, uh so that's that's kind of the thing on her profile, she like

put in caps that don't lie to me. Okay, but I feel like she can't even like follow her own mantra because I feel like she was lying to me on our date. What oh yeah, So I mean, well, i'll tell you the story. So we get to the restaurant, We sit down, the waiter comes over and he's super friendly, and uh, we're ordering drink, some food and stuff like that. And I noticed that the waiter is giving our table a lot of attention, more attention than any of his

other tables. Um. The way that she and the waiter were interacting, I mean, there wasn't overly flirtatious or anything, but it feels like, I don't know, they had some kind of connection. Well, I think that it was her favorite fon due place. I mean she said she knew a place. I'm sure she's been there before. As a form, I gave the best service. If she had hooked up, I mean, are you saying that you think she hooked up with the waiter at the at some point or well, no,

let me finish. So we had the great day. We had a kiss. It was great. Um, sounds great. Yeah. That night, I do a little snooping on social media just to kind of check out what she likes to, you know, kind of plan the next day. And in a lot of the pictures the waiters there, Yeah, in the pictures, they were very comfortable being together, arms around each other, kind of you know, being closed. You don't. You don't think waiters are deserving a friendship in love,

So I know some people that feel that way. No, it's just the fact that she didn't tell me that they were friends or that they knew each other, and she like omitted that. I just don't get it. I was gonna say, why wouldn't you say, hey, this is my friend or you know, or whatever, and the guy didn't even give you a deal on the on the bill like that would I will say we we didn't know that she knew the waiter. That is new information to us, and that's something that maybe we could ask

her about and figure out what's really going on there. Yeah, I mean, I wasn't opposed to a second day though, and I want I was trying to figure out what, you know, she likes so we can do something that she likes. Yeah. Yeah, we're not saying that you were snooping or that was bad. We're just saying we could ask her about the waiter to the bottom of it. Let's get to the bottom of it right now, because Cammy's on the other line and wants to talk to you. Cammy.

Oh yeah, we're definitely the liars in this situation. Yeah, Cammy, Yeah, I'm here. What's going on? Um? Well, I'm embarrassed. Um, this is a little awkward guy. Yeah, what's with you and the waiter? Well, we never dated or anything like that, okay, And the reason for that is because he's actually he's my brother. The reason you didn't date the waiters because I just came out really weird. Why didn't you tell

Vince that that was your brother? Yeah, Well for a couple of reasons, you know, Like I just kind of wanted him to just give me an opinion of what he thought of Vince. And the other reason is because it's a really good restaurant, right, it's delicious. I know, Vince, you thought so yourself, but it's struggling right now to get in business, and I just kind of wanted to bring them the customer And like I said, Vince was really generous. So that was great for my brother. It

was great for everybody. So your brother, your brother's struggling, and so you bring in dates so that he can get tipped. Well like the restaurant iggling. Oh, but the brother also makes money off the tip, especially if you're on a date, and you think if he knew that it was your brother, he would have tipped as well. Probably would listen, guys that probably would have tipped even more true. It's just honestly, I just thought he would be able to give me some feedback. And you know

what he did. He gave me the thumbs up. People, you were awesome. This wasn't just like about after getting a two hundred dollars tip you have to give I would assume, I mean, Vince, you gotta understand. I also think that it would just be maybe a lot on a first date to introduce a family member, like that's all I thought you were gonna say, Cammy, So then don't go to his restaurant or don't sit at this table, like there are ways where you don't have to lie,

but aren't lie. We were hanging out with your brother for three hours and you didn't even mention that he was your brother. Exclusive we were talking, we were bonding, we were having a good time, you know that. I could tell, like you guys were talking and bonding and having a good time too without me, Like it was so weird, like I could, Vince, aren't you relieved that it's not like an ad like I thought that that would be good information, that it's her brother. Yeah, no,

it's it seems a little more odd. I think. I think it sounds like Vince is just upset that he felt lied to yeah, or felt like she purposely left out a detail just so that that's why you shouldn't put that on your dating profile. He probably would have been fine with it if I gotta I gotta put it and don't lie or don't lie to me on my profile too. I guess So, Cammy, can you go back onto your dating profile and adjust it to I hate liars because I am one. We're joking, Yeah, I'm

just messing around with you. Like it sounds like it's a little bit of a misunderstanding here. It totally is that we had a great date. That's depart Vince is just letting go of Yeah, the whole date was like under false pretenses. No, Vince, just take a deep breath. You need to give a little bit more space here. Dating is hard, and like we never hear of dates that go this well, yeah, I mean honestly, and you guys should this romantic kiss, Like I think you would

be remiss for like not getting it another shot. So, Vince, you have the thumbs up from not only everybody on this show, you have the thumbs up from Cammy, and the thumbs up from Cammy's lying brother and with many and that's why, with all those thumbs we want to point you in the direction of a restaurant that will pay for I just feel like there's I don't know if I could get past this. Yes, you don't lie, and it's just it's just too much. Wow, I'm sorry, Cammy.

It sounds like the trust was broken and it's never coming back. Yeah, this is Sully. If she didn't have that on her profile, it wouldn't have been a problem. Oh man, Cammy, Okay, because I was super honest, Like I'm an honest person, you know, That's what it kind of attracted me to because you told her that she was perfect, and obviously that was a lie. I remember that though I thought, so I was mistaken. Okay, Well, it looks like another unsuccessful second date update for us.

Ye who knew the brother was a third wheel of cheese. We're gonna end on a cheese joke. Here hit the song broken Jeffrey in the Morning.

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