Second Date Update: Dude, Where's Her Car?

prefer to be called Mary Louise? You can totally call me Mary. People call me both all Mary. I want to hear all about your messy date, but first tell us about the guy that you went out with. What's his name? His name, and he's very cute and very sweet. Dominic is just a cute name. I mean, like, I don't think you can have it without being attractive. I know, it's just a hot name. Okay, where did you meet Dominic? So?

We met online, okay, and we were texting for a little bit and he was just he was a gentleman. Even when we were texting, he asked, really intelligent, like insightful things and was just really sweet. I didn't know that you could come across as a gentleman through text. Oh sure are you? Yeah? You put a little top hat emoji at the end of your Yeah, it's such a gentleman other than you up. Yeah. Ok So what did you and Dominic do for your date? So we went to a restaurant and it was great, Like, he

was really sweet and really attractive and complimentary. It was a little awkward because at the very beginning, the menu was like one of those ones that has the bar code thing that you have to scan with your phone. You know that you are doing me You sit down and co a QR code on the table and then you scan it and then the menu po oh, I've done that. I just did that for the first time not very long ago, and it was way more work than I wanted it to be. I was like, someone,

come to the table. Yeah, I'd like to put my phone away when I'm out to dinner. I don't want to be like buried in it. I agree for old. Okay, so you went to a nice restaurant where they have QR codes for the menu. Why did you bring that up?

Well just because that's kind of a part of why the date was Matthew, because I can get my phone to work with the bar code, I hear you, and like, how are you supposed to ask the waiter waitress, like what they recommend, what they like, like all of it takes way longer than it should come to the table, well not at the right time, so you're like ignoring him with your face like in your phone, trying to figure out this QR code, right, And so finally I

was just like, hey, listen, I can't pull this up. Do you know how to do this? Oh? Man, I have an older phone and I don't even know if it can't do that. Helping me? And we got it up and we ordered and everything. Okay, we're able to get the date on track. From there, Yes, So from there that's when he was you know, asking like really thoughtful questions, and it just felt like a nice connection.

You know, we were on the same page, Like he was very upfront about wanting to eventually settle down and have kids and a family. This is great. I mean, if that's what you're looking for, this is amazing. Yeah, when you said messy date, I didn't expect like phone troubles to be messy? Is that the messy part? No? More? Okay, what happened? So he starts raining, like after we've eaten and talked and everything, and I'd just gotten my hair done that day and this might be a little high means,

but I kind of feel like it's normal. I spent a lot of money, like on the color and like a fresh new cut, and I just didn't want to locked my car, which is like three blocks away. Oh yeah, even without the hair. I don't want to watch in the rain, Okay. So I just said, hey, is it okay if I wait a little bit for the rain to die down, you know, And he's like, well, how about this. This might be weird, but I would love to just go get your car and pick you up,

if you're comfortable with that. And so I was like, no, what, yes, thank you, that's so nice of you. Good. That's like a gentleman thing. Wow, a gentleman and a personal chauffeur. Right, And then don't tell me he stole the car. It took a while and then I'm like, oh my god, he stole my car. No, no, please tell me he just couldn't find it or something. Yes, he couldn't find it, so he showed up joking wet but if I was the guy though, and I was like, I went to

where you said and it's not there. So wait, did he come back with a car or did he just come back walking? He just came back walking, but he goes, hey, I couldn't find it, but I called you am uber to take you to your car three blocks. That was his idea, though that wasn't her idea. You're not wrong, Mary, when you said that he's a gentleman. I mean, he really goes the extra mile. So how did that end? How did the night end? You huped and that was

the end of the date. No kiss, no kiss, But he said he really enjoyed meeting me, and you know, he was still a gentleman. And I still feel like there was a lot of chemistry there. But I'm worried that he thinks some high maintenance. I could see how you might feel that way, but the only way to find out for sure is by calling dominic. You don't sound too do you sound like medium maintenance? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'm not sorry with that well work, I'm sorry. There's

like a lot of minuses by my name. Well, you're not wrong about that, but let's play a song. We'll come back. We'll call Dominic for you and get your second date update. Okay, okay, hold on second date if you're just tuning in for the second date update. We're on the phone with Mary, and I'm assuming Mary's calling us on her nineteen eighties Motorola dyn Attack four thousand X. Make sure you crank the rotor, Mary, so we get

a few more minutes out of this call. Okay, yes, I say that because at dinner, the restaurant requires you to scan a QR code in order to see their menu, and Mary said her phone was having trouble doing that because it's so old. Not a great look. Yeah, oh, it's fine. She also said, because it was raining after the meal, she sent her date Dominic, out to find her car for her and bring it back to the restaurant so her hair wouldn't get wet. Well, he volunteered,

Yeah you did, Yes, he did well. When he couldn't find it, though, he just called her an uber out of the generosity of his own heart to drive her three blocks to her car, which it is huge. She described him as being a complete and total gentleman during the date. But Mary, gentlemen always return a lady's phone calls and texts, and he's not doing that anymore. There's no type of polite ghosting. No, there's not true. So now we're going to try and figure out what's going on.

Thank you. Have you talked to him at all? Mary? No, I haven't. I tried to reach out planet. It could be my phone, but I doubt Wow, she's still nine. All right, he does know you're talking about We'll talk about snake later. I've got the phone number. I'm going to dial it and we're gonna get your second date update. You're ready okay, Yes, okay, I'm dialing it now. Excited for you? Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for

Dominic speaking. Who's this? Hey, Dominic? My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing? I'm fine? What is this regarding? This is regarding a segment that we do on our show called a second Date Update? Have you ever heard of that before? I don't think I have. Okay, Well, it's really fun and now you're part of it. Yeah,

that's true. I shouldn't jump to conclusions. But the way that it works is if you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can email us and we'll reach out to them for you to try and help you figure out the reason why. Okay, and so recently you went out with a woman who's been trying to get a hold of you. Her name's Mary. Yeah, Dollar, this is true. Yeah, Okay, I can't read that. Laugh, man, I don't know if that was like, oh Mary or Mary. Yeah.

So here's the thing. I mean, the reason why she reached out to us is because she had a great time with you and she's confused you've been avoiding her ever since the date. Really, that's surprising to hear, really, what I mean her description in the date there was a couple like little missteps, but overall, it sounds like you guys had a real connection. Yeah, I'm curious to

hear what she categorized as the missteps. Well, she mentioned that there was a little bit of trouble pulling up the menu at the restaurant because her phone was having some issues technical difficulties. Yeah, I mean, there's like the QR code you just hover your camera over that pop up. Yeah, I mean, was that a big turn off to you that she had an old phone? No, I wasn't a big turn off. Like she just didn't know how to

use a QR code. Not a big deal. But you know, she handed me her phone so I could give her hand with it, and as I was helping her, a text message popped up from someone named mister Big. Yeah, that is a sex in the City reference sipping with Harry Bradshaw's like it guy that you always got away, like the elusive one that got away. Not what you were thinking, and that is it's not a good sign in my opinion, either way you slice it, it's not great. Yeah.

It had a message I'm thinking about you and then a wink emoji. Still the same thing I'm thinking. Yeah, you guys are on a first date, like you don't exactly. She's at liberty to date other people. It's her first date. It's not a big deal. So yeah, I mean, it's cool of you to look past that. So that's not the reason that you're not calling her back. There's something else. Yeah, So I don't know what she's told you, but she got her hair done and she didn't want to get

it wet. So yeah, she mentioned that she parked aways away and that you volunteered to go retrieve her car for her so her hair wouldn't get wet. Yeah. She really thought that was a strong move on your part all of us, and she felt really bad when she set you in the wrong direction. Yeah, that was an honest mistake. Actually, I have to correct you on that. I might not have disclosed everything to her. What do you mean I actually found her car? What Why would

you lie about that? That is so weird. Yeah. Well I went in and I put the key in the ignition and her GPS popped up, and I was curious. Oh no, maybe this isn't the most honorable thing. But I just looked at the at home. You know there's a home butt minute takes you back to your home address. Yeah, well there, but I just didn't know because she got that text message. I saw it. Yeah, you didn't help with snoop a little here and there. What are you

going to find out from a home address. It's not going to say mister and missus house or something, mister BIG's house. Yeah, well, you can't google a home and see who has the title for the home. Okay, now we're getting deep. Now tell me more. I mean, yeah, it's a public record. What are you talking about? So I went to the county website. I looked up the record and figured out that the home that she lives him is it is owned by a guy. A guy. Okay,

everybody calmed down. Wow, you don't know she rents? Okay, she lives with her brother, she's married, she has a boyfriend, she has my boyfriend. Could there could be an explanation. There a thousand explanations to her not owning her own guy owns the property. She's bad news, bro, I got your back. That is done. Thank you, man, I got you too. Yeah did you ever? I mean, obviously you didn't ask her about this. I feel like it's something you should have brought up to her. I didn't need

to ask. I mean, she's getting text from some dude named mister Big and she's living at some guy's house. I mean, but just felt like the signs were there, and they were presenting themselves pretty clearly to men. There's so many questions here exactly she was not in another relationship. She wouldn't be calling a radio show if she was in another relationship. That doesn't make any sense. But she didn't know that that guy was in her car and

saw that information. Maybe she thought it was all hidden. She made the worst cheater ever. If she's on the phone with her. We don't have a lot of good cheaters on this show. They're all pretty bad at it. And I think, like the only way to do this is to directly ask her, because Dominic, I need to let you know. Mary's on the other line listening and she wants to talk to you. She's on the line. Yeah, yeah, don't you just want to ask her? Mary? Yeah, guilty.

That is a lot of questions come in your way. What's going on, Dominic. I'm really disappointed that you did this. This is really bad. Wait what did I do? That's really bad? Like invade in her privacy? You're you're looking at my GPS and records somewhere I live, Like you asked me to go get your car. I had a little bit of information that was there. It's not like I'm stalking you here. I wouldn't even tell me you found my car. You lied about that. A gentleman never

finds a car and tells, oh my god. I mean, just ask her, Dominic, ask her if she's in a relationship. Yeah, okay, are you in a relationship? I well, okay, I live. It's complicated. Oh no, very always complicated. Oh my gosh, I didn't think, okay, very end and let her finish, let her finish, Okay. So I'm I'm still living with him, but I have half a conversation about breaking up, like we're on the way out. So you've had the conversation about breaking up. Does not sound to me like you

have broken up exactly? Is why you've always gone through people's things. The guy, the guy that you're currently with, that is mister big Yeah. Oh I don't even know if I even believe that anymore. Mary, I don't mister Biggs another one? What are you doing? This never would have happened if he didn't go through my stuff. This relationship is on the way out. It's gonna end in like two weeks. So Mary, you play on the date with Dominic for two weeks, then like after you break up,

you don't do the date before you break up? Best right now we still sleep together, Dan Dominic, how are you feeling, man? I'm feeling like my snooping has been validated here. I mean, Dominic, I'm gonna follow my sword right now, and I feel like I should issue you an apology. Is the woman here? I was wrong. I don't apologize to him. He lies. He's going through my stuff and he didn't tell me. No, you can't be upset about lying anymore. Mary, you're the bigger liar. You're

with somebody else. That's the bottom line. We can't ask you to go out another date like we can Brook. Of course I can do that. I can ask whatever I want when I'm running this show, going to say yes. So with that being said, Dominic, we would not love, but we were offering to send you out on another date with Mary, and we'll pay for it. Do you have to ask? I mean, she did a relationship. It's

a hard no. What a gentleman? All right, don't be calling radio stations until after you break up with someone. Doesn't have to be single, inten I'm fine. I don't want to go on another date with liar. Oh okay, okay, I get that, And Mary, maybe like get a new phone that has better privacy settings so that they can't get in there and see because that was obviously the issue that was brooking Jeffrey in the morning,