Second Date Update: Drop- Off Daddy

Oh glad, that's the twist that we took. And one of them is on the phone asking for our help today. Her name's Maddie. What's up, Maddie. Hey, how are you guys doing. Oh you found that one hot single guy. Huh yeah, the rare one no attachment single dad. Okay, I mean she has a kid. Okay, I mean I was like, Oh, honestly, the rest of the single moms are pissed at you. Sorry, sorry, Well, let's find out more about the single dad. What's his name? What his

name is? Derek? And so we met. Our kids go to the same school, and we have a double lane drop off system in our school, so we would like parallel, we'd be parallel to each other. So you know we could see in each other's window. Hey, what's up? Okay, okay, the drop off line is like the pickup spot, now picking up more than just your kids. Yeah, so are your kids about the same age? Are they in the same class or well, they're not in the same class, but they are at the same age. Okay, your kid

was held back. Oh okay, there's multiple classes of the same That makes more sense. I'd call for help. Oh my goodness. So how did you and Derek finally get to talking? Okay? So, um, one day we were we were actually walking out together and he was like, you want to get some coffee or I was like, um, yes, of course, let's go. Are the whole time is your kid just like tugging on your coat, like let's go? Mom? No, they there, they were in school, they were gone, so

you just dropped them off. I see, I see. Okay. Yeah, so you ended up going to coffee with him? Yeah, we were going to coffee. We're talking. We had a great time. Like sometimes, you know, when you have recent exes, you tend to talk about them on the on the dates and you don't realize it. And this one we really I found myself not talking about Okay, good start. That's growth for you. It sounds like it's really proud of yourself. That's a good thing. Yeah, it's been like

five years. Yeah, you don't even have any kids with that act. I mean, didn't feel like a date because you guys went straight from like drop off to coffee, like was was there sparks? That's the thing. Like it felt so easy, so nat tr like I felt like I known him for the locket you know, and I and I had. But yeah, I just felt so comfortable

and and then you know, the check came in. He was like, oh, let me, let me get this, and I was like, oh no, no, no, because you know, I didn't want it to feel like a date date. You don't want it to feel like a date date? What kind of date did you want it to feel like? Means? Okay, come on, we're not going to beat around the bush a date with the expectation that there might be something happening afterwards. What she's saying is she wants to have a date date, but she wants it to be an

outlined let's go on a date. Yeah before they go Yeah, I don't want any confusion. Did you at least do like a but you can get me next time, so that it like eludes that this is going to happen again. Oh my god, I should have said that. I'm like, no, man, pay for you now. Not ever, that would have been good. I mean, I just wonder if it like put him down a little bit in terms of, like you then turned it into a friend zone thing by doing that. I understood what you were saying, but I also understand

what Brooke is saying. Yeah, I personally would be offended. I love to pay for everyone all the time, Like, so if I get rejected, it would feel like a rejection to me. Would you like to pay for me? Yeah? So, Maddie, are you thinking that that really offended him? Is that the vibe you were getting from Derek? Something seemed different after that, But he was still cordial. He was still cracking jokes and all that. And you know, we we said goodbye, you know, we waved, you know, there was

a little contact. Okay, we left and I had him actually given him my number, Okay, you know hopefully you know he would text me with like, hey, let's go on the second pedle. Maybe you know something didn't know And I'm like I'm confused because I'm thinking that I'm not to like, sound too cocky or anything, but I'm like this, I like that about your job. I mean you should feel that way. So how long has it been since that coffee date. It's been two weeks. Oh.

Have you seen him at the drop offline? Yes, but not as often. And at the time I did see him. I think it was an accident. I think he wanted to happen. In fact, now he's tinted all the windows on his cars and I can't set him. Yeah, I mean that's really weird. My only thought here is are you sure that he's a single dad? Oh? Yeah, we talk. We talked about it. There's no tan lines, like that's something you you you notice? Oh you get tan lines when you are wedding on the ring. Oh. I was like, wow,

this coffee date got really interested. But anyway, let's let's play a song. We're gonna come back. We'll call Derek for you and we'll try and get you your second date up date. All right, all right, thank you all. Hold one, two single parents, two identical minivans, two children in the same class, but only one has an STD. It's the lacky wrong com everybody's waiting to see PTA with HPV coming this fall. No, I'm just joking about

that last part. It's coming out of the the spring. But one of our listeners, Maddie, is a single mom and she met a single dad recently named Derek in the school drop offline. The two of them hit it off and ended up going out to coffee together, but afterwards, Derek has been acting a little bit strange kind of avoiding Maddie and she does not know why, so she's asking for our help. Maddie, is there any is there any parts of the story that we didn't cover there?

What are you talking about? STDs? When I know you were joking, but my goodness, sorry, I didn't want to give up the spoilers to the ending of this. Jes you just really thought that was funny, didn't you, Maddie? Yeah, what exactly exactly? Listen, Like the bottom line is is like I'm a single mother, hard out there finding you know, quality guys, so you know I click. I clicked with him, and that's rare. I know, we got you. We're going to fix this. And you did mention though that your

kids are the same age. There's no chance that the two of them have some sort of school crush going on. What are you doing? What would that matter? They're in elementary school. If you don't want the parents, get them together. If the kids are getting together too, nobody's getting together at elementary school. Maybe they're kicking each other in the shins. To say, I like it, like that's not actually know what parents and kids getting together. That's another good idea

for a movie. I'm going to pitch it to Hollywood after this. But first we're get Derek on the phone. Okay, we're just gonna call Derek and we'll ask him what's going on. Are you ready, Maddie, I'm ready. Number nine? Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Derek. Yeah, here's this. Hey, my name's Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing, man? Okay, Hi Derek? What's going on? So we're doing a segment

on our show. It's called a second date Update. I'm not sure if you're familiar with that, but basically, it's where we help out our listeners who are being ghosted try to figure out why the other person isn't calling them back after a good date. Okay, I'm not a listener. That's okay, most people aren't broke. But we do have a listener that went on a date with you, and her name's Maddie. I mean, I know, Matti. We had coffee. I don't I don't know about a date. Okay, Well

I could see that. I could see how it could be deciphered either way. Be sure he told us a little bit about it. There may or may not have been considered an actual date, but there was a hangout with you and Maddie, and she had a really good time with you. Yeah, she's been a really nice person. It was nice to meeting her and studing some time with her. Okay, was there any vibes like did you get the vibe from her that she was looking, you know,

for like a real date maybe in the future. Oh, I don't want to say anything that would paint her in a bad light. So paint her in a bad light. Well, she listens to our show. I mean a lot of times that happens. Whenever we have somebody on this show for this segment, we have to tell them ahead of time. They might hear something a little bit embarrassing about themselves, so they have to agree to it, and Maddie is

prepared for whatever the real answer is. You know, I was trying to be polite, but fine, this is gonna sound weird. After we had coffee, right, I found her on Facebook and that's kind of excited because you know, I haven't hung out with a single mom in a while. Okay, so you were actually, yeah, you were actually thinking this could turn into something then, I mean you were positive at that point. After the date, you're like, okay, let's

do this. Yeah. After coffee, I was definitely like, all right, maybe there's something here. Oh okay, So what changed? Well, I was excited. As I was dropping my son off at his grandparents. My dad and like, I'm telling him about Maddie and I showed him a picture of her on my phone and my dad got this weird book on his face and he says, I know her, And I'm like, what what are you talking about? What your

dad knows Maddie. I mean, it makes sense. You guys are in the same community, you go to the same school, like it does. I mean, everybody's like two degrees separation when you're in an elementary school. Honestly, I guess I guess it's possible that they would know each other. How my dad goes, this is gonna sound strange, but I've seen her online. She's on the website only Fans. Oh, I think the bigger question fans, why wouldn't you see? Now? This seems more normal to me. It Did he give

you more details? Did you go and look up her only Fans page? Yeah? I didn't. I didn't believe my dad at first, but then he showed me. Then sure enough, that's her. I mean she's you know, under a different name there, but like he was already open on his browser. That's weird. He's like, I have pictures of her too. I mean, I'm sorry. She did not do anything wrong. She's an adult woman, she's a single mom, Blair, I mean, she's hot. What do you think about that? It was

just like a little shocking. I never pictured myself of someone from only Fans, And like she's quite popular on the site. How popular? Who wonders she paid for her own coffee? Yeah that makes sense out What do you mean she's popular? She has like a large amount of subscribers there, and you know, I'm just like a dad with a kid. It just weird. Me out. I don't know.

You definitely want the more popular the less popular, if you are going to that's a good point, but I also get it as a parent that would feel kind of weird. I need to tell you, Maddie's on the other line listening, and she wants to speak with you, and she wants you to subscribe. I don't know about that made hi. Oh my, oh my god, you were on the phone the whole time. I thought they were just going to relay it to you, like, wait, oh boy, No,

I know, I know. So you have a you have a problem with me having the only fans, pase that's what it was. I don't know that problems the right where. I just don't know how I feel about it. I don't know. Maybe you have some suggestions for her? What do you mean, like content? Yeah? Like maybe is that what you never? That's where we're going? Where are listen? I don't think I can be with somebody like that.

But I did feel a connection with you, and I don't want to feel that you are that narrow minded that you can't get past something like this. I mean, I'm a single mother trying to make ends meet. I make a lot of money, and I spend a lot of time with my son. I just I can't get my mind around that. You you really just did not talk to me because I have an only fancy. I think maybe maybe I'm just guessing for Derek. He he just doesn't know how to approach the situation the right way. Yeah.

I think he was taken aback by it and he's not sure the right way to handle it. I'm not saying it's good or bad. I was just processing it at my own speed, you know, while dealing with my responsibilities. I haven't dated him a very long time. It's quite possible everyone has an only fans at this point. I acknowledge that, just the entire PGA board. All right, Derek, I don't don't think you understand what we're talking about. It like you're you're a lucky position to be in

right now. You know how many I want to date me. I'm very popular on only fans, you know. Okay, I hear that you're you're a little bit um defensive defensive there. Yeah, I'm trying to use the right words here. I don't want to say desperate. Yeah, I'm not saying that, but uh, I mean clearly you're seeking his approval here, like you definitely want to go out on another date with him. So we had a connection, a connection that doesn't happen often, and I felt a spark and I don't know, I

have a belief that he's going to come through. Okay, I think we understand it. And let's see if Derek can come through here, because he's been thinking about this, and we'd like to offer Derek to send you guys out on another date. I mean, I think the thing is Derek, like, this is your opportunity to ask all the questions that you have about her line of work. Very good and if you don't feel comfortable after that, then you know, move on. You know it's not right

for that's okay too, conversation. You could bring your dad along too, and some questions. I'm sure he wants to know a lot talk subscriber. I mean, I could probably get my head around the only fans thing, but like just from this radio thing and the way she just like it's quite aggressive, so early on I'm gonna respectfully pass. He just wants to hang up so bad right now, it's maybe not the right fit for him. Comfortable. Wow, Okay,

all right. Oh great, there's a million guys on the text board here again, I kind of want to know what her only fans is. I'm just curious. I'm just curious. I think your husband would mind it all. Yeah, we'll find all that information out and then we're gonna call Derek's dad interested. That's terrible. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.