Second Date Update: Drop- Off Daddy

And one of them is on the phone asking for our help today. Her name's Maddie. What's up, Maddie. Hey, how are you guys doing. Oh you found that one hot single guy. Huh yeah, the rare one no attachment single dad. Okay, I mean she has a kid. I mean I was like the rest of the single moms are pissed at you. Sorry, sorry, Well, let's find out more about the single dad. What's his name? What his

name is? Derek? And so we met. Our kids go to the same school, and we have a double lane drop off system in our school, so we would like parallel we'd be parallel to each other, so you know, we could see in each other's window. Hey, what's up? Okay? Okay, the drop offline is like the pickup spot, now picking up more than just your kids. Yeah, so are your kids about the same age or they in the same class, or well they're not in the same class, but they

are at the same age. Okay, your kid was held back. Okay, there's multiple classes of the same that makes more sense. I'd call for help. Oh my goodness. So how did you and Derek finally get to talking? Okay? So, um, one day we were we were actually walking out together and he was like, you want to get some coffee or I was like, um, yes, of course, let's go. Are the whole time is your kid just like tugging

on your coat, like let's go? No? They there, they were in school, they were talking, so you just dropped them off. I see, I see. Okay. Yeah, so you ended up going to coffee with him. Yeah, we were going to coffee. We're talking. We had a great time. Like sometimes, you know, when you have recent exes, you tend to talk about them on the on the dates and you don't realize it. And this one we really I found myself not talking about Okay, good start that's

growth for you. Sound like it's really proud of yourself. That's a good thing. Yeah, it's been like five years. Yeah, you don't even have any kids with that at I mean, didn't feel like a date because you guys went straight from like drop off to coffee, Like was there sparks? That's the thing. Like it's felt so easy, so natural, Like I felt like I known him for the longest, you know, and I and I had but yeah, I just felt so comfortable and and then you know, the

check came in. He was like, oh, let me, let me get this, and I was like, oh no, no, no, because you know, I didn't want it to feel like the date date. You don't want it to feel like a date date? What kind of date? Did you want it to feel like? Okay, come on, we're not going to beat around the bush a date with the expectation that there might be something happening afterwards. What she's saying is she wants to have a date date, but she wants it to be an outlined let's go on a date. Yeah, yeah,

I don't want any confusion. Did you at least do like a but you can get me next time so that it like eludes that this is going to happen again. Oh my god, I should have said that. I'm like, no, man, pay for you now? Not ever, that would have been good. I mean I just wonder if it like put him down a little bit in terms of like get me you then turned it into a friend zone thing by doing that. I understood what you were saying, but I also understand what Brooke is saying. Yeah, I personally would

be offended. I love to pay for everyone all the time, Like, so if I get rejected, it would feel like a rejection to me. Would you like to pay for me? Yeah? So, Maddie, are you thinking that that really offended him? Is that the vibe you were getting from Derek? Something seemed different after that, But I mean he was still cordial, he

was still cracking jokes and all that. And you know, we we said goodbye, you know, we waved, you know, there was a little contact we left, and I had him actually given him my number, okay, you know hopefully you know he would text me with like, hey let's go on the second dame or maybe you know something didn't know And I'm like, I'm confused because I'm thinking that I'm not to like sound too cocky or anything, but I'm like this about your job. I mean you

should feel that way. So how long has it been since that coffee date. It's been two weeks. Oh. Have you seen him at the drop off line? Yes, but not as often. And at the time I did see him, I think it was an accident. I think he wanted to happen. In fact, now he's tinted all the windows on his cars and you can't set him. Yeah. I mean that's really weird. My only thought here is, are you sure that he's a single dad? Oh? Yeah, we talk. We talked about it. There's no tan lines, like that's

something you you you notice? Oh you get tan lines when you are on the ring. Oh. I was like, wow, this coffee date got really interested. But anyway, let's let's play a song. We're gonna come back. We'll call Derek for you and we'll try and get you your second date update. All right, all right, thank you? All right? Hold on, two single parents, two identical minivans, two children in the same class, but only one has an STD. It's the lacky wrong com everybody's waiting to see PTA

with hpving this fall. No I'm just joking about that last part. It's coming out of the spring. One of our listeners, Maddie, is a single mom and she met a single dad recently named Derek in the school drop offline and two of them hit it off and ended up going out to coffee together. But afterwards, Derek has been acting a little bit strange, kind of avoiding Maddie and she does not know why, so she's asking for our help. Maddie, is there any is there any parts

of the story that we didn't cover there? What are you talking about? Std? When I know you were joking, but my goodness, sorry, I didn't want to give out the spoilers to the ending of this one, laughed Jess. She just really thought that was funny, didn't you. Maddie, Yeah, what exactly exactly. Let's sit like the bottom line is is like, I'm a single mother, hard out there finding you know, quality guys. So you know I clicked. I clicked with him, and that's rare. I know, we got you.

We're gonna fix this. And you did mention though that your kids are the same age. There's no chance that the two of them have some sort of school crush going on. What are you doing matter they're in elementary school. If you don't want the parents, get them together. If the kids are getting together too. Nobody's getting together at elementary school. Maybe they're kicking each other in the shins to say I like you like? That's not actually, you

know what, parents and kids getting together. That's another good idea for a movie. I'm going to pitch it to Hollywood after this. But first we get Derek on the phone. Okay, we're just gonna call Derek and we'll ask what's going on? Are you ready, Maddie, I'm ready. Number nine. Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Derek. Yeah, he's this. Hey. My name's Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing man? Okay, Hi, Derekh, what's going on?

So we're doing a segment on our show. It's called a second Date Update. I'm not sure if you're familiar with that, but basically it's where we help out our listeners who are being ghosted try to figure out why the other person isn't calling them back after a good date. Okay, I'm not a listener, that's okay. Most people aren't broke but we do have a listener that went on a date with you, and her name's Maddie. I mean, I know, Maddie, we had coffee. I don't I don't know about a date. Okay,

Well I could see that. I could see how it could be deciphered either way. Sure told us a little bit about it. There may or may not have been considered an actual date. But there was a hangout with you and Maddie, and she had a really good time with you. Yeah, she's a really nice person. It was nice to meeting her and studying some time with her. Okay, was there any vibes like did you get the vibe from her that she was looking, you know, for like

a real date maybe in the future. Oh, I don't want to say anything that would paint her in a bad light. So pat in a bad light. Well, she listens to our show. I mean a lot of times that happens. Whenever we have somebody on this show for this. I mean, we have to tell them ahead of time. They might hear something a little bit embarrassing about themselves, so they have to agree to it. And Maddie is

prepared for whatever the real answer is. You know, I was trying to be polite, but fine, this is gonna sound weird. After we had coffee, right, I found her on Facebook and that's kind of excited because you know, I haven't hung out with a single mom in a while. Okay, so you were actually too, Yeah, you were actually thinking this could turn into something then, I mean you were positive at that point. After the date, You're like, okay, let's do this. Yeah. After coffee, I was definitely like,

all right, maybe there's something here. Oh okay, So what changed? Well? I was excited. As I was dropping my son off at his grandparents. My dad and like, I'm telling him about Maddie and I showed him a picture of her on my phone and my dad got this weird book on his face and he says, I know her, And I'm like, what what are you talking about? What your dad knows Maddie. I mean, it makes sense. You guys are in the same community, you go to the same school,

like it does. I mean, everybody's like two degrees separation when you're in an elementary school. Honestly, I guess, I guess it's possible that they would know each other. How my dad goes, this is gonna sound strange, but I've seen her online. She's on the website only fans. Oh, I think the bigger question, only fans? Why I wouldn't you see? Now this seems more normal to me. It Did he give you more details? Did you go and

look up her only fans page? Yeah? I didn't. I didn't believe my dad at first, but then he showed me and sure enough, that's her. I mean she's you know, under a different name there, but like it was already open on his browser. That's weird. He's like, I have pictures of her too. She's I mean, I'm sorry. She did not do anything wrong. She's an adult woman, she's a single mom, Blair, I mean, she's hot. What do you think about that? It was just like a little shocking.

I never pictured myself of someone from only fans And like she's quite popular on the site. Okay, how popular? Who wonders she paid for her own coffee? Yeah? What do you mean? She's popular? She has like a large amount of subscribers there, and you you know, I'm just like a dad with a kid. It's just weird me out out. I don't know. You definitely want the more popular, the less popular that's a good point, but I also get it as a parent that would feel kind of weird.

I need to tell you, Maddie's on the other line listening, and she wants to speak with you, and she wants you to subscribe. I don't know about that, Maddie. Hi, oh my, oh my god, you were on the phone the whole time. I thought they were just gonna relay it to you, like, wait, oh boy, No, I know. I know. So you have a you have a problem with me having the only fans pase that's what it was. I don't know that problems the right where. I just don't know how I feel about it. I don't know.

Maybe you have some suggestions for her. What what do you mean, like content? Yeah, like maybe is that where we're going? Okay, where are we rippen? I don't think I can be with somebody like that, But I did feel a connection with you, and I don't want to feel that you were that narrow minded that you can't get past something like this. I mean, I'm a single mother trying to make ends meet. I make a lot of money, and I spend a lot of time with

my son. I just I can't get my mind around that you you really just did not talk to me because I have an only fancy. I think maybe maybe I'm just guessing for Derek, he just doesn't know how to approach the situation the right way. Yeah. I think he was taken aback by it and he's not sure the right way to handle it. I'm not saying it's good or b I was just processing it at my own speed, you know, while doing with my responsibilities. I haven't dated him a very long time. It's quite possible

everyone hasn't only fans at this point. I acknowledge that, just the entire PGA board. All right, Derek, I don't I don't think you understand what we're talking about. Is it like you're you're a lucky position to be in right now. You know how many I want to date me. I'm very popular on only fans, you know. Okay, I hear that you're you're a little bit um defensive. Defensive They're defensive. Yeah, I'm trying to use the right words here.

I don't want to say desperate. Yeah, I'm not saying that, but uh, I mean, clearly you're seeking his approval here, like you definitely want to go out on another date with him. So we had a connection, a connection that doesn't happen often, and I felt a spark and I don't know, I have a belief that he's going to come through. Okay, I think we understand it. And let's see if Derek can come through here, because he's been thinking about this, and we'd like to offer Derek to

send you guys out on another date. I mean, I think the thing is Derek like, this is your opportunity to ask all the questions that you have about her line of work. Very good and if and if you don't feel comfortable after that, then you know, move on. You know it's not right for you. That's okay too, conversation. You could bring your dad along too and ask some questions. I'm sure he wants to know a lot talk subscriber.

I mean, I could probably get my head around the only fans thing, but like just from this radio thing and the way she just like it's quite aggressive, so early on, I'm gonna respectfully pass. He just wants to hang up so bad right now. I think it's maybe not the right fit for him. Comfortable. Wow, Okay, all right, Oh great, there's a million guys on the text board here. I kind of want to know what her only fans is. I'm just curious. I'm just curious. I think your husband

wouldn't mind it all. Yeah, we'll find all that information out and then we're gonna call Derek's Dade interested. You're terrible. Yeah, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.