Second date, date, unplanned laughter, unplanned tears. Wow, unplanned pregnancies all have their positives and negatives to them. But what about an unplanned date? Is that a good thing? I think, campy, I think. I guess because that's what happened to one of our listeners, Rick. He didn't even see it coming, but the date just came out of nowhere. At least that's what he said in his email. So let's talk to him about it, Rick, Rick, are you there. Yeah,
it's okay. If you don't feel comfortable enough to share with everybody, yeah, we can do this off the air. But why don't you tell us about the date that happened. What was the girl's name? Well, her name was Kelly. Okay, okay, dude, I love unplanned dates. I mean that's pretty awesome. Where were you what were you doing? We were at the park. Um. I have a miniature Doberman and I walk in the same place pretty much every other day. You only walk your dog every other day. I don't know if that's
the dog park. Yeah, to the dog park. Yeah, I don't have time to go there every day. Man, that's a big commitment. I mean, then the dog park is a scene. Yeah, but it's like a circular dog park, and I was walking around and for whatever reason, she was coming around for the opposite direction. So we walked right into each other. And she had another man of doob man, the same breed. Do you think they know
each other. Yeah. For the dogs too, Like going to the park, that's like going out to the club at night. They're going to meet all the other dogs. They want to make sure that they're looking good. There's so many buts to sniff, you know, a lot of pressure not just on you wreck, but on your dog. Yeah. Well, it wasn't any pressure at all. She seemed to come up to the dog and and love it. She started asking me about it. I had a girl and she had a boy, so it was it was really cool.
They were interacting as well. The dogs are flirting. That's cute, and you guys have so many shared interests, like just off the bat. Yeah, my dog got too excited, and I thought it went kind of bad because she walked up and she was like, oh, yeah, my dog's friendly, and I said, oh, my dog's horny. Oh that was like the first thing you said to this woman that the dog park. Luckily, it went well she started laughing. Okay, and we went walking and we talked. It was really
really cool. It was an unexpected date. Yeah, now I get it. That's crazy. Okay, that's the date, the two of you walking around inside this park together. How long were you guys in the park together. I would say about fifteen twenty minutes. But we did a few different things. Okay, what different things did you do? Yeah? Well, I can throw a ball and my dog just kind of sit
and look. But she was able to throw a ball and their dog was able to fetch it, and because of it was able to do that, my dog kind of picked up it ran after it, but it didn't bring the ball back yet. Oh my god, you're talking My dog are the same? Oh man, random, let's stop hitting on him because he's trying to tell us about the dame. Let's let's focus back on the woman that
you were with also has a mini dover. I know, I'd say it like it could actually be kind of embarrassing when your dog is like the dud when it comes to fetch. Yeah. Was she cool? Like? Was she like, oh cute, he's dumb? Like my god, she started teaching me like ways to teach dogs that they respond quicker. It's her things. So it was actually really cool. I told you my dog actually went for the ball, it
just didn't bring it back steps. Yeah, okay, I've never sent my dog to training or anything, so so I mean, was there a romantic vibe to this? Oh my god, she was smoking hot. No, we're not talking about the dog anymore. We're talking about your Oh the day it went well, she stopped doing for coffee, and man, we what it means. Where was coffee? Well, there's a little coffee shop right by the dog park, and there, because it's so close to the dog, they have a little
place where the dogs can sit their water. That's cute. So you did the dog park, you played fetch, and then you went to coffee. Yeah, it wasn't We didn't sit down and have coffee. It was like one of those shops stand things where you just gotta get your coffee and you go down. Okay, so that's why the whole interaction was only like fifteen twenty minutes exact. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, So how did you guys leave? Things? Like, how did the two of you end this interaction? She said bye?
I said bye? You didn't ask her out on a date. No, I thought i'd waited a little later. I was going to do it over the phone. Okay, so you did exchange numbers. Yeah, yeah, a lot going on. Yeah, we got pictures of our dogs everything. Oh so, I mean, what's happened since then? Have you spoken to her? I hadn't. She's not returning our answer and the call, so I don't. I don't know. It's a real weird. It's real weird.
The only thing I don't understand is I have not once got like a for sure romantic moment like this whole thing could easily be an awesome friendship. You're forming you know what I mean? Or you're right, it could be once we kiss, everything goes to the next level. But I can't sinse like one thing that was like oh you know, yeah, yeah right, listen, it was only fifteen minutes. It really wasn't enough time for abbit. Yeah it was. It was the dogs really getting to know
each other. So I would like to spend more time with her and get to know her. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense, Yeah for sure. All right, Well let's see if we can make that happen. We'll play a song, we'll come back. We'll call Kelly for you and we'll try and get your second day up, dud. Okay, yeah, all right, if you're just joining us, this is the budding love story of two dogs local park and had
the time of their lives. More listeners, fetch together. You drank out of the same water bowl, perfect date, even Pete on the same fire hype that perfect regular date. Their connection was real and pure. Oh yeah, and their two owners were also they're grabbing coffee. One was hot, the other one was aware of the other's hotness. So please tell me we're going to skip the people and go straight to the mini dover. I wish we could, but the person is on the phone. His name is Rick.
Hoping to recapture that love doggy style with the second date update. Rick, let's maybe leave all of the dog like jokes and stuff out when we talked to her next, just an idea. Let's make our missionary. Yeah, yeah, we all got it. Jose, All right, don't do that. All right, this is gonna be tough because I don't know that there was a whole lot to mention besides dogs on your day. I think it's okay to mention the dogs, just maybe not your dog jokes that somehow turned very dirty.
This is going to be a very flat, boring edition of Second Date Update, zero jokes. And when we call it no dog sex, you will reference. Yes, thank you, Ri, thank you the challenge that you've presented to the show. The next few minutes without it, we're gonna call Kelly. We're gonna see what she has to say. You're feeling ready? Man? Ready, okay, man, here we go. Hello. Hey is this Kelly? Yeah, hey Kelly. My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and
Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, well, this is about a segment that we do on our show. It's called a Second Date Update. Okay, okay, and um the ideas we help our listeners who've gone out with some buddy recently that they liked get back in touch with that person after they've been ghosted. Oh that sounds really strange. You sound like a real positive person, So I feel that this will go well for you. I'm sorry, I just
have no idea who you guys are talking about. Yeah, well it's a listener of our show named Rick Rick. Um well, they're like a last name or I don't know, ringing a Bell. He said, it wasn't really a date. It was more like, you guys hung out for like twenty minutes, and I don't know, he felt like he had a good connection. Yeah, you guys were in a park and your dogs met. Oh my god, Yeah I know that guy. Yeah, okay, No, that's a bad start. I know who that is. I know he's talking about.
He seemed nice, like, oh, you guys have talked to him. Yeah, And that's how this segment works. They email us and they tell us about the date that they went on so that we can help them get back in touch. Okay, um, so what did they tell you? Well, you guys bonded over the same dogs. You both have the mini Doberman's okay, and there wasn't a whole lot. Yeah, there was a whole lot that happened. You got your guys dogs hung out, and then you grabbed a coffee to get I'm so sorry, guys,
I've just stopped you. Is this like some sort of weird joke you guys are playing. Is this like a prank? No, No, not at all. Why I just um, I'm just getting a really bad feeling. I'm sorry, I am Is it broke broke. She has that effect on a lot of people. I'm sorry, it's okay, she's a friendly radio host, Kelly. Did Rick make you feel uncomfortable or something? Is that why I worried about him? For example, like, how did you guys get my phone number? How did you get it? Well?
Rick gave it to us. I never gave it to Rick. Wait, but he said that you guys took pictures of your dogs together. Yeah, we took pictures of our dogs together. But I never gave him my phone number. This is like, really messed up. I'm sorry. I I'm kind of alarmed for you that that's not cool. Man. He could have totally guess my number sometimes, but you didn't want him to have your number? No, No, I mean okay, just like from first meeting, I wouldn't just go on a
date with this guy. I was just trying to be nice, right, So like, yeah, there's a coffee stand, we like took pictures of our dogs, but then that was it. So he didn't ask me for my number, and I didn't give it to him. But then after a few days, my phone starts blowing up and it's very evident that it's him. So I'm sorry, I'm like panicking. Okay, okay, yeah,
I'd be panicking too. Yeah, this is definitely weird. And there's a way to find out how he got your number, because I need to tell you that he's on the other line listening. Doesn't sound good. Are you serious? He's been on the line listening this whole time he wants to talk to you. Oh my god. Um, I mean, at least I'll be able to figure out how he did this, right, Yeah, what's going on? How did you get her number? Man? Kelly? Let me start here. I'm
not a creeper. I'm sorry for just calling you. I just get my phone number. Well, I was creative, and Kelly, that's what I want you to know is if you allow me to take you on the day, I'll be creative too. You're avoiding the question where did you find Kelly's number? Well, we had a great time and we
took pictures. We had a great time, and on the pictures, my dog has this my number on it, and her dog I figured was her number, and that's when I well, it didn't have to zoom, man, because they were already close up. Okay, Well, Rick, thank you for I didn't mean for this to be weird. I don't want you to think they're the stalker or anything. I'm not the
type of guy. I'm shy and this is embarrassing. Oh buddy, Rick, I, um, you know, I appreciate you saying all this, but I have to tell you, like for future reference, just ask like this is weird. I know you're saying like, I'm sorry, I'm shy, but this is like what women hate. But don't you appreciate the creativity of it, Rick, I I don't, I really don't. I will say that that ever happening.
Think Rick, I think it's like it's intrusive, right, Like it's it's overstepping a bound I didn't think it was crossing any boundaries because we had already spent so much time together walking and talking, and I just figured we could talk a little bit more so, so I'm sorry. I mean, if she was a total stranger, it even worm if you don't even know if Kelly's single, Like, it just seems like you guys didn't have those type of conversations. You had conversations about how to train your dog.
It was it was very surface conversations. That's why I was calling her so that we could talk more. Yeah, well it sounds like, well, but in today's dating world, it's so hard to meet people. If you have an encounter out in the world somewhere and you didn't get the opportunity or you didn't have the courage to ask for somebody's number. I mean this, he took it a
little bit far, but it was for like a pure reason. Yeah, but you just go back to the same dog park and you find her again, you know what I'm saying. Like you, you know, you're the creeper like going into everybody's tag trying to tags. But if if you want to run into her again, like that's your chance. Like you needed to have asked her for her number, exactly. I know it was creepy. I was just shy in the moment, and I'm sorry I didn't ask you and
just started texting you on college. That's good. That feels sincere. That feels sincere, Kelly does. We still don't even know if Kelly is actually single yet though. Yeah, I don't have a boyfriend, but I am hanging out with a couple of different people, so oh okay, yeah, all right, Well there's a little bit of gray area there, but we can work with that. Not official. Yeah, so let's offer to send you guys out on a date and we'll pay for it. What do you say? I feel
very uncomfortable. I appreciate the apology, Rick, and I do believe you. I believe it was genuine and everything, but I just feel I don't want to go. Yeah, that's understandable. Well, at least he was able to clear it up a little bit. Yeah, well this has been embarrassing enough. But you know what, though, it's a good lesson and you might not actually have a date lined up with Kelly, but you'll be able to think about her every time you play fetch with your dought. Yeah. I also have
her dog pitch too, so i'll frame those as well. Okay, you're king, Oh my god, I'm joking. Okay, soon Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. I know, on the surface, this whole thing sounded pretty creepy, like how he got her number off her dog's name tag, and he definitely should have asked her for it, just normal. Yeah, I'm not arguing that. Yeah, but I will say it is almost impossible now for any guy to meet a girl out in real life and just get her phone number
without coming across creepy. Yeah, I mean it's true, and get her real phone number, and you're pretty much screwed either way. You are. But he didn't even ask, Like you're saying that you are creepy if you just ask for someone's phone number these days, yeah, pretty much. Does that check out, Alexis. It's true. It depends on how they are, is what you say. I made. Unfortunately, most people don't have that luxury of just relying on their attractiveness.
So yeah, back in the day, you could be like, you're beautiful, I'd like to take you out. I was like, oh, now you dm a girl, You're beautiful. I want to take you out. The like il thirsty. It was even better than that. Back in the day you could just be like, hey, can I marry your daughter? Cool? Those were the days. Those were the days were you bring back the fifteen hundreds? Am I right? Women is property? Anyway? If if you're we're being sarcastic, you were joking totally.
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