Second date. When you meet someone and you chat with him for just a few minutes, but there's an obvious connection there and you have a lot of fun together. Can that be considered an insta date or do you need to have like an official meet up for it to count. Yes, I mean it could be a hangout, it could be the first meeting, but it's not a date.
That's the conversation. I disagree. I think it is like an insta date is considered a real date because I've had many many experiences that you wouldn't call a buy the books, pre prepared hangout, and next thing you know, all the paper towels are gone from the dispenser and you're both calling the maintenance guy asking for assistance. I want to know, I don't expect you guys to understand how fun works, but you just leave that to me.
I'm just saying I think that counts. And that's why we've got in touch with one of our listeners who said that she had an insta date recently. Her name is Amanda. So are you the clingy one in the relationship like Jeffrey is Amanda? Well, I guess we'll see right, all right, Well, you and I are on the same page, Amanda. But for my clued out co host over here, why don't you tell us what happened? Yeah, so I met this guy Zach a couple of weeks ago. My friend Claire.
Her job is super cool and trendy and they usually have like a happy hour, like a work happy hour. Oh. Like her company is one of those that, yeah much moods you want, and they constantly drink together. Yeah, it's pretty awesome. Her friends are much cloer than me. But that's why I went. Okay, And like I said, I met this guy Zach and he was extremely good booking. Oh and I don't usually go up to guys, but I mean, it just was the atmosphere we went to,
like this traditional cowboy bar. Traditional that's funny, A dive bar. Whoa probably one was like line dancing and country music and stuff. Yeah, Like the bar stools were a horse saddle and there was a merry ground. Yeah, yeah, there was there right now. So you said that you were the one who actually went and approached him, Like, what did you what did you do? How did that interaction happen? Well, here's the thing. I went next to him, so I wouldn't say that. I you know, I kind of gave
myself a little more credit. But you were too aggressive with its exactly. But it's a good move, right, Like somebody stand in the bar, you go stand directly next to them, I imagine bumping into him by accident, over and over. Well that worked because we ended up talking. And here's the thing. I didn't know that a lot of people like to ride horses really until social media.
You know, like I thought it was more of a thing than like justly and I thought it was more just much if you do it, oh, because she does like probably you know, she's like yeah, yeah, she's not a Western style. Yeah, so you're into horses and you didn't expect him to be also, Yeah, And so we got we started talking and I brought up a story of when I was younger, and it was going so well that he ended up fitting some of his drink
out because I made him laugh so hard. Oh okay, yeah, it was just about I brought up a story when I was younger, my favorite horse. He was like slower, he was older, and he was kind of chubby. But they called him a waffle face. Waffle face, they called him that was the name of the horse. That was the name of the horse. Yeah, and that's what made him laugh so hard. Yeah. Yeah, had to been there, Yeah,
I think so. So you guys bonded over horses. That's cool, yes, yeah, And unfortunately he said he had to go, so it was like twenty thirty minutes of us talking. But right before he left, there was this Britney Spears song that came on at the country bar, Just a Louisiana girl. You remember this song, hit Me Baby when We're going. Yeah, never started doing the dance and he started. He followed me.
He was doing the same dance as I was doing it. Okay, that's an obvious sign of attraction when a guy is mirroring you. Yeah, that's a sign that he's actually into about it. Did you check in with your friend Claire because Claire works with him, right, Like that's how you guys all met. Yeah. So here's the thing. Right before we left, I was brave enough to ask him for his number. Okay, I was like, it's not every day that someone dances like mirrors you dancing? All right? Oh yes,
I did. Well, let's help because I this is where you guys come in. I texted him a couple of days after and he said he was busy but that he wished that he could hang out. So I waited a couple of days after that, and he never texted me back after I texted him not again. Yeah, and so you brought up Claire and I asked her and she doesn't know. So it was a friend of a friend so him. Yeah, I see, So it's not someone that works with her that she could. Okay, well we
have some information to work with here. We're going to play a song come back and call your horse loving cowboy Zach. I request that we don't play the Britney Spears song. Oh I would love to hear it. Are you joking me? I just want to see what this horse loving guy has to say when we ask for a second date. Is it going to be a yay or a name? Okay, we'll do a second eight update next second saddles for seats, boots for drinks, and a mechanical bull that's been out of order for the last decade.
Sounds like every single country dive bar within a ten thousand mile radius. I just described there. But that's where one of our listeners went recently. Her name is Amanda, and she met a very well put together, good looking man named Zach while she was there. The two of them vibed over horseback riding stories and even danced to an old Brittany Spears song Country. Like I said earlier, this was an instant date. It wasn't something that they had planned to meet up beforehand. They just ran into
each other. So we don't know if Zach is technically even single or what's going on that's you have, But he texted her back that he was excited to see her. I could see you, see I wish I could see. It means I can't see you because I have a girlfriend. Why wouldn't you just say that because dudes still like to be hit on him. And we're gonna see what you meant by that. And Brooke, you've been skeptical and bitter throughout most of this so far. So what are
your thoughts before we reach out to Zach? I mean, I just don't want you to be too invested, Amanda. Yeah, that's hopeful. Well, I don't you know. It's like what my mom taught me. You know, you you plan for the worst, hope for the best, right, that's a good, lesson mom, fun household to grow up? Amanda, how are you feeling? You feel a little optimistic? I I definitely am.
But like you guys said, that has been something that Claire and I've been discussing, and I mean it wouldn't put it past him because he seems I mean, he's such a catch, right, like right, Well, let's get some answers from horse Love and Cowboy Jack. Zach. Oh you should be Jack though. It's a much better alright, Zach. Here we go by, remember that, Zach, Zach. Here we go Dollar's number right now? Look? Hey is it Zach? Uh? Yeah? Hey wait, Jeff what how do you want that? It's Jeffrey?
This is Jeff Righting? Yeah, oh my god, what's up? Where are you? Where are you calling me? I'm calling from a radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Yeah, I know what you do. We talked about it one night. What wait, Jeffrey, Now you're starting to freak me out? Are you joking? You don't know this guy? We know each other? Yeah, you know Zach from this far. We met like a month ago. Are you just every weekend? You don't remember? Yeah? Hey, Jeff, why Hey? Why are
all these people on the line, what's up? Well? No, yeah, at work, and we're we're doing something right now. You know, that's how the show works. Okay, okay, so you're just doing your show. Yeah, that's so awkward. That's that's cool, man, that's really cool. We should we should hang again. You know, I'm always last time. Yeah, why are you so, Jeffrey, I don't know any Zach, Za, Zach. We need to talk to you about something else. H We do a segment called a second date update. Oh my god, you're
so uncomfortable. And there's book stop. There's a girl named Amanda who reached out to us. She said that she met you at a happy hour the other night. Uh okay, hi, Zach. Oh yeah, so that's her. This is like a this is more of a business call, Zach. Pleasure call normally do it? You have one flustered host over there, Amanda. I think Amanda wanted our help to find out from you if you would be interested in seeing her. But literally, okay to day you're so you're saying, Amanda called you
to call me. Yeah, that's how this works. It's called a second date update. So this is just this is just like a random thing. That's the only reason you're calling. Yes, it's just for our listener, Amanda, and not for anything else. I don't know. This is kind of new for me, but I felt like we had just great energy. I feel like we clicked. Remember, Zach, you guys talked about horses at the country at the Country bar. And remember waffle Face her favorite fat horse when she was little.
Uh yeah, yeah, I was having a normal conversation, didn't we have a Yeah, we got a long great Amanda. But uh yeah, I mean, and what's wrong? Are you not attracted to Amanda? And I know she's she's very beautiful. Oh thank you. I'm really attracted to you. Oh wow, she's just coming out and saying it. I like, I don't know, that's what I said. Uh, I know you're shy, Zach. I just figured maybe I could take the reins here and jump fine on and see if a cowboy reference
is Zach, how does that sound? I'm not shy. Um, we have comment you are fighting horses, and so do I. We were dancing at Britney Spears. Yeah. Yeah, you know. It's like I love his responses. You seem really you seem really cool. And it's it's kind of like, you know, if huh, you know, if I was if I really wanted, if I would have reached out right, I would have found you know, like, Okay, Manna, you seem great. Uh, you're you're not You're not quite my type. Okay, that's
very clear. At least it's blunt to the point. Yeah, Zach, are you disappointed in this phone call? Oh? Um, greatly? Actually uh yeah, yeah, I did not see this coming. This is all making sense now though it doesn't make you know, with just like interest in horses and the Britney Spears dancing and Zack you told me that like I can change my hair if I'm not like this color is not okay for you? Like the fashion tips that's yeah, okay, So Zach, this isn't for you? Um
in so many ways? Yeah, okay, Zach. Is it just because you're not in the right spot or that maybe? Yeah, let's go with that one. And I say that I don't know what to say. Just do you got to finish it, man, you got to ask a second date to do my job over here. So what we do on this segment, Zach, is we offer to send you and our listener out on another date. So that would be you and Amanda going out and we would pay for it. Yes, Zach, come on, it'll be a blast.
I'll change what I wear like I don't. I just feel like our energies. You're good to give up or to ignore, so please give me a second chance, Zach offers on the table. I think you need to be more blunt. Amanda, girl, we no, don't change your hair. Don't choose your hair for some guy. This isn't grease, I like, I love all Right, Well, we should probably stop talking. You should hang out with Zach Moore. I don't think so. I just I'm sorry, what yeah, yeah, yeff?
Well huh, I will be expecting a phone call from here, don't okay, I'm ending this now. I love it. That's your second date, A definitely no dame out of here, rookie Jeffrey in the morning. Well, we take that second date a few weeks ago, and it's given me a little bit more time to process and reflect on what happened. Do you remember, Uh, Well, in the moment, I didn't know what was going on. Really taken back, But now I can officially go on the record saying shrug emoji.
That's very recordable. Yeah, you can quote me on that. Yeah, I don't know if I actually did meet that guy before, but even if let's say I had, clearly he wasn't that memorable. So yeah, cu the sad Mario sound effect, sorry effect. So that was one of the more awkward second dates we've ever done for Yeah, I loved it. Yeah, I really enjoyed it. Like you're sitting in that uncomfortable scene over there, Yeah, your face turned so red. Yeah, like trying to get your job done, but you're also like,
what is going on? I hope that's the last time that that ever happened. I don't know, it's probably gonna happen again. Yeah, I hope it does. Anyway, if you ever need a second date, you can always email the show. We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back. May just need to get hold of Jeffrey No, no, no, broken Jeffrey in the morning.
