Second day. We've been hearing about all the different apps that are out there now so that you can meet new people. And there's the traditional ones like Tinder and Bumble we all know about. I actually heard the other day about a couple who met on next door. Really, they were both complaining about some other neighbors loud music, and so they met up. They had some wine together, and next thing you know, they're married, making their own
loud noises. I know. I've even tried some untraditional dating sites. I signed up for gas stationmatch dot com. Is that why you were hanging outside? What was it? A seven eleven for a bit? It was a shell stations sorry, a shell station of love. But I've never heard of the one where Janine met her dude recently, and now she's reached out to us for help. So Janine, welcome to the show. Hi, thank you for having me. Oh I'm so curious. Jeffer's got me intrigued. Is it really
that bizarre? It's definitely off the beaten path. Yeah, what is it? It's a dating site called cavvy. It's where cat owners meet. Okay, that's cool. So you're a cat owner. Yeah, I have a calico cat named Molly. Okay, so you kind of a smart place for men to go. Honestly, they're people. Yeah, I love cats, so maybe I should get on this thing. I know you were just on a cat Facebook group the other day that you were showing me several back off even though you don't own
a cat, so cute. Which one of the guys that's on the app did you match with? Who's he? So? I mass with this guy named Seth? And so we started talking. Is there a lot of like cat puns and stuff when you start talking to somebody on a cat dating app? Or does the cat get your tongue? Yeah? You know we're kind of nerdy. Yeah, I like it. I mean it's cute. That's where you're supposed to nerd oup this, Yeah, this is where the ball of yarn emoji gets used the most insa. Okay, so how was
your connection with Seth? We had fun banter cool. Oh yeah, I was interested and we made a date to meet up at a bar. Okay, And what was the initial moment? Like I'm always so interested in that, Like you've never seen someone face to face and then you're there? Yeah, I mean I thought he was really cute I thought we hit it off right away, speaking of nerdy cat things.
When I first semented, my thought, it would be kind of funny if I like licked the back of my hand and then, you know, like hatted his hair down like a cat. Did Did you really like or did you just pretend like because I do that, you know, pretend like that? Um? I think that likes to my hand. Yeah, lover. What was his response? Did he start purring? No, he's just kind of laugh Okay, he was into it. This is only something you could do this app and do
this move. It's like whoa, whoa, whoa. He's like, come up with something original. The last three ladies I met here did the same thing. Well, it sounds like he has at least the same sense of humor as you do at this point. And how did the actual date go once he sat down? I thought it went really well. We actually also had yoga in common. I'm a super into like health and wellness, and we were talking about
that well, which is also a good side. It's like an opening he's saying, I'm interested in something you're really into, meaning I want you to show me more about it. I agree. Every guy wants to see a girl do her yoga. Y So how did the date end? Well, we were having a great time and then I had to go home and I had to feed my cat, and he didn't seem a creep, so I thought it would be okay if I invited him back to my claim to meet your cat on Is that a big
step for cat owners? Wait? What did your cat think? Well? That was the thing. I was really nervous because my cat doesn't get along with everybody. She can be a little aggressive sometimes, but she loved him. He was like going right up to him and letting him pet her. You have to take that as a pretty good sign or like mellow molly all of a sudden, And yeah, he stayed for a little bit and we were just talking. He didn't send the night or anything. But I thought
we had a really great date overall. It was there any like intimate time or make out. Such a fool around is what she's trying to say. Um, no, your must are just talking. Okay, that's nice and respectful. Books really disappointed she was. Yeah, just just don't fully understand it. But you're kind of a psychopathic. Maybe that's why I'm more of a dog person. Looking back on the whole night, Janine, is there anything that stuck out to you? Is maybe the red flag or the reason that he wouldn't be
reaching out. I don't know. I'm like, maybe he thought I was actually very weird when I did that little cat move in the beginning, or maybe he didn't like my cat. I don't know. But it's been like nine or ten days and I haven't heard from him. Oh yeah, do you think that he I mean, honestly, do you think he just has too many options on the cat dating site? Huh? I've never thought about it like that. Yeah, but I thought that we had a really nice connection
and I thought he was really genuine. So I'm just kind of surprised it doesn't sound like it was a catastrophe one. All right. I was really hoping we wouldn't have to end on that. But we're out of time, so that joke is gonna have to be what you go with. And as we play a song, we're gonna come back call seth try and get your second date
up date. Okay, thank you. I mean I thought the drugmer medium belong on this app All right, hold on, let's start part two with a little doja cat for our listener Jeanine, who is a cat lover herself, love cat brilliant and there's a guy that she's hoping will kiss her more. That's her Seth. Do you want Do you want more of this? Because there's a lot, there's a lot of this. Well. They met on a dating app design for people who love kiddies. Yeah, I went
out to a bar later. She actually introduced Seth to her for a baby, which went really well. Her favorite of baby being her cat, which went really well. Child. I wasn't taking child, he say. But it's been Yeah. Sorry, it's been nine days and we're all left here wondering if love is still a possibility. Are you wondering about it? Write me out? We just lost half of artless audience in the first How you feeling, Janine? I'm feeling a little nervous because I don't know what he's gonna say.
But I really just want to talk to him because I think communication is the f Yeah, for sure, Sometimes when you do tex it's different than actually speaking. And I know I said that maybe he's just overwhelmed with how many options he has on this cat dating site because he's like a hot dude on it. But you know, sometimes you just need a little extra push to make a decision to go out with you instead of all those other cat lovers. Yeah, okay, yeah, so let's go
on and push him. Here we go, and we'll see what Seth has to say. Let's do it. Hello. Hey is this seth Um? This is Seth. Hey. My name is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, Hi, Seth. The whole crew is here. Good morning, the crew of the radio. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, we're a crew. Yeah, crew, Okay, we just want to put We just want to talk to you about some stuff. What. Sorry, I know this must be kind of confusing, but we're doing something that we do on our show called a
second date update. How did you get my number? Good question? Well, we got it from one of our listeners who got it from you, and that listener is Janine. Okay, yeah, you went on a date with Janine a little over a week ago. It sounds like we went on a date. Why. What is the why? Well, the way that this works is Janine has reached out to us because she hasn't heard from you in quite a while, and she doesn't really understand why we're hoping maybe we can help get
her some answers. I mean that's a little that's a little personal. Okay, well never mind it. Sorry for bothering me, Thank you for your good man. Can we just start with a simple question like did you like her? Um? Yeah, it's definitely super cute for sure, really really sweet person like, oh this sounds awesome? Oh yeah, So what's holding you back from wanting to see her again? I just think sometimes like nice girls like Janine is just like not really for me in a way. What do you mean?
I can kind of feel your you met her on a cat daity map. What did you expect, like you find a bunch of bad girls there? I mean, well, you know, we talked a lot, we had a really nice time, but it was just like I kind of thought like maybe we were going to hook up, but it just I don't know it just so you felt the same way that you did. She was like why didn't they hook up? So I did say, like, you guys,
didn't you know make out or kis at all? But it's a first date and everybody has different boundaries and that's like understandable. But that doesn't mean that, like, so it just feels like you were just wanting her to hook up that night and then you wouldn't have called her back anyway. No, she did. I wouldn't say that. It's more like I just think, like, I don't know,
I just think like she's a really nice person. You keep saying that, Yeah, so what do we tell her if she if she would have, if she would have made out with you, then you would have called her back. But since she didn't, she's too innocent for you. It's not like, um, a little like naive about certain things. And I don't I don't, I don't know. That's all I want to say. It's obviously I hear you. I know you. You might think that she's really sweet and
naive and innocent. She's cunning, isn't she has? Yeah, she has a little bit of cunning to her because she's actually been on the other line quietly listening this entire time. Seth, Wait, I wants talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah, Janine? Are you there? Him? I'm a little wait, Janine, this is really you? Yeah? Hi, it's Janine. Um, I do really know what to do, and I really liked you and I just wanted to go on another date with you, so I kind of did this silly thing. What are
you feeling right now, Janie? Are you mad or where are you at? Um? I guess I just thought that we had a connection, So I don't know, like if you needed something more for me, I wish you had just said something to me. It's a good point, like did you even make a move? No, you're like, I'm just not like a pure hearted good person as much as like what probably Jane because she's waved just like better than me in that respect with a cat, Like why do you want a cat? Danty nap? Then? Yeah,
Like are you some drug dealer or something? What are you doing on the side? No, I'm not a drug dealer. No, I don't know what you're saying because I had a different impression of you. But also like are you meeting other people on this app? Because I don't know if you're going to find a better connection what we had. It's true like I introduced you to my cat and she really liked you, and that never happens, Like it
literally never happened. She hasn't like anybody, and so I mean that's one of the big reasons that I'm reaching out to. It kind of felt like fate and the cat, like you got I know, I know, I knew the cat was gonna like me. That's not really like the why why do you say that? Yeah, yeah, I'll put it to you this way. I was reading this like, um, it's like a men's blog just to so dating advice
kind of like tips and stuff. Um, if you're looking for certain dating apps with like a certain ratio of like girls to guys, you got to look in like certain corners. So like the cat app kind of fit pretty perfectly because like there's not there's way fewer guys on there than there are into cats. I don't actually have a cat the way, how did how did you know the cat was gonna like you? Then? If you don't even have a cat, well, I um, I use a cheat CODEE I put a little cat nip in
my pocket. Oh you are a drug dealers, I guess in a way, yeah, I do. I do keep something on me. I guess did you have any idea? No? And I also I don't understand. You posted a bunch of pictures of your cat and then we literally talked about your cat for half of the conversation and I I mean, I like cats, but that's my sister's cat. Oh so you we're just looking to get laid. He's got it all down to a science. Though. This is like a weird cat fishing situation. Somehow cat actual cats,
azing cat. We all got it it kind that was kind of good. Can I just I'm generally uncomfortable with this whole setup, but that was a decent Joe. Did he do it? Okay? Oh? Man? I mean I'm actually really upset because I really liked you, and so it sounds like number one, you're a path to watchful liar, and two that you're just going around and you're toying with people's emotions. Like so, I knew he would get upset. You did say he owned up to this. He tried
to get out, and you reeled them in. And I'll give you props that you didn't follow through with it. It's all you hooked up with her, took advantage that night. Yeah, if she was willing, she's too sweet. He can't do it to her. Oh he would. I don't know. I mean from everything that we've heard, the connection that you two had was real. The only thing that he lied about was owning a cat which just turns out to be his sisters, and having the cat nip in his pockets.
Other than that, it was genuine. Yeah, but he but he came in like Janine took it as they had a good connect and that there was going to be a further relationship, like she wanted to develop something. He just wanted a one night stand. But he didn't even do that. But he would have, but he didn't. I mean, you're all, you're all right. I did like her. We didn't hook up because I would have felt bad. I know that that's not what she's looking for. So I figured it'd be easier if we just like had a
really nice night and then never talked again after that. Well, but I mean, I just don't understand if if you like her, you respect her, you think she's beautiful, you get along with her cat, then why not at least see her one more time the cat nap she knows the truth, Nay, see if there's actually a real connection there. I mean, Janine, are you even open to that anymore? I no, No, Like I said, I went on that app looking for quality people, and this is just not
I guess I can't really ask. Then if you guys would want to go out on a second date and we would pay for it, go to Petco SECN. I just ask you. Are you still on the app? Um? Yeah, he's like, no, I moved over to the iguana app. Those girls are free, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.