Second date up to date, I'm gonna say there's a ninety nine percent chance that Jose knows the woman on the phone with us for a second date of Hey, I love you. It's going to be some listener that you had a one night thing and she's mad. When I say he knows her, I mean she's a model on Instagram. Oh yeah, sorry, I shouldn't just say Instagram model, because apparently she does work in magazines and other publications
all over the world. Her name's Lisa, and she emailed the show saying she just had the wildest first date of her life and she needs help getting back in touch with the guy. So, Lisa, we'll get to your wild date in just a second. But first things first, why haven't you responded to any of Jose's dms? I'm sorry, Jose, I have a lot of dms all the time to talk to me right now, right you just called this is this is your response to him? Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe I'll try talking to you. And I have one
that hurts. She's playing hard to get with you. I would say, keep trying. How are you a hot model and you need our help in the dating world. I thought it just comes easy to you people. I mean it comes easy, but I'm prone to making mistakes. Okay, oh even better, you're a clumsy model. I mean, this is what romantic comedies live for, and this could be a confidence boost to everybody on this show. So go ahead and tell us about the guy that you want
us to call today and where you met him. Yeah, well, this is a pretty crazy story. It actually all happened a few weeks ago when I was in Copo Saint Lucas for like this modeling gig that I had going on. You were good at Spanish two, aren't you. Lucas apparently went to Cabo. When you're a model, you don't need to know where you're taking photos. You just need to take off your clothes and then get in front of that camera. So you're in Mexico for a shoot, is
what you're saying exactly. I'm and I had such a beautiful place to stay and I was just getting settled in my room when I walked onto my patio and I saw this be yond handsome guy. Oh yes, so you're standing out there pretending to look at the view when really you're spying on him, trying to figure out if there's a woman in the room with him. I mean, I was just in awe of the way he looked like. I take good care of myself, but this guy just had such natural beauty to him. You popped the balcony.
How did you start the interaction between you and this guy? What is his name? By the way, His name is Ryan. Okay, So how did you and Ryan start interacting? I definitely wanted to introduce myself, and I did right away. He started talking. I even invited him into my room just to chat. We didn't do anything at that point, but we were just chatting. So this guy's single, on top of being hot, and right next to you. Yes, oh my wow, what's going on? What kin? At some point?
But you got all the good jeans the guy next to you. So you and Ryan are in your hotel room together, and what happens. Well, we set all these different activities for us to do together. I mean, I was working a lot, but every time I wasn't working, I made sure that I was spending time with him. I just said, it's so crazy. So you guys are just like you start talking, you connect, You're both there by yourselves essentially, and you're what taking some dune buggies
out in the Mexican forest idea. Oh it was awesome, but I, like I said, I'm prone to mistakes, and by the end, things just went downhill. Unfortunately. I feel like your downhill isn't downhill. Yeah, exactly, you know what happened? You get a pimple? No, No, it was actually totally my fault. Um, I kinda hooked up with my photographer. Oh yeah, that tends to happen. Yeah, how did you
find out? Well, I'm an honest person, So I just went up to him and I told Ryan and that that's what happened, and I apologize and I hope that we could have moved past it. But unfortunately, no, like he felt the same way that I felt about him, and he was really crushed. And you stopped talking about yeah, well you were dating. Well yeah, right, you weren't dating.
You were in a relationship, and you didn't owe it to him to tell him, like I slept with my photographer, Like you guys had no commitment at that point, and yeah, what happened with the photographer? Like how did that happen? Is it a male photographer? Is it a female photographer? Free are you just trying to live out whatever. I just want to know the circumstances. Yeah, it's a male photographer.
I've known him for a few years. I'd worked with him on other shoots with sum just been really close and we have fun together and I didn't really think much of it when it happened. But so is that something that happens a lot. You hook up with a lot of the photographers just casually because your friends, like in the modeling yeld. Yeah, and working is really stressful, Like the day you're very long, and even though everything looks still glamorous and you see the end product, it's
a lot harder than it looks. How come none of us hook up after long, hard days? Afore, I'm just gonna say I've always stressed out at the end of radio and well I have slept with many people. It pans out, all right, So sorry, So let's bring it back to you and Ryan. You told Ryan about the photographer and he was upset. How did you guys leave things on a like really bad note. He stopped talking to me, he went his own way, He completely ignored me,
and I had to leave pretty quickly after that. So once I got home, I just kept thinking about Ryan, and I knew that he's the type of guy that I wanted to be with, and I could potentially even see myself marrying him one day, and I felt like I ruined the whole situation. So do you guys live anywhere close to each other? Well, SMI close, but not exactly in the same city. Okay, so there is a chance for you to see each other, I guess, is my question. Yeah, if he'll let me or until my
next shooting the ghost. He must be beautiful if he's got a model begging to see him again, and he's just like, all right, Lisa, we're gonna try and help you out with this. We're gonna play a song. We're gonna come back. While that's happening. Jose and I are going to go out into the hallway and we're gonna look up your photos on Instagram, just because we're very thorough in our work here. We want to know the
people that we're working with. When we come back, we'll make your second date update phone called the Ryan doesn't work out, you know, I'm still I'm glad she found two men she can trust. That's right, you can trust us. We're gonna do it right after this. Hold on. Okay, second update if you're just joining us for the second date update, we're on the phone with Lisa, whose two favorite things to do in life are modeling and exotic locations around the world and listening to our morning show.
Want a combination, that's right? Yes, at least I gotta tell you. We've been getting text to our message board already calling you a cheater. But I feel like I need to clarify here because it's not like you were in a relationship with this guy Ryan, who you met while you were in Mexico. You just went out on some exotic dates with him there, hooked up with your photographer once in between, and then Ryan got upset about that. Man. You were right, being a model is busy. Oh that's
very hard to fit at all in the schedule. I don't know how you do it. Yeah, somebody options, But you said you and Ryan didn't leave things on the best note, and ever since you've gotten back, you have not been able to get a hold of him. Right. Yeah, it's been really difficult for me because I'm just thinking about everything that I could have done better in that situation.
So I really want to get him back. Well, you could also think about what he could have done better, right, Like you were super honest, which is a good sign from somebody because you didn't have to tell him. I mean you didn't. I'm just saying like he could have acted like an adult too, Like they're not in a relationship. It's like that's what that's what dating is, figuring out how it's the guy's fault all the time. I think there's hope. That's all I'm saying there is. Don't just
don't take all the blame. Okay, as long as you haven't hooked up with a photographer again after Mexico that happened. This guy's don't even talking to her. I'm don't saying. It's not going to help her case if she continues to look up with the photographer anything. Don't answer this question, thank you, thank you. I haven't hooked up with him, so don't worry about that. I'm just really really hoping this will work out. Okay, but it'd be fine if
you did. Alright, now, I think we're ready. We're gonna dial Ryan's phone number and try and get your second date up date. Are you ready, Lisa, I'm ready Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Ryan? This is him? Yes? M okay, it does sound hot. I apologize. That's that's my female co host. Her name's Brooke. Hi. Ryan, You're on a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning right now. No, I'm just just so you know, Ryan, she is married. Oh yeah, I don't want you at all,
don't care. I've just never been around so many beautiful people all at one time. What are you talking about? That was unnecessary? Okay, Ryan, I'm sorry. Are you still there? Yeah, I'm here. So we're doing something on our show called a second date update. Have you ever heard of anything like that before? No? I don't think so. Yeah. You know what, honestly, most hot people haven't heard of it.
So this checks out. And the reason the reason that we we're calling you hot a lot, Ryan, is because one of our listeners, Lisa, told us that you were No, she said you were beautiful. I mean, if we were going to say, we're gonna be specific, she said you're a beautiful man. Can you confirm? Um? I can just say I appreciate the compliment. Okay, Oh that's what beautiful people say. Oh God, here we go. Hear that? Laugh r. Yeah.
So obviously you remember Lisa from Mexico, right, She was a model and you guys stayed in the same hotel. It sounds like you guys went on a lot of adventures together and afterwards you're not responding to any of her texts or her phone calls, and she's wondering why. I honestly don't know how much I can tell you, guys, to be honest with you, I mean, if it has to do with Lisa, she's a pretty open book and
she listens to our show all the time. I mean she knows that when you participate in a second date update, there could be information that is shared that maybe isn't the most flattering. Did she tell you what she did? Yeah? Yeah, she told us who she did. Yeah. Are you taking about the photographer hook up? Yeah? Yes, yeah, But you guys weren't in you know, you weren't dating. Like, we can understand both sides. You can see her side too,
she's in Cabo. I understand what you're saying. But it was it was a very intense moment, and it was we were falling for each other. Yeah, okay, it felt like you guys had a relationship even though you had just met correct okay connection. Yeah, it's almost like you've known her forever when people say that all the time. So you're saying that you feel betrayed by her, you
don't trust her. Yeah. I'm in a very pivotal point in my life right now, and I can't have somebody that's not one hundred percent with me on my side. I might be rash, but I need to have the right kind of people around me. That bro't thing to say. Actually, is that an invitation because I'm so down. I'm on this side. Wherever you want to go, you want to go to Combo Tokyo, wherever. I appreciate that. Yeah, so, Ryan, you just can't look past the hole she slept with
her photographer thing. There's no way for you to work past that. That is a piece of the puzzle. Yes, is there more to the puzzle? Um? In vague terms, I can tell you that I recently sold my company. I'm involved in tech, and I was paid very handsomely to hand over the rights of my company. And it felt like I was pulling on the universal cord and I was supposed to be there at that moment and at that time and when we met each other, that what I was feeling, And then when she told me
she slept with a photographer that she had known. It just I need to be guarded with myself, and especially with the kind of money that we're talking about. I don't want to be around people that I can't trust. Dude, he's got at least a thousand bucks. Yeah, okay, handsome and rich. A lot of people hook up with whoever until you say not to. It's not just me. Yeah, Like what he's saying is he's got to protect everything around him. He has to trust everyone buying you. Honestly,
I could argue both sides. I could argue why you should be together and why you shouldn't be together. I think you're going your own thing. Brou Are you saying that there is no chance that you could ever change your mind even if she was to tell you directly that she's one hundred percent in with you. Yeah, it's one of those things that it's always going to come up in my head. I have to be honest with that, and I'll never fully trust her and I can't hold
her hostage to me not trusting her in a relationship. Well, Maybe this will, Ryan, Maybe this will make you trust her more, because I need to tell you she's been secretly listening on the other line and she wants to talk to you. No, that doesn't help, It doesn't Lisa. Come on, Hi, Ryan, Um, you know I've been thinking about you a lot, and I felt really bad about what I did to you. But that was just a mistake, Okay. I was just in the heat of the moment. I'm
not always like that. I have so much more to me than that, and we have such a good time together. I don't know why you have to throw that all away. I don't believe it was me that threw it away. I think it was your decision making wow at the time, and you decided, Hey, I could be happy with somebody and potentially grow a genuine relationship with them, or I could sleep around. You chose to sleep around. You can't forgive me the one thing you found Like you've been
like hurt by someone else before. You have mommy issues. I don't know. It is like, Ryan, you're putting a lot of pressure on this, Like, I mean, it wasn't I know, you guys had this crazy connection, but it wasn't a relationship yet, I mean, how many days did you guys hang out together? It was four days old. I mean I mean four days spending every hour together. Possibly that's like not every hour. There's the stuff that's right.
There was there was the two hours with the photographer, But I mean that's a that's a lot of time spent building a connection with someone, putting your trust into somebody. I could see what he's saying. But sometimes maybe she's scared. Maybe she's like, whoa, this is so much, so fast, and in her mind, maybe it was too much and she just wanted to ruin it. People are scared of that type of intense commitment, and maybe she just needed a minute to breathe before she was ready to move
on with you, Ryan, very very heavily. Yeah, Ryan, you should really put yourself in someone else's shoes. For one, everything was moving very fast with you. So don't expect you're going to get some big commitment from me, like right now, I want us to take the time to grow with each other. But just give me a chance. What do you say, Ryan, You're not going to find anybody better. Just pretend that last one. But Ryan, she's owning up to it. She's trying to be honest with you.
She does need to work on her apologizing. I agree, Yeah, you're not willing to give her one more shot to prove to you that she's the type of woman that you deserve. My relationships need to be sound, So that being said, I can't agree to seeing you any further. So work out for a beautiful person a company, and you're too good for models. I'm sorry, Lisa. I guess we're not going to get a second date for you here. I have a feel and you'll bounce back. Yeah, yeah,
I hope. So I'm so disappointing, but whatever, Like, I'll get better. It's not a big deal. I mean, hilarious, I have a blue check mark. Yeah, and make sure to call your photographer after this. I'm sure he'll know what to say to you to make you feel better. Okay, okay. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.