The second d D Is it possible to accidentally catfish someone? I mean, I guess people let's say that on our show all the time, where they showed up to the date and oh no, he's even more attractive than his pictures. I wasn't prepared for a Clooney Hemsworth lookalike. Always me. Yeah, I lost a bunch of weight and I'm super buff. Now, yeah, I just forgot to update my profileoto. Yeah. Well, one of our listeners is worried she may have unintentionally catfished
her date. Her name's Morgan, and she's a solid six in her photos online, but in eleven when you see her in person, isn't that right? You're off the scale. I wouldn't go that far, you guys. I'm probably like a ten point five. I don't know anyone that even calls himself attendance. Yeah you funny, humble? Yeah, well, Morgan, we want to help you here. Tell us about the guy that you cat fished by accident. What's his name? His name is Kent? Okay, and you don't honestly think
that Kent isn't calling you back because you're too hot? Right? No? No, I mean that's not it. I just I mean, some stuff happened during the day, but we met online. Look, I was like almost done with these apps because I've been on some really horrible date and like the last day was this guy. He actually asked me if I could donate my kidney to his uncle the first date. He was serious, that is a good family member that will just start dating rands just to find an oregan donor.
I mean, I can understand that question. On a second date, maybe it's a little bit too soon exactly. I was like, can we just wait till we date for months and then maybe you know, maybe so you're about to delete your app is what you're saying, yeah, and then can reach out to me, And he like gave me the cheesiest line, is there an airport nearby? Because my heart is taking off? Oh God? And that made you I'm not deleted like I would think that that would be quicker.
How do you respond to that? Or do you even respond? I wanted to mess with him, so I was like, oh, well, thanks a lot. My dad was a pilot and he actually crushed. Oh oh I got dark? Wait is that true dark humor? I know? But I was like I wanted to mess anything because I thought it was like such a cheesy line. I was like, oh yeah, and he was like, oh my god, I'm so sorry. I was like, no, I'm not kidding, just kidding about my dad's fiery dad. Yeah, I was sorried he didn't delete that.
That's a cute way to start off a conversation. Where did you turn that into a date somehow? Yeah? And so like we were just laughing in and they had me out for drinks. What happened is that I decided to change my hair too, right before going on this day. That's the catfish part right all right. Yeah, it was a pretty dramatic change. He went for the full makeover, yes, kind of. I mean I went from blonde to back to burnett, which is my natural color, and I actually
went short hair. That's a dramatic change. Yeah. So is he able to recognize you? Did you give him a head? Oh? No? So he comes in and he doesn't even see me, and I like I had to wave at him and I was like, hey, I'm here, because the reaction was like whoa, how do you even recognize you? I kind of like, yeah, did he at least like was it a compliment like, Wow, you're so much prettier now. I think it was just really surprised. So no, it didn't
come up as a compliment. Okay, what I don't know if you're so much prettier now as a compliment either, because it means I think we need to work on your compliments. I didn't think. Yeah, yeah, all right, off to a little bit of a rocky start here. Were you able to get things on track? I did. So we sat down and we started talking and things got back on track. And actually we found out the silly hobby that we have in common. We actually love karaokeing
both of us. That is a silly, stupid, dumb Jeffrey loves karaoke like love. It is cute. We both really love to go a lot. And so anyways, we bonded about that and then at some point the other thing that happened, it was a little odd, is that I have a ring on my finger and he actually noticed that. And it's not a wedding ring or anything, but it is an old promised rank from one of my first boyfriends. Hell are you where that? Well? I loved the ring and I wear it on the other finger. It's not
like I'm wearing it as did I'm engaged or anything. Okay, but it's like a diamond. It looks like an engagement ring. It does look a little bit like an engagement ring. Yes, yes, And so I told him and say, hey, I just really love to string it's from old boyfriend has nothing. I mean, I don't even have any contact with this person, and so I should like to really like it. And so he I'm not even sure if he was even
weirded out about that. Well, it's strange that you even brought it up because he may have not even noticed it. I mean, if it's not on that finger, dude, I don't know, right, I know a lot of guys that don't forget to look where it's like, dude, did you marry Like I don't know, it's like, oh I didn't look at her fingers or when you said it was like one of my ex boyfriends. You probably thought it was just a joke, like your dad that had a plane crash would have been funny. Yeah, he died in
a tornado. Act Yeah, so how did you? And can't end the day? You know, it ended up just fine. We had a friendly hug and it seemed like things we're going to continue, like I'm going to reach out to you, and and then it just does not have them in like that at all. So um, I reach out a couple of times, and you know, his answers are kind of short because not the same kind of black and forth that we had before. It is the ring,
like just knowing someone. I think it's not staying blond. Yeah, we'll find out the real answer if we play a song come back called Kent and get your second date up date right after this. Okay, thanks for second. Let's play a little game of spot the red flag. Okay, like, yeah, you two are going to let's try There's a blonde girl who shows up to the first date with a totally different hair color, wearing an ex boyfriend's promise ring, joking about her fake pilot dad crashing his plane. I
can't I can't find the rest. I see all green. You know what's good about red flags? You can cut little red hearts out of them. So I don't know why Kent wouldn't be calling our listener Morgan back after their first stag. I don't know, Brooke, what do you think? I am really at a loss? You know, I think it's really normal to wear old promise rings. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because usually when you're like nineteen or eighteen or whatever, you can afford a big diamond Morgan, I mean, do
you see anything wrong with what happened on your first date? There? You, guys, I don't call those ref facts. I call them having a sensic humor. The promise ring was a joke, funny flags. Okay, well, it really doesn't matter what any of us think. It all comes down to Kent and his opinion of your first date. That's what we're gonna try and get from him. Right now. Okay, let's dial his number and hope that he picks up. Yes, no numbers also read flu Here
we go. What hey is this? Ken? Yeah? Who's this? Who do you think we are? Not a good question? Maybe he might guess right, I'm gonna get somebody. I'm not the keyn I'm talking to. Congratulations? Good at this? Who? Who? Who are you? We are? A morning radio show? Yeah? Oh okay, it's about the standard answer that we get a lot of the times when we do these. But
we're we're doing something called a second day update. We're trying to get some answers for our listener Morgan on why you're not calling her back after going out with her? H Oh oh yeah, that's like good because you know she obviously liked you. Yeah, so we demand answers. Oh yeah, you literally could not be more awkward. It's like, you know, Ken, we can ask nicely, why don't you call him Morgan back after you guys had such a great first date.
She's our friend, she's what did she like call you? Yeah, she reached out to us and told us all about your first hang out together, and she did. Overall, it seemed pretty good, but she did mention there were a few possible awkward moments, like she brought up that she looked a little bit different than her photos online. Well, so different that you didn't even recognize her. Yeah, that was a little shocking. Did that upset you? Yeah? So pretty and and uh most importantly, I think like her
personality was the same. So lovely answer. So if that's the case, then was there something else that happened on the date, Because she says that she's been trying to reach out to you, but you've been kind of avoiding her via text. Well, I don't know if she told you about the whole ring situation. What ring situation? You know? Says this promise ring some her ex boyfriend had given her and they were together for like five years, and I guess it meant a lot to him and her.
And oh you got that much detail? Huh, yeah, did you not. I'll be honest with you, Ken, she didn't mention that she was wearing an ex's ring, but we didn't know the story behind it, that they were together for five years or whatever else happened with it. Oh, well, there there's a little more. Basically, she's, uh, when they broke up, he asked for it back and she said no, I'm sorry. Well, I mean it's just a promise ring. Is that that? Yeah? I mean it's also like a
broken promise. You know. That's what upset you. I don't understand that she's something about that bothers me that I guess he was kind of lousy that he asked for it back, but he did ask for it back and she said no. But then on top of that, and this is like kind of the the I don't want to call it the clincher, but like, but really sticking to my cross that you know, she knows apparently that he follows her on Insta, and so every time she poses for pictures she makes sure the ring is like
visible so he can see it someday. No, I think it's revenge, like it's proving to him, like he still got your ring? Right, well, I mean whatever it is, it's like she's still wearing his ring and still needs something. It's that has to beach the jewelry to her. It has to do with him. Yeah, it feels like it, right, We should find out? Yeah? Yeah, ok, Jeff, I guess we We could call her and ask, but oh wait,
she's already on the line, Jeff. The type of person creepily waits on the other line, listening in on other people's conversations. I guess that's the type of person. Morgan. Hi, oh okay? Uh? Well, um, so she's been listening to all ARUs. I didn't even realize that that's totally on her.
It is, Morgan, What were you doing there? I'm bad girl? Yeah, girl, Well, I think you're putting too much wait on this ring, saying I mean I kept the ring because I liked the ring, and I where I wore that ring for a really long time, and I'm not going to take it off for taking a picture for Instagram's nothing to do with you have any secret feelings for your ex boyfriend. No, I mean he wasn't a nice person to me, especially
when the relationship ended. So yeah, I mean, I want to make sure that he can see for my pictures that I'm still wearing the ring. All right, So she doesn't think about him at all. There you go, just when she posts directly at him online to get back at him for all the horrible things he didn't him in every photo a very healthy, healthy sort of sounds like to me, it sounds like you talked about him a lot on your date. Yeah, I mean he wanted to know why I was wearing the ring and so
I told him the story. But I mean, I don't have feelings for my ax. I mean to me, it sounds like you may not have feelings like you like want to be with him anymore, but you certainly have feelings like you want him to see you live in your life. He's still important to you. And honesty with my exes, like, if there's drama, I'm not trying to post for them, I'm blocking. But what's the point of posting online? If your exes aren't supposed to see it,
like that's the whole reason we do anything online. I mean, I'm not flaunting it, and I'm just not taking it off. I don't know the people who post ring pictures slot. Yeah, so you're saying that you're still not going to take it off. Exactly. I'm gonna wear it because it's my ring. He gave it to me and I want to use it. I'm not wearing on the other finger. No, I'm not engaged to anybody. She'll never take it off. Yeah, that doesn't have to be like another promise that we're thinking.
Maybe the only way she'll take it off is if Kent gives her an even bigger and it all starts with you going on another date with her Kent that will pay for Yeah, I mean it's Ken's up. Fred. I really like you, Ken. I mean no red flags here, Ken, I don't see anything that she's gonna You can even take a picture with her together with the two of you and your brand new ring and post it right at her ex boyfriend. Are you guys finding the ring or just the date? We can barely afford the day, bro,
I mean, look, I thought we had good chemistry. I like you, so I'll try it out. But honestly, I am not about the drama. I'm not about you. You know your relationship with your ex. You're saying yes, but you don't want the drama. I don't know that I've changed her hair. She's going through something. I can't tell it. You guys are talking me into it or out of it. I can't tell either. But I do want to know what happens on date number two. Yeah, you guys are going out to get Yeah, why not? Oh my god,
I guess miracles do happen. Guys. You want to start taking bets on how many dates they last? Brooke, what do you got half a one? I was gonna go with one and a half. You think it's not even the full date? Okay, she's showing up again with a ring, so it's my ring and I'll where where I want. I mean, And if you if your ex boyfriend's listening to this on podcast, somebody missed out. Yeah, he feels that big time broke and Jeffrey in the Morning
