Second Date Update: Breakfast Hater

as long as possible. That huge argument happens and they're like, wow, this is okay, we're gonna agree to disagree on this one. And one of our listeners, Derek, said he got into a weird disagreement with his date. We're going to find out what happened in just a minute. But first, Derek, welcome to the show. Hi, thanks for having I've never done this before, so yeah, yeah you would remember. So

we'll get to what happened with your argument. But first, tell us the name of the girl that you wrote did? What was her names in it? Okay? Where did you meet? Casey? We met on an online dating site. I'll just leave it at that. And I'm not going to tell you what one that's pretty normal, I mean, was there something that stuck out about her. She's really cute and I just got out of her relationship and she ended an engagement just you know, like four months ago. Yeah, we

kind of bonded over that a lot. Get over someone by getting under that. It's an interesting thing to be attracted to person. You just like, you know, you're both on the rebound. You probably have the same ideas of what you want. Okay, it's interesting, Like what what did you like about her? Is that she's just ended an engagement. That's strange. Someone I could talk, say to trade horror stories that you know, significant others and stuff like that.

She just got it. Okay. So you know, we're talking back and forth and we plan to go out and just grab coffee. Okay, right, Okay, So we're walking into the coffee shop and we passed this Brunts restaurant that apparently she absolutely loves. Oh nice, Like she stopped in her tracks and she goes, oh my god, I love brunch. She love everything about it. And I had to tell her like, hey, listen, I'm not much of a breakfast guy at all. Like that's a kiss of death. Man,

Why would you say something like that? I mean, I married my husband, and I didn't find out until five years into the marriage that he hated breakfast It probably not probably we thought the whole thing. Yikes. What did she say? She's like, well, what is it? Is it because it's early in the morning, And I'm like, no, not at all. It's mainly because I just don't like breakfast options. What I married one of you. It's the weirdest thing to me, really strange. So you know, when

I told her that, she almost fell over. And then she goes, Okay, well, I'm gonna list some breakfast foods and I want you to rank them one to ten. How do you think about pancakes? And I'm like, ah, like a two? He goes waffles two. I'm just being honest, Like French toast is like a one. You don't like It's bread and maple syrup and sugar. It's delicious. Ironically, he was the two girls in the room favorite meals and shut up? Is there anything that you ranked Hie

out of any the breakfast foods? Like water? You know I did rank something in eight? Okay, oh yeah, trancheros. Let's go. I gotta be eggs, just eggs. What breakfast food gets the nod. I'm kind of a health nut, so just plain old meal. Oh my god, Okay, are you being serious? Are you just lying because keep up this health facade. No, I'm not trying to make you mad and not trying to make her mad. And she said, you just haven't had good breakfast food. So she made

me go into the front tread. Yeah, you're basically a married couple at this point where it's like, Okay, I guess we'll go to this place again breakfast. I have to know what did you order when you went to brunch a pair? Well, what did I order? Or what did she order for me? Because those are two different things.

What'd she get? Well? It was kind of embarrassing because you know, we're in the restaurant and she tells the server I'm not into breakfast, so do your best, and then she brings like all these like a sampler kind of tray and she just ordered sides everything. That's awful, dude. That's yeah telling me if I go into a restaurant, say I'm not a breakfast person, they're going to bring me a sampler. I don't think that sucks though, that

like she's trying to embarrass you. But being like, hey, everyone, he hates breakfast too, Let's see how much she hates it. Sounds like she was just being fun and funny, like he wouldn't want to call her back if she was out to just humiliate him, right, Like, it sounds like she was making a fun event of it. Okay, well, how did you enjoy your breakfast sampler? So first I said, look, you don't have to order all this. I'm probably not

gonna like it. And then so sh orders everything anyway, and I give it a couple bites and I'm like, I'm sorry, these are just not that good. There's a lot of twos, you know. So I just ordered what I wanted to order, which was two bowls of just plain oatmeal two. Oh. Go up. It totally fills you up. Did you guys enjoy the date? Yes? Aside from the food, how did how was your connection? Everything's actually going pretty great.

We're having a great time. We're talking about families, and she told me that like her mom especially makes a big deal about birthdays and that her birthday's coming up. So that was kind of cool. So I thought, maybe, you know, like a birthday or something we can kind of do. So you like birthdays, I got. Okay, at least you guys have something in common. You could be the guy that's like, oh birthdays. They don't really do it for me, okay, but it's nice to you guys

are able to connect. How did the date end? So we shared a hug and then we were texting a little bit after that, and then you just stopped completely really so, I don't know, maybe to talk to her friends and they said like, hey, he does like breakfast, you know, like cut this guy off or whatever. But no, I don't think that's actually a thing. I know from the reaction that we got in this room. You guys, I'm married a guy who doesn't like breakfast, and you

still hate him for it. It just means more food for me. Jeffrey. Okay, well, let's see what this girl's thinking. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back. We'll call Casey for you and try and get your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, hold on mate. There are millions of people listening all over the country right now who are throwing their blueberry muffins at the radio in anger, pouring hot syrup over their smart devices. In total disgust, and I'm

just saying, guys, slow down. Okay, we don't know that this is the problem yet. I know everybody in studios angry that Derek doesn't like breakfas his food, but we don't know if that's why his date, Casey isn't calling

him back. That's true, we all are like, but it's not official because if you missed the first part of the second date update, we're on the phone with Derek and he mentioned to his date that he doesn't really enjoy eating breakfast food and so she forced him to eat a bunch of them at a restaurant that she really likes. Well, that's what happened. She shouldn't force him. It's not like he had his hands tied and she was like boon feeding. Now, okay, she just publicly shamed

him while he ate stuff. You are so defensive of him. Well, I don't know that's This is exactly what happened. But they ended it on a high note. They had a hug, a few nice conversations after all the breakfast drama. Now, Derek, I know you mentioned a lot of foods that she made you try, but you never mentioned if you put a sausage in your mouth, because that's one of my favorites. Did you ever get some sausage sausage? Patty? Pat? Okay, you're different than the lengths, like a two maybe a

three thing. Have you ever thought like? I don't think that brunch is necessarily a personality type, but I think being a person who only eats plain oatmeal may actually being maybe she just found you kind of bland. Yeah, I can see that. I'll drink a bloody Mary. Oh you did well. Let's let's just call Casey before it. Brook gets so angry she walks out of student. It's really upsetting here. We're gonna dial Casey's number now and we're gonna try and get your your second date update.

You're ready? Okay? Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello. Hi is this Casey? Yeah? Who's calling? Hey Casey? My name is Jeffrey from the show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing? Who is this again? The name is Jeffrey. Where I'm a I'm on a morning radio show? Okay, Hi, okay, Casey, we're all here him barely on a morning radio show. Yeah, if you couldn't tell those are my really mean co hosts. We belittle me all day co host Casey there, I'm still here. Yeah, you see, you don't have to deal

with every day Casey. It's just ridiculous. So I'm calling you. We do a segment on our show called a second Date Update. Have you ever heard of that before? No? Okay, Well, it works like this. If you go out on a date with someone, and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you can email our show and we'll reach out to them for you to help you figure out the reason why. Okay, interesting, yep. And recently you went

out with a guy named Derek. Yes, I did. Okay, So Derek has emailed us because apparently you guys had a nice time and you were texting after your date, but you've ghosted him lately and he isn't really sure why. Yeah, I don't know if that's gonna work out him and I was it. He talked to you guys. Yeah, he told us about your date and he mentioned a lot of it centered around breakfast food, which we were stunned as well. He told us that he didn't like it.

You know, he told you about that. Yeah, isn't that crazy? Yeah? Yeah, it's surprising. There's not a lot of people like that, but there are people that genuinely don't enjoy breakfast food. Yes, like breaks which we talked about. Yeah, I mean, but the thing is is it sounds like you turned it into like a fun date thing where you could see if you could change his mind. Yeah. I really couldn't believe it. So I just thought for fun, we were

walking past my favorite brunch thought. So when I found a few things off the menu that he could sample and he just would rather have a plain oatmeal, he said, yeah, And I mean I kind of thought that was weird. I'm a big breakfast brunch person. My friends and I do that almost every week. We love Sunday brunch. But that's something you have to have in common with your partner, right, Like you have your people already that will brunch with you, right. But I mean, I would like him to be a

part of that. He's going to be a part of my life. And you know, at first, I didn't think it was that big of a deal. But when I did speak to my friends about it afterwards, they were very shocked, and they were kind of upset that I was with a guy that didn't really like breakfast food. Yeah, and then I researched it and it just sounds a little crazy. I'll admit this, but I found a relationship expert. He's had a PhD. He writes. Okay, this is on

the internet, though, let's yeah. Brooks already putting up walls before she even knows what the relationship expert says. She's like, I don't trust him. Sounds like a hoax to me. Well, the one thing that he had mentioned was that. And again, I know this sounds a little bit crazy. I know it's not a major dietary restriction, but he mentioned if someone does have a major dietary restriction, sometimes it just

doesn't work out in a relationship. In a relationship, yeah, but this is different than like being having to be gluten free or something, and you love bread. I don't know. Well, it's actually worse because he just doesn't like it. So, like five years from now, I don't want to be singing across from him and upset at him and wanting to dump that bowl of oatmeal on its head. Yeah. Wow, you liked everything about him except for his taste in food. I just thought it was weird. Maybe it's just like

a red flag. I don't know, and then later on I might find out some more weird things. Yeah. Yeah, it's a gateway to weirdness away. I mean, Casey, do you think would it be considered weird if say Derek was on the other line listening this whole time and wanted to talk to you, would that be weird? Yeah? I think it's gonna be weird. Yeah is he Yeah, he's there. Time to say hi? Yeah, it's time to say hi. Just because we have different food taste, I mean,

that's no grounds for not seeing someone. And you know, I think having different food tastes to make a relationship better, you know, to have a diverse sort of taste profile than the other person. Otherwise that he's really boring. I mean, you know, I'm sitting here drinking mimosas and having all this fun food and my friend enjoying myself and you're

just sitting there eating your plane oatmeal. That look. And if you're talking about like a relationship expert online, I'm sure I can go and dig up some relationship expert that will say the exact opposite. That's true. Online you can find any argument link. I swear I can find a link. That's his potation. And here's the thing, just because you think his oatmeal sucks all right, like he doesn't. He's actually enjoying himself still when he's out to breakfast

with you. Yeah. Yeah, what if I said I won't date you because you don't like oatmeal. It's the same thing. I mean, oatmeal is just one food, but there's so many options you just don't like any of it. Well, maybe you can look at this as an opportunity to change him. No, yeah, that's a good challenge. It's a good women level challenge like that. You know you can. You can slip some breakfast food secretly into his meals so he doesn't know until he eventually starts to like him.

Get out of here, and we're not changing people. We could try it. What about a BLT. I mean that's kind of on the verge of yeah, what are you saying? What do you think, Derek? Are you up for that? I'm up for a lucitive change. I'm not up for being changed by a woman. Yeah that's okay, in case you're gonna have to do it secretly so that he doesn't notice. I don't even know if I want to see him again. Oh my gosh, give him one more chance, go to dinner with him. Maybe you guys who like dinner,

are you serious? This is gonna be really hard. One doesn't like dinner, one doesn't like breakfast. Mabe. We'll send you guys out on a day and you guys can have lunch together. Okay, a snack. Okay, what if you guys, We'll pay for a snack for you too, to share. You guys can both nibble on the ends of a Quaker oats bar so you can meet in the middle. That's for me. I mean, I know, case for your birthday is coming up and you wanted to do something. I mean, you got there. That was really sweet. That

was really nice, Casey. I'm not a monster, he said, I'm not a monster. You are. What do you say, Casey, give another chance. We'll give it another shot. Yeah, all right, I am. I didn't see turning this way. I'm very Yeah, I'm happy. I don't know. I feel like you guys are just saying this to get us off the phone, and then you're never going to talk to each other again. That might be a possibility. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning