Second date of date. What activities count as dates? I mean, there's a lot of things you could do, like a romantic evening out. Yeah, drinks in a movie, that's a good one. Romantic unicycle ride, one on top, one on bottom, you're on bottom of the wheel, if you ever do that? Like where where are you? Are you seat or shoulders? Oh? I see, was just running over the top of the other. I didn't understand. It's like a little pyramid on the unicycle you I sure, yeah, I could see Michault riding
on your shoulders. Anyway, A lot of stuff can classify as a date, but this one, I don't know if it counts really why? And you know, we're pretty lenient here when it comes to what is allowed as a date here, but I'm not really sure about this one. Let's just welcome to the show, Jessica. Jessica, how you doing? Hi? How are you? Would you do Jessica, like your taxes together or something? Well, I still think that would count. We'll get to your date night activity in just a second.
First one, don't you tell us about the guy that we're going to call? Who is he? Where'd you meet him? Oh? Well, his name is Lewis, and um, I met him on Tinder? Okay, did you make the first contact? Yeah? Contact whatever the word? Did you hit him up first? Oh my god, you guys. Did you inquire with him? Did you make his acquaintance? What did you What did you say to get his attention? You know, I just said Hi, how are you? And
all you have to do for us? Oh? Coming on a little strong there with that, don't you think, Jessica. But anyway, so what did you and Lewis end up doing? Well? I mean, this is how it just worked out. I know it sounds kind of weird, but he helped me move on the first date? Help you move? Yeah? Were you just hitting up tinder? Funny one guy with the truck? Oh,
come on a day with me? Yeah? I mean we could figure out a real date to meet or a night to meet because I was just running around trying to figure out where I was going to move Max and the the only real date was the day of my move and he was fine with it. Okay, So so you suggested it like, hey, yeah, you can help me move, wow? And he actually said yes. I mean that tells you that he's definitely a good guy, just right, yeah,
or you know what I think. But honestly, it could be a good like sign if you're a match or not right, like because movie I could either be a fun experience or it can turn into like an argument over you're not doing something right experience. Well, like you know, it shows you if you can work together. Absolutely, So how did it go, Jessica? Well, you know what, he just showed up that day and she had a great attitude, like he was super cool. Okay, And did you have
other friends helping you or was it just you and him? Well? I could have asked other friends, but it would have been weird with a tender date, So was just him and I? Did you at least, like when people help you move, you have to get him like pizza at the end of the night in beer, Like that's just kind of status quo. Did you go to dinner or anything at the end? Yeah, after we moved, Like, I offered to pay him because I felt so bad. You offered to pay him? You said, yeah, and he didn't
accept that. So I did say, they have a pizza and drinks, and so that's what we did. Okay, he Tony. I'm still trying to figure out if there was like a love connection there, Like did you guys bond? Yeah? So we did. Um, we really got to know each other. You know. He told me that he was overseas, like if he played guitar things like I didn't know from the sendew profile. I found out he could lift seventy
pounds and he's really good at lifting. It was late, what was like the low light of the evening outside of just the overall move like he's not calling back, so like, what was there any bad time? Yeah? Well, I have a harp and it's a little bit large. Did you say a harp like the instrument like a fall harp? Wow? Worst things are enormous. You're rich an zero people with heart. Classy people have heart. So it makes sense if we don't know anybody. But he didn't
like the harp. It was too heavy. Yeah, so like, I mean we did have a trouble moving it in and out of the truck. Did it lead to a fight or an argument or anything? No, it just was heavy. Okay, Yeah yeah, I mean it sounds like kind of a stressful date if I'm the guy. But I mean, how did things end? Well? I mean after that, I walked him through the door and I kissed him. Oh oh dude,
I like that. A real forward harpist. She's like, I busted out my piccolo first, and I said, I call him after I got settled a bit, and so that's how we ended it. Did you call him? Yeah, so I did text him after cool days and then texted him again and I didn't hear back. Okay, I mean it seems pretty cut and dry. I probably thought that you were like asking him to do another favor for you. Move somewhere else, right, help a friend move now, offered him money. It does feel like you were just using
him for that. No, I was pretty clear about it, like I said, no, next time, we're gonna have fun. We're just gonna only have fun. Okay, it's only the first date that you gotta earn it like we're unpacking the well, let's find out what's going on. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back and call Lewis and try and get you your second date update. Okay, thank you,
Hold on, Jessica. Today's second date update features the musical stylings of our listener Jessica, who owns a giant harp and her date Lewis knows that because he helped her move it along with everything else in her apartment. Yeah, because that was their date helping her move. I mean, if your first date on tender was helping someone move, would you go out with him again? Jessica's hoping the answer is yes, Yeah, I get better from there? Right? Yes?
I bet Jessica you would even pay for another dinner for him, because moving is expensive and it's pretty cool what Lewis did for you there. Yeah, yeah, I would. But wouldn't you guys do that for a second date? Ye? Words, But Jessica, you are a woman who knows the systems and knows how to work out, don't you? Is that the only reason that you're doing this is just for the free dinner? Hey? Can I get a card? We
are not hating, not a woman who likes a deal. Okay, it's gonna be hard for me to be invested in days. I really like him. It has nothing to do with any free dinner. Okay. Good, it's nice that you say that, even if you don't believe it helps me with this. Right, let's call Lewis. Are you feeling ready? Jessica? Who are Okay? Here? We go, I'm in a Dillar's number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Lewis? Yeah, let's see. Hey Lewis, how you doing. My name is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey
in the Morning. Really yeah, really mean? Oh cool? What's up guys? Hey? Hellois, thanks for listening obviously. Yeah, yeah, I'm a big fan. Okay. I was wondering if it was that or you're just one of, you know, Jeffrey's Craigslist clients. I didn't know which. You can fall into both categories. It's okay, Yeah, that's funny. Who's Jeffrey? Oh okay, okay, a little dagger right there. Yeah, I'm just kidding. I
know it's you treating me like my parents. Dude, I like, we're so we're doing a second date update right now. You obviously know how those work. Oh yeah, okay, all right? And so you went out with somebody who also listens to our show named Jessica. Oh right, Jessica. Yeah, okay, did you consider that a date? Yeah? I guess so. Okay. I mean she said it ended with pizza and a kiss, which I think qualifies as a date. I mean I also kissed my movers when I moved all four of them.
But for me, app wasn't a date, was it? Tongue with tongue? Look, I'm just kidding again. I'm okay, I got you. I mean she told us that, Like, she let you know that it was going to be you helping her move, and you seem to be okay with it. It's not like you were going in blind to this date, right. Oh yeah, Like I didn't want to seem like a jerk, and it seemed like that she needed help, So yeah, I was trying to help out. It was just that
was the first one totally. It was it was nice, like once we got done with everything, we conversed and did like normal date stuff. Obviously she felt the same way as you did, because that's why she's asking us to reach out to you right now. She's confused why after having a really good time, you've been kind of avoiding her. Well, I'm a bit confused. Why are you confused? I mean she said she was the one that kissed you at the end of the night. Yeah, and that
was nice. I just um, let me lay the sp for you guys. As I was leaving, I went downstairs, right and I was looking at the mailboxes there, you know, it's got everybody's name on the mailboxes and stuff. And I looked at her unit and it said mister and missus on it. It was wait from her current place or her new place, because maybe it was like a previous tenant. If it was her new place, well maybe maybe.
And that's thought to run across my line. I'm here, you got it all wrong, Okay, Okay, Jessica, remember you're supposed to wait till I call you in. Oh sorry, I'm sorry. I thought it interrupted at this point. And so, yeah, Lewis, there's Jessica. She's been one to talk to. Hey, um, okay, you obviously knew she was listening. Louis, it sounds like, yeah, I kind of was suspicious for that from the start, I know. Okay, Well, now that you are both on, Jessica,
what's going on with the mister and missus thing on that? Yeah? I mean you got you have it all wrong, Louis, Like, the reality is I'm not married, and I don't know why it's those mister misses, but I'm not married. Okay, okay, So so the mister and missus is from the previous tenant. That's what you're saying. Well, I mean I'm in an open relationship. Yeah, yes, I'm with another guy, but we're
in an open relationship. You're in an open relationship, and the other dude wasn't helping move, like you had to find somebody on Tinder. Yeah, we know he's out of town. So he's out of town most of the time anyway. And yeah, so like those were his golf clubs. Oh, I mean it's our golf clubs. But yeah, you made him move the other Like, why wouldn't you tell him that? Well? Are your golf clubs in an open relationship? Can other people use your golf clubs? I like, Louisa, you still
have a good sense of humor about this. Maybe maybe you're open to it. Maybe it's okay with you. I don't know. Yeah, I'm it's like people who are on Tinder are mostly in open relationships what they are really Yeah, people also disclose that in their profile. Yeah I've seen that, but they they're all honest about it in the bios. Maybe it's just your algorithm. Does your boyfriend know it's an open relationship? Good question? Yeah, I mean I don't think you. I don't think he minds that. I don't
think he mind. I think yeah, And I didn't think Lewis would mind either. Okay, why didn't you talk about it right off the bat? I mean it feels like something you were hiding when you don't tell someone right away, right. I mean, it's hard to talk about like in the first date. You know, I could see that. I could see how like leading with that might turn a lot
of people off. So maybe you hold it back for a date or two before you reveal I'm actually with another person in love with you, and then they can't leave you. Yeah, it's like a little a little fun little love trap. Yeah. I love a great idea with that. I feel like people who are in open relationships should be really, really upfront about it. Yeah. Bottom line is I didn't use him to move. That's why I'm calling to hang out with him again. So okay, don't accuse
you that. Yeah, it's kind of weird that defensive about it. Lewis, I mean, how do you feel about this situation? Are you open to it? I'm kind of I'm kind of torn because I wish you would have just been upfront with me from the beginning, because time is sort of like a, I don't know. It's a commodity that I don't have a lot of, and I feel like you kind of wasted it a little bit. I just wish you would have been more up fun. Right. I appreciate
you Lewis for saying this. But you know, maybe if you meet both of us, you might want to hang out with us. Oh yeah, I didn't even think about that, Lewis. Yeah, her other guy might be pretty cool. You could use like a cool guy friend along with your girlfriend. Right, So this is getting kind of weird for me. Yeah, weird or fun? Well, I mean it's sort of dependent. From my perspective, it's a little weirder, Like, what does this mean for us? We have to play for three
people to go out to eat or just two? Like, where are we at on that? We only have one gift card, so we'll let you guys decide how you want to split it. But we are going to offer to send you guys out on another date. We will pay for that next date if you're up for it, Lewis. I mean, we had a great connection, Lewis, and I would hate for it not to at least explore explore hashtag exploration hashtag harp action dart Lady was going to be this. Oh, maybe that's the sign of an open relationship.
If somebody owns at Lewis, I appreciate what you're saying, Esca, and that's just not what I'm looking for. You're you're a one partner type of Fellah Lewis. Yeah, I'm just not a thruffles kind of guy. You know, it's important to know about yourself, but not in your dating bio. Yeah. And then Jessica, you may want to add into your dating profile what people are you know, what your expectations are. Yeah, just put a little harp in your profile. Everyone will know. Look at Jeffrey in the morning.