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Second Date Update: Accident At First Sight

Sep 24, 202116 min
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One of our listeners told her date something pretty risque and embarrassing after having too many margaritas. She hasn't heard from him since, but is willing to relive that moment and confess what happened if we can help smooth things out!

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The second dat day. I think there's this big misconception that when you meet the one, it's love at first sight, Like there's an instant attraction, a sudden, unspeakable connection there, money's exchanged and then boom, you're in love. Money you know. But sometimes the truth is the best love stories can be the opposite, where they start with disappointment at first sight. Near they don't make the movies, that's for sure. Does think of the notebook. She doesn't like him when they

first meet. In the fact, I think Ryan Gosling tries to hurt himself when they first meet. I don't remember him. I was drunk on a plane when I watched it, so I can't give you the details. Say love comes in all different forms. And that's what happened for one of our listeners, Candice, who met the guy she wants to call today in an unusual way. Candice, how you doing, I'm doing great? Cool. I'm intrigued, Candice. If you say that you met him online, though, I'm gonna be upset. No, no, okay,

before we get into how you met. What's the guy's name? His name is Teddy? Okay, all right, So how did you and Teddy come to be. I met Teddy in a parking garage. That's fear. Actually she was hiding under his car. Stories garage, keep going. What happened in this parking garage? I was coming off of the elevator and that was a guy standing by my car. Look really really upset. Oh my god, I mean, how are you feeling?

I would have been freaking out. I was too, and I didn't know if I should turn around little back, but I kept on going and he said is this your car? And I said yes? So he said, well, you see you parked too close to my car. St Okay, I didn't mean to excuse me. Okay, he couldn't do the passenger side crawl through. So is that when you

kissed him? Okay? I mean it is a good question, like at what point do you find a guy who's angry at you and critiquing your attractive I wasn't even thinking at the time, So I just pulled out of the space where I was parked, and guess what happened? What I get his bumper moving on Alexis is like those are the times I usually just leave, Like, yeah, this morning, did you speed off or did you did you stick around, I suck around, okay, And he said,

are you kidding me? And so embarrassing? True? I mean this sounds very romantic. But at what point does this turn into like a date situation? Or was this it? I gave him my business card with some information from the insurance company. A good girl, okay, And you know we started talking after that on the phone. On the phone, Oh okay, so he called you all right. Yeah, so we were both kind of bending about how we both

had bad days that day. That was a bad day for me and a bad day for him, as he stated, but intentional. Yeah nah, And he's apologizing to me also he did for his anger. That's well that's a good sign too. So did you ask him out or did he ask you out? I asked him out. Yeah. I was just like, like, how did you preposition that? I just was saying, well, be since we both had bad days and I kind of messed up bumping into your car, and I just thought it would be nice, you know,

maybe we can both go out and have dinner. And he said that sounds like a good idea. This is a nice meal together. I gotta try that the next time I get into Okay, so you guys went out to dinner. Then how did that go? Yeah, it went okay itself. I guess I had one too many margarita and I let something out as I was talking about how I was at this same restaurant where we were, and that I had hooked up with a random guy in the club. I mean at the restaurant, like just

like no, no, no, not like that. Okay, I was at the restaurant with my girlfriend and when we left there, we went to a club nearby. But the most shocking part of the story is the I hooked up at the club that wasn't my boyfriend that I hooked up with. Oh yes, oh, this this is a cheating story that you by choice. I told you I had one too many margarite. No, oh yeah, it sounds like you had six too many margarite. But so how did you were able to recover after admitting this? No, we wrapped up

the night, okay, gave me a handshake. Oh, I think nothing might be better. I mean, are you singles now? Before we call this guy? I just want to make sure good question. Yeah, all right, And so since the end of that night, after the handshake, have you guys spoken at all. No, the weird thing. He was supposed to be in touch with me, you know, regarding the insurance stuff, but he hasn't done nothing. Oh really No, And he was a cute guy and we did connect,

but before I opened my mouth. Yeah, gosh, this is gonna be a hard one to come back from, right, No, I mean everybody's made mistakes in relationships before that. That part's not a metaful, I know. I mean, you may need to go and hit his car again. Things up, but probably call him. Let's play a song, we'll come back. We'll try and get your second date update right after this. Hold on Candice. Okay, second, for a second, I thought

Candice called us for the wrong segment. She really should have been on Busted, where we hear cheating significant But no, Candice really does want a second date after a one night misguided foray into infidelity. Let's call it, Joe. You know that can happen to anyone, right Brook. I haven't done it in a very long time, right, That's why I know. That's why I was waiting in the parking garage for you as soon as the show. I've never cheated on my husband, but you know, like boyfriends, it

didn't really dating. I mean where the relationships didn't really matter. Does it really support? I don't. I'm just shaving it. Like I get it, Candice, like I feel you. You guys are focused on the wrong thing. That was a story that I told a long time ago. Yeah, mine was like mine was when I was in college. Explain yourself,

you never It's fine. I think that there's anyway After admitting it to Teddy that she hooked up with the wrong person that wasn't her boyfriend, she now wants us to call him and try and help smooth things over to maybe get a second date. Now, before we call him, is there anything else that you admit it to him that we need to know about before we do this? No, that was the only thing, Okay, okay that she remembers, at least because there was a lot of Margarita's involved.

I forgot. But we're gonna find out for sure. I'm ready to dial Teddy's number. Are you feeling ready, Candice? Yeah, I'm ready. Okay. Correct, Let's see if he answers and find out what he has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Teddy. Yeah, this is Teddy, Hey, Teddy, what's up? Man? My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning Broke. I never heard of you, guys, So I mean listen about not broke it broke co host? Yeah, Hi Teddy, Hey, what

is this about? Did I win something? Uh? Maybe in a way kind of, but well we don't know for sure yet. This is something we do call the second date Update, where we help our listen get back in touch with people that they went out with after they've been ghosted. I haven't been out in a minute, so, um, what's this about? Well, you've only been in a minute. You went to dinner recently, right with a woman named Candice. Oh, yeah, I know what you're talking about now I get it.

Oh did you not consider that a date? I mean we were hanging out. I don't know what you'll call it. Okay, Well, well you're hanging out, you know. Sure, we we'll call it to hang out too. But the whole, the whole point of us doing this is Candice has been trying to get a hold of you after she had a really nice time with you that night, and she doesn't understand why you're not responding to her, especially because you guys are supposed to stay in contact after the whole

fender bender thing. Yeah, she owes you money, right or her interest company does. Yeah, she sure it does. But you know, things got busy for me. You know, life moved on. We had had an interesting time. It was cool, interesting interesting time. I mean, was there any chemistry were you guys? Were you attracted? Did do Candice at all?

I thought she was okay, she was attractive, but it wasn't like when you asked me earlier the day that was it was something we went out we you know, I know she told you how we met and she hit my car. Yeah, yeah, and I thought she was trying to skip. When you are build, I say, hey, I pay for your dinner. You know, just don't tell

anybody about the car after that's possible. But yeah, I mean we spoke to Candice earlier, man, and she told us the whole backstory about how you guys met and when you guys went out to dinner, and she did bring up that there was kind of an awkward moment where she told you a story about going to the club and she feels kind of embarrassed about what she admitted to Oh, yeah, I would have told them about too what she said, you know, yeah, where she cheated

on her boyfriend with some dude. Yeah, that was actually a big moment for me hearing that. Yeah, did the did the attractive level of her drop after she told that story? Yeah, it wasn't really more about her. It was really about more about me. You know. I came to a big realization that time, like I shouldn't be here right now. Why what realization are you coming to? Well, my girlfriend was at home, and then I realized I shouldn't have been out doing what she did. Youship, did

you know you were on a day? I don't mean to laugh, I'm sorry, but like I said, it was just more of a hangout. I didn't know I was putting myself in a bad situation and being there. You know, she was gonna tell me about her pass and think of that sort to hang out. Now. We weren't going to get married or go down to y'all. Was just a hangout. Well, hold on a second. You're saying that moment when she admitted to cheating was a realization for you.

What were you thinking before that moment? I wasn't really thinking of anything. I just wanted to go out and have some fun, to hang out. But when she told me that story from the back of the days, I realized I shouldn't be here right now. Wait, so, like I was going to give you the benefit of the doubt, like that you thought it was like an insurance meeting, yeah, something, you know, but you were going out to have fun. I mean it was to have fun, so I know

it wasn't gonna be an insurance meeting. YEA. Well that's honest, honest, But that's honest. You didn't kiss or anything. Did you write you? No, I didn't do that. I didn't being honest with us right now, But were you honest with Candice? Did Candice know that you had a girlfriend? Well, that wasn't supposed to come up. We were just hanging out, Okay,

you were trying to hide it from her. It sounds like, well, I can't hide it anymore because I gotta let you know, Teddy, that Candice has actually been on the other line listening and she wants to talk to you. Man. You guys shut me up now. Candice. Yeah, I'm kind of shocked and surprised that you didn't tell me that you had a girlfriend. Um, we wouldn't have went on a date. She's calling it a date now. It wasn't no date. We were just hanging out met you, So I was

it a date. You should have came out and told me you had a girlfriend, because we wouldn't have went out. Because you know what I call that, Teddy, cheating? You're a cheater and that's the pot calling the kettle black. Look at you. I know, yeah, but she's not still in a relationship. Told about being cheating. You've been cheating before me. Oh you did the first time and I didn't even cheat you. You said you you something, Teddy.

I heard you. I wasn't dating at that time. I told you a story happened back in the day that was here comes the violin, and you know what you can do, Teddy for me? Put an egg in your shoe and beat it. Oh that was a dig or somebody's making pancakes today. So did you come clean with your boyfriend? Then? Right after that hook up and you guys broke up immediately because you felt so bad about cheating on him at the club. I'm not going to talk about that. You know, that's all in the past.

Let's focus on the present in present day. Before you went to dinner with Candice, did you let your girlfriend know that you were meeting up with another woman? Well, just like Canada said, we're not going to focus on the past. We're not going to focus Okay, here minding my business. You guys called me, okay, well, did you tell her after you went out with Candice that you had met up with a woman that's in the past. You're trying to bring my pass in the future. I

left that alone a long time ago. That's what cheating is. Currently hooking up with someone right now, it's all of your cheating is going to be in the past. There's nothing to tell you know, it's how time works. This is it's just like about intent. Maybe there was a little bit of intent there and in the court of law, that's enough to convince. Okay, okay, but okay, but better the doubt, Teddy, Did it scare you straight? Right? Are you not? Are you? Are you never going to do

that again? I'm never gonna do that again. This is in the past. There's no remix of the past. I'm just trying to mind my business, and you guys are calling me about something to happen in the past. Okay, okay, let's forget about the past. Let's let's erase our minds about what happened in the past. Let's talk about the future. Would you guys like to see each other again? Because we'll offer to send you guys out on another day and we'll pay for it. Can we send him and

his girlfriend out? Yeah? I'd like to see two cheaters hook up with each other. Two cheaters hook up, then it cancels it out. You need to shed your your mouth. I'm not no seater. That's true in present day, that's true. Okay. Well, at LSA, she was gonna call me a cheat. I should have got something out of that night. I should have got something. I would get nothing. Okay. So it sounds like you are interested in seeing her for another endorsing this. Nobody cheat on anyone. So is it a no?

Then no, it's a no. Definitely no. All right, goody, good boy. You have a good life, Teddy. Okay, she'll see you at the club later tonight. All right, Jeffrey in the morning,

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