Second d D. When you go on a first date to a restaurant or a bar, do you ever think about how there's probably other couples who are also having first dates at the exact same time right next to you. Don't that's really a bonding thought. Yeah, you know, I don't want to think of it bonding like, oh I don't want to be out romanced by somebody else in there. I thought it was a comforting thing, same awful position.
It's a competition. It's not a good look. That's why I always buy flowers and cake for every woman in the bar to prove it. I'm the alpha lover of this siss love. I think you just got taken advantage of. But I appreciate the cake. But one of our listeners, Cameron, says he definitely got one up to buy another dude on his day and he was actually cool with it. Okay, say Cameron, I guess you're at that sizzler. Huh, sorry, man,
I think I guess though. Did your date fall hard for Jeffrey and you just had no control over the situation. I mean that's the only explanation I guess. Yeah, yes, I apologize already, but tell us about the woman that you went out with. What's her name? Her name is Lauren? Okay, and I'm guessing you met on a dating app or something we did. Okay, what did you like? Whoa? What did you like about her? I mean she's really pretty and Okay, it happened really quick after her out pretty immediately.
Oh wow, like second text message like hey sup on a date? Yeah? No, I wasn't really wasting any time here. That works. Appreciate the efficiency. Yeah, I mean that's going into like the date with not a lot of knowledge, right, you're pretty blind. Yeah, but it's good because you know, I've had dates where I've talked with the girl online forever and then there's just nothing to talk about at dinner. Yeah, don't waste all the conversation up front. I see what
you're saying. Where did you end up going for your day? Well? I took her to a hangar where I fly planes. Who coming out of the gate with a flex Huh you're a pilot. Yeah, So I made a point in making my profile pick of me in a plane cockpit because I think that's why she went out with you. Immediately my head, he's a pilot. Well, do you own a plane or you share a plane with somebody. So
not yet. Okay, I've been taking lessons. Okay, okay, Alexis has officially stopped listening to I already know people that are pilot. I don't need you anymore. But okay, So, I mean, what was the date plan? At the hangar? Though? You just walk around some planes and look at him. Yeah, I mean I go, I go to this flight school thirty minutes outside the city, and I thought that'd be
a really cool first date. You know, just give her like exclusive access to an air field that I can get into, and you know, just look around, look at the planes. Was there any food involved? Yeah? Puts. I mean we were planning to go to a bar afterwards. Okay, you know, I just wanted to show her my thing. You know, she seemed interested. Why you didn't, No, I'm not allowed. Yeah, but that's cool though, I mean, it's cool that she was interested in it was she impressed
by the plane tour. She was. The weird thing is when we got there, there were some huge letters on the runway. It's spelled out will you marry me? Oh my gosh, bro, you're moving a little fast. Yeah, now, I didn't do that. I didn't do that. Are you sure? Because you asked her out second text message, I could see your immediately. Dude, there is a marriage proposal at the same time or someone else. That's why you were one uped on the date. Yeah, I mean it just
proves my point that it's a romantic spot. But no, I mean, I mean it was awkward for a while, Like just seeing the letters, it's like, wow, you move quick. Did you guys actually witness the couple there or did you just see the letters on the runway. No, No, we didn't see the couple, saw the guy take it off. But you saying it was awkward, Like, what do you mean? It was awkward for a minute just to see that, and you know, she made a joke about it, and
you know we moved through it pretty quick. But because it's got to be hard to witness somebody do something ultra romantic right in front of you on your first date and then have to try and come off looking smooth, you should have done a sign that's like ready to go to the bar now, attached it to a little paper airplane and tossed it in front of her. But I mean, it sounds like you were able to make it work. Did you end up going with her to the bar? Well, we did, but it kind of died there.
Why while we were there, we know, we went in this whole like big romantic gesture and everything, and I think we're all kind of hyped up on looking at planes and everything. Yeah, she really wanted to go up in a plane. She wanted me to take her up. Wait, she knew that you didn't have your license yet, right. I think she just thought we could sneak away with it and you know, just have like this spontaneous romantic adventure in the sky. What does this girl want to death?
Wish would be some random dude who takes me out to a little air field with obsessnas and think, hey, pull me up in that plane. Well, it wasn't just that she wanted to sit in the cockpit too, but I had to tell her no. Right, she's getting experience because more like an educational another airplane. It's a good hook for a future date. Though, It's like, well, if you stick around, then maybe hundreds of flight hours. No,
I mean it kind of paints you too. It is like you continually having to say no, no, no, on a date that you're kind of like not fun, do you know what I mean? And I don't think that of you, but I could see from her perspective. I mean, I guess, but I met my flight school. I didn't want to get dinged, so right, Yeah, I thought just showing her would be enough. I mean, how did you leave it on the day? How did it end? Um?
The sparks kind of died down towards the end. I mean, I still like her, and I think we had a good time. I'm I just you know, I don't know what else I could have done, And she hasn't responded to you at all. No, Okay, it's almost like you backfired, like you're trying to impress her and you ended up like, yeah, it sounds like maybe you should have stolen a plane and taken her up. Anyway, Well yeah, it would have been a rebel move, bold thing to do. But let's
play a song. Come back and call Lauren for you, try to get you a second date. Update? All right, Okay, hold on second. Muscular dudes flying around in F sixteen, buzzing the tower, doing an inverted dive against the Russian MiG before jaging off into the sunset. All of that was not allowed. First day. You could just point at the planes parked on the tarmac and say, hey, it isn't isn't that one kind of cool? It's not mine, Let's move away. I can't even show you inside. That's
because Cameron doesn't have his pilot's license yet. But he was able to show Lauren around the airfield where he's learning. Yeah, which is cool, and she was interested in it. I mean he told her that. Yeah. But to make matters worse, while they were there, they saw someone else proposing with a giant will you marry me? Banner? So after all that excitement at the airfield, the date kind of fizzled after that. Yeah, but Cameron, today, we're gonna be your
goose for this second date. Up dates to pull him out of his nose dive? Is that what we're thinking? We're gonna try. Just promised me that you're not gonna eject until we hit the sweet spot? Can you do that? Because I didn't turn out so well for Goose. That's really nice you guys, yet, no spoilers. What happened to go Yeah that's the old one. Oh okay, okay, okay, good thing we're all yeah, whatever, But bottom line is we're gonna call Lauren and see if we can get
you another date. Here you ready, man, I'm ready. Let's do it. Okay, and this next day, you know, you just make it a little bit more about her and maybe she'll be more into it. Yeah, and we'll just hope that there's not a lot of turbulence. Okay, I think there's more airplane puns coming. Let's just trying to hold back. Sorry, let's dial this number, talk to Lauren. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Lauren? Yes, Lauren. Hey, my name's jeff from a morning radio show called Brooke
and Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm morning radio show. Yeah, hey, Lauren, we're all here. Hey, good morning. Sorry did we wake you up? No, I've actually just never heard of this show. I don't I don't know what's going on here. Well, we're on Spotify too, if you listen to podcasts that didn't sound really sad and desperate. But we're doing a segment, a very popular segment, O yes, extremely well known and
beloved called Second Date Update. Okay, and clearly not beloved by Lauren, but we're trying to help out one of our listeners that you went out with recently, and who is that You guys went to an airfield together and then a bar. Cameron, I know exactly who you're talking about. Canon seemed like a nice guy, like a good dude who wanted to show you a good time a sexpot. If you asked me, what did you think of Cameron? It was a cool date. Um, Actually, it was the
coolest day I've ever been on. What it was it was? I was really interested in the planes and seeing them and everything, And I was really happy because we didn't just go to the bar and hook up, because that's what most guys want to do. So his date was really our most girls want to do that. I mean, that's great to here. So yeah, I mean you weren't disappointed in the airfield at all because he was kind of worrying about that that maybe you know, you expected
to go up in a plane and you didn't or something. No, but I was still excited to go. Okay, airplanes are cool guys, girls, kids, doesn't matter. Airplanes are just interesting. Absolutely, So if this is one of the best dates that you've ever been on, why not call Cameron back? Well, I said it was the most original date that I've been on it, and I liked his choice, but some things happened. He made a comment later on and threw
me off. Comment. Doesn't seem like he remembers that. I mean, do you think it registered with him that he said something that upset you? Of course, can I tell you guys what he said? Yes, yes, nothing for us, So I don't know if he told you. There was this weird part where we saw a plane taken off. It was a proposal, yeah, he mentioned that to us, the big will you marry me? Yeah, and it was that
was pretty weird. But as a plane was taken off, it was the comment that he made that he expects the woman to ask him to marry him, so I better be taken notes serious. Sounds like a joke, no, I laughed. He said he was a feminist, so he believed that women should be able to ask me to marry them. And yeah, why is that bad? Because maybe I'm more traditional. But in my dream, the man is supposed to propose to me, Like I thought, maybe you know, this could be a great dream. If it turns out good,
then he'll do that for me, you know. But away I state, like maybe he's just trying to read you as an independent woman and he thought that that would be something that you would also stand behind. You know, like you don't know for sure that he would never propose to you, right, Like he's just making a simple comment. He said, for sure, you'll need to ask me to marry you. Wow, even if it was a woman coming to a man, it would be a first day. We
didn't know that that first day. We didn't know that any of that was coming up in conversation between you guys. He didn't mention it, But maybe we should ask him about it, because, I mean, I don't know what your dreams say about your perfect man. Maybe you're dreaming that he's on the other line listening. Why dreams do come true because's been there the whole time and wants to talk to you. Yeah, I didn't realize that set you off? Really? What what do you mean you don't realize that set
me off? Cameron? You're a madman? A madman? What does that mean? On the wing date? Why don'd you say I need to ask you to marry me? Why would you I'm having you know that I'm a feminist and I'm you know, I'm into the cause and whatever, and you know, I just want you to know that up front. You know, I want you to know that you know you have I believe you have, you know, agency, and I think as sort of women are sexy and okay, but so Cameron, you believe that all women should be
proposing to men or just Lauren to you? No, I think all women should be doing that, Okay. I want to just empower women to propose, Like I think it's going to be healthier for society is you don't pay for a ring. I don't because I get what you're trying to say. And I appreciate any man who you know is open to the feminist, but um, you'd be open if the if the woman wanted you to propose, you would be open to then taking on that role, right, I mean I could, but I you know, I find
a way to screw it up. You know, I would like a ring on a k chicken wing or something, you know what I mean. Like guys are just like not good at that. I think. You know, my mom proposed to my dad and it was really romantic. Okay, So you want you want what your parents have in a relationship. You want to marry your mom. I'm having
this conversation before. It's always mixed. Some guys are all about and other guys are like, no, I want to ask, like traditionally, so maybe it's just kind of a more of a surprise to herd Yeah, I mean, Lauren, is this a first for you? Have you? Have you never met a guy like this? This? This is a first and only and a one and done. Oh it's that much of a deal breaker for you, A deal breaker completely, Like,
especially after I saw that romantic couple going out. I wanted that immediately and he immediately like crushed my dream with that. Don't bring a marriage on a first date. Yeah, we're coming in for a rough landing here, But I got Lauren. We'd like to offer to send you out on another date with Cameron and we'll let you pay it as a feminist, because yeah, that's what a good feminist man would do. You guys are really I think we need to do some more research into feminism. I
don't know a lot about broad Lauren. I do think I know your answer, but I need to hear it from you. It's a very strong no for me. Guy, that's all right, I mean Cameron you can't be too disappointed, like she's not doesn't seem like the right person for you. I guess not. I mean she is making her own choice, and you know that's I'm all for that. I love this. I think that's sexy. If she wants to set women back another fifty years by not proposal, and that's good
for her. Exactly, Jeffrey in the Morning,