Second Date Update: 401 NOT OK

own actions. Yeah, you can blame the food, You can blame the weather, you could do what Victor, who's on the phone for a second date? Updated? And you can blame your boss for ruining your date. All sorts of people that you can blame screwing up your date. What's up, Victor? How are you? Hey? Guys, I'm good. How are you Victor? Good? Why are you playing the blame game? Man? Oh? Well, you know, I take responsibility for a couple of things. But you know, I got to feel like I did

everything right as much as I could have given the circumstances. Really, so us, before you get into your actual date, tell us about the girl you want to call to day. What's her name? Her name is Zoe? Zoe? All right? And where did you meet Zoe. We met through a friend of a friend. Okay, that's exciting. How did you feel when you first saw I mean, she was super cute, just kind of radiated a little bit. I was pretty impressed. She looked a lot better in person than she did

in the picture, and so that's always a bonus. And I hope you told her that. I hope you told her that she looks better in person that she does in pictures, and tell her stop taking pictures. I couldn't tell her that. I didn't tell her that. I just after a few seconds of meeting her, I had to actually excuse myself. Really why. That's kind of where my boss comes in. He had kept me about like ten to fifteen minutes later than I had expected, so I

was late for the date. So in order to get there, I had a run, and in doing so, worked up a bit of a sweat and kind of got a little bit a little bit of a sank to me by the time I actually got to the restaurant. See did you like it down and then realize your own

smell and then have to excuse yourself? No, I mean I could as soon as I like close the door to the restaurant, you know, when you're like the kind of go from inside to outside and like all a sudden, just like you know, you could you could tell you it was a wasting smell. Yeah, exactly, like like a stink pocket. So is that why you think she's not calling you back because she noticed the funk coming from you.

I don't know that you noticed the funk. I went over to the table and just said, hey, I'm here. I'm sorry. I just gotta go run and hit the bathroom real quick. And when I did, all I had on me was a little bit of cologne, like a little sampler. So I just kind of doused myself in to kind of at least mass the smell. I know, it was all I could do. Great idea using cologne to cover up body odor and never goes wrong. Everyone knows that it's the worst possible move. Obviously. You take

a sink shower at the bathroom. That's what you should have done. You got towels there. You just get it wet, you get your armpits drenched down, you take care of business. You should have been with me. There's no real hand book on this. I didn't know that. Well. I am an expert on body odor. So you have from the foremost expert in the world on body odor Brook. So you didn't do that, you dashed yourself in cologne. Do

you think she noticed? Well, I was hoping she wouldn't, but when we got the appetizer, she definitely called the waiter back over and was was like, I think there's something. There's something very punsent about this, as in not in a good way. Oh she thought it was a food. Well she I definitely steered her in that direction as well. I encouraged that a little bit an expiration date on

these cheese sticks because it smells like they've turned a bit. Yeah, I mean, I had no idea what to do, so I just I kind of demanded that the waiter just take the appetizer away, and oh, my gosh, it's so awkward. Yeah, no, it was awkward. I just but I'm not going to be you know, the guy that's like, yeah, no, it's just it's me. It's my stinky armpits, don't worry about it. She had to have noticed when they took the appetizer away that the smell stayed. I don't know that she

did it. Maybe she just kind of you know how you just get used to things after a while. Maybe that's where it went, because from there on out our conversation was great and like kind of hit on all the right notes, you know about family, career, five year goals, and he really got kind of deep and so, I don't know, you had a good conversation despite being late and then smelling like pooh, yeah pretty much. Don't tell me that you gave her a hug at the end of the night. Actually I did. Oh that is a

terrible idea. Yeah, why, well it was. It was kind of like a surprise hug though. I mean she was like leaving the restaurant. I kind of just came up behind her and like just quickly, like just wrapped my arms around her. That sounds worse than yeah, hugging her with body, So now you got a creepy, stinky hug is what she got behind Yeah, I mean, I know it wasn't perfect by any means, but it was just kind of a little show of affection and kind of say,

you know, I had a great time. Thanks, Okay, yeah, use your words next time would be my would be well, I'm trying to use my words now, but she's not answering my phone calls, and uh, you know, hopefully you guys can help me out with that. Yeah, that is not shocking news to me. Yeah, it sounds like she was really impressed by you, now, I know, I know, I just I mean, listen, I really like this girl. Seems like one of the most like normal people I've

gone out with in a long time. And those two things, I mean, I know, I mean, it's funny and stuff, but it's like, look, I can always be on time, I can always take a shower. Those things I can. I can, I can, I can change. I just need to redo here, I really do. Okay, Okay, well I'll try to get you your redo. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and get your second date update. All right, thanks guys, Yeah, okay, hang on looking jubil in the morning update if you just joining

us for today's second date update. Victor is on the phone and today he wants to call a woman named Zoe, and I'm surprised he's not getting a call back because they played the most fun first date game ever. Where's that smell coming from? Always a fun game to plan a first date, and unfortunately for Victor that smell was

coming from him because he showed up late. He had to actually run there, and by the time he got there he had body oed Or, so he excused himself to the bathroom, put on a bunch of cologne, and smelled pungent. He blamed the smell on the appetizer, but I don't know if his date bought it. All Right, Victor, you're ready to call Zoe and see if it was your funky armpits that did you in? Yeah, and can you promise when you take her at it again? No

from behind surprise hugs like nobody wants that. It was an awkward moment. Yeah, I forgot to add that along with the smell. When they were walking out of the restaurant, Victor just grabbed her from behind and gave her a hug. And I'm assuming that it was not only creepy but also very smelly, and she realized it wasn't coming from the appetizer. Yeah. Well, he didn't try to throw her in the trunk of his car, so she's probably good with it. She's lucky we didn't go to dessert, because

that's probably what I would have done. The way this date went for you. It wouldn't surprise me at all. All right, I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now, see if we can get her on the phone and find out why she's not calling you back. Okay, I really appreciate it, man, Thank you, thank you? Yeah, all right, no problem. Here we go. Hello him, I speak to Zoe. Please. This is Zoe. Hi Zoe. How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewbil in the morning. Jubil Yeah.

Wait what do we do you know? Jebil? Or do you not know? Jubilum? I've heard Wait where are you guys from Brook and jew Bil in the morning. It's a radio program. Some pele might call it a show gram. It's a radio show. Am I on the RAI Radio? Do you want to be? Because we can make that happen? Because you know you can make that happen if you if you want to be? Why are you calling me? Do you want to know why? Yes? That's why? Okay, cool.

We're calling you because we got an email about you from one of our listeners who well his name is Victor and you guys went out on a date. Oh my god, yeah, why that's why would he email a radio station about our date. Well, because we do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. So Victor is confused why you won't call him back? That's weird? Why? Because it should be obvious why you're not calling it back? Is that why it's weird? I mean I would have

thought so. Really, I know, you know Zoe from Victor's scretion the date. He also knows it was kind of weird, but he really liked you and would like a shot at a do over. But he says he can't get ahold of you. I mean, what's the reason that you don't want to call him back? I mean, we're just we're very different people. I mean I've been on several, you know, first dates that were a little off, but this one was just like, I can't exac I don't

would embarrass him or anything. But well, we talked to him already and there's no way you could embarrass him anymore than he's already embarrassed himself times about to date. So he told us a lot. Okay, well you probably already know. I mean it was kind of inappropriate. What happened. Oh my god, it was the hug, it was the weird back hug, wasn't it. At the end he told us about the surprise hug. He came up from behind. I would have punched him. Awkward. It was awkward, but

I mean, he didn't seem harmful to know. I didn't punch him or anything, but that that wasn't even a weird part, honestly, not the weirdest part of the date. Are you talking about him showing up late and smelling like a used gym towel? No? I mean I knew something smell, but I didn't I didn't notice him smelling any particular way. Okay, So what are you talking about then, because those are two really big red flags that he

described to us. Okay, So the conversation it got pretty in depth, which is kind of nice on a first date, but it went I don't know if he was doing it on purpose, but he just got a little too personal with some of his questions, like what. Okay, So we talked about goals in life, which I think is pretty important, and he's very much a numbers guy, and he said he wanted to retire early, and he asked me, had I ever thought about it? When did I plan to retire? And I said, well, I have it. I mean,

like in my mid twenties. It is not something I've really thought about. And he gets kind of focused at this point and take out his laptop as a restaurant to start to see when I can retire. He's like analyzing her financial situation. But he's like asking me, like what do I do for a job, and how much money do I make? Do I have a four O one K and savings and all this? Wow wow, that

little it was a little creepy to me. I didn't want to tell him all of that's kind of personal, and I said, well, I don't really know, and he said, we'll just estimate. So it's more like he's your financial planner at this point rather than you're going to date with a dude. Right, I'm trying to think about when I like give you a kiss at the end and the night, not when do I want to retire a right. And it got really weird because I said, he asked if my parents were rich, and he said, well, what

if their estimated date of death? Do you think you had a date When we talked to him, he told us that you guys had some really deep conversations, really deep, too deep. Yeah, he took that having a deep, meaningful conversation, and you hoffeously took that as a weirdo who's trying to figure out when you can retire when your parents are gonna die? Yeah, I mean, is this what he does all the time? I don't know. It just it weird of me out. Yeah. You know what else is weird?

He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you right now. What he's been listening this whole time? Yeah, So there is nothing wrong with what I did. I was doing you a favor. Usually I charged like five hundred dollars for my services, but you don't talk about that on a first date. I mean, who brings a laptop to a first date? Anyway? Who were asking me all those questions about money? Not what, you know, my life aspirations were, or did I want to have kids

one day? All these important things, and it was just numbers when we were going to get to that. I mean, everybody should be educated about their finance. That would have been on our second day first I mean, I was really concerned you didn't seem to have a clue what it really wasn't what I was worried about it the time. I can't just call I call her clueless right now.

I mean, listen, she had no idea. You had no clue when she wanted to retire, how to retire, what kind of payments had been making in the meantime, how to set herself up. I mean it was atrocious. Maybe she just didn't want to discuss it with you, basically a total stranger on a first date. Yes, yeah, this was a date, victor, not a meeting setup so you could do her financial plan. Well, I just seemed important,

And this is how I showed I care. One of those like you your seven love signs or whatever it is to show how you loves only five, and I guarantee you that's not one of them. Only financial planning is a love language. I don't know. And why would you ever even ask me when I thought my parents would die? You can't even ask their name? Is appropriate? Because I didn't mean that that I wanted to know when they were going to well, I mean I did want to know when they were going to die, but

not for the creepy rhiment. It's just an average Men die at eighty four point seven and women are at eighty seven point three, and I thought that I could calculate there for how when and if you're going to get an inheritance, given the fact that that would be roughly around the time that they may pass, and I could into your retirement plan. I'd rather think about them

living to like one hundred and twenty. I love my parents, but not to mention, if you're the oldest daughter, statistically you're going to be the ones financially responsible for taking care of them in their old age. Yeah, I hadn't gotten to that yet. I'm very aware that's a very poor factor. But she kept blocking me on the inheritance aspect of it was I couldn't get that flock. It's terrible. She's an inheritance Blocker's so ridiculous. But why are we

even talking about this? Well, because Zoe, I think you need to hear the hard truth, and that's that you have got to get yourself set up for a good future. You know, absolutely absolutely venture you're the one that called us and you wanted a second chance. What happened to that? Like, she told you what was wrong, Why aren't you apologizing instead of just attacking her further? I'm not trying to attack her look, I mean this is this is very important.

Um you know, I mean it's your financial well being in the long term. We're talking about relationship. It's long term. Come on your head, but shouldn't you know whether you're compatible with the person before you even start to care about the finances? Yes, I ran the numbers. I'm compatible with her, and I believe you did the research. Victor, I do you know what I mean? I guess I'm just more of a planner than you guys, are you? I don't know. I'm trying to plan a second date

for you though. Zoe, would you like to go on another date with Victor? We will pay for it, you know. It is just as tempting as it is. No, no, no offense. I just I don't think we're going to be that compatible because you're you're gonna want to talk numbers and I'm not. So thank you very much, putting all Zoe, thank you for your time. Sorry you didn't work out for you, That's fine. I don't want to go out with them again anyway. Yeah, and Victor, I'm

sorry that didn't work out with Zoe. But you know, if you have time to get dinner soon, I could probably use your help with a few things. You've got my number broken. Jupil in the morning,