It's your second day podcast. Thank you so much for being here at Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. However it is that you found us today is always awkward Tuesday phone call. Yeah, that's really the one that I love the most, just because it's a little bit wider. I guess I would say, like, there's a lot more relationships we deal with than just the dating world.
Yeah, so that's coming up in just a second. There's more drama. Yeah, lots of drama.
So first comments, Yeah, JB Law said anything that makes Alexis laugh is worth hearing.
Oh so you know what, today I cringe a lot.
Maybe that makes it worth also hearing. Not sure, but pretty vocally as well. Yeah, I'll understand why US starts right now.
No matter who you are, I think everybody is waiting to meet their perfect person.
That's nice.
It makes you feel all the things excited, passionate, challenged, hungry, maybe not hungry.
Yeah, that's a natural all those other things for sure.
But just imagine, finally, after years, you actually run into that special someone. Wow, check all your boxes except for one tiny problem that you are technically already engaged to someone else.
What are you supposed to do? Then, do you pretty found someone, but this person's even more special.
Do you throw your hands up and say, oh, well, guess I just need to commit to the first one and get used to being uncertain and not fully happy for the rest of my life.
I just yeah, find you exactly?
Do you take a risk and do something crazy and call a radio show for Oh.
God, I want the drama, but I'm also worried.
One of our listeners has decided she needs to get closure or else she might look back on her life and wonder what if we're gonna try and help her in your awkward Tuesday phone call?
We go next. It's awkward, It's Tuesday.
It's awkward Tuesday phone call.
How do you guys feel about going out and doing an activity all by yourself? No like seeing a movie or eating at a restaurant, going down the Tunnel of love ride?
Vote for one, dude.
I will take some alone time any day of the week.
I'd rather just be alone at home than than alone in public embarrassed. Well, I know a lot of people see that as taboo. But one of our listeners went out and did a solo activity says that day may have changed her life forever.
What right now?
She needs our help because of it. Her name is Mo, so let's welcome her to the show.
What's up Mo?
Hi? Guys, how are you?
My God?
Just by your tone and what Jeff said, change your life forever doesn't sound like a good thing anymore.
No, So, what's going on day?
Yeah, so me and my fiance we've been together for six years total and we got engaged for last year.
Oh well, that's excited.
Congratulations, Well thank you. Yes, I'm well, yeah, I'll get into a little bit about this whole thing. Oh okay, But so I had the day off of work, so I'm like, you know what, let me go on a hike, a solo hike. And while I was on the on the trail, I ended up meeting this guy who was on the same trail as me. Okay, and so we started talking walking and like, I don't know, it's just like a great first conversation.
I did not like how you said first. Just then I thought she was going to say date next.
Like, oh, okay, because first implies that there's more conversations. Yeah, so, why are you not allowed to talk to people when you're out in the woods.
She's saying that there's a problem, and I'm guessing this is where the problem starts.
Am I wrong?
No, You're not wrong?
Okay, okay, So what happens? What's going on?
So he's very attractive, very selfish, sure, and you know, talking to him about my wedding planning.
Oh that's good.
Yeah yeah, And it was laughing and he's like because he's newly married, so we have that bond over that.
That's great. So this is looking more positive and innocent.
Yeah. So then we had a great day. We finished the hike. Then he asks for my number.
How did he.
Ask Was he like, anyway, let me hit you up some time, or was it like, hey, we should all get together.
Is you know our double date?
Yeah?
Double date would be okay?
How was it asked?
So he was like, hey, like I like your energy whatever, but like, can I have your number so we can hang out? I said, like very clear and explicit, like we should double date. We should hang out, Like I'm making it. No, I'm like, I'm not going to be with you alone like jealous.
And maybe that's what he meant to, you know, like maybe he meant the same thing.
Was he cool with that?
I mean he was like, oh yeah, one hundred percent. A couple of weeks later, we did arrange a dinner with our significant others, so it was definitely a double date. Q.
Everybody knows about it. Everybody's on the up and up.
How did that go?
Yeah, it was a lot of fun.
Oh all right, what is the.
Problem aging to us about him? You got the perfect relationship and new friends. Where's the drama?
So we hung out more, and I'm definitely starting to develop a crush on this new guy.
Oh, you're to have crushes anymore, Jeff, this is not the time to say love is love?
Okay.
No, she's engaged at this point, married, But yeah, just because you're engaged and you're married, you can't have crushes on other people as long as you don't act on them. Have you acted on any of these crushing feelings?
No?
Okay, But here's the thing. You can't hang out with him anymore. You got to be done, I think.
Well, hold on, we haven't heard the rest of the story. Okay, maybe there's more to this where they're just perfect friends. Okay, and that's what we're doing for awkward Tuesday. They want to brand let's be best friends right, that's what you want to do with this called friendship.
That's a great idea.
Yeah, not exactly.
Yeah, so what do you want to do?
What's going on?
Like, I'm feeling very guilty about this because it has never happened to me before in a relationship, But there are these types of thoughts and feelings and I'm definitely like, what did now?
Okay, well, well, how does your fiance feel about this crush that you have on this other guy?
I don't think they know.
Well, it would be healthy if they did talk about it. I mean, honestly, it would be a good sign.
Is that who we're calling?
Are we calling your fiance to kind of fill him in on the situation?
I just want I want you to call this dude because I think the connection is too real, at least for me, So like I need to know how he feels. And like, I'm just word if I brush it off and go through my wedding and then the son of the rest of my life with my like nice and amazing fiance, but yeah, what if what if I didn't say anything to him and whatever? So I just want to know where he's at.
I mean, alexis just brought up a huge point. This guy's married.
I mean, I definitely don't think it's in my head, so I feel like he's sending me vibes.
Maybe he feels like he made a mistake with his marriage.
This is like Pandora's box. You can open it and you're not gonna be able.
To put anything back in it. But we're just gonna be chaos.
What if by the end of the phone call, couples are happy. Everyone's happy, and we've made a great relationship and mended all of the realm.
You never know when true love is going to strike.
You, well, hopefully struck him. He's married, Jesus gay.
All right, we're going to come back and give you some advice, yes, and then we're going to let you call this other guy to try and feel out the vibe to see is there a real connection happening between you or is it all just in your head?
Coming up with advice, Brook.
I really appreciate it. Guys. Thank you.
We're going to do it night after this. Hold on, it's awkward. It's Tuesday.
It's awkward Tuesday phone call.
Before we get into the awkward Tuesday call, I just want to take a second real quick and do something I don't think I've ever done before an applaud brook.
Hey, okay, I like that entered something wrong.
You had ample cause during that first segment to jump right down our listener's throat and say she is not a good person.
She is doing emotional cheating.
She deserves to have bad things happened to her in her relationship. Think that that's amazing. Instead broke drug. You showed growth and resilience. Yeah, that's nine of the time if someone says they're thinking of cheating like that is something that you are strongly against.
But not today. You stepped back.
You were thoughtful, and you promoted in fidelity and you did and we sold you for We have never heard you do that on the show before. And the only reason that I bring this up is because one of our listeners, Mo, recently met a guy out on a solo hike and they've been vibing over the last few weeks, hanging out both with their significant others significant others and together. The problem is, like I said, she's engaged, he's married.
Oh, just small problem.
She's gonna be.
Walking down the aisle soon and has started to develop a crush on this other guy. What do you think that she should do because she wants to reach out to this guy that she's crushing on and try and feel him out see if he might be feeling the same way.
What do you think?
Okay, you should basically ask for his advice and say, hey, I have a friend's out of town wedding coming up in a couple of weekends.
My fiance can't go. What should I do?
Fill in?
And you're not asking him right, But then it's an opportunity for him to volunteer himself if that's the road he wants to go down.
Judge's reactions, that.
Is actually genius, Like I really love that, you know, let's not inflation.
I mean it was okay advice, Jose, what do you think?
Look, if anybody knows how to put a feeler out, which is what you want to do, it's your boy, all right. You need to listen to his voice.
And see if it changes after he says hello.
So if it's like click hello and then he hears you and he goes, oh hi, then you know he's putting out a.
Vibe that awkward hearing Jose, dude, and you could.
Judge it wrong. There's so much room for error there.
No, he's trying to put it out, but maybe there's something to it. What do you think about like reading into some of his vocal cues.
Yes, I will give it a shot. I'm not a hundred percent sure it will work.
See I could tell from your vocal cues right there that you're skeptical.
You can see a lot.
But you got our advice. We're going to dial this guy's number. Do we know his name yet?
Oh?
Yeah?
Are we allowed to say his name? He's married.
It's probably safer if you don't say his name in case this doesn't go the way we want it to.
But I'm gonna dial.
It right now. I was going to say that. I'm like, can we just keep it like? My name is? Fine?
Yeah? He answers, here we go. I'm calling it right now.
Good luck?
Hello, Hey, how are you mo? Yeah? What's up?
Oh? Hey? Sorry? You come from a different phone number or something?
Yeah, I'm using a different phone. But did I notice that your voice changed when you heard it was my voice?
I mean sure, I guess I recognize who you are. What do you mean?
Okay? Never mind, No, that's okay. So how's your day going? So far.
I'm fine. Yeah, yeah, just sitting to work right now. How about you.
Oh, I'm actually home again because I have the day off, thank god. But I was just kind of bored, so I just thought I reach out to you.
Oh well, that's good to hear from it.
Yeah, I enjoyed, like always hanging out with you and stuff, because I think we have since our hike has just been like a really good to have you around.
Yeah, it's been really good.
Well, I'm happy to hear just because it's been really good for me also, and it's just kind of hard these days to find people that you just mesh with well you know what I mean.
Yeah, no, I mean definitely. We were just talking about how glad we are that we met each other right now or.
Well, yes, but also I do have a question to ask and it is kind of important.
All right. Shoot, yeah, I'm here for it.
Okay. I have a best friend. She's getting married in a couple of weeks, and unfortunately, my fiance just informed me that he won't be able to attend because he's out of town on a work trip. So I was just wondering, like, what do you think I should do?
I got it. You need to borrow my car, don't you. I mean you can. You can definitely take it if that helps out, no problem.
Okay, So like you think I should go though, right, like without him?
Yeah, definitely. Weddings are fun.
Yeah, but like I'll be alone.
But will you?
I don't know, will I?
Well, I'm not really sure what we're talking about here, but I yeah, I support weddings. Anything can happen at the wedding, you know what I mean?
Okay, okay, all right?
And then also, is everything Okay, you're sounding kind of all over the place with all this is everything all right?
Like yeah, and no, like I'm very my I's all over the place, and I'm very stressed out because my wedding's coming up, and like the venue and like the flowers and like everything is just so much.
And like I have all of hey, hey, hey, dn't don't but yeah, it's all going to turn out. Okay. I am here for you. You and me were in this, you know are like.
That's are we? Because like that's also kind of the questions I want. I have questions I have, Like I just love your personality. You're such a people person, like I like, I'm sure like when we go to restaurants, like everyone's looking at you and like it's just like your soul.
I see where you're going with this. I understand. Yeah, I got it. You need me to officiate your wedding. That's what you do.
Huh.
That's a great idea. Not uncomfortable at all.
It's happening right now.
More.
Yeah, got your answer there.
Hey, man, I know you don't know who we are.
We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning that you are being featured on right now.
Yeah, okay, Hi, I guess yeah, hi.
We Why did we call jeff Yeah.
You know that's a good question, Broke.
You know, Moe's reached out to us for help with this phone call because.
I wanted to know if you would appreciate my wedding and thank you. It was a great eye opening experience, and thank you so much, my good friend.
Yeah right, wow, I'd be honest friends in the wedding.
Okay, okay, I'd be delighted.
I'm so happy to hear that. I was so nervous. I was so stressed out.
And maybe maybe you just have to run this by one more person before you you know.
Yeah, appciating job.
Right.
Oh, I'm sure my fiance was. My fiancee loves him like we all get along super great. So yeah, I'm sure if I heard so happy, Oh man, I thought you're going to talk about my wife.
Yeah, no, she won't care.
That's good. Okay, what a great lady.
We love her.
You love her, right, Ricky, Yeah, definitely totally okay, so this is great.
We reached out to this guy hoping to figure out some much needed answers to get some closure before the big wedding day.
Yeah, it's going to be a special day.
And we I think we got those answers for you. Is that right?
Yes, yes, yes, you did.
Okay, all right, maybe maybe do some soul searching, see if you can come up with other answers in your life.
Yeah, like who's going to cater the wedding? Maybe? Yeah, I can cater it too.
What I meant?
Yep, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Oof, that one was a lot.
Wow. Yeah, yeah, hey it's Brook and Jeffrey. Thank you so much for stick and through with it. Unfortunately we never got an update from her.
No, we did it, and I'm proud. On the phone, we never spoiled it, like the real reason we actually but should have it.
Yeah, I don't know that some people in the comments really Yeah.
I don't know if we should have stepped in, that's true. But I take the no.
Update as the wedding probably never happened.
True.
That would be like, let's hope, yeah, because if she wanted to update us and have him back on the phone, it would all be about how he officiated her wedding. Oh my god, we would have had to hear about that. Yeah.
So maybe he heard this podcast. I have no idea, true. I mean, there was a lot of comments. Maybe somebody knew him. Someone has to say a lot.
I hope her fiance hears this huge red flag. Yes, I'm only seven minutes in and all I'm hearing is red flags. I listened religiously, and this is the first time I've truly cringed.
Oh my god, if you were getting married and thinking about somebody else, like, just just don't do it.
Yeah, don't call the radio show for help.
Yes exactly, but it's good drama for us. Hey, thank you for being here.
Definitely subscribe and we'll be back tomorrow with another podcast. Yes,