2nd Date Update UPDATE PODCAST: Wrong Day Wrong Date

in the fun. You never know what could happen. And the people we have on the phone today had one of the most memorable calls of the year. And it's not because they had a very romantic story. In fact, it was kind of the opposite, and we were very surprised when they said that they had an update for us. So we'll play the audio of the original Second Date Update for you and then we'll talk to the couple immediately following that. It's your Second Date Update Update. Right now,

Brook and Jewels Second Date Update. A listener named Amanda is on the phone for a second Day Update today and she's smart, okay, because she did what people normally don't do. She did her research, like, not just on the date, the person she was going with, but the actual place. You showed up the day before, interviewed everybody at the restaurant, waited around check it out to make sure that it was the proper location to have a date Psycho. Isn't that right, Amanda? No, that's not exactly

what I did. Oh my god, thank god. I was trying to spend what you did and make it better, but I guess not. Yeah, thank you for trying to make it better. But no, that's not exactly what I did. Yeah. I did go to the restaurant the day before, but that was on accident. Oh okay, you didn't go to make sure that you had the best lighting at the table so that you looked fantastic no matter what happened on your date. Right, No, but that's a great idea. No,

I totally screwed up. I should have at the restaurant, and I was waiting for a really long time, and I kept calling him and texting him until finally got a response, and he wrote me back saying that we actually had planned a date the following night shot up, So he screwed up your schedule and showed up to the restaurant a day early. That's true. I should have kept clambing it on him. I've been like, no, I'm pretty sure it was tonight. I can't imagine the emotions

you were going through though. Yeah, after thirty minutes, I was pretty upset. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, you're like hating this guy so much and then you realize it's your own fault. Did you say anything rude to him when you texted him? You know? When I didn't hear from him, I kind of just wrote like, dude, are you showing up or not? Because I'm going to leave. Yeah, okay, that's not too bad. And so did you make it the next night? Yeah? We did? Okay, good. Everybody showed up the next night. Awesome.

And it was a little weird when I showed up the second night in the row because all of the servers and the hostess remembered me. Yeah, it was awkward because the night before I kept checking in with everyone wondering if they had seen this guy was there, Like I have his picture, like a police officer that shows up trying to track somebody down, Like have you seen this man before in here ever? Exactly? So wait, how did you deal with that though. I mean, were you

able to laugh or was it just weird? I mean it was a little awkward, but I had to laugh it off. I had no other choice, Okay. And was he cool with it? Yeah, he made fun of me, okay, as he should. As he should, right, So how was the actual date? The actual date I thought went well. We had a lot of things in common, listen to the same music, a lot of our hobbies are the same. Conversation was good. But I haven't heard from him since.

So when you were leaving the date, what was your thought like that you were for sure going to see him again? I don't know, you know, I to be honest, just dating is terrible and people both and you don't know what happened to them. But yeah, I thought it went really well and we had a lot of chemistry. But I don't know if he feels the same way because he's not saw me back, or you've had plans with him for a while now, but you're not very good with your schedule, so you screwed up. Yeah, he's

been waiting on your call. Yeah maybe that's Oh my god, did you guys kiss or anything? No, I wanted to kiss him to see if we had a deeper connection, but we just kind of hugged and said it was really nice to meet each other and thank you for a nice evening. Okay, and no plans to go out again, like you guys and say we should totally go out again. No, I didn't make any plans. I was kind of hoping that he would be the one to call me and

plan another date. But I don't know. Maybe he thought I was going to screw that one up too and then show up choice screw it. Okay, Well we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and get your second dight up date. Okay, Okay, all right, we're gonna do it next Okay, like after the song, like, don't go anywhere, I don't show up somewhere else. Okay, all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning. Second Hey,

Amanda you there, Yes, I'm here. Hey. You know at the end of the first part of the second date update, you made the comment that dating sucks totally. Yeah, that's why I'm thinking. When we call this guy and find out if you'll go on another date with you or not, if he says yes, just skip everything, get married right away. That way, you don't have to worry about dating anymore. Great idea. And then if he says no, just the next guy you go on a date with, just me,

to me at the courthouse, get married. Just stop with the dating, you know. Okay, Great, it's like arranging your own wedding. Yeah, great idea. I'll keep that in mind. Okay, cool. If you're just joining us For today's second day update, Amanda is on the phone. She wants to call a dude named Jacob. They went out to eat dinner together. The problem at the beginning of the whole thing was that Amanda showed up on the wrong day to the restaurant and then blamed him for standing her up, But

they worked it out. They ended up going there the next day to eat dinner. She says they had a great time, but now he's not getting back to her, and she doesn't know why. I'm just worried that this is going to go poorly and you're just gonna give up on dating altogether, Like, could this be the last straw for you? You know, you don't know, I've had such bad luck in the past that I might at all know the truth marriage marriage marriage. If you give

up on dating. Just get married, Amanda. That's the way it works. His marriage is so much easier. Yeah, right right, all right, I'm gonna doubt his phone number right now. See if we can get him on the phone. Here we go, Hello him, I speak to Jacob. This is Jacob. Hey Jacob, how are you? My name is Jebil from a radio show called Brook and Jewbil in the morning. Uh, okay, Can I help you with something or no? Just calling for no reason, just to talk? All right. I'm a

little confused here. Do you you need a donation or something or we need maybe at some point. No, I'm calling you because we got an email from one of our listeners and it was about you, about about me. Yeah, how's up? Well, her name is Amanda, and you guys went out to dinner the other day, Yes we did, Yes, he did, and she showed up to the restaurant on the wrong day and then started to blame you for it.

You remember that, Yes, they do remember that? Okay, Well, Amanda told us a little bit about your date when you guys actually did go out, and now she's wondering why you won't call her back. Really yep, So she contacted you and told you all about our date. Yes, it sounded like a lovely date from what she described. WHOA. If I'm being one hundred percent on us, this is a huge surprise to me because she did not seem very interested in me. Really, she told us the opposite.

She said that she was really interested in you, but she thought that you weren't feeling it. Really, I mean, why would she try to contact you for another date if she wasn't interested. Well, this whole thing is news to me. I did not know that, and that was not the impression I got. Okay, that's to be sure. Wait, you haven't gotten like a text message or a voicemail or something from her. I think I got a text message from her, but based on kind of how things went,

it sort of seems more like a courtesy. You know, hey, thanks, that was great, like, but not not like she was really serious about wanting to see me again. Especially Okay, what you know, well, this could be one of the easiest second day up. Thats we are done? Then, Yeah, guys, we should just hook you up right now then. Obviously because you guys both like each other and didn't know it. Well, I'm not sure that I actually really want to go out again. What was she doing that made you think

she wasn't interested? Well, the first sign I got was when the waiter came to the table to take our drink orders. He walked away and she said, Wow, that guy's jawline looks just like my exes. And I kind of was like, did she just say that? And then she just launched into it. In the day, she was just talking about her ex and not going on and on in this way that made me feel like, I mean,

it was actually kind of sweet. It just seemed like she was still kind of hung up on him, and you know, like she seemed like a good person, but just honestly not over him. Yeah, when you're making comments about the waiter's jawline being similar to your ex, it sounds to me like that's all she's thinking about. Yeah. Well, not only that, she she kind of said like, you know,

we were working a lot. He was going to night school, and then he had to move for a job and it wasn't anything bad to happen, but he moved, and so you know, I think they still have a cat together. He has the cattail about her. I learned it all. Yeah, it's almost like, you're on a date with that dude, Yeah, I might as well been. You might as well just pulled right up. Were you asking her questions about it? Or was she just I didn't ask her anything about

the AX, that's for sure. I wouldn't like that wouldn't have been my style. Like and like, I don't know. I guess I kind of left the date thinking this girl's really kno that into me, and she's got some

history that she's not cleared up with. So I went home, and I guess when I was home, I was thinking about it some more, and so I checked out this guy her exum on Facebook, just because I was curious and well, yeah, you've heard so much about him pulling up a celebrity's Facebook page, you facebook X. I know, I know, even when I was doing it, I was like, this is a little, this is this is beyond. But I'm I was curious, you know. I feel like I should have just friended the guy and enough about him.

And he seemed like a nice guy, but you know, a good looking guy, but nothing really specialized thought. It wasn't like I mean, you certainly didn't do it for me, So yeah, I mean, good enough looking guy. But but you're just not really what you need. All right, We've got from talking about your day to analyzing the looks of her ex on Facebook. Yeah, you know, it was just green man and this kind of happened, and I was ready to move on. Yeah, well we're not really

ready to move on yet. Neither as Amanda, because she's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. But what Yeah, she's on the phone. Yes, she's on the phone and she wants to talk to you. Hi, hey, Amanda. Wow, okay, uh he looked up my my ex. Huh uh. Yeah, I guess I did. I was I did guilty. Yeah, yeah, you know, I've actually resisted, really been trying to avoid it. And I don't know, is he like he had a picture of him fishing? Is that still? Is that still

what he's doing? What are you doing? I just yeah, I don't really remember what the picture was. But I mean, do you kind of do you hear yourself right now? I can kind of anyone else. Yeah, you have the conversation, so um, what do you mean you honestly don't hear like hear what you're doing. Yeah, No, I'm just like I'm interesting because I just want to know what he's up to, Like, does he have a status update? You know, like, what is he up to? Amanda? You are you're clearly

not over this guy? No, I am. I'm totally over him. I just look, I've been with him for a really long time, and I'm just curious to what he's doing. His profile picture had another girl in it, but I don't know if it was that. What did she have brown hair with like blond highlights in the front. Amanda, It doesn't matter, it's your ex, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. I want to know because I want to know if it's his sister or if it's the girl

he was dating before me. Oh my, Amanda. Yeah, listen, I'm sorry. I should not have brought that up. I don't think you should have, Amanda. You do not need to be dating right now. Yeah. Look, you're not in charge of my life. I thought dating would be a really good thing for me, So okay, you know, I dated this guy and now i'm not and I'm trying to find someone new. Okay, Yeah, but you're still focusing quite a bit on the old dude, Amanda. Yeah, that's what we're trying to say, it's not fair to you

to the new dude. It's not really fair to anybody until you heal whatever's going on there. If you were dating someone for over a year and then you found out that some other girl was in his profile picture on Facebook, and you would be really upset too and probably want to know who it is. Okay, I agree with you completely, Amanda. I'm on your side. Probably not when you have your date on the phone too. I don't know, like maybe if you were talking to your

best girlfriend. I'm just curious and I want to know. So, Jacob, could you please tell me more about what you saw on his Facebook profile? Yeah? You know, I'm gonna that's a hard no, Amanda. And you know what, I have a better idea, Jacob. How about this. Would you like to go on a second date with Amanda? We will pay for it and then you guys can talk all about it, you know what. As fun as that sounds, I'm gonna decline. No, Come on very much. Did you

guys could gossip about the whole thing the whole time? No, Jacob, you know what you owe me for this? Okay. I know that everyone is laughing about this right now. But you are the one who looked, and I think that you owe it to me to tell me what you found. Oh my gosh. Wow. Okay, so why don't you just do yourself a favor and look at his Facebook profile? Or are you are you blocked or something or sound? Yeah? Yes, why aren't you on there? Amanda? I don't want to

talk about that. I'm just curious about Okay, well, Amanda, how about this? How about how about this? How about you just set up like a dummy account and then try to follow him? That's the that's what most same people do. Yeah. I don't appreciate your lame advice. Thank you, but no, thank you, Jacob. When we hang up on this radio station, I am going to contact you and I am going to expect that you give me some

answers about what you found. Oh my god. Oh you need some good girlfriends right now, Amanda, and stop telling me what to do. Oh my god. Yeah, Amanda, it's your life. Live it the way you see fit. And I guess you'll be reaching out to Jacob because there's nothing we can do about that. Yeah yet, Yeah, I will be reaching out to him, and he'd better answer the phone. I'm scared. That really makes me eager. I love a good threat. All right, well, Amanda, looks like

no second date for you. Hopefully you can get the information that you want though, And I guess we didn't find out that dating really does suck after all. That's a problem broken jewel in the morning. All that was a second date update from a few months ago, and apparently we actually have an update on the second date update, a second day update update. I'm gonna try to say up at least seven more times before I get into it, but Amanda and Jacob are actually on the phone with

an update on their situation. I guess, Amanda, did you ever get over your ex? Are you still stuck on him? And that's all you guys have been talking about. I am totally over my ax. I know that I founded crazy, but sorry, we've both felt what you felt. We get it. Thank you. Yeah, so you've moved on, Yes, took some time off from really dating anyone, and then reconnected with Jacob. Okay, so you guys actually talked again after I was wondering

why you were both on the phone. Yeah, yeah, you know, well I reached out not too long ago, and then we had like a little late night hangout. Oh so, Jacob, you didn't think when you saw her number calling like, oh this crazy chick again. Well I was a little astant, but at the same time, she's always had a place in my heart, so you know, she called me kind of late, and I wanted to make sure everything was okay. Yeah, right, Jacob, Yeah, I mean, you know things are good and we're together

now soup graduations. Yeah. Wait wait, how long have you guys been dating? Wait? Wait wait, we had fun. Yeah, but I didn't think that we were going to put like a label on it. Oh it was I thought that we were just supposed to come on here and tell them that we hung out again, and that was the point of all of this. Well, no, I mean I think it's more than that. I remember we talked a lot and then agree that we are going to make this official official. That that's Manda, that's a little

it's a little fast. I think I don't remember any conversation about it, committing to a relationship. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, guys, this is embarrassing. Um, Jacob, we talked about this and then we said that we were going to be exclusively with each other and not other people. No, we did not say that this was this was fun, we should do this again in wait, so wait, are you guys trying to figure out if you're together right now? Yeah?

I mean we are. We definitely talked about it and like, this is frustrating because we came on here to do an update about a relationship. So I don't really understand what's going on right now aman that you literally just called me yesterday to say that the radio people wanted

to talk to us and that was it. I had no idea that you were going to try to announce the relationship in front of these people, Like Okay, well, this is really frustrating, and I'm tracked that you're acting like this because when you're at my place you're acting very different. We definitely did not have this conversation like this. I don't know where you're making these leaps, and we said it's really fun. We should do this more often.

So I don't really understand, Jacob, wait, what you're trying to do right now. Honestly, man, maybe we should just not be talking about this in front of everybody on the radio. Who this is. I think we need to like sort this out Yeah. Yeah, plus we're getting short on time. Uh well, it sounds like everything's great for you guys. Thanks for calling on with the update. I look forward to the update on this one. You go. Yeah, we'll do a second date. Update, update, update, update, update

on this one. You guys make us believe in love all over again. Oh man, broken jubil in the morning,