2nd Date Update UPDATE PODCAST: Broke a Shoe

took everybody by surprise. If you've never heard it before, we're about to replay it for you, and then afterwards you'll get an update from the couple and find out where they are today in your second Date Update update right now, Brook and Jewels second Date up to date, the most successful dating site isn't Tender. It isn't plenty of Fists dot com, even though that's a really good one.

But it's actually Instagram. A lot of people meet on Instagram, and apparently that's how Connor, who's on the phone for a second day update today, met the girl that he wants to call. What's up? Connor? Hey, what's going on? Guys? So if you decided to go with Instagram said a plenty of fists. Huh yeah, yeah, I mean Instagram the is like the new tender. Basically, I don't think you heard what he said. Yeah, I think people did. Yeah. Um, what's the girl's name you want to call today? Her

name is Kate. Kate all right? And how did you meet Kate on Instagram? Well, you know, as as it usually goes, you know, you're kind of perusing around on the Gram and you see attractive women and she caught my eyes, so I started following her. She's absolutely gorgeous, and one day, um, she posted this. Really you need to check it out for yourself. It's like really phenomenal picture. It's the boudoir picture and it's it's stunning, Okay, stunning,

Send it along, tag us out. Oh my god, So are you one of the creeps that commented on it and like tagged your bro in it, like and not even a description, just tagged your bro in her picture. I mean, they're posting it was for you to look at, so I wouldn't categorize it as creeping. No. What happened was there was a woman who commented on it, and I had no idea who this woman was, and she had said, you look like a tramp in this photo. Mid's absolutely disgusting. And you know, how dare you post

something like this on Instagram? Oh my gosh? And yeah, I know, right, so you came to her defense? Were you the Knight in Shining Armor? You saw your moment? Yeah, I guess you could say that this woman must have been jealous of the way Kate looked. Um, so I chimed in and I said, look, if you don't like it, just don't follow her, simple as that. Oh damn, big come back. Yeah, that was that was. I guess that was my Knight in Shining Armor moment. And Kate had

reached out to me and she thanked me. Oh is that when you asked her out on a date? Yep? That's when I made some moves. And what was it like the first time you guys met in person? It was? It was great. I mean, she looked the same way she did on Instagram. But she's still wearing that boudoir picture that she posted. You know, she had clothing on. Yeah, I mean, I think now is the time that we can switch to talking about her personality. Guys. What I mean,

did you guys connect? What did you talk about? Yeah? No, she was really cool. We talked about what she did for a living. We talked about Instagram and the pros and cons of Instagram and how causing problems in society, but there's also benefits to it like this, And who would have ever thought, I mean, truly, I think Instagram is a way to meet people, whether it's friends or business connections or significant others. Why not you know for sure?

So you thought of her as girlfriend potential? Then absolute absolutely that was hoba. I mean, this was like the first hot girl I've been on a date with in a long time, all right, a long long time. And we went to a bar for the date went really well, but you know, they just took a turn when we were getting ready to go to the next bar. Why. I don't think it was a big deal, but she kind of she she kind of took a weird step. She was wearing these really high heels, and she took

a weird step and she she broke her heel. Um, and you started laughing uncontrollably. I mean, I like, I chuckle. I was like, didn't think I mean I did. I mean, at first, I was like, oh my god, are you okay? And then I kind of chuckled and thought it was kind of comical. But she needed a pair of new shoes. Yeah, so did she leave? I mean, what do you do the rest of the night. No, that wasn't the end of it. I do Look, we kind of laughed it off.

We went to the next bar. Did she just hobble along? No? Well we ended up we ended up getting a new pair of shoes for her. Oh okay, so you stopped along the way to another bar and got a new pair of shoes, yes, yep, okay, okay. And then we got to the next bar and we had a drink and all right, I just want to get all these cards out on the table and say that this is the part where I may have screwed up. Okay, um, we you know, we were having a great time making

that connection, and my team was on the television. I just wanted to check out the game and see what was going on, see what the score was, see how things were going. And then I turned back and she had this like totally look on our face. WHOA, because how long had you turned around to watch the game? I mean maybe like a minute or two? Not be sure about that, or did you get completely wrapped up in it and forget that you were on a date.

That's a long tap. And did you just turn around while she was in the middle of telling you something important. I mean, I could multitap. It doesn't sound like it at all. It's pretty obvious when somebody tunes you out and starts watching a TV talk. I wasn't tuning her. I was still listening. My ears were still available through her voice. Okay, So when you turned around and she seemed kind of upset, is that how everything ended? Or did it continue on for a little bit? Things got

really awkward. I said, I was sorry, you know, it's just my team, and you know, I apologize, and I thought we would be cool and everything would be okay after that, and it wasn't. She said, you know what, I'm sorry, I gotta go meet up with my friends. And I went in for this hug and it was just the most awkward moment of my life. Then she left, and I'd try to reach out to her, you know, because I was totally bummed. She was gorgeous, she was cool.

She hasn't returned any of my text any of my calls, and I don't really think what I did was a big deal. That's the thing. Like at the time, I was like, what did I do. Now that i'm thinking about, I'm like, Okay, maybe she got upset that I turned around at the game for a minute or two, but like, that's me just digging for series. I really don't think it's a problem. So okay, well play a song, come back, and then call her and get your second date update.

All right, yeah, all right, man. Hang on FBI in the morning, right in the middle of a second day update, and Connor is on the phone, and today he wants to call a woman named Kate. He met her on Instagram. They went out to a bar, hung out. He says he had a good time, but hold on a second, hang on, Oh whoa who was a big NBA trade? We're talking about We're talking about something again. I don't know. I feel like I'm talking to my husband all of

a sudden. Oh second, right, yeah, Connor went out with Kate to a bar. He thinks the reason she's not calling back is because there was a moment where there was some sports on TV. He turned around to watch it for what he says, like one or two minutes, and then when he tuned back into the conversation. She just looked upset, and he thinks that that's where everything went wrong. So we're about to get on the phone and find out if that is the reason he's not

getting a call back. All right, Connor, do you here about the trade? Yeah? No, but I guess I gotta check Sports Center tonight. Oh yeah, that's crazy. I mean, even though you said that that only lasted a minute or two, I think that's all it takes. Like if that was an issue for her in previous relationships, and she's like red flag, I'm not Yeah, I'm not getting into that again where I'm dating a guy who is so obsessed with sports that he can't pay attention during

one meal or wondering. Yeah, you're right, maybe her past was haunting her. Yeah, find out. All right, I'm a dollar phone him right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi is this Kate? Yes, here says hey Kate, how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay, are you familiar with the show? Kind though? Kind of familiar is what we go for. So that's good. Well, I'm calling today because actually one of our listeners emailed

us about you because you're super hot on Instagram? Yeah, okay, okay, so we just wanted a ready follow your Instagram. So you want to shout out your handle or no, where are you? Seriously? What what is this? We don't want to just promote your Instagram. This dude that you went out on a date with named Connor actually emailed us. Oh yeah, yeah, what if you on? Well, we do a segment on a show called The Second Date Update, and Connor has been trying to get ahold of you.

But apparently you don't want to go on another date. No, I don't. Did you just find that he wasn't the right person for you? Just just like when we were talking before we actually met a person. I thought he's going to be like a nice guy. Yeah, he seems like a gentleman and that we went at one time and he was not. He wasn't a gentleman. No, so he didn't like open your doors and stuff like he did that. I don't know, Like it was okay first, but then he decided to be like a jerk at

some point during the night. Was it because he stopped listening to you to watch sports for a second? Wait, how do you know about that? Well, because we talked to Connor and he told us all about your date. Okay, so did he tell you about how I like broke my heel on the date? Yeah, and he said that you guys, oh that's right. He did say he laughed at you a little bit. Well, it was like, Okay, it wasn't even the fact that he laughed, because like I mean, like I laughed too, Like it wasn't like

that part wasn't a big deal. But then like, so we went to go get new shoes because like obviously I can't walk around like that. So We're at the shoe store and I just kept like trying to drop him and be like yeah, like these are like my favorite shoes. I'm so upset, Like if this happened on our date, what's the hint though, I don't get what your hint was hint to what? Well, like I keep mentioning like over and over, like yeah, like it happened on this date, like you know, we're on a date.

He just doesn't seem to be getting it. I don't get it either. You don't like, how do you not get it? What I don't? You're in a shoe store and what you like your shoes. What I'm saying is my shoe broke on our date. So I feel like that means it's his responsibility to buy me new shoes. What why would that be his responsibility? Did he break your shoe? It's not like he physically broke it, but it's kind of his fault because if I was sitting at home, my shoe would not be broken. No, No,

that is a stretch. Is such a big stretch. I don't feel like that should be his responsibility. Well, okay, think about it this way though. Okay, he invited me out, like him to pay for like the meal, drinks, like whatever, like whatever we do, I would expect him to pay for Okay, So, like, by the same logic, if my shoe breaks, that's just an expense of the date. That's like saying, if while on your date, your car gets stolen, he has to replace your car. I mean, but that

would never happen because I would never drive myself. Obviously he's gonna be picking me up. It's just like it's a thing for me, like, you know, like I want to date a guy who's going to be like consider it. You know, like obviously if I'm upset that my shoe is broken. He should care like, he should want to fix that. He should want to make me feel better, not make me have to pay for shoes on a date day. Oh my god, you are so high maintenance. Wow.

I'm not like high maintenance. Like I don't like being called high maintenance. I'm just saying I know how I deserve to be traded and I'm not gonna over wed. Okay, I did badly? Okay, whatever. Can't you have your standards? I guess this is a standard I do. And if he's not going to meet them, like somebody else will. Wow. Okay, so you're just looking for a sugar daddy. I'm not looking for a sugar daddy. This is different like looking for a sugar daddy like I could have them, dude

pay my rent? Yeah, problem, Okay, hold on one second, because I think I heard Connor try to chime in there. Because Connor's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Yeah. I was gonna say, could you guys like chill out and let me listen to what she has to say? What? Who? What's going on? Oh? Yeah, Connor's on the other line, Kate and wanted to talk to you. Oh my god, of course, Kate. Honestly, I'm just shocked. I had no idea that you wanted me

to pay. It didn't even cross my mind for a second. Okay, but that, like that should cross your mind, you know what I'm saying, Like if we're on a date, you know, like you asked me out. My shoes broke as a result of me being out with you, and I don't understand why you wouldn't think that you should even offer. Look, you're probably right, I just wish you would have asked me. I'm not a mind reader. Wow. Yeah, okay, but like I don't feel like I should even have to ask.

I think that's just obvious. And then I'm like dropping hints too that you should have picked up on. Well, then I need to pick up like a copy of Dating for Dummies at the bookstore, because clearly I don't know the rules of dating. I'm so sorry. Yeah, apparently not like that was just extremely rude, Like it's extremely rude that he didn't pay for your shoes. There's there's actually some woman who would think could be extremely rude if he insisted on pain, Like I don't need you

to pay for my things. I am a successful woman with my own job, and I could pay for my own damn shoot, um no, that makes no sense. I'm not asking for a lot. I'm just asking for you to act with a gentleman like. That's it. I'm so sorry. This just has never happened to me before. I've never been in this situation. I just really didn't know how to handle it, So I don't really know what more

to say. Well, maybe you just haven't been on a date with girls like me before, like quality women's Like I don't know what kind of like crash bags you're normally dating, bat like that kind of treatment. But I'm certainly not going to right. Oh my god, Connor, is that very okay with you? All this? Like you're still attracted to Kate? I mean, I do feel bad. I feel like I ruined her night. Um guilty shoes. I'm

really sorry, Kate. I was totally out of line, and I promise I will keep an eye out for exactly what you need. I just want to see you again. I mean, I don't really know what else to say to you at this point, unless you're gonna like reimburse me for the shoes. Don't you dare? Connor? Oh my god, don't want. I mean, if you want me to, I totally will. You will. How much did these shoes cost? By the way, yes, I'm lucky. Forget there's some my

cheap ones. They were like two twenty or something like that. Oh my god. If you're going to continue this, I hope you have a big bank account. Connor, are you willing to drop two hundred and twenty dollars to reimburse her for those shoes that she paid for to go on another date? Yeah? Of course, I had a great time, and okay to twenty is Look, it's a worthy investment, all right. Well, when I'm asked a question, Hey, Kate, would you like to go out with Connor again on

a second date? We will pay for the meal, he'll buy new shoes. I suppose. Wait, let me just get this out there. I'm not just doing this because I think it's the right thing to do. I genuinely like you. I had a great time with you, and money isn't everything, and I'd rather spend the money and see you again than I'm not. Okay, are you going to actually behave

like a gentleman this time? Yeah? Like I would be willing to go out with you one more time, but like, seriously, if you mess up at all, like that's it, Oh my god, and you just wait on your date. Her designer bag is going to break and oh my god, suddenly I need to get at five hundred first. I mean, I'm just saying that my dad did break. He better be ready to replace. A promise is a promise. Whatever you need, My credit card is ready, is working out. You'll go out with Connor again as long as he

doesn't make any mistakes because you have a zero tarlerance policy. Connor, you're willing to pay for whatever Kate needs during your date. Okay, well all right, sounds like a real love story. Yeah, you might want to have to pay for dinner Connor too, because all we have at the radio station or like gift cards to chain restaurants, and I don't think Kate's gonna want to eat a broken jupil in the morning. That was a second day update from about a year ago.

And from time to time we'd like to check in and see how people are doing. Connor and Kate are actually on the phone right now. What's up you guys? How you doing? Hey, well you got some new shoes, Kate, I hope clots of new shoes. Yeah. So what's been going on since you guys went out on your date? I mean things have been going really well. We've we've just been living kind of a happy lifestyle together and

you guys are still together. Yeah. Second, yeah, you know, I know there were a lot of people that said we weren't a good match, but we've been together for almost a year now and we're proving people wrong. Okay, it's going well. Yeah, I mean people said some mean things about both of you. Yeah, I mean whatever, I don't care, like I am who I am? All right? Well good, I mean I seem to work out, Like how serious are you guys living together anything yet? Or Yeah?

I mean it's going good, like not perfect or whatever, but likes. But I don't know. I mean, I don't know if it's for everything that we're trying. You sound super positive about it. Wait, hold on, babe, what do you mean it's not a forever thing. I mean, I don't know. I've never been in a forever relationship before,

so I don't know what that feels like. I mean, I'm not sure to feel like this oh wait, wait, so so hot hot you're saying, after being together almost a year, you don't feel like we're gonna go the distance? Then what what are we doing? Cukes? But I'm just a little lost. No, I'm like just trying to be honest with every out how we're doing, Like that's what the show is, like we're doing pretty good. It's not always good or it's not like pretty, but like we're fine.

Wait are you serious? We came onto the show and you're gonna just drop this on me like a freaking bomb now in front of everybody. Okay, well they want to know how we feel. Like that's a point, just like get an update. I'm giving an update. This is how I feel. It's just not all we need to tell. Like sometimes you get stouts. Do you guys want to do this? Do you guys want to do this? And something other than the second date update? Updates? Awkwards like

you need to figure out something. Wait, day finish that thought? Well what were you saying? I don't know, Just like sometimes you hear your friends talking about dating and you miss it by a second life what you're telling me you miss dating? Sometimes we would just be honest, like don't get jealous like everybody does. Who Wow, I don't even know if to say. I can't even believe what I'm what I'm hearing. If we're fine, I just don't know.

Those are two different statements. Yeah, the first one different than the second one. I don't want to. I don't want to just be fine. I mean, if that's honestly how you feel, then maybe we shouldn't be seen each Okay, Well, if that's what you think, and maybe you're right. Guys, Okay, how many times have you guys broken up and gone together and you well, you've done it a lot. No, this is kind of after literally a year and and

and and wait, so are we breaking up? Then? What's I hain't a guess, So, guys, hang on, hang on, I want to I want to hear her out what you guess? I don't know. It sounds like you want to and I don't really care. So and you don't care? All right, Okay, you're the one that break up. Wow, I really wish you had just told me all this before we agreed to go on the radio with them again. This is embarrassing. Yeah, and freaking weird and and and

and hey, Connor, don't feel bad. Breakups happened and nobody thought you guys who would go through. Yeah, you're not even not even her rude kind of the truth. Yeah, and you're a queen of not being rude. Well, thank you guys for checking in. Check in with us again in a few months and let us know how things are good. Yeah, okay, the most awkward Second Date Update update ever Moving ninety two point five