2nd Date Update PODCAST: Who's Your Daddy

this show before. I'm not gonna tell I'll let her tell it. Nova, How are you good? How are you guys? Not too bad? So curious. What's the name of the guy you want to call today? His name is Craig Craig And you went out with him like almost two years ago? Yeah, it was a little over a year and a half ago. And were you the one that

didn't call him back originally? Yes? Why? Well, I felt like like we had a really good date and we ended up hooking up, but I was like in this phase in my life where I was kind of dating a lot, and I kind of felt like he really liked me, and I just wasn't ready for that makes sense? Now you're ready. Now you're ready for it kinda or open to it at least, right, Like, yeah, I mean I have sort of a different motive for wanting to reconnect.

So after I ghosted him and blew him off, a little bit later, I found out that I was pregnant. What wait, with his kid to be one hundred percent? Honest, I can't say for sure. Oh so there's a couple of people that it could be. Yeah, this is dramatic at the time. Because I didn't know and I was sort of ready for it, I decided to do it on my own. So I have a beautiful daughter, and now that she's getting a little older, I'm kind of curious about her jeans and where she comes from. So

she's almost two year and a half. No, no, she's not even a year yet. Okay, I'm sorry. I'm trying to do the math of conception to now. So now you want to call him and tell him that he might be the father and ask him for a date. Well, this is how I was hoping you guys could help me. So when I do the mask, Craig is the most likely father, Okay, And what are the odds here? They were talking like eighty twenty. It's like thirty, thirty, forty,

but he's the forty. Okay, so the most positive about him, right, but better than one in three chance that it could be him. I don't want to freak him out and tell him like you might be a father. So I was hoping you guys could just set me up on a second date with him, and then if it goes well, I could, you know, like end up in his apartment and steal like a strand of hair or toothbry oh wow, and then figure out if he's the father and then

tell him. Okay, So you want to try to steal some of his DNA, not the DNA that got you pregnant, some other DNA. You know, that's the terrible thing to spring on somebody unless you're sure, and I don't know any other way to find out. Okay, So you want us to get you a second date with him so that you can end up back at his place and steal something of his so you can take it to the doctor and see if he's the father of your kid. Well, maybe I could like cheek swab him while he's sleeping

and bring it in. I still want to bother him with it unless it's him. I can't decide if this is like it feels wrong, but I don't know if it's wrong. Like, if you're a guy, would you rather just know the upfront truth? Like, Hey, there's a one through chance you may be the dad. Do you want to get tested? Or do you want someone going behind your back? And I don't know, go detective on you just to somebody asking me hey, or saying I think you may be the father? Do you want to get

a test? I would flip out. Would you say yes or no? Say yes to the test, for sure, but you'd instantly assume and you'd instantly be like upset. I see what she means in that sense. So here's the thing, though, Nova, if we get you a date with do you actually would you actually everything about dating him? Yeah? We really connected. I just wasn't in a place and then good, Like, what do you call him up and say I'm pregnant? It might be yours. I was in a weird situation. Yeah,

that's even worse. I've already had the baby. But what do you I mean, are you going to tell him that you have a kid at all on your second date? No, I'll probably just save that if I can help it, until after I find out if he's the father. Okay, all right, So the goal here is get you a second date so that you can steal his DNA. It sounds so bad, but it's really good. Yeah you say it like that. Okay, well we'll do that. We'll play a song and then come back and call him and

get your second date up date. Okay, okay, awesome, thank you. All right, hang on in the morning. There's a lot writing on today's second date updates Brooke and Jubil in the morning if you're just joining us. Nova is on the phone and she wants to call a dude named Craig. They actually went out about two years ago, and hey, Nova, did you guys hook up that night? Yes? Okay, yeah, I was wondering because Nova had a baby not that long ago, and she thinks that Craig might be the father.

So yeah, okay, my detective skills tell me that you guys hooked up that night. Normally, one steps and Nova wants to ask him out on another date, not necessarily because she really really wants to see him again, but she wants to see if she can go on a date with him. And get back to his place so that she can take a toothbrush or something and get a DNA tested because she thinks he might be the father of her new baby. There's a couple other options,

but Craig is forty percent probably the father. My question too, though, is you don't want us to say anything about you're trying to steal his DNA to get a paternity test. Obviously, so I don't want to freak him out for no reason, like imagine somebody telling you that, like I'll never get on a date with him. Yeah, I just I want to make sure he is the father before I lay that on him. So I just want you guys to

set up just a nice second date. Okay, you have good intentions, I know, But the only question that I have is have you actually already contacted him and he's just not getting back to you, or is this the first time we'd be reaching out to him in over almost two years? Um? No, I haven't reached out to him because I don't. I don't know how to explain why I haven't been in touch in so long. Okay, Okay,

so you haven't even tried to go out with him again? Okay, No, all right, Well, I'm gonna dial his phone number right now, and then I don't know. I guess I'll just say life got in the way. You know, she's busy because you're the one that stopped talking to him. He didn't even stop talking to you, and life did get in the way. A life, I mean that kept her busy for a while. That's fine. I don't think we need to say to get me a boat. Okay, okay, I'm dialing this phone ub right now. Here we go. Hello,

I might I aspeak to Craig. Please see Craig. How are you man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry, who'd you say this was? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. A radio show. Um, could I win something? Uh? Well no, not yet, you might have. I'm calling you today because we do a segment on

our show. It's called the second Date Update. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them after, they can email us to get you on the phone to try to figure out what happened. And we got an email about you the other day. Really you've been out on any dates recently? Um? No, not in a long time. Okay, you ever, you would go on a date about two years ago, almost almost two years ago? Maybe any dates and times of all of the dates you've been on

in the last three years. Just to make sure we're safe. Are you guys messing with me right now? Because no, I'm not. Well that party was kidding about. But we got an email from a girl named Nova. Do you remember Nova? M Yeah, you went out with her probably about two years ago. Do you have a good memory of who she is? Yeah, sounds like you don't at all? You remember? You remember her? I remember Nova? Yeah, but I mean we went out on one date and then she kind of ghosted me. Yeah, she told us that,

and she feels bad about that. She's actually thought about you a lot since then, and so she emailed us to see if we could get a hold of you and ask if you go out with her again. So let me get this straight. She emailed you, and now you guys are calling me on her behalf two years after we went on on our date. Yeah, to ask

me out on a date. Yes, A lot can happen in two years, So you're not I mean, you said you haven't been on a day in a while, so you're not liking you know, you don't have a girlfriend anything, now, do you? Actually? No, not right now. I'm just kind of curious as to like why she's calling me now, because like I tried calling her. Were you mad after she ghosted you? Yeah? I mean I wasn't happy about it. I thought we had a good time. What she told us is that she just wasn't ready for a relationship.

And I mean I think that maybe it scared her almost a little bit, like that there was potential between you guys. Okay, so it seems a little weird to call somebody up after two years, like, yeah, I mean about me, after all that time. It just it's like just Suddn't it proves that she's been thinking about you a lot? Yeah? You know what, Craig, Why don't I just let her tell it? Because she's actually on the other line listening. I wants to talk to you. Are

you Are you serious? Yep? Hey, Craig, it's a blast from the past. Nova on the other line. Nov Are you still there? Yeah? Hi, Craig, how are you? Um? I'm okay, how are you I've been good. I I heard your single. Now that's cool. Can I ask, like, why you blew me off in the first place. I know that back then I didn't do the right thing. I really liked you, and I could feel that you really liked me too, and I just felt like I wasn't in a place in my life to give what

their relationship could have deserved. I know that I should have at least said something to you, but I just didn't know what to say. And you know, it was the wrong thing, and I'm sorry, And I was hoping that you would go out with me again. So you didn't feel like it back then, but now you do

feel like it right. You know how it is, Craig, Like you might stop talking to somebody and then you just get this feeling in your belly, like, oh man, I gotta talk to him, you know, Like you just think about them, You get butterflies, you get funny feelings in your stomach, you know, and then you think about them for a long time, and then you might reach out to him later. I think, I think that's just what's going on. Here's been thinking about you for a while.

I think that we went on one date and the fact that you're still on my mind could mean something. Well, I mean if it was like a week later, or like even a month later, but like two years and you don't even reach out, like I called you, I texted you, and you didn't know, like you could have at least been decent and just you could have just told me that you were in a different place or something. You could just told me that at the time, right, I know I was. I did not do the right thing.

And I know it's only been two years, but I have matured a lot and then through a lot, And I mean I think about all of the guys that I've dated, and they're been a lot, and you were the nicest, sweetest guy that I came across, and I just felt like I had to take this chance and meetch out. So you dated a lot of people that men like you hooked up with a lot of people. Is that a bad day, Craig. I mean, you guys

weren't dating. I don't know, Like somebody goes out, they start dating a bunch of people and they well, and then they just want to go through the cycle again. Like I don't want to just be somebody that just gets used and he disregarded. You know, it would be like a booty call every two years if it has been over a year since I've dated and Craig, I mean, you gotta give her credit. She admits that she handled

the situation wrong. She didn't try to like play you and bring it down a path and then dump you. Like you got to have some respect for her there. I mean, I know it sucks to be ghosted, but she's owning up to it. Yeah, Like, is there a problem? Are you seeing somebody else or I mean, honestly, no, I'm not seeing anybody. I was dating somebody for a little bit, but we broke up a couple of months ago, So like I'd be interested in catching up and seeing

what's been going on. It's you know, over this last year with you. Are you good? That's good? Okay? Well, Craig officially asked in would you go on a second date with Nova? We will pay for it, just a date. Yeah, I'm just seeing I mean, yeah, we did have a connection that night I felt, so I would be interested in seeing you again and see if it's still there. Who knows, maybe this one could end up like your last one back at your place. Yeah, you guys that

she ended up coming back to my place. Did she tell you that? Yeah, yeah, she told us that. She said that, you know, like you guys chocked up the time you went out and it was so good. It's stuck with her all this time. Yeah. I mean, do you do you did your number change or something like? You want to text me or call me and we like figure it all out. Yeah, I have your number. I gave it to the radio station. Oh right, uh,

oh my god. Congratulations, Nova, you got your second date. Craig, I think it'll be cool for you guys to reconnect, you know, good luck. Oh my gosh, id you guys have to give us an update of how it goes, please God, yes, we will. Okay, all right, Craig, Well, thank you for your time. Man, I appreciate you talking to us, and good luck on your date. Yeah, thanks, all right, all right, see okay, Nova, oh shut, you're

in there. You got your date. Now you have to promise us that you'll give us an update if you get you get his DNA and get a paternity test one, okay, I will, all right, seriously, you have if I see that, if I see you on Mori Povic before this show, I'm gonna be so mad. I would never broken jewel in the morning