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you know how second day updates work? Usually somebody goes on a date that they actually liked, and then they want to get another date. I know, Okay, okay, so why do you wish you wouldn't have gone on your date? It was just like a bad snowball effect. So my friends and I went out the night before this date, and I think that started the whole problem. Okay, did you meet the guy when you guys were out? No? No, okay? So I met James on Tender and we set up
like a Sunday brunch date. Like it was at the beginning of the week, so it like made really good sense, right, But my girl friends and I went out Saturday night and they were like, oh, We're just gonna get a few drinks, then we're gonna sit outside, and Russian Mules turned into Gin and Tonics and next time. Next thing I say is like really late. Yeah, so you were hungover then, and that's why you didn't want to go on the day because you were hungover. I was totally
hungover and hard liquor. Yeah. I mean that's the worst too. Whatever you say you're just going out for a few drinks, it never really works out. Yeah. So the next day I really didn't want to because I felt horrible, like my stomach was not in the best and I was like, Okay, it's way too late to cancel this date. I'm gonna be like a horrible person, Like I just decided to go out anyway. I was like, no, just pull it together,
drink something and go right right. And this is like the one time you're hoping that your date is also hug over. I was really hoping that. But when I met James for brunch, he's like old, nice, put together, like you know, I just like hi, and I'm just like, holy heck, like this is gonna be rough, Oh my god, And I can smell you, like just even thinking about it the hair, the bags under the eyes, I had the whole hungover loads foot together. Did he know immediately
or did you address it? I didn't want to honestly, like I was trying to fake until I make it um to be honest, Like I just didn't want to be like, oh yeah, I totally didn't think this's gonna really happened. So I felt bad. So we're sitting there and we just started getting into stupid arguments, like we had a twenty minute argument. Like I feel really ashamed of it. It was like the stupidest thing in the world. So you guys were like legit arguing or like playing no,
like people were staring at us. What wait, what were you arguing about about brunch? It was like trying to qualify what makes brunch brunch? Like what is the guidelines and the definitions and the structure for brunch? And you couldn't like that sounds like a fun conversation. But he was like, well, brunches anything you eat on Sunday morning. And I was like, no, it's mostly about the food, and he was like, no, it's about the time and
I was like, no, it doesn't matter. So it just like it just kept heading out of control for every little thing, and I'm hungover and like, I'm not making sense. So if you weren't, if you weren't hungover, could you have had that conversation in a more playful manner or you were just hungover and like angry. I think I was just hungover and angry. I was angry because I was at home in my pajamas. To be honest with you, like it wasn't his fault and it was just stupid.
It didn't need to happen, and I just like felt so guilty if I would have canceled. But do you figured show up and y'all at the guy for a little while. Gotta be better. It didn't mean too rself really bad? Did you guys? Recover it all from that? I tried calling him and texting him and he's just not getting back to me, Like, I'll be honest. When we got out of there, we were just like upset.
Like even when the food came, we were just eating angrily, you know, like, did you have an upset stomach because you're hungover and you're like, you know, upset and you're still eating. Still worse. The whole day was awkward. Then it was awkward. It was just like I don't know, like I feel really bad about it, Like he just didn't deserve that. So you liked him though you knew
want to redo? Is that what you're saying. I do like him, and I want to redo, and I know it was immature and I try to apologize and it's frustrating. Did you tell him that you were hungover and in a bad mood? No, I really just didn't want to tell him that, like kind of ashamed of that. So you just let him think that you're just a terrible person that likes to get mad at people over brunch. Yeah, a little bit. Okay, I tried to apologizing. He just
wants to up my call. All right, Well we'll play a song and then come back see if we can get him to pick up our call and get your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, looking jubil in the morning. Second date, If you're just joining us for today's second day update, it's less of a second day update and more of a first date redo. Because Louise is on the phone and she wants to call dude
named James. They met up for brunch and she went out the night before, got super drunk with her friends, showed up the brunch hungover and was kind of in a bad mood, and then they got into a heated art argument over what qualifies as brunch. I know it sounds ridiculous, but she said that she was really rude
about it, and they kind of ended the date. After they ate, he hasn't been answering any of her phone calls, so she wants a call and apologize and see if there's a chance at getting another date with him when she's not all hung over and ready to just fight everybody. Oh my gosh, Louise, would you give a guy a second chance if the table's returned? I mean, if it's honestly had like a good excuse, Yeah, I mean I didn't give him my best, and I understood that, so
at least you kind of know. Yeah, And you know, drinking too much always a good excuse. It usually gets you out of everything. A lot of empathy in that one too. Yeah, we can make a bad choice once in a while, Okay, you know, and that's perfect. All right, Well, I wish you luck. Thanks, All right, Well I'm gonna die this one right now here we go, Okay, okay, neither drink first? Are you good? I'm good? All right, here we go. Hello, all right, I speak to James. Yeah,
this is James, James. What's up, man? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry, who is this Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, So do you know have you heard the show before or I don't think so. I'm sorry. This is a this is a radio show. Yeah. What can I do for you? Well, you could listen once in a while, that'd be cool. But other than that, we actually got an email about you from one of our listeners. Wait what Yeah, we
do a segment on our show. It's called the Second Date Updates. So we got an email from a girl named Louise. Yeah. I'm gonna say you probably remember going out with Louise. I do remember going out with Louisa, and she told us about your date. She says that it wasn't the best representation of who she is and she wanted to not only apologize but say she really liked going out with you and would love to get
another opportunity. So she's doing it on a radio show. Yeah, I know, it just sounds like she doesn't make the best decisions, but we do a lot of these. And she said that you wouldn't answer her phone calls, like she had tried to text you and apologize but she got desperate. Basically, Yeah, I've been just trying to avoid that whole situation. Yeah, I can understand that she did tell us about your date, I would love to hear it from your words, though. What'd you think of Louise?
I kind of fope bad for her. I know, like maybe she needed more than I could give her. What do you mean now in my life? Yeah? What do you? What do you mean by that? Like, I don't know what her situation is, which is why I'm trying to be careful with what I say, because I don't want to misrepresent her. What do you what do you mean what her situation is? Okay, So I show up to brunch, and I like a brunch date because it's a lot
of less pressure and it's during the day. You get to sort of see people when they're just being normal. And so she shows up and she looks like she has not gone to sleep. That you know, she like basically didn't go to sleep all night. Um, she smelled very strongly of alcohol, and she was pretty disheveled, like and I don't think people need to dress up for a brunch date, but I can't really explain it, but it was like the farthest away from being dressed up
you could possibly be, Like, she barely put on clothes. Yeah, I mean no, she had clothes on, but it looked like they had maybe she had them on for a couple of days. Okay, your first impression was not a good one. It was not a good one. So we we we're having brunch and she's just in a bad mood. It seems like she's arguing with me about stuff and kind of put me on the defense, and so it was just kind of awkward. And then when the food came,
she just starped it down in silence. So then we sort of just decided that was it and walked out and we went our separate ways, and I saw her walk around the side of the restaurant and throw up in a trash camp. Oh yeah, that's the lasting impression. And well, that's not it. And then she got into the backseat of a car with no one else in it and I think just like laid down in the back seat of a car. So that's why I was like,
does she live in her car? Maybe that was our house. Yeah, our house was just parked in the parking lot of the restaurant. Yeah, And so that's why I'm trying to be sensitive about it, because I don't know she is homeless. You actually think she's homeless. I thought you were just like making an analogy or something. I mean, the evidence just kept tiling up. I mean I think she might actually be homeless. Yeah, pretty much what you described sounds
like a homeless person, right. You know, if she was arguing with an imaginary friend, then you could be sure she was homeless. But what you describe does sound like a homeless person. Yeah, a bad attitude, angry, smelly, dirty, and then sleeping in her car. Yeah. It's like, I don't judge her. We've all we've all got our problems in our lives. I just I feel like I can't help somebody through a situation like that, or even knowing them, you know, romantically at all. So I feel like it's
it's like it was a little too much for me. Well, I don't explain that to someone like do you say, like, hey, I don't want to date you because you're homeless exactly. And I should have said something, but I didn't because I just didn't really know what to say. Well, I don't know if she's got a home or not, but she does have a cell phone, and I know that because she's actually on the other line. I wants to talk to you. Oh god, really, yep, Louise, are you
still there? Oh my god, I'm sorry. Like, I have had the worst time listening to this. It's amazing, Like, oh my god, Louis, I'm so sorry. I had no idea you were on the otherwise. Are you serious? Did you honestly thought I was a homeless person? Listen, I'm really sorry. I did not mean to sort of out you like that. I didn't know if you have people who you know who don't know. No, Like, I'm serious, I'm not, Like I swear, I'm not homeless. I know
people have a hard time admitting it. I get that, but I am not judging bro, Like, no, no, listen to me, I am not homeless like your borderline rude. Now, I went up the night before was my girlfriend. I had a little bit too much to drink and I was trying to pull it together. So I showed up. I was hungover. Yes, it was really bad, but and okay, yes, I threw up on the side of the restaurant because I wasn't feeling good. And then I went, you know, it took a nap in the back of my car
for a few hours. You just took a nap right there in It was bad. Okay, Yeah, I'm not judging. I've been there before. Yeah, James, do you believe her like I can't believe that we've gotten to a point where she's trying to argue that she does in fact have a home. Well, you can understand a sort of my concerns because you didn't tell me any of this. You know, you just sort of showed up. And the way you were eating your food, you were eating it
like you hadn't eaten in a couple of weeks. I just wanted to stop arguing, so I ate and didn't want to talk. I ate a little too fast, obviously, you know that. You know I throw it up because I ate way too fast. And I wouldn't judge a woman's eating style, homeless or not. Just saying, James, for
the future. Yeah, it's just from my perspective. You have to understand that I think anyone would have seen what I saw based on how you showed up and in the way you argue with me, and the way you ate, and the way you threw up and the way you slept in your cars. Have you ever had like a bad day? Like it was just a bad bad day. I get it now, It's just it's been hard to unpack the whole thing. I guess. Look, I'm really sorry I showed up the way that I did. It was
not my best at all. I just didn't want to cancel on you. It was totally less minute. You were gonna be mad at me if I canceled on you. Yeah, that doesn't make sense. I just wish I wish you would have said something and we could have rescheduled. You know, looking back on it, I really wish that town. I think you guys are on the same page for one thing. How about this, James, would you like to go out with Louise on a second date? We will pay for it.
What is that? Oh my god? I mean, if if you guys want to, if you want to sponsor a date, I would love to. Well, I think Louise might need a sponsor in something, but we don't know sure yet until you go on another date with her. So that's it. Yes, Louise, if you can clean it up for at least one day, I promise I won't go out the night before the Congratulations Louise, you got your second date. Thanks. I'm sorry that I showed up looking like a crazy person. Crazy
homeless difference. I mean, a lot of times are the same, but you know, in this case different. Yeah. I don't want to they're not listening. It's fine in the morning. A lot of people can identify with today's second date. It's broken jewil in the morning. If you missed today's second date. Update, Louise wanted to call this dude named James. She showed up to a brunch date and she was completely hungover and not in a very good mood. Also
looked pretty disheveled. I guess they ended up arguing actually about what qualifies as brunch, what time is brunch actually? And she apparently got actually really upset because she was in a bad mood because she was hung over. But she didn't know that James ended up seeing her throw up outside of the restaurant and then fall asleep in the back of her car. When we got James on the phone, he told us that he thought she was maybe homeless, and in denial about it. She claims that
she's not homeless. She just had a really bad night and wanted to take a nap in the back of her car after she puked outside the restaurant. When you recap that date, it's amazing that they're going out again. Yeah, like all of it, like that, even if it wasn't even if he didn't think she was homeless, like all of it, it sounds horrible. He did give her a second chance based on the fact that he likes to
be charitable, I think, really and just help people out. Yeah. Remember, if you want to do a second date up the date, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.