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I think it's probably because he was a weekend love. That's what happens. Sometimes people take weekend love us and maybe Sam, maybe you were a weekend love you everything about that? I don't think so. I never did much like actual lovin. But maybe don Mama just wanted a tasty morsel of meat for the weekend and that meat was named Sam. Who I just wanted some iron candy for her son's baseball game or something. I don't know, but I don't think that's what was happening. Your weekend
lover experience involved her son. Yeah. Yeah, she's a single mom, but she's really really pretty and she's super fun. She's got great personality too. I was really pleasantly surprised. How did you meet this single mommy? We met online weekend lovers dot com, kind of the way you have to say it all right for a weekend and then don't call me back, ghost me dot com. So the first time you guys hung out, you met her son, and that didn't alarm you at all. Oh no, no, no,
we didn't. It wasn't the first time we hung out. The first time we did it actually kind of like the classic way. We went for drinks and we had a lot of fun. But she had to leave early because he said, you know, she had to go take care of her kid, and I was, yeah, it made total sense. But we had a lot of fun. So because we hadn't really spent a huge amount of time together that first night, I said, well, hey, why don't
we go out to dinner tomorrow night, which was Saturday. Okay, So she said okay, sure, And things weren't even better. The second time. You know, it was great. We were laughing, we were telling each other jokes, getting to know each other better, and they stay she says, well, hey, my son has a little league baseball game. So I was like, cool, and she said why don't you come? And I said, I'd love to, so boring. I only watched professional sports.
Kids don't know how to play very well. Little league baseball is more interesting than real baseball because you know, they whiffed the ball and they don't know what they're doing. That's funny, you know. Real baseball is just like they spit and they scratch themselves. I don't I can't stand it. Yeah, I love it. So you actually went along to watch your son's baseball game. That's it feel like a big commitment to me. Well, I mean yeah, but I was feeling it, so I said, you know what, cast your
fate to the win. Let's see what happens. You know, it could be fun. And what was that like? Was it what you expected it to be? Well pretty much, yeah, nobody really. You know, it's a little league baseball game. So yeah, I'll spend some time talking to the other parents. We watched the game a little bit, but after the game, I was trying to score some brownie points with their kids, so I took them aside and I bought them a
hot dog and an ice cream. Colle and I said, well, don't don't tell your mom because you know, she's probably gonna get mad that you had the sweets, etcetera. Wait, hold up, you went in ahead and bought her son something that you told him to keep as a secret. Like that's kind of creepy. Yeah, it's not creepy. It's it's it's man time, you know, like, like man mad. Sounds creepier that I've heard that before. Trust mean, nothing
good game of that so well. I mean, I'm just saying that's my first red flag is that you're buying her son ice cream without asking her. Well, he wanted it, and I was. Again, you're just making yourself sounds terrible, sound not doing myself any favors right now, You're not anyway, you got the kids some ice cream and did his did his mom like give explicit details not to give him any ice cream? No? I mean she hadn't said not too, but she hadn't said it was okay either.
I didn't even ask. Okay, you're just trying to be that cool guy, like, hey, dude, here's some ice cream down, tell your mind. I mean, I'm the man, by the way, own a leather jacket and a car. Want your mommy to like me? Hi? Five? Is that what you were doing. Yeah, but stretched that out over like ten minutes. And that's that's basically all right? How did the t ball game end? And then it fine? She just talked a little bit.
Then she said she had to get him home and I said okay, and you know, then she took off, and then I took off. But then I tried to call her that evening, you know, tell her I had fun and see if we could make plans to hang out again. And she didn't pick up. So I left her a voicemail and she didn't answer. And then a day or two went by and I texted her and she still hadn't answer. She's just like, as soon as she left the game, that's the last I've heard of her.
And I've been pouring over my head and I'm thinking, and I'll bet you any amount of money that that little probably told on me and ratted me out totally. Okaycas, I bought Hi my ice cream and she probably flipped out and got mad that I'd got and it was just there's a stupid there's some one scoop ice cream. It's the going behind her back thing because you don't know her parenting style. You don't know what rules she has set up. I mean, there's eight thousand different reasons
why that's not a good idea. None of them are good though. It's just an ice cream cone. If you're that kind of like, you know, hyper parent, it's like, come on, loosen up a little bit. Yeah, all right, Well we'll play a song come back Caller and see if that bastard ratted you out, and your second date update right after this. Okay, sounds good? All right, Brook and Jubil in the morning, and welcome back to Brook and jebil Field and your second date update up to
bat right now is Sam? And Sam's in quite the pickle. He went out with Brenda and spent the entire weekend hanging out with her, some dinner and some drinks, and then concluded his weekend with a wonderful day at the ballpark why watching her son play in a little league game. But now Sam isn't getting a call back. Will he be oh for one? In career second date updates? We'll find out in just a moment. But first let's talk to Sam and see if he's ready to make the call. Sam,
are you ready? Yeah, I'm ready. Actually, I'm asleep listening to your baseball announcer voice. But like most people are when they watch baseball, Sam, we're gonna give her a call and find out why she's not calling you back after what you thought was a wonderful weekend. Any other thoughts before we get started. I'm just confused as to why she wouldn't call me back, because you know, we spent three straight days together. So well, I'll doll thear phone number right now then and see if we can
figure out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, may I speak to Brenda? Please? Hey, Brenda, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, I'm fine. Who is this again, Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh okay, okay, obviously long time listener, appreciate that, Brenda. You're welcome. Any idea why a radio show would be calling you. I
don't know. Did I win something? No, you didn't. You actually went out on a date with one of our listeners and now you're not calling him back, and he's wondering what happened. His name is Sam, right right, and Sam told us that you guys spent like a whole weekend together, but now you won't call him back. Well, I don't think I would call it a whole weekend. I mean, it wasn't like we were together every waking moment. He said, you did dinner, you did drinks. Yeah. Yeah,
it doesn't sound like it was a fun time for you. Yeah. Well, I mean it started off all right. But it started off started off all right. That's usually how people like dates recapped. Did you just not enjoy hanging out with him? You know? I mean I was kind of into him the first night. He was nice. I mean, I'm nice enough for me to try again for dinner. You're just
showering this dude with compliments. I thought for sure you would have been like head over heels for this guy since you invited him to your son's teaball game, because that's a big leap. Yeah, how do you know he went to my kids game? He told us all about it, Oh he did, He told you everything. Yeah, he said that you guys went out on a Friday night, had some drinks and dinner on Saturday, and then your son's
baseball game on Sunday. Yeah, and he's confused because he thought you had a wonderful time each of those days. Well something changed Sunday at the baseball games. Yeah, I mean we're at the little league game, having a nice time, and suddenly he kind of starts like talking trash about these little kids split skills. He's ripping on the kids. I mean, it's understandable, little League A play is terrible.
They're children, yeah, I know, and little kids. Yeah. I mean they're five years old and it's time to step it up and play like an eight year old. That's what I say. But so he was ripping on the kids the whole time. Yeah, I mean he's like cracking jokes about I'm kind of loudly, and like other parents are starting to kind of give weird glances. And then at one point he like turns to me and says, in all seriousness, and he says, it looks like your
son could use some throwing lessons. What don't worry, don't worry about it. I'll teach him how to not throw like a girl. There was so much wrong with that statement. Was he serious about that or was it a really bad joke. He seemed totally serious about it to me, Like I mean, he made a point about it two or three times, two or three times. What was your response? I mean, did you say anything back to him? I mean my mom would have been like, yeah, you're right,
the kids sucks. But did you say, don't talk about my kid that way? No? I didn't say a thing. I mean, I'm not gonna honor that with a response. But I was fuming. Okay, understandable. So well, yeah, I mean I don't want some jerks like that around me or my kids totally. Well, unfortunately he's kind of around you right now, because he's actually on the other line listening to this phone call and wants to talk to you. What yep, Sam, are you there? Brand Uh? Hello? Um?
I guess we should probably have a little chat then, shouldn't we. Um? Yeah, First of all, I don't know just what there is to say right now, Sam, except you know, maybe you'd like to apologize. What's just how you go? So let me finish. I just said, for the record, I was trying to help, all right. I didn't mean anything malicious. I wasn't trying to be nasty. I'm just calling it like it was. I like sports. I can kind of get into sports. I wasn't being
vicious or nasty. I mean, I didn't, like, you know, get drunk or throw my beer. You make it sound like I was, So I'm sort of yetty out there in the stand. You know, I wasn't. Not to my estimation anyway. And yeah, you know, look, I was trying to find a way to honestly kind of bond with your kid, and I thought maybe if we could play some baseball. I mean, because I know you've got your son, and your son's your top priorities. Show if I want to be with you, I have to get along with
your son as well. That's that's a part of who you are. So I'm trying. I was trying to help. I was honestly. I wasn't gonna lie to you or sugarcoat anything. I'm just saying it like it was. You're not gonna bond with a five year old kid by killing his mother that he sucks. I'm sorry, I know it's just gonna sound weird, but I didn't mean that in a bad way. You didn't mean it in a bad way. You were actually critiquing a five year old performance like you should just be happy if they make
it to first base. Instead of third base. Look, if you start now, you might actually have like a cal ripkin on your hands. You know, if you could have started early, you totally be one of those dads when you have kids, won't you. Yeah? Maybe? I mean, I don't see any problem with wanting your kids to be the best that they can be. And Brenda, honestly, that's all I want for your son is just I don't want him to suck as bad as you did that day. Oh my god, And I mean that with all do
what do you respect? That is so rude. If you're gonna take it rude, it's gonna be rude. You could just, you know, laugh at all. You have no idea about what you're saying, do you. I have every idea what I'm saying. I was offering to help him be better. If you didn't want me to help, you just said thanks, but no thanks. You didn't have to ghost me on the phone like this. Oh. I don't even know what to say to that. There's nothing wrong with my son's
athletic ability. There's something mentally wrong with you cizing five year old kids. Look again, for the record, it's not that there's anything wrong quote unquote with your kids athletic ability. I just said he could be better. Well in that case, Brenda, would you like to go on a second date with Sam? I know he'd like to see you again. We'll pay for it. Oh yeah, I'd love to go on a second date with some guy. He's gonna criticize my son's spelling kiss well, you know if he's if he's not
a good speller. I was a great speller growing up at Brenda, Sam could coach your kid in all the ways of being a man. Yeah, he's the worst super dad. Are you sure you don't want to go out with him? Yeah, I'm positive on this very y. That's extremely disappointing. I guess we did find out that Sam is oh for one in the date department. Just shows Sam that every time he criticizes a five year old throwing skills, he definitely doesn't get a date. Maybe next time he'll try
to not do that. What do you think, Sam, Well, at least he didn't wrap me out about the ice cream, So that's night. Yeah, don't worry about it, Brenda, thanks for your time in the morning. Text in at seven eight five nine two says I bet Sam throws like a girl broken jewel in the morning talking about today's second date update. If you missed it, this dude, Sam
spent an entire weekend hanging out with Brenda. They went to dinner and drinks, and they went to watch her son play a little league baseball game, and Sam was confused why she wouldn't call him back, especially since they spent so much time together. What we called Brenda and she told us that she was upset because at little league.
Sam started making jokes about her kids sports skills. Even told Brenda that her son could use some throwing lessons and offered to teach him to quote, not throw like a girl. Okay, can we just establish a throwing like a girl? It should not be an insult. Okay, I am a female. I obviously throw like a female. That's fine. Sam said that he wasn't trying to be mean. He's just being honest and only trying to help, Like, yeah, I hope you're a little kid not throw like a
girl out there. Yeah, He's just like, hey, I can help if you ever need it. Yeah, that's one thing. Don't eckle the kid. Yeah, yeah, being like you know what, like I used to play baseball or whatever. Maybe I could help him a little bit, but don't just shade the kid. Anyway, Brenda didn't like the criticism, and so she decided not to go out with Sam ever again. And can you imagine if that's what he gives on
a first date. Well, it's like six months into her relationship, Like, you're actually a failure at life and your mom never wanted to when they're just dating, I'm practically your step down, all right, you gotta respect. Yeah, anyway, they didn't go out again. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, all you have to do is email us and we will call the person who didn't call you back. Don't forget Young Jeffrey's Song of the Week is coming up in just a few minutes at eight ten.