Need Lasic. Trust the experienced team at the Lasic Center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lasic at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels. Second date Update. Today's second date update is kind of the anti second date update. What means the girl on the phone doesn't want a date with the guy that she wants us to call, but she does want some clarification. Her name is Steph. Steph, how are you? I'm good? How are you not too bad? Um? So this is
a different kind of second date update. Huh yeah, I like how you're laughing. Thanks. Um, it's just a crazy situation. That's really why I'm calling you, guys, is because there's nothing in the handbook about how to take care of this. What situation are you talking about? Well, I'm a teacher, and um, you know, I have some lovely students and everything, and but I'm single. So on the weekends I go out. Can I get a little pta conference? Okay, well no you may not. So you're a teacher and you have
great students, yeah, but you know I am single. So I go out on the weekends and I was at this bar with my friends and this guy comes up to me and he's like, hey, do I know you? And I'm like, uh, that's a pickup line or something, you know, because I didn't recognize the guy right and and he goes, you're my son's teacher. Oh okay, okay, So ends up he actually is his son, Noah is
in my class. So I'm hanging with my friends, and then you know, he just sort of interjects himself into the conversation and is asking all kinds of questions, trying to like actually get to know me, and he he's crossing that parent teacher Lyne. You know, it's becoming a little bit more intimateent and all of a sudden, he's like asking if he could buy me a drink, and you know, I say, no, I don't want to drink.
I don't want to have that kind of a relationship with him, um, which means he's not cute enough, right well, I mean he's decent looking, but I just I don't want to date the father of one of my students. Have you ever done that before? No? No, no, I have not. I have a co worker who did, and she's no longer a teacher because of it. So I just distanced myself, you know. Okay, so he was just like giving you the hard press, and I wanted to buy you drinks and stuff, yes, and you know, I
clearly said no, that's okay. I've got my own money. I can I can get my own drinks. And then he ends up ordering shots for all of us. Yeah, I mean it kind of seems like he was trying to get me drunk. I don't know, it just I had that feeling it. I just didn't want to know. I didn't want that. So did you explain your boundaries to him? Well, I was trying, he just was not listening. I wanted to be nice because he is the father of one of my students, and I didn't want to
cause a rift. But he actually asked if we could, me and him could actually go somewhere private and talk and get away from my friend. So he was like, just come on, let's just sit at the table and just get to know each other. And I was trying to be nice, so I said, okay, we'll sit for a few minutes, but then I have to leave, and I just kind of made a signal to my friends and I kind of saved me, rescue me. But they were laughing. They were laughing at me. It was hilarious.
I would have done the same thing if I was your friend. I really had no choice. So I sat down and talked to him, and he's asking all kinds of questions and yeah, it must be it must be awkward when you go to class enough to teach his son. Now, yeah, it's very, very awkward. But that's not the end of it. I finally, I finally escaped. Essentially, it felt like I was having to escape. And then he offered to take me home and I was like, no, I've got to
ride with my friends. And he's like, well, hey, you know, why don't we just buy some shots and then head on over to my place and just keep the party going. Wow. I was like no, So I get out of that, and a couple of days later, he starts texting me. Here's the creepy part. I don't my cell phone is not public knowledge it. I have a schooline that they can call, but my cellphone is not public. So wait, did you give him your number? No? I did not. Do you think one of your friends gave him your
number trying to mess with you? I don't know, but he somehow got my number and he's texting, Okay, no, that was great the other night. Why don't we continue on, Let's go on another day. T know, let's I've got some ideas, and I'm just like that, can't Why can't do that? Are you responding to him? No, I don't know what to say to him. That's That's exactly why I'm calling you, guys, just because I don't know why to do. I mean, there's that fine line and this
is this is such a freaking awkward position. And you know, he keeps asking me if we can go on another date. We've never even done on my first date, so he thinks you're He obviously thinks that your hangout when he saw you at the bar and tried to get you drunk and take you home was a date. Yes, he thought that was a date and it was not an actual date. We did not ask me out. I did not say yes. I actually was telling him no the whole night and he I don't know why no means
yes to him, but that's what he's hearing. And I don't know he's delusional. And why haven't you just texted him and said stop? Because I just don't want to talk to him. I don't want to engage with him. I don't want to I just don't want to continue the conversation. I just need I need you, guys. So you want us to call him and tell him that you, guys, never went on a first date to begin with, and no, there will not be a second date or any other
dates in the future. Are you guys able to do that? Absolutely? Will play a song, come back, and then call this guy and tell him why you're not calling him back. It's way different than any second day update we've ever done, but we'll do it right after this thank you drunking jubil in the morning. I'm actually excited to call this guy for the second date update today because I always wonder what goes through dude's heads when they won't leave a girl alone when they obviously don't want to go
out with them again. And I'm wondering what is going through this guy's mind if you're unaware of what's going on. Steph called us for a second date update. The only problem is it's not a traditional second date update because she never actually went out on a date with the guy that she wants to call, and she was out at a bar one night, guy came up to her and said, hey, you're my son's teacher, and then started buying her a bunch of drinks and trying to get
her drunk. Even suggested going back to his place. She said no, and then somehow he got her phone number and has been texting her NonStop to go out on quote another date. So he thought that was a date, and now he's trying to get a second date, and she wants us to call him and say go away. I think what I'd like to do, unless you're against it. I want to do this like we do a traditional second date. Update. All right, I'm not going to call the guy and tell him to go away right away.
I'll be like you went on a date with Steph, so that we can hear him actually break down the date that he thinks she went on before we tell him to get lost. Can we do that? You know, whatever works? I mean, as long as you can just get the creeps to back off. Wonderful, Thank you, I appreciate it. All right, I'm gonna make the call right now. Hello. Hi is this Chris? Yeah, Hey, Chris, how you doing. I've been looking for you? Why? Well, this is jewel
from brook and Jewel in the morning. Are you serious? Yeah? Man, how are you okay? You guys are calling me from the radio station? Yeah? Actually, I wanted to call you about a date you recently went on. I heard that you recently went out on a date with one of your son's teachers. Yeah. How did you hear about that? Oh? Because Steph, the woman who you went out on a date with, actually emailed us and asked us to call you. Um,
I mean as weird as she would email guys. Okay, yeah, Well, she wanted us to find out why you guys haven't had a second date yet. You serious? Yeah? Yeah. We talked to her a little bit about the first time you guys hung out, and she told us about your date, and she's wondering why you guys haven't gone out again. Why didn't she just call me? I don't know, understand, I don't know, some maybe nerves or something like that. She wanted us to do it. I'm not really sure.
Did you like going on a date with her? Yeah? I mean she's nice. She hasn't really been in touch with me, so I kind of want to you know, things kind of just fizzled out. I wanted to Oh weird, she didn't tell us that. She just told us that she went on a date with you and wanted us to get you on the phone. Oh that's cool. I mean, like I said, she hadn't got back to me, so I thought she just wasn't interested in me. You know, Yeah, maybe she wanted to do it this way. So anyway,
tell us about that day with her. Yeah, we went to a bar and you know, just hanging out. You know, I had a couple of drinks and you know, you guys actually went to a bar together. Yeah, I mean, you know it was we were at the bar together. So oh, okay, okay, that's cool. Bar is always a good place for a first date. Yeah, I think so, you know, nice lively people having fun, dance and drinking. You know. Okay, but Chris, what made you think that
you guys had a connection. Well, you know, we were again, we were having drinks and we were talking and you know, so you guys hung out and talked, and she said that at the end of the night you did ask her to go back to your place. Yeah, you know, I kind of felt that party could have kept going, so we just invited her back to my place, and that's when she kind of lost interest or I don't know, it just seemed weird at that point. That's interesting because
you feel like she likes you. Yeah, I thought everything was fine to that point. I don't Maybe she was just tired. I don't know. Yeah, it could be. Let me ask you, what were you Where are you hoping to get from all this just to like hook up with your son's teacher or actually like date her. Well, the thing is, you know, you know, my son is
in her class. I mean my plan was I kind of had a plan to get her a couple of drinks, you know, be nice and kind of hang out because my son's having a little bit of trouble in her class. So I was hoping that maybe, you know, if things went well between us, not only would I be able to hook up with her because she's you know, she's attractive, but that my son would maybe you know, show him a little bit more you know, attention, you know, help
him get along a little better. Wait a second, are you saying that you wanted to go out with her to help your son do better in school? I mean yeah, but also I mean she again, she's attractive, She wasn't attractive, I would have done it. But yeah, okay, Chris, I do have another question for you too, Like, at the end of the night, when you got her phone number from her, were you excited about that? Um? Yeah, that's interesting. That's interesting because she told us she never gave you
her phone number. I mean technically she didn't. Technical okay, So how did you get her number? Then? You know, Um, I just just came upon it, you know, I just found it. You know what, you just found her number. You are so creepy right now? How did you give her number? At this point? I don't think it matters. I mean, she obviously wants to go out on a second date because she had you guys call, So you know what, I'd rather not comment on what you just said.
I'm just gonna let her do it because Steph is actually on the other line listening right now, and I would like to talk to you. Wait what yeah, Steph, you're there? Hi, Chris? Hi? What what's going on? Well that's actually my question to you, Chris, What is going on? I don't I don't know what you mean. First off, we were never on a date. Our paths crossed in a bar and we just happened upon each other. That's life. That does not mean that we went on a first date.
Even if we had a conversation and there were drinks in our hands, that does not mean that we were on a date. That's kind of where you're saying this now. I mean, because you know what I thought youbody listening, because the other night you were, you were flirting and everything was fine. Okay, Chris, let me spell it out for you. I am your son's teacher. I am not
a girl for you, okay. And second of all, I don't know how you got my phone number, but you better delete it and you better not contact me ever again. There is a phone number at school that you can reach me and leave a voicemail if it pertains to your son. And third of all, do not use me as some kind of boy to get better grades for your son. Yeah, your friends didn't tell me you play hard to get. This is kind of you know, this is kind of cool. Her friends told you that she'd
play hard to get. Oh yeah, yeah, they're the ones that gave me the number. They said she would, you know, be like this, all right, I think we finally figured out what happened Chris, I think you were set up, man. I think, well both of you guys were actually set up. Uh. Yeah, I honestly don't know what the hell is going on here. I think that Steph was not into you, and her friends knew that, so they gave you her phone number so that you would bug her Steph. Does that sound right? Yeah?
It sounds about right. Oh, I get it. Yeah, they did this whole thing to set it up so we can actually get together. I got it. No, no, no, just ignore everything that my friends said. Okay, I can do that. I think, uh, we actually need to discuss it over like a beer or something. Not getting it. I am not interested. I'm not interested, okay, okay, wow? So what about my kid though? How's that? What are you? Are you still trying to get better grades for your kid? Chris?
I think you've lost this whole battle man. All right? Oh my gosh, Well, I just you know, I heard she favors of the kids. I just to favor my kids the same with me. I okay. I don't know where you heard that, but I treat every one of my students with respect and dignity, and I treat them all the same. They just weren't. Differently, that is not called favor and it's called being a teacher. But stuff. Aren't you glad that you finally have an involved parent? Though?
Oh my god, yeah, teachers always want that. I guess not in this case. I always have to ask this question on the second date. Maybe I'll ask it a little differently for this one. Chris, would you like to not go out on a date with staff? We will not pay for it? And Staff, would you like to not go on a date with Chris? We will not pay for it? Yes, okay, wonderful. I'm raa have to say knows of the first question and yeah to the second question. But I mean, I'm still not sure what
it really means. Well, I just think it means that you guys aren't going to go out on a date. So will you stop texting Steph? Chris? I mean, I guess I can stop texting her. I mean, I don't really understand what happened. I know, I know, broken jewel in the morning,