Looking jubil in the morning. Second date update. Is it a bad idea to go out on a date in the middle of a work week when you're just trying to get through it? Is it a bad idea to take a bunch of shots right away on your first date? Okay, I'm going to start with to go with, Yes, a bad idea to spend the date talking about your exes? Okay, absolutely, yes, Well that sounds like the exact date that Laney went on, and now she's not getting a call back. Wonder why Laney?
How are you hi? Guys? How are you good? You can hear the regret in your voice, Landy. Yeah, that's a fine calling you guys. See if we can help you out. What's the name of the guy you want to call today? His name is Dylan? Dylan all right, and how did you meet Dylan? Playing that on a dating app? He started the conversation with me, I mean, like, you know, we matched, and then he cried and messaged me, and then we were like, oh, you know, like let's go out for drinks. So we did a happy hour
in the middle of the week. We did, you know, Wednesday humped out, which sounded like a good idea. At the time, it wasn't a good idea, you don't think, Well, probably not, because I haven't heard back from him, did you. Did you guys try to plan for a weekend date and you just couldn't find you know, the time. Our weekends we're pretty booked up. So we just figured, you know, hey, like, I'd rather see you sooner rather than later. You know. So Wednesday was like the easiest day for us boat
to get together. So did it start off good and then go bad? Or oh, it started off great. It's cute he looked like his profile picture because you know, you never know. Okay, so that part was good at least. How about the actual happy hour? Was that fun or weird? What fun? You know? We we really bonded because we both had really awful days at work and we just
you know, really wanted to let off some see him. Okay, So that's I mean, that all sounds positive to me, you know, like misery loves Company might as well be miserable together. It's absolutely because we're talking about like the awful people that we work with. It really felt like a nice group therapy session, all right. And as we kept going, you know, we kept ordering rounds of shots. You know, we realized, let's do another. Okay, so you're
getting hammered. Yeah, which it might not be a bad thing on a date you mentioned in your email, though you started talking about your exes. That's usually not a good thing to do. I'll admit it. I don't remember if it was me or if it was him who brought up an ask, like saying like, oh my god, like my boss is terrible, but nothing compared to you know, this person I used to date. So it kind of took a turn. It is an easy transition into people
who you hate to go into your ex's. I mean it is, but it did take a weird turn because like, if you're single, you clearly have your share of war stories about xs. Was it just you sharing or was he sharing too? He was sharing too, Like I told him about my most recent acts who was just such a pig, and he was like, let me tell you about the girl that I was with right just from like the get go, Like when he mentioned her name, you could just see it in his face that there
was just so much back story, so much baggage. Oh yeah, so I guess it just didn't end well. He said she was just one of those serial cheaters. He would forgive her, then she'd do it again. Oh sounds fun. Sounds like a fun, fun time. Yeah, And you know it wasn't just the cheating. You know, she was one of those girls that she didn't feel good about herself unless she was putting him down a lot of detail then yeah, I mean that's what happens when you drink
a lot, like your emotions just come out. And I just felt so sad for him, Like I mean, I just wanted to give him like a big hug and tell him everything was gonna be okay. He could tell he really was damage from this relationship, you know. He said it was like a very long term relationship. It went on for like three or four year. So I suggested, you know, we should go back to his place, like
not like to go sleep together. We don't judge. I just said, like, let's go back to your place and you know, take some like cute seat photos that we could post on social media. And he said, you know he's still Facebook friends with his ex. Okay, so you wanted to go back to his place post some pictures together to make her jealous or show her that he's getting over yeah, you know, to see like he's moved down on and he's happy. Did you guys do that? You know, he was a real gentleman about it. He
was like, look, I'm so inebriated. He's like, I don't trust myself to bring you back to my apartment. He's like, you may have good intentions, but I don't feel right about bringing you back, and then like if you sleep together, and I was like, you know what, he really was like such a gentleman. Yeah, I just think it's weird that, Like I mean, I would think it would be opposite, like you wouldn't want to call him back because he was so hung up on his ex, not him not
called you back. Well, you know, I can understand. You know, he was just putting all the cards out on the table, and I respect it. You know that this really hurt him and he doesn't want it to happen again. Like I mean, that's how I kind of interpreted it. So he was polite and a gentleman about going back to his place and said he couldn't trust himself, and then
was that it was at the end of your date. Well, uh, afterwards, like we had a couple more drinks and then we both went our separate ways, and I mean, I thought it went well, and you know, afterwards, I texted him the next morning and I was like, hey, how are you feeling? Because I was really hungover, and he didn't respond back, and I said, you know, maybe he's maybe he really is hungover. Maybe you know, he's having another
tough day at works. And now I'm thinking, like, maybe he just thought I was weird and I'm crazy, like I'm really not like that. I was really just just trying to help up. All right, Yeah, okay, Well, well we'll play a song and then come back and call him and get your second day up day Okay, okay, all right, hanging looking jubil In the more second date update.
Right in the middle of a second date update and if you missed the first part, Laney is on the phone and she wants to call this dude named Dylan. We didn't learn a whole lot about Dylan or their date, but we did learn a lot about his ex girlfriend when we talked to her, because she had a whole lot of information on his past relationship. Apparently they met like for a happy hour, they got kind of drunk.
They ended up talking about their X as a bunch and he just got out of a relationship where he was with a girl who cheated on him a bunch and just sounds like a terrible person. Laney thinks that she might have creeped him out because at one point she said, let's go back to my place and take some cute photos together. You can post it online and make her jealous and show her that you're moving on. And he declined because he said he was kind of drunk and he didn't think he could trust himself to
be a gentleman. So yeah, they ended their date and she hasn't heard from him since. Laney, are you ready give him a call? I am? I just really, I just really want to know what's going on, because he's such a good guy and I just want to take care of him. You know that is usually a recipe for disaster, whenever where you want to take care of someone or fix someone's problems. I'm just going to throw it out there. I don't want to change him. I
just want to help them move past it. All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure out why he's not calling you back, and then see if we can help you get a second day. Here we go. Hello, Hi, May I speaks to Dylan. Please, this is him, Dylan. How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning in the in the Morning where it's a it's a radio show and that is the name of the show. It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Oh you guys. What are you guys doing? Not much?
Just hanging out? You mean doing? Or why are we calling you? Yeah? Why what's going on? I'm calling you today because we do a segment on our show. It's called the second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened. And we got an email from somebody that you went on a date with recently. Wait what somebody emailed you
about me? Yes, Laney, her name's Laney. Oh yeah, Laney emailed us because she told us about your date. Okay, yeah, all right, So she told us she went out with you. She said she really wanted to see you again. But now you're not answering any of her phone calls or text messages. So she's confused, and she's wondering why you don't want to see her again. She's wondering why we should she know why. I mean, I don't know how
much you know. I'll tell you what we know. She said, you guys met up for happy hour, You drank a bunch, ended up talking about your co workers, and then getting out of the subject of X's, you talked a bunch about how terrible your ex was. Then she asked you if you wanted to go back to her place to take some pictures to make your ex jealous, and you declined. She told you almost everything. If that's almost everything, yeah, she told us that. I just can't believe she'd put
that out there. Are you mad about that? I mean, it's weird. I never got a phone call like this before. I didn't understand that, you said almost everything. Is she leaving something out? Totally leaving things out? Really okay? Like what? We had a good time in the beginning, and she was all right, and she was all right. It was the middle of the week too. I mean, we definitely had no business hammering shots at a bar on a freaking Wednesday. But it sounds like you guys had a
lot to bond over. You both had crappy days at work, she said, really stressed out. Yeah, I had a particularly bad day, and I guess she did too. When we kind of bonded over having the same work environment, I guess you could say, Yeah, then the topic of X has come up, and I'm like, I don't know if I want to go there. But we're kind of like bouncing back and forth between you know, what her XS
did and what mine did and things like that. So in her description, it didn't sound like you guys were bouncing. It sounds like you guys were concentrating on you getting over your cheating next, and that you talked about her a lot. I mean, I guess I probably threw out a lot more info about mine than her X. But I mean, you know, I was drunk too. It's hard to remember the hard to remember the details, so I
don't know it. Like, like I said, she was kind of supportive, I guess you could say, And it just got to a point where she kind of crossed the line in the course of the gate, and I'm like kind of got turned off. Was it suggesting to go take pictures of you two together at your place? To make your ex jealous. Yeah, that was part of it. I mean she wanted to do like, you know, half naked photos and stuff like that, Like she wanted to go that route. And I'm like, I really don't trust
myself to be doing that, if you know what I mean. Right, Okay, She's all us that, which is a cool I mean it's a good move to be like be like yeah, I mean that's nice. Yeah. And then she's like, oh, you know, what's your ex's number and give me all the inflow. I want her address too? Was joking, I mean that had to be a joke, right, like, oh, I'll take care of her for you. Yeah, I thought she was joking. I'm like I was laughing with her.
I got what do you you know, you know, like burn her house down, Like why do you need her address? And she just keeps kind of prodding for it. She goes, yeah, give me the information, just you know, I got I got a couple of ideas and know Yeah. So at that point, I'm getting real weird vibes from this date. I'm like, I gotta end this now because she's not joking. This is going in places I don't want it to show. Soon you're going to be accomplished to murder. That was it, man,
I was done right there. Okay, Well that's understandable. It's good that you were done there, probably, but you're not done here because guess what, Laney is actually on the other line. I wants to talk to you. Wait what Landy? Sorry, hey, Dylan, no known Come on, guys, that's Landy. I'm sorry, but your ax needs a wake up call. Like that's all I was signing to do a wake up call? What kind of wake up? How are you talking about? Landy? She needs to know that her behavior is not okay.
Girls like her ruined good guys like Dylan for girls like me. What are you going to do? Though? I don't understand. Isn't the wake up call that they broke up? Like that's usually the wake up call. It doesn't matter, like I'll handle it. I'll handle it. You don't need to hand Look, I learned my lesson with her. It doesn't matter. Dylan, you're a good guy, like, that's why I want to do that. What you don't have to do it? I have them. I will tell her it's
not okay. What I don't understand what you're doing you want her address? What are you gonna do? Everyone needs to like stop asking me what I'm gonna do. All right, I'm not gonna tell you guys on the radio, all right, I'm just gonna do it. What No, whatever it is I'm saying. No, Okay, lady, the best revenge is always to just be happy in your next phase of life. That is literally the only revenge anyone ever needs. Look, I will be happy after I do what I need
to do to her. What you are Dylan? Are you still there? Dude? Do you guys hear what she's saying? Are you kidding me? Yeah? Did you give lay of the information for your X at all? No? I didn't give her the information listener. I mean, Dylan, I don't understand why you are so against it, Like, are you still in love with her? I mean, you were right your eyes out complaining how bad she treated you, and here I am, like here to defend you, and you're acting like a little baby now, Like are you really
in love with her? You want to get back together with you? Want to put you down and cheat on you over and over again. I was on the date with you that night and we got onto some topic. Now, I feel like I was on the date with a with a hit man. I mean, I don't know what she's about, but like you gave me that information, Like what else am I supposed to do with it? Just say that too bad? I'm so sorry that happened to you. That's not who I am, not like how I roll.
All I want to do is have a civilized conversation. Woman to lie, No, that's sound like that. Yeah, I feel like in one hand you're holding your phone, the other hand you're screwing a silence or on a bolt action rifle. Sounds like a great woman to go on a date with me, Dylan, would you like to go on a second date with Landy? We'll pay for it. Yeah, she will have your back for sure, Dylan, before you answer, really being carefully, Oh my god, is that no? I'm not gonna end up in the trunk of a car?
So is that a yes then? Because I think that means you should say yes or you might end up in a trunk of a car. I'm not going on another date with her now. I'm actually scared, all right? Yeah, Landy, I don't blame him, Laney, I mean, whatever, you know, if that's how he wants to live his life. He wants to be a pushover or let people walk all over him. He's gonna find another girl who's gonna do the same thing to him, cheat on him and put him down. You know, I would always have his back,
But if he doesn't want that, you know, good ridden. Yeah, okay, good luck. Find someone just to have brunch with or whatever. Landy would actually kill for you. Broken jewil in the morning text in at seven eight five nine two. This says, I think you should all move and change your names because she might find you. Agree. Yeah, I'm scared now. Talking about today's second date update. X'es are normally a topic to avoid on a first date, but Laney and
Dylan dove right into their rocky pasts. And then Dylan wasn't calling Laney back, so we got him on the phone to figure out why, and he said the problem was that when Laney and him were talking about his most recent X, she crossed the line of being supportive. He said that she wanted to post pictures of them to make her jealous, and she even kept prodding for his ex's address so she could quote take care of it. Yeah, no, no, you don't need to do that. Yeah, she legally didn't
want to tell us what she wanted to do. She said the Dylan's ex needs to be told what she did was wrong, and kept suggesting that they will both be happy after she does what she needs to do. So we don't even know what that is. She wouldn't tell us. Dylan's express needs to get a heads up. This lady's out there. Yeah. In the end, no second date, which is Dylan's loss. I think he gave up a date with somebody that would actually kill for him. Maybe
he has already, who knows. Remember, if you want a second date update, just email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.