Need Lasic trust the experienced team at the Lasic Center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lasik at Evergreen dot com brooking jubile In the morning second Date update, they say that one man's trash is another man's treasure. I already don't like the start of today's second date update, and that's why Tim is on the phone for a second date update. Today. He found a discarded date and then he sweeped in and got a date with her. Started Tim, Now, I
don't want to call your date trash. It was just an analogy. Okay, Yeah, I get to tell us about the garbage pickup. How'd it go? Um? Yeah, well, let's move back up. I went out that night to go see a play and I just went by myself. So I go to the theater and I'm there and down the row, a couple of seats down there's this girl and she was pretty cute. So I smiled at her and she sort of smiled back. Did you throw her a wink too? No? No, I did the polite you know,
like smilehead. No, just like hello y, like bite the lower lip, like any of the proper moves are just simply a smile. Maybe I should have done that. Maybe you start talking about how this woman sounds like a sweater from Goodwill, and now you're all right? So he smiled at her. I did, And the seat next to her is naked. So I get a little courage and I kind of like walk down a little bit to the aisle and I just said, hey, is anybody sitting the seat? And she said yeah, someone else is going
to come take the seat. And then that's when you yelled at out. Why are you yell at her? Now? He was upset. No, no, no, no, oh you didn't yelled at her. No, I just said, oh, okay. I didn't ask who you know the seat was for, right, because it's none of your business because she's a complete stranger in a theater. Yeah, but she also didn't say you know who it was for either, Like if it was her husband, I imagine she would say, like, no, it's for my husband or or my boyfriend. Right, she
probably would have let you know, stop hitting on me, exactly. Yeah, and the nicest way possible. I feel like seat taken has already stopped hitting on me. Why would you guys saying no actually I married him in a very long relationship, and the seat has been taken by him. Maybe there's this possibility that the seat is, you know, just for one of her, a girlfriend, you know, a friend of
hers that she went to see the play with. Yeah, right, okay, okay, so you went back to your regular seat, then I did. I did. I said, okay, well, you know, and enjoy the show. And then I went back and the show started a few minutes later, and and it was good, okay, But then through the show I sort of kept the eye just looking over by her to see if him in a hat showed up, because you almost sound like you're starting to get a little creepy guy that keeps
looking over at her during the play. I did it. That's that's the thing. I didn't want to, So I kind of did, like the perfuel vision to see if there's any action happening over there. Um anyway, So intermission comes and no one had showed up. Oh the mysterious vacant seat. She's either lying to you or the person
didn't show up. So you know, I went out, I got something to drink, do the intermission stuff, and and when I came back in, I came in, so I walked past her to get into the aisle, and as I walked past her, I just said, hey, the seats still taken, and she said no, they didn't show and I said, oh, well, do you mind if I sit there? And she said sure, So I say, good persistence. Okay. You know, I would have felt weird going back up
to her, being like, yeah, hey, what's up. You said someone just come for that seat, but it's been open this whole time and I've had my eye on that seat. So yeah, and you're a liar, just lied to everybody. What's what's going on with you? I want to seem that way. I didn't want to see a creepy guy. It was more like, you know, like I felt bad, like she got food up on her dad. It's kind of awkward, though, I mean, you're putting her in a position like what is she going to do? Stick to
the lie at that point. No, someone's still coming for the last half of the play. But the good thing is the play finishes and we start talking. And then I just said, do you want to go grab something to eat? And she said, yeah, sure, that'd be great. So that's cool. Okay. Yeah, So we laughed, and we walked to the place and we sit on and you know, we talked for a little while. We get a drink, we get some food, conversations great. You know, it's not
creepy at all. And I noticed so that she's starting to get a little life tired, and so I was like, oh, you know what, won't we just call it a night? And she said, yeah, that'd be great. So I walked to her car, said good night, gave her a hug, and said can I call you? And she said sure? And so I texted her a couple of times and I never heard back, and I was, you know, I thought things had gone well, and you know, I didn't I emailed you guys. Did you ever find out who
the seat was for? You know, we didn't talk about it at dinner because I thought if I brought it up and she could get stood up, it would be uncomfortable or make her feel bad. So I just stayed away from it. I had a good idea. So how long have been since you guys went to dinner? It's been like a week and a half. A week and a half, okay, So she's definitely blowing you off. Yeah, yeah, And you know, I just think about why, you know,
who was that seat four? Maybe it was for a boyfriend or someone that she was dating and he finally showed up, or and now she's like, nine, what I'm gonna do with you? Maybe I was to forward, you know, maybe I was a creepy guy in the theater trying to steal the speed. Or yeah, so that's why you mailed you guys, Well, we'll play a song, comeback, call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay, great, thanks, all right, man, just hold on broken jubil in the morning.
You know, I forgot to ask the most important question about today's second date update. If you just missed the first part. Tim is on the phone and he wants to call a girl named Sarah today. They actually met at a play. She had an empty seat next to her at the beginning of the play. He asked if he could sit in it because he wanted to move seats and sit next to her because he thought she was hot, and she said it was taken, And then after intermission he saw the seat was still open, so
he asked her again. She ended up saying yes, you can sit in the seat, because whoever she was waiting for didn't show up. After the play, they went to dinner, had a great time, but now she's not calling him back, and I forgot to ask him this, and I'm sorry about that. Everybody listening, I know that you really want to know, Tim, how was the play? No one cares about that, like scale of one to five stars? What
are we talking? Well, the first act I was a little distracted because I was, you know, trying to figure out what the MP feat was about. So I think it was like a three. Okay, good, all right. Shouldn't we even do the Seconday update now? Or have we gotten that all cleared up? No, I still want to know why she never thought okay, and Tim, you can't remember any awkward moments you guys had when you went
for dinner and drinks after the play. No, everything was real, like casual and cool, and I thought I was being very like polite and I asked a lot of questions about her, you know what she's like. I thought it was a good conversation. You actually seem very charming and like a good listener. So I'll give you props on that. Well, thank you, thank you, horrible play reviewer. But yeah, I'm gonna dollar phone number right now here we go. Okay, Hello,
Hi is Sarah there? Yeah, this is Sarah. Hey Sarah, how are you? My name is Jebil and I host a show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay, how are you today? Fine? Thank you? What's this regarding? Well, it's regarding a date that you went on just a little while ago. Okay, I know we started out so
business like, didn't we know? It's you might not even think of this as a date, but you recently hung out with somebody and they've been trying to get a hold of you to get another date, but you're not calling them back. So they emailed us to see if we could get you on the phone and find out why. Oh jeez, his name is Tim. Seriously. Yeah, he told us about how he met you at a play and then you had dinner after, so he contacted you to
get ahold of me. Yeah he did. Apparently he's been trying to get ahold of you, but you're not returning any of his phone calls or text messages. Yeah. I don't know. I'm just not into it, I guess. Oh, it sounded almost like for a second you were excited that he contacted us. I was more surprised, not excited. Read that wrong, then, Yeah, Well Tim told us about how you guys hung out. He said that it seemed like you had a great time, and he's confused. Wow.
I think he's an interesting person. I just I don't know. I don't know how I feel about him. Can I tell you what I think it is and you let me know if I'm right or wrong? Okay? So he said that when he saw you at the play, you had an empty seat next to you, and he asked you like twice if he could sit in it. The first time you said you were waiting for somebody to show up. The next time you said, sure, I didn't show up. Were you waiting for a boyfriend or a
husband or something like that? Uh? No, I'm definitely single. Okay. I actually just got canceled on by a friend. So, I mean, why would you say yes to him sitting there when he asked the second time, and yes to dinner if you weren't interested in him? I mean I was interested in him, but I only know him for like ten seconds, and you know that kind of changed once I got to know him. Oh really, I told him after we talked to him that he was charming and a good listener. Apparently I also had a bad
read on that. Yeah, I don't know. It was fine, and then at dinner I just sort of got some red flags. What sort of red flags can you tell us? Basically, we were walking into the restaurant and he stepped on my heel and he just says oops, and I so he stepped on your he stepped on your shoe and then said oops. Yeah, and like you know, normal people would apologize if you just stepped on someone, right. Oh, yeah, he didn't say sorry about that. No, he didn't say sorry.
It was really strange. And then at dinner later he knocks over his glass and it breaks, and when the waitress comes and picks it up, he just says the glass fell. He didn't take responsibility for the shoe or the glass. Yeah, exactly, no apology. You know, if that would have been me, I would have been so embarrassed. You know, you've broken the restaurant's glass. Yeah, he didn't apologize at all, So it was he kind of a jerk then just pointing out, hey, glass on the ground,
pick it up please. Honestly, it kind of read like that, and that is just not what I'm looking for. I'm just not into somebody who can't say that they're sorry, you know. I'm looking for someone who's more polite and can admit when they've done something wrong, when they've stepped on someone maybe or broken someone else property. I mean, it's the first date, and you'd think on the first date that's when you want to be the most polite. And I think he just has some kind of problem
where he can't say he's sorry. Okay, I want to let you know that I don't have that problem, and I want to tell you that I'm sorry to break the news. But Tim is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you right now. What. Yeah, I'm sorry about that. Tim. Are you there? Yeah? Hi? Tim? Is that you? It's me? Hey? So awkward? Is that the real reason why you didn't come it back? Because I didn't say sorry? Yeah, that's the reason I'm sorry. See I can say it, but I don't know why
you're saying it. Why I just said I'm sorry. Yeah, it's just an empty sorry. Wait now you need sories with depth. It just seems like for me, So okay, So we were walking in the restaurant. We were in the middle of a conversation, and I know he's talking about I stepped on your heel, and I sort of just went like oops. It went back to the conversation. It was like sort of looks like a toss off that it happened. It didn't happened on purpose, and it was in the middle of a conversation, so it just
like oh, oops, and we just continued. I didn't I didn't think it was that big about red playing. A normal person would say I'm sorry, yeah, but I didn't step on you. I stepped on your shoe. I would be apologizing if are you right now? Yeah, most people would. Why why would I say sorry? I didn't do any of those things on purpose. Okay, sometimes you don't do things on purpose, you can still say sorry, Like you
accidentally stepped on about the shoe. People, those are just those are just empty sories because it wasn't I didn't do it on purpose. It was an accident. So if you were like driving your car and you accidentally hit a pedestrian, you wouldn't apologize for that either, because it's a no purpose. Well, whose fault wasn't seriously, are you serious right now? No, I'm just your foot set's on. My foot could not be my fault. It's not your fault. It was an accident. No one's fault, it's an oops.
I have never really dissected the word sorry like we're doing right now. No, it's just I grew up that if you're gonna say sorry, it's meaningful, and you should say sorry for something that that you did, and then you realize it was wrong, then you're like, oh, you know, you say, you say I'm sorry for that. But when it's like this an accident, like you know, if you bump into somebody, she's like, oops, it's not mean, it's not negative, it's just like oops, and then the lights
goes on. Yeah. But I, like everybody else, grew up with common courtesy. So even if you weren't going to say sorry, you say excuse me, or I didn't mean to do that. I just don't agree with that. Like if Sarah and I continued and we got a new relationship, and then later on something happened where I should say I'm sorry, and I say hey, Sarah, I'm sorry, it would have such a huge meaning and she would really know it. Wow, he's really sorry. Hey, I cheated on you,
but I'm really sorry. And you know I don't throw that word around willy nilly. No nothing, Yeah, you shouldn't throw it. You're right, you shouldn't throw it around, willy nilly. That is so not what I expected your response to beat all this, Tim, Well, I'm not really sorry about it's sorry. I'm not sorry. Sarah's yeah, and you know, guys, I'm not surprised. Okay, so are we done here? No?
Not yet, Sarah, we're almost one. But I do have to ask you if you would like to go on a second date with Tim, we will pay for it. You know what. Sorry, No, it's so immature. It's so immature to say that with that tone, like now you're ruining sorry, he ruined the word climate immature that you can't use your manner that a six year old can use. So did he practice that? Will say sorry for sneezing, they'll say sorry for anything. I am an adult, I'm a grown man. I only say sorry when it counts
and when it's needed. I like that. Oh man, all right, well sorry, all right, well sorry I can't even say sorry now without thinking about it. I won't say sorry because it's not my fault. Tim, you didn't get a second date. Broken Jewil in the Morning checks in at seven eighty five to nine two says that dude Tim is right. People throw apologies around with zero meaning these days. He's not wrong. Talking about today's second eight update, if you missed it, this guy Tim wanted to call Sarah.
They went out on a date, had a lot of fun, but she wasn't calling him back. And the reason why I was during the date he accidentally stepped on her foot, but he didn't say sorry. That's why she wasn't calling back. And then they got into an argument about sorry because he felt like he shouldn't have to apologize because it was an accident, he didn't do it on purpose, and she says he still should have apology. Guys, and then we went back and forth and back and forth talking
about what you should and shouldn't say sorry for. In the end, it doesn't really matter because he's not getting another date. Yeah, there's a lot of a lot of debate now about the word sorry. People are very strong about it. Yes, they are a lot of people actually supporting him for not saying sorry. And then a lot of people calling him an a hole, So texts of an eight five to nine two what should you say
sorry for? And what shouldn't you say sorry for? And it'll be a hot topic we won't probably won't discuss further because it's kind of boring. Anyway, if you want to do a second day update, all I have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back