2nd Date Update PODCAST: Reimagined Virgin

what's up, Katie? How are you? Hey, guys you're at We'll get to how much you like broke guys in just a second, But first, tell us about the broke guy that you went on a date with. What's his name? His name is Gabriel. Gabriel all right, and how did you meet him? We met on a dating app, not to pay for dating app. Obviously true. It was that like part of his like profile that he said he was a broke dude. No, not like that's not the

central factor of the story. Oh, okay, do you guys know, Yeah, that's just what I chose to highlight on from our email. Tell us about your date with Gabriel we had a great date. I mean, and honestly, like I've I've been on and off dating apps for the last year, like a few like Bumble, Tinder, Okay, Jupid. I've really tried a lot, and some have been really bad, but some have been good. And Gabe, this one, my hand, was

actually one of the best I've ever had. I've never felt like I've met someone online and really really really like them. Oh yeah, so sweet. Yeah, it sucks even more that you're not going to call back now exactly. And that's why I wanted to talk to you guys. Tell us about the date and why I keep calling

him a broke guy. You should probably explain that. Yeah. So, so we met at a restaurant and it's kind of funny because we sat down and he looked really nervous, and I've done this a lot in the last year, and it's kind of just like it doesn't really work me up anymore. And I like looked at him and just said, you don't have to be nervous, And I thought, maybe, I don't know, maybe he doesn't do this a lot, Maybe he I intimidated him, maybe he thought I was

pretty I don't know, but either way. I just kind of wanted to let him know that it was cool and like it's okay, like, no no pressure, this is just fun, right, did that help? Well? He said that it wasn't that, and it was something else, and so I asked him what he was talking about, and he said, to be honest, I just don't think I can afford the food here, So that's your broke jokes thing whatever.

I laughed at him and left. No, no, no, I laughed because I was not expecting that, and I just I told him, wow, why you're a breath of fresh here, because honestly, like I love that you are honest? All right, Yeah, I don't know. I was not expecting him to say that, And it wasn't a turn off to me. It was too expensive, and I appreciated dishonesty. I've done that before, like I've definitely looked up menu, was ahead of time and changed plans rightly. So what did you guys do?

Did you leave or did you offer to pay for the meal? So I said, well, let's just get out here and go somewhere else. And you know, he was kind of worried and so are you sure? Is it okay? And I said, yes, what are you fine, let's go, and it wanted to be weird uncomfortable, so we left and just went down the street and grabbed some euros and beers at this little hole in the wall placed perfect. Yeah, it was you know, it's great. I don't care where we are. I just wanted, you know, meet someone and

talk to them. And it was super fun and the honesty must have made you feel comfortable with him too, totally, and it was like, you know, without having this kind of like fine dining atmosphere around as it was better I think in a casual setting. So that was great and so did he drop his nervousness after that when you guys went to the europlace totally and we talked like nothing felt like formal or surfacing or superficial. We talked about like a lot more and I felt like

we were really connecting and it was so refreshing. Okay, oh my gosh, you sound like you were so jaded before this man came along, and he like renewed your spirit in like the hope for love. Yes, I always have zero expectation, which is why you're never nervous, because he got nothing to lose exactly, that's how Yep, that's exactly what I do. And so at the end of the day, I kind of like was joking with him and I was like, do you want to die in dash here too? And he thought it was funny and

we laughed and did you guys actually dine and dash? Though? No, we didn't, damn we just you know, we ended the day normally. He gave me a hug and I have not hurt him him since, like, except for a text dot night saying thanks to the date. Okay, and what do you think went wrong? Why do you think he's not wanting to go out again? I don't know, like I said, just being able to be honest with each other, changing the place like going to someone and more casual.

I thought that it was kind of fun and chill and there was no hard feelings, no reason to feel embarrassed or weird. I thought it was really really actually, he's like again, one of the best days I've had in a long time. I think it's straight. He's not calling you back either, yeah, because you sound awesome on the day, thank you. I thought it was all right, Well we'll try to figure it out. We'll play a song and then come back and call him and get

your second day up date. Okay, great, thank you, Yeah, hang on looking jubil in the morning. Hey, Katie, Yeah, that's gotta be frustrating because you said you went out on one of the greatest dates in your whole life, and now the dude's not calling you back. That's I just I was just thinking about it's gonna be frustrating because clearly you had a very different experience if you think about it. I mean maybe, yeah, you know, I

don't know why. I mean, I don't know either. You sound cool, especially, you know because you told us how you guys went out to a restaurant that was too expensive for him, and he actually told you that, and you still were like, let's get out of here and go someplace cheaper. That's very understanding. As a dude, I'd be like, oh, that's awesome. She doesn't care if I have money or whatever. I can just be myself really good. So I don't know why you're not getting a call

back either, but I'm gonna call him now. You know, he didn't have enough money, so maybe he's just saving up money so he can take you on a better date next time, Like olive garden. Wow, maybe take you to the gas station, buy you a Voss water. Maybe he's saving up for a Voss water that's the fancy one in a glass bottle. You know. Hey, you guys joke, but that's actually really romantic. If that was the case, I absolutely think that you should go to the gas station with him. I would I would go to a

gas station. I just want to see him again. All right, Well, I'm gonna call him right now and see if we can figure out why he's not getting back to you. Okay, okay, okay, here we go. Hello, I gotta speak to Gabriel. This is Gabriel, Gabriel, how are you man? This is Jewel from the radio show Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Call him from where Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh um? Okay, okay. Any idea why a radio show is calling you? Or do you

get radio show is calling you? No? I have no idea. Where are you guys calling? Kay? I'm calling you today because we got an email about you from somebody who listens to our show about me. Yes, her name is Katie. Oh okay, weird, weird? Do you know Katie. You remember Katie. Yeah, yeah, we went on a date. Yes, Yeah, that's exactly why we're calling. We do a segment called the second Date Update.

That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened? Slow down for a second. Why why isn't she calling me? Why isn't she just asked me herself? Well, because apparently she's tried to get a hold of you, but you won't text her back or call her back. So that's why she hasn't asked you herself, because you won't respond to her. Yeah, pretty good reason,

the whole point behind what we're doing right now. I get that. But she conducted a radio station. Yeah, I mean how else? I mean, she didn't have any other way to get a hold of you, and she also know what's going on. So bizarre. Okay, did you wait? Do you like Katie? She was nice? Yeah, she seems like a nice person. You know. She said that the date she went on with you is one of the best dates she's ever been on in her entire life.

That's wow, that's that's sweet. Yeah, no pressure or anything. Yeah, and she can't think of any reason why you wouldn't want to go out with her again. Did she do something wrong on your date? You know, she just has kind of a unique view on how life works, and I wasn't really my thing a unique view on how life works. Can you explain that a little bit more for us? You know, it's it's kind of embarrassing. I

don't know if I should okay, embarrassing for her? You think it might be okay, Well, she's prepared to hear whatever you have to say. I mean, that's part of the deal when you do this with the show, is you know you might hear something you don't want to hear. So and how could her life you be embarrassing? I don't know. It's her thing, it's not my thing. I don't know if it's embarrassing to her. Why don't you give it a shot and see, Yeah, we'll tell you.

She just wants to know, all right. Well, look, she mentioned during the date that she's a virgin. But when she told me, I was shocked. I mean I wasn't sure how to react. Okay, so what just too much pressure? Knowing that she's a virgin. I think I should clarify exactly what she said. Okay, she said she was a reimagined vision remained imagined virgin, right, And I was confused, like, oh, sorry, are you are you you know, born again? Are you? Are you religious? And and she said no, no, it's

not like that. It's just that after every hook up with a guy, I reimagined myself as a virgin. Wait, so she's having sex on the regular but just imagining herself as a virgin afterwards. That that is my understanding. Yes, so according to like a doctor, he would say that she is not a virgin. But she said that, Look, you're talking to the wrong guy about this. But all I know is she said that she imagines herself as a virgin and that she's waiting for the right guy.

I thought, okay, so am I the next person to be with this reimagined virgin? You could take somebody's imaginary virginity but a pressure, Yeah, I've never heard of that before. I had never heard of it either. You said, you're not the right guy to ask about it. But I do know the woman that we should ask about it, and her name is Katie. Don't you think we should ask her. Yeah, I mean, I've already talked to her about it, So if you're curious, I'm sure she would

talk to you about it. And I'm very curious. You know, why don't we just all talk to her about it right now? Because she's on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah? What yep, Katie? Yeah wait, I'm wait, she's on the other line. Yes, Katie, say hi to Gabriel. Hi Gabe, Hi, Hey Katie, Hi Gabe. I'm just a little surprised that you feel this way. I had no idea and I you didn't say anything during the date. What am I supposed to say? You

said you were reimagined virgin. I didn't know what to say at the moment. I just don't understand why you didn't ask me about it, or or say that it bothered you or that you thought it was weird. It's not. I could have explained to you everything about it, Like it's not even just me. This is a movement. So this reimagined virgin thing isn't something you came up with on your own, Katie. No, of course not. And is it? Wait?

Is it just because like, are you feeling guilty after you have you know, like one night stands or something, and so you want to pretend like it didn't happen. No, No, it's nothing about guilt or shame. It's it's just about feeling like the person you're with is well, making actually your relationship with the person you're with and the moment special and everything's new. You know, there's nothing, no past

experiences kind of to compare to others. But you can't just like erase your past like it doesn't like life doesn't work like that, right, you were obviously when you get in bed with somebody else, not virgin, like if you've had a lot of experience and that's not a bad thing. Well maybe that's the situation for you, but that's not how I feel because I'm a reimagined virgin.

So do you act all like scared and timid during it or like what's the It's not really about acting here, and it's just being with someone without feeling like you have to be a certain way, like remembering how your last partner like to do things, you know what I mean, It's like discovering everything together sexually. Right, Okay, that's not a bad message. Weird label yeah, weird label. Yeah, maybe you guys are getting messed. I still am kind of at a loss, Like I don't see how someone can

couldn't go through and think that they're reimagined virgin. Yeah, Katie, why why reimagine yourself as a virgin? Why not just go I've been with ten people, but now I'm with you because I just said that when I do give myself to someone, I'm hoping that that person is going to be my fervor person. And if they're not my fervor person, then I can just wipe sy clean to forget about them and reimagine myself a virgin. Again. That is convenient virginity very convenient. Means don't have to hold

out or anything for that one. See. See that's what I mean. It's such a that's a big responsibility. I don't know how I feel about that. Yeah, but game, couldn't you just reimagine yourself as a virgin and then it's too reimagine virgins together? What you're describing sounds like two people just doing a lot of drugs and not remembering anything. Actually, actually and she does, but with me, it means that she wants to be with me. Forever, and I'm not ready to have that commitment yet. Yeah. No,

it's actually the opposite. There's no responsibility because, like I just said, if it doesn't work out, I am able to just wipe that py clean. You know. I do see the pluses, but it still sounds weird to me. Okay, well maybe it sounds weird to you because you've never tried it. I haven't. I'm going to do that. I'm going to reimagine myself a version right now. Yeah you can. There's no religious connection, no religious affiliations. Age doesn't matter.

Anyone can do it. People you've been with, doesn't matter. Like who cares the number? Right? Done? I'm a virgin. Okay, you guys are laughing about this, but thousands of people are doing this and it's it's not weird at all. Thousands. You know, we're just off. Gabriel, would you like to learn more about reimagined virginity and go on a second date with Katie? Will pay for it. Katie, Look, you are a nice person. I am not interested in another day.

Oh the reimagined virgin thing is just too weird, too weird, or Katie, you can look at it this way he's respecting your reimagined virginity and doesn't want to take that from you. Okay, I guess, um, Gabe, thank you for respecting my reimagined virginity. Yeah, you're welcome. It's too bad, Gabriel, because I feel like Katie the Virgin could have taught you a thing or two. Nine two says, can I be a reimagined a millionaire? Sure you can imagine yourself anything.

I guess. Talking about today's second day update, if you missed it, Katie wasn't getting a call back from this dude named Gabriel, and when we called him, we found out why. She mentioned during her date that she is a reimagined virgin. Never heard anything like that before, but she explained it to us. That's not religious or anything, but after she hook up with the guy, she just reimagines herself a virgin again to keep things new and exciting.

So no matter what, she's always a virgin until the person she marries, and then she won't be a virgin. That's what she said. He thought the idea was extremely weird and didn't want the responsibility of taking somebody's reimagined virginity too much pressure. There responsibilities, so no second date for them. Remember if you want to do a second day, to update all you through his email and we will

call the person who didn't call you back. Young Jeffrey's song of the week is coming up at eight ten, brooking Jewil the Morning