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2nd Date Update PODCAST: Playground Peeper

Apr 03, 201916 min
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Five rooking Jebels Second date update. Dude named William is on the phone for today's second date update, and in his email he said he felt like a kid again. So I don't know if that means like you threw a tantrum and pete his pants and that's why she's not calling him back. We'll find out. Hey, William, what's up man? How are you? Hey? Good? How are you guys doing pretty good? Before we get into why you felt like a kid on your first date, tell us

about the girl you want to call today. What's her name? Grace? Grace? Okay, and how did you meet Grace? So we actually got set up by a mutual friend of ours. It is kind of like a blind date. We had never met before. We just had a friend who thought that we would get along. She was like recently single, is what he told me. And what were you looking for, like in terms of relationships? Kind of just that I mean, I'm

open to kind of where things go. So it didn't stop me that she had just gotten out of a relationship. But I figured, you know, if they thought it we'd get along, then you know, why not. Let's just see where it goes? Okay? So tell us about your date. Why did you feel like a kid? She old enough to be your mom? No, thank god. It started off just like kind of her chill. We we went and got coffee, and when she got there, I was just like,

oh my god, she's like beautiful. Like he didn't tell me anything about the way she looked, but I mean beautiful, which kind of made me a little bit nervous. Oh my god, because you hadn't seen her at all, You hadn't even done any like online research of who this woman was. No, it kind of happened fast. But yeah, so we just kind of met and that was in So I was like stunned when she walked through the door. I was like, oh my god. Did she seem pleasantly

surprised by you? I think? So? Okay. I mean she didn't make any faces that indicated that she wasn't so vomit right away. No vomiting, no, not nothing, nothing that bad. But I mean she she smiled a lot, like she laughed at a lot of stuff that I was saying, So like, you know, I could tell that she was

into me, and like I was into her. So the reason I said I felt like a kid is because we went for a walk afterward, is like the sun was going down and we were walking through this park and we passed by like a playground that nobody was on. There weren't any kids on or anything because it was at night, but we were both we looked at each other and we were like, this would be fun. Let's go like play on the playground together. Yeah, and she

seemed really excited about the idea. And it's been a long time since I've like been on a swing or anything. So we went over there and just like played around for a while, which was really fun. That's kind of cute. Was at the end of your date, as you guys

were playing, then you went your separate ways or what happened? Now? No, we so we we played we kind of did you know for a little while, but kind of got over that and then we just kind of laid down like there was like one of those old kind of like merry go round sort of things that spin, and we were there for probably a couple of hours, like talking about like I never imagined in this first date, like we get in but we talked about everything, like it

got really deep, which was you know, it was It was cool and then we it just like it went on and on and we like lost track of time, and I looked at my phone, which I didn't look at the whole time pretty much, and realized it was like midnight. Oh my god, Yeah, you got a park at midnight. You gotta get out of there. Yeah, I know, two grown adults in a park at midnight's probably not a good look. Yeah, but no, she just um so she's like, oh my god, I can't believe it's midnight.

And so I walked her back to her car, and uh, I realized afterward I probably was a good place to kiss her, but I didn't. But we you know, made it to her car, hugged goodbye, and she left, you know, asked her because it was so late. I was like, can you text me when you get home? And she did and that was it. That was the end of it. So that was the last time you've heard from her. Yeah, So when she texted me back that night to be like, yeah, I got home safe, that was the last time that

I heard from her. And I've texted her, I left her messages. I even like, I reached out to my buddy who set us up, and he was like, I haven't heard from her either since then, so like, I literally have no idea what's going on. It sounds like a really intimate date, you know, and that you guys really got to know each other. Maybe it was just too much for her right out of a relationship. Maybe

she got scared. Maybe I don't know. I mean, she was like really open with stuff, and you know, like I really was like listening to her, and so yeah, I don't know what happened, but like if she felt that way, like she could tell me. But like I've not heard a thing from her at all, like anything. Okay, well we'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if she'll answer our phone call

and get your second day to date. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, hang up looking jubile in the morning dates all right. In the middle of today's second day update, and if you missed the first part, William wants to call a girl named Grace. They were set up, I'm kind of like a blind date. Everything happened quickly. He didn't even see her before they went out. They met for coffee and then ended up hanging out at a playground until midnight, and he felt like a kid again.

He said it was awesome. The one thing he does regret, though, is that he didn't kiss her at the end of the night, and now he's not getting a call back and he doesn't know why. Will I'm thinking maybe it was the kissing. Maybe you should have kissed her. Yeah, I thought about that, like, I feel like maybe I had a chance to do that and I didn't, and

now I regret it. But then I just I keep thinking about everything, like I mean, I just I want to know what it is like if I did something or said something do her, if you were to kiss or what would it sound like? What? Why you want to kiss? Sound? Yeah, William? Uh, I don't know if I want to do that. Come on, just a little sample. Why what does a William kiss sound like? It sounds normal? Okay, that's a good answer, William. And sorry, No, you have

your fantasy. Okay, I'm gonna dial her phone of her right now? Are you ready? Yeah? No, I'm I'm ready. Anything to stop talking about my kissing sounds all right? Here we go. Hello, Hi, May I speak to Grace please? Yeah? Hi, I'm Grace. Hi, I'm Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. Hi. Hi. She's like, I don't know what that is. Who is this again? Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. I mean, we're people, but we are on a radio show. Oh okay,

why are you calling me? I'm calling you because we got an email about you from somebody who listens to show. His name is William William. He likes coffee and playgrounds. Can you make him someone weird? What's going on? We do a segment on our show called a second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then don't call them after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out

what happened. So William emailed us about you. He said that you guys had a great date and now you're not calling him back. Oh, this is really awkward on the radio, Like people hear me right now? Yeah, maybe if they're listening they will ye, this is really okay. Um. He said a lot of really lovely things about you and your date sounded actually pretty magical. Yeah, I mean

it was a really it was a nice date. Okay. Yeah, So if it was a nice date and there were no problems with William, Then why won't you go out with him again? I feel really, really really bad because he is a really good guy and it was a really nice date. But we're not going to be going out again. Why? I mean, I didn't really plan for this. Um, well,

what did he tell you? He said that you guys went out for coffee, then hung out on a playground and enjoy doing that until about midnight, and that was it. He also said he regrets not kissing you because he wanted to kiss you. Apparently he makes a really cool sound when he kisses. He regrets not kissing you though, Oh god, he's such a good guy. If you if you liked him so much, then can you at least

tell us why so we can let him know. I mean, if you hated the dude and never want to hear from M again or whatever, I could understand you're just not telling us anything. But do you think he has a right to know? Well? Literally, when I got home

after a date, I gotta knock on my door. It was my ex and we've been together for four years, like we've only been broken up for like a week, And he knocked at my door and he was really emotional and he had followed me and William through the entire date that we had, and he just following you guys, that's creepy. I kind of thought it was really kind of sweet. What he really thought like it should have been me and him instead of me and this new

guy William. So wait, was he like in the park watching you this whole time that you're hanging out with your date? Yeah? I think he was like in his car and he was just taking I was okay, creepy. You don't see that as a red flag? No, I thought it was really sweet. But he just like waited for me and was making sure I was okay. And he doesn't know who William is. So what if William was like this crazy guy, he's just protecting me. Okay, So you see it as a good protection thing rather

than a creepy stalker thing. Yeah. I mean I was with him for four years. I know him pretty well, so no, he's not a stalker. Yeah, it was a guy, I guess. I mean what happened Then that night he comes to your house. He's crying and he's like really upset and he really wants to get back together, and he says he's really serious about us, and he brought flowers and he wrote this really long letter and I

was just really overwhelmed. And he was saying that he regretted cheating on me and he shouldn't have done that, and he's an apologizing and that's why you guys broke up. Yeah, okay, hee did once in four years? Well yeah, yeah, I mean I think even yeah, I think one time for a lot of people is too much. But can you get one every four years? I guess yeah. But it was like the girl was kind of shoving herself on him,

like she was like a really big flirt. Okay, so wait are you I mean, you're defending him a lot right now. Well, because he's a good guy. I've known him for him, he's not like a stalker and he's not a cheater, Like he's not like Furial. It's not that one time. I mean, he did both of those things, but that doesn't make him those things. I mean, he's just emotionally like overwhelmed. That's why he followed me and like we were having problems in our relationship and the

scroll was just like shoving herself on him. So okay, okay, So are you saying that you don't want to go out with Willigan because you're getting back with your ax. Yeah, I can't give up on my guy. You know, William and I really had a great time. But I've only been single for a week and I've been with my guy for four years, and you know, we're really serious now, so I have to give him another shot. Why don't you tell Will that? Because Will is actually on the

other line listening. I wants to talk to you. Will. Are you still there? Yeah, I am here, Grace Meet Will, Will Meet Grace, Will, Grace. I'm so sorry that I sort of dropped off, but I just I just didn't know how to handle the situation. I'm just I'm really embarrassed and I'm so sorry. Yeah, I mean I get that if that was a rough way to hear that stuff. Yeah, I also didn't plan on being on the radio. I

didn't even know you were listening. Yeah, but I just I texted you like a lot, and I called you and left messages and like I didn't know what to do. And then like to find out that like that's what happened that night after you left, and like that's why I haven't heard back from you, Like I don't know, man, that's I know. I like, okay, honestly, like I haven't dated in four years, you know, and my girlfriends were like, yeah,

it's okay to like not respond after one day. So I thought, like that was like my response not responding. You could ask your boyfriend because he's been on I mean, yeah, like, what is the deal with this guy? Like, honestly he cheats on you? Like it sounded like it was a bad point in your relationship and like, yeah, it was like barely anything. I just like really reacted impulsively. But just for the record, like if it was you and I,

like I would never cheat on you. I mean think of like it took this guy cheating on you and you breaking up with him for him to like open up to you the way that you and I did the very first time we met. Like, don't you feel like we had like something like really special that is like not like this other guy, Oh what a sight for it? Will you know? I've been with him for four years and he's a really good guy, and we definitely had like a connection, but we had more than

a connection. I mean like I mean did wait, hold on, did you tell him that we were going on a date, Like is that how we knew where we were or did he just like find out on his own? I mean, I guess I I told him that we were going on a date, But it wasn't like a like a weird thing like it was. I just was telling him when I was doing that day. I mean, listen, you were so nice. You really are a good guy, you know, and in any other universe we would definitely be trying something.

But like right now, it's it's just not gonna work. Grace. So are you saying you want to go on a second date with William because if you do, we'll pay for it. Would you like to go on a second date with William? I don't think we'll pay for it. Hold on before you answer that, Grace, do listen to me for a second, Like think about what you're comparing here, Like you're looking at a guy who, even after four

years with you, cheated on you. He only got back together with you because of like this desperate with him in the middle of the night to like come to your apartment after coming home from a date with another person. Or you've got like this guy who, like you had this really real connection with you have a chance to like start over with something good instead of like going back to this old thing that you saw, did it work and that, I mean, that's what you want to do, ma'am.

I'm so sorry. I I really have to give this a shot because I really care about him, and again, like you're so wonderful and like what you just said to me. If I was single, I would be like, yes, of course. I think everyone right now who has been in a relationship where they've been cheated on is just

screaming like it's hot. I mean, I hope it works out for you, Grace, but the majority of people in your situation, you're just going to end up breaking up with him again and wasting more time and energy on a relationship that isn't going to last. That's your opinion, and you're entitled to have that. But I know him and I have to give it a shot. Okay, Sorry, I've been there. I get it. Sorry, William, no second date, Maybe start cheating on women and then well broken Jewil in the morning,

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