Need Lasic trust the experienced team at the Lasic Center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lasic at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jebels Second date update Today, a dude name Adam is on the phone for a second date update and his email said it was one of the worst but also one of the best dates of my life. So I'm really interested to hear what happened. Hey, Adam, what's up?
How are you? Hey? Guys, how's it going. I take it the good outweighs the bad since you're on the phone with us trying to get a second date update. I don't know. It's like one of those dates that kind of like you didn't think would go too great, but then it just don't go great, but also went gray. We totally know it. No clue what you're talking about. Why don't you tell us the girl you want to Holliday? What's her name? Marcy? Marcy? All right? And how did
you meet Marcy? We met at a bakery. That's kind of cute. Were you guys both buying bread at the same time and you reach for the same loaves and your hands touched No, I had to put a little more effort into it. But I was just there, you know, getting coffee and stuff. But she was picking up a cake and I thought she was kind of cute, so I sort of just struck up a conversation and was like, Hey, is that is that cake for me? Because it's my birthday?
Was it actually your birthday? Or is that just like not even quote a fabulous, fabulous pickup line I would have worked on me, it obviously worked on her. So it was like one of my stronger pickup lines. Um, that sounds strong. Did you actually ripped the cake from her hands and say it was your birthday? And yeah? She was like, well, it's my friend's birthday, so she'd be kind of mad if I gave away a piece of her cake. So I was like, well, really I
just wanted your number. Oh that smooth man. Yeah, so she was happy to oblige that. What do you guys do when you actually went out? We just went off to a bar to you know, have some drinks and kind of talk and stuff. What was your mood going into it? Oh? It was great, Like we were super friendly. That was the bad part. You're like, oh, I didn't
want to be there at all. Yeah, Well, the bad part was probably like twenty thirty minutes into it or really like vibing, and I keep getting a couple of calls from my mom, which is not like really normal. She didn't usually call a bunch of times, right, So then you automatically think it's an emergency. I would, oh, yeah, absolutely, and it was. I mean, my grandfather had died. Oh it's not the kind of news you want to get
in the middle of a date. I guess it depends on your relationship with your grandfather, but I would think it would be a bad thing. Yeah. Yeah, he's like that guy was an a hole. That's fabulous. So so I guessing you didn't like the news. No, news wasn't great, and needless to say, kind of threw me off my game. I mean actually one point, like I was kind of I was crying, and so she offered to stay with me for a little while and then actually came back to my place. That's a great way to get some
pity sex. It was a great way. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Heaven's got a wingman and his name is Grandpa. Now, actually we ended up having a little makeout session by the end of the night. I think it was unrelated. I hope it was unrelated. Hopefully the death of your grand i didn't turn her on. Yeah, so you guys actually went back to your place and made out. Yeah, so we went back to my place and did all that, and then you know, after a while, she was like, Okay,
well I gotta I gotta get going. Um it was getting pretty late. Said, that's like the worst date and the best date because it sounds like a really lovely interaction with another person. Well, yeah, it was. It was very personal and I feel like we connected, but like she's kind of been ghosted me a little since then. I tried to text her and they'll take like a while for a text back, like a few days, and it'll sort of just be like a one word thing or or nothing at all. Okay, so you definitely think
she's baowing you off. Yeah, any reason that you can think of why I. I guess I might be like an ugly crier. Yeah, but does anyone ever think that they're a pretty crier unless you're like in a Hollywood movie, Like it just doesn't happen in real life. I mean, like my cry is like pretty ugly. All just not. It's just a mess. I mean, and I kind of but a sort of chokes up like this really good, it's it's bad, it's it. That was a weird way to describe your cry. All right, So you think maybe
she was turned off by your ugly crying. It has to be otherwise, like we really hit it off. Why would you want to go out with somebody who isn't calling you back because you were ryan in not an attractive way. I guess because your grandfather died like that is shallow. If that's the case, well I don't I mean, I don't know if that's the reason. I just that's the only thing I could think of. Okay, well we'll play a song and then come back and call her
and get your second date update. Okay, okay, thank you rooking jubile in the morning. Nothing really out of the ordinary in today's second date update. I mean, we've all been on dates where somebody's died, right, Sometimes it's on the way home from the date. But whatever it happens. And Adam is on the phone, that's the issue that he's kind of dealing with. He went out with a girl named Marcy. They had a good time, but In the middle of his date, he got a phone call
that his grandpa had passed away. Obviously he was sad about that, but Marcy ended up hanging out with him for a little while longer. They even went back to his place and made out. And now she's kind of blowing him off and he doesn't know why. The only excuse he can think of is maybe he's an ugly crier. Adam, are you ready to call Marcy and see why she not wanting to go out with you again? Yeah? I'm
pretty anxious to find out. And I forgot to ask because I mean, you're thinking, like maybe it's the ugly crying thing. But you guys made out after that, right, Yeah? Yeah? And you didn't cry again after your makeout or you did? No, no, not during either. Okay, I was gonna say during would be even worse thing. All right, Well, I'm gonna dollar phone number right now and see if we can figure it out. Here we go, cool? Hello, Hi, can I speak to Marcy please? This is she? Hey Marcy? How
are you? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay, how did you get my number? I have everybody's number on speed dial all the time. I got your number because at call or something. No, no, it isn't um Okay. One of our listeners actually emailed us and asked if we could get in touch with you. Okay. His name is Adam, and you guys went out on a date the other day. Oh gosh. And we do a segment on our show
that's called the second Date Update. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up blowing them off after, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why. So. Adam emailed us, told us a little bit about your date and also is confused why it seems like you don't want to go out with him again. Oh my gosh, are you serious? No? This all joke print calls? Oh god, I mean, I just I don't know what to say. I feel bad. He said a lot of nice things
about you and about your guys's date. It sounds like you guys really had a connection. I don't know. I just kind of thought the whole night was a little weird. Well I can understand that. I mean, he told us about the date and how he got a call in the middle of it that his grandpa had died. That would make things weird. I would think, yeah, yeah, and I feel so bad. It did sort of put a damper on everything. Was that The part where things got a little weird was when he got upset and cried
about his grandfather passing. No, it wasn't. I mean, I hate to say it, but I kind of knew pretty early on into the night that I just wasn't really feeling it with him. And I can't really explain it, Like, I don't think it was anything that he actually did or said. He said, you guys made out like I feel like he obviously did not interpret. I mean, I know I shouldn't have done that. I really shouldn't have done that better. That was gonna be my question, if
you weren't feeling him, why make out with the dude? Well, because I was pretty much gearing up in my head how to tell him that, you know, I'm not really feeling it. And I was literally like about to do it. And then he gets this call and he gets a call from his mom, and I'm not I'm just sort of sitting there and I can really see that something
she's telling him really bad news. He starts crying find out that his grandfather passed away, And at that moment, I couldn't tell him that I wasn't into him, because that would be a tough situation to be and to be like, I'm gonna tell this guy that I don't like him, oh now his grand I was literally about to tell him because I'm not that type of girl. I really am not that type of girl to try to lead someone on, and I really knew from the
get go I just wasn't feeling it. I was going to tell him he gets his call, and all of a sudden, then I was just sort of like, oh, gosh, I have to be nice, Marcy. You do understand that being nice and then going back to somebody's place and making out with him are really two different things. I mean, I don't know your definition of nice, you know, But like, I didn't want to make his night any worse than what it was, so I just went with it. And I don't know what didn't you like about him? I'm
telling you, like, I can't really explain it. I just wasn't feeling it. Yeah, I mean, we all go out with people where, for whatever reason, you just don't really like him, even it's not that they're unattractive necessarily, just like they Yeah, I don't know. I think in the very beginning, it was just the conversation fell a little flat, and I didn't feel that spart I didn't feel that yeah. I mean, yeah, we get, we get all that, But why make out with him? I can't even Willie he
told you about that. I mean, it's duable of me, but it was sort of out of pity. So basically when he leaned in to kiss me, I just didn't stop him. I would get I would, you know, like it's easy to be judgy about that. But in the same vein, I feel like everyone in this room has made out with somebody that they weren't actually that into before. Oh I've done it for years in some relationships, for sure.
I don't know guys like as much as I knew that, I really shouldn't be doing this and it's so out of character for me, and I was not trying to take advantage of him in any way. But at the same time, I just witnessed this guy that I hardly know get told that a very close family of a member of his passed away. I just didn't have it in me to not please him a little bit. Wasn't there any moment like there was a one moment where you were like, oh maybe I was wrong, maybe I
could do this, maybe I could be into him. No, not at all. I was looking for hope there, Mercy. Well, Marcy, I do want to let you know that Adam is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. No, are you serious? Oh what mor can you guys do it to me? Adam? Oh? Gosh, yeah, summer hey, Oh oh my gosh. So I mean that the whole thing was at a pity. I mean, I I just didn't want to hurt your feelings. I don't know I would already you would already even hurt enough
that night, and I just really felt so bad. As hard as it was, he was hard for me too, because I was stuck in this like rock and a hard place, you know. I mean, uh, like we had we got pizza together after like that that was just at a pity because a pity pizza. I mean, man, I don't really know what more I can say. Did you give me like clear signs that you weren't interested? It seemed like you've made it out with me because you because a pity I mean pretty much. Yeah, I'm
just being honest with you. Now, I know you were called the radio ta. I don't know what more. I just I mean, you used a lot of tongue for a pity kiss. Okay, yeah, I mean, you know, Marcia, pity kiss has a certain amount of tongue. Were you going overboard on the tongue with your It was not a non committal makeout session, you know. Like I said, I felt really bad. I because I had to do something to like make your night a little bit better.
And I don't know what else I can say. Wow, I mean you are a very talented actress then, because you you know, this performance and what you did the other night, Like it's I can't tell what's real and what's not anymore, honestly. I mean what's real is that I think you should just try to move on. Oh just because I did that, I really I don't think it means that I have to go out with him again. It would just a second one would be another pity. It was like two dates basically. Yeah, and I now
we've gotten into deep, you know what I mean. It's it's I mean, I can't believe you would do that if that happened to you and one of your relatives died, I would do the respectable thing and just walk away get out of there. Okay, Okay, yeah, guys like I don't really this is getting to me too. I tried to be nice. I really did. I'm really sorry. Okay, Well, don't be sorry just yet, because I do have to ask you if you'd like to go on another date with Adam. We will pay for it. Would you like
to want a second date? No? Okay, I thought that was coming. Adam's like. I didn't even want you to ask that question anymore, because Marcy, you are real piece of work. Just like leading a guy on like that looks seriously. Okay, this is taking me back so much. I was literally just trying to be nice to you. I was trying to support you. I mean, is there anybody here that can back me up on this? Am I crazy or something? I was just trying to be nice. No,
they're not going to back you up. That's not well either way. Adam, you didn't get your second day, and Alicia know why now, and Marcy thank you for taking the time to talk to us about it. Appreciate it. Yeah, now I feel a hundred thousand times worse. Thank you. I want I want both you guys to think about this. That night, when you guys are making out, Adam's grandpa was watching you think about that. In the morning, text in A seven eight five nine two said I probably
would have done the same thing. Talking about today's second date update if you missed it, this dude, Adam wanted to call a girl named Marcy that he went out with. When they were out, he found out that his grandpa had actually died, and he was very upset. But she was there for him and they went back to his place and they even made out. But when we got her on the phone, she admitted that she was never really into Adam. She only stayed with him that night
and made out with him out of pity. Yeah. Yeah, she was about ready to tell him that she wasn't into him, and then he went to go like then then he got the call that his grandpa died, and then she was like damn. It kind of blew everything too. I will say, I think the most important text that I agree with that we've gotten several is he did sound exactly like Seth Rogan, Yeah, that's the most important. It was bugging me. I'm like, who does he not unlock? Anyway?
Maybe it was anyway, they are not going to go out again. If you want to do a second day update, just email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. Young Jeffrey's Song of the Week is coming up in just a few minutes at eight ten, move at ninety two point five.