2nd Date Update PODCAST: Out of Gas

got to explain that before we get into anything. Sure, well, it was at my family reunion, but it wasn't a family member. It was a catered event. You know, My family's all fancy like that. So she was on the catering staff. Okay, good, good, good. Usually when you say, like I met this great dude at a family reunion and we're going on a date, it's not a good thing. Yeah, yeah, not as creepy as it sounds. Probably. Okay, So he was a catering guy. What's his name? His name is Jeremy.

Oh my god, were you getting ridiculed by your family for I don't know what you were doing with the catering guy, but obviously talking to him a lot. Well, I wasn't talking to him, but I was talking about him because I thought he was super attractive. Like right when we got there, I was like, oh my gosh, that guy is so cute. And I told my mom that he was super attractive, and your mom was looking at your cousin. She's like, yeah, he is the cater

not my cousin, looking to the nut straight. Wait, so did your mom encourage you to pursue hot catering guy. Yes, to the point where she actually went up to him because I was too embarrassed and pulled him to ask me out. No, were you okay with that? Or were you mortified? I was mortified obviously. I thought it was so embarrassing, and you know, of course I had that mother daughter moment of being like, Mom, are you kidding me? Now?

I'm so mad at her. But then actually, at the end of the night, he came up to me and he asked me out. So, yeah, yeah, and your mom wasn't holding a gun at his back, right, I hope not. So what did you guys do when you actually did go out? Well, we went to dinner, but it was so weird because when he came over to pick me up. He actually came in and he said hi to my mom,

So that was kind of embarrassing. But he was super out of it when he picked me up, so I was like, Okay, I was excited because he's so cute, and then he's acting really weird. Um, what do you mean? He was like he was like drunk or high or something. Well that's what I saw, maybe he was. But then I talked to him about it, and he just said he was tired from all these catering gigs he'd been doing back to back. Yeah. I hope they didn't let

him drive you to the restaurant. Yeah. Well, in hindsight, I shouldn't have let him, because, like, we went to the restaurant, it was fine. You know, he's still out of it, but we had a good conversation and stuff. But then on the way home he um ran out of gas. Yeah, and he just said that he had been really tired and like wasn't looking at the gauge for god. Okay, So that's an awkward ending to your date. Yeah, and what's even worse is I had to actually call my mom to come get me. Oh my gosh, So

what you liked this guy? Still after all this, Yeah I do. I mean I thought maybe he just had an off night, And honestly, I just kind of feel bad that my mom's been so involved. So I don't know if that's what's going on. But like, he won't call me back. So did you tell him that you lived with your parents? No, he didn't know until he came over. Okay, yeah that could be. That could be a deal breaker for some people. Yeah, maybe I don't know, but I don't know. We had fun and he's the

one who didn't get gassed. What was his attitude towards your mom? He liked her? Okay, did it seem like he liked you? To me? It did, But you know, sometimes we aren't good at gauging these things, right, And I guess if he was tired from work and stuff, maybe it was even harder to tell exactly. I wasn't

really sure what was him being tired. And so when when your mom came to pick you up because he ran out of gas, did you guys end with a hug or maybe like a little kiss or something, or did you just get in your mom's car and bounce? To be honest, I was mortified. So I just like stood by and got in my car. So wait, hold on, you guys left him stranded with no gas on the side of the road like your mom, and you didn't go get him gas. Well, he had already called Triple

A and they were there, so oh okay. I didn't really want to wait with him because he seemed like really embarrassed and it just was awkward. Yeah. I was like, I'm gonna bounce, all right. How many times have you tried to get a hold of him since then? Probably dick to eight times. Dang, it's been like the week, like a week, and have you gotten any response from him at all? No. I just think he was really embarrassed by like how the night played out, and you know,

I just want to give him another shot. It didn't look good on him, but I feel like he might not know that it wasn't a big deal to me. Okay, So you pretty much want to try to get another day with him so he can have a redo, yeah, both of us, you know. Okay, Well we'll play a song and then come back and call him and get your second day update. Okay, Okay, thank you, yea, hang on brooking Jubil in the morning. You know, you've had a bad date when your mom has to come pick

you up, Brook and Jubel in the morning. And today's second day update, Alana is on the phone. She met a dude named Jeremy at her family reunion Relax. Wasn't a cousin, he was a caterer, and they ended up going out to dinner and on their date, she said, everything went fine, but at the end of the day when they're driving home, he actually ran out of gas and while he was waiting for Triple A to fill up his car or whatever, her mom actually came and picked her up and took her home. And now she

hasn't heard from him. So we're about get him on the phone and see if we can find out what Well, we know what went wrong, but what else went wrong on their date? Maybe? All right, Elana, are you ready to call Jeremy? Yeah? I am. I just feel like he may be scared by your mom, Like your mom pressured him into asking you out. Your mom was there when he picked you up, Your mom came and picked you up from the date, Like are you always that attached to your mother? I mean, I don't really think

that that's it. I think he just is embarrassed, Like, I bet he's just home, like freaking out about it and just feeling like the date went really bad. And I just want him to know that I'm going to give him another shot. Nice. Yeah, if I failed that badly on a date, I'd be thinking about it, like damn, I was so tired and then I ran out of gas. I can never call her again. But you've called him six to eight times, like I think that that would be signed enough that you don't care like is done.

I don't know. I think it's worth another shot. I really do. All right, Well, I'm gonna dial his phone right now and see if we can get him on the phone. Here we go, Hello, him asking to Jeremy please. Yeah, hey Jeremy, how are you man? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry, Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. That's a radio show. What's it all about? Well, I'm calling you because we do a segment on our show called the

second Date up Date. Have you ever heard of anything like that? No? No, I don't think so. Okay, Well, it's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back after they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened? And you went out with a girl named Alana the other day, Oh my god, and like you remember her? That's what this is about. Yes, about that date. Yeah, she emailed us. She told us

about how you met. She told us about your date, and she also told us that she's tried to get a hold of you a bunch, but you're not returning any of her calls or text messages. This is crazy. Yeah, okay, So what happens though, Well, we're trying to figure out why you won't call her back. So do you have an answer for that? Oh yeah, I can definitely tell you all about that date, but I want to know what she told you. Well, she told us that you met her at a family reunion. I guess you were

a caterer there. Yeah. Yeah, And she's said you guys went out to dinner and when you picked her up, you seemed a little tired. Said that you had been working a bunch and then you ran out of gas at the end of the day and that's where things ended. Yeah, yeah, that's like the short version. Well. She also added that like her mom pressured you into asking her out, and yeah, I mean that was I thought it was kind of cute actually, like her mom came up to the bar

and was like, hey, my daughter is interested. Will you ask her out? I saw her daughter. I'm like, yeah, my daughter is cute. Why not? I like, can't hurt anything. So you said, I got the short version, what's the long version? Then I keep your mind. We're are on the radio, so it don't be like twenty minutes. I mean, just like, what's the meat that we're missing? So I

go and pick her up at her mom's place. That was kind of a red flag number one, right, like I kind of expected her to have her own place or like some roommates. But right away, as we're like driving to the restaurant, I find out girl is nineteen years old. Oh okay, she didn't legal? Well yeah, legal, But also like, how old are you? I'm twenty eight. Yeah, you don't sound like a nineteen year old to me. I mean even if you were twenty three, maybe that's

on the edge because four years. But you know, I've been out of college for five years and she'd been out of high school for like one. Yeah, Okay, already she's a little young. You're feeling like, yeah, she's cute and everything, but like that might be why I was out of it. Like I was a little shocked and like like what if I got myself into right, So like yeah, I mean, and then the whole running out

of gas thing. I was borrowing my roommate's car, dude, Like, I like, I didn't have a car at the time, so I borrowed my friend's car. I didn't think to look at the gas gage and he like hands me the cards like yeah, sure, go ahead, not telling me it was on empty. By the time I saw it was too late running out of gas. Like it's already awkward. I'm just like canvas thing and already, um this is the kicker. This is what really gets me. When mom

comes to pick her up. As she's like going back around the car, she pulls me aside and says, by the way, I have a son who's into you two, would you want to go out with him? For everybody? And also kind of low blow to her daughter, like the whole thing was so strange, man, Like, don't get me wrong, I think it's really flattering that that this woman wants her son and daughter to date me. But it's just I don't really first of all, I don't really go that way, and secondly, like it's just the

whole thing kind of creep me out a little bit. Yeah, her mom. I think her mom wants to date you, and she's just like one of my kids is I've got to see you around the house, is what I want. I bet her mom is closer in my age. Would you would you ever consider dating a nineteen year old would you ever consider dating a twenty two year old guy? I don't know how older brother as I'm just guessing

his age there. Yeah, I have no idea either. Well, Jeremy, I do have to let you know that Alana is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. Oh my god, No, yeah, I think it's just her. I don't think her brother's there. But Alana, are you still there? Oh my god? I feel sorry. I feel bad now. I just don't know why my mom would say that to you, Like, did you really say that? I do not think you would say believe me, Why

would I make that up? Like, I don't know, I'd like you never had anything like that happened to me before, So, I, yes, your mom did say that to me. She did ask me if I wanted to go out with your brother. Okay, well she doesn't make sense. I mean, yeah, my brother is gay, But like, it doesn't make sense that she would say that after we went on a date. Did you, like tell her that you're gay or something? Why would No? No, I did not tell her I'm gay. When did you

have an opportunity to even do that? Yeah, a little roadside confessional while you're out of gas with her Momay, none of that. I don't know. Maybe at the party you told her that or something. I don't know. It just doesn't make sense to me why she'd say that that. Maybe she just thinks that, like young people nowadays, do anything, you know, go anywhere with her spectual. I don't know, Like I didn't. I definitely did not tell her I was gay, that is for sure. Did you think it

was a joke you just took too literally? No, I really thought it might have been a joke. But the way she asked me and the way she looked at me, and she was serious. She was honestly asking me if I would go out with her son after I just

had a bad day with her daughter. Okay, well I also want to say that I know I'm nineteen, but I'm like really mature from my age, Like I have no issue, you know, being outgoing talking to adult, Like even though I lived with my mom, you know, I have my friend order, like I'm saving up for grad school and you know, I'm really responsible, Like my room is really clean, I'm really organized. Like I'm sure you guys stopped laughing I'm really mature. I'm a lot more

mature than any of my friends. It's not funny. I'm serious who you are. We just don't have that much in common, Like even when we were talking, it's like we grew up at different times. Like we don't have the same kind of connections on things like you can't even have as a wine at dinner, you know what I mean. Like it's it's just too far removed from where I am in my life. Well, in two years,

I'll be able to drink with you. Just wait two years, yeah, anniversary, you guys, could you know, throw down a few glasses of wine? Jeremy, I mean, what if she's right, Like, what if you just wait a little bit. My sister got married when she was twenty and they've been married for like fifteen years and they're totally happily in love. Yeah, but check the thing. It's this much work and energy before we even get to the second date. It's looking like a lot of drama. If you start out a

relationship like this, it's probably not great. Maybe we got all the drama done up front. That's usually not the

way it works. I don't think the drama will be finished. Like, your mother is very invested in you and your brother's vibes, and your mom asked if I wanted to go out with your brother after we went out, Like you, I think there's a lot of drama there inherently in your in your family, and like I'll tell my mom to cool off, you know, like I'm not my mom, Like I'll be, but it's just too much, Like the whole

thing is. I just think we deserve another shot, like one more date, just one more date, and maybe, you know, without all that drama, you'll see who I really am. Man. I feel bad, but I don't hang out Jeremy. Let me let me ask you officially, would you like to go out on a second date with Alana? We will pay for it. I don't think so. I think that she's a lovely girl, and I wish her all the best and her I wish her mother and her brother

all the best. But I don't think I have a whole lot of time in my life for that kind of stuff. So sorry, I'm not interested. Okay, are you okay, Alanna? No, I'm I'm fine. I just I don't know. I think I think you're making the biggest mistake of your life, and you're gonna look back one day and really regret this. Oh my god, it's fine. I don't care. Hey, I know it feels like this now, like this is a really big deal. But with like young people like your generation,

it's so easy to find people. You have a lot easier than I did at that age. You're great. How I want to find someone, though, Well, if you want to find someone by your mom asking them to ask you out, I feel like you're really missing out on something. But and I don't know what you say to that. Okay, Jeremy, would you like to do on a second date with Alana's brother? We'll pay for it or first day that. Yeah, man,

I'm good. I'm good. On Matt in the morning, just a lot of thirsty people sending in text right now at seven eight five nine two. Either people want to go on a date with Alana or they want to go on a date with Jeremy. We're talking about today's second date update if you missed it. Alana met this dude named Jeremy at her family reunion. He was actually one of the caterers there, and then they went out on a date and Jeremy actually ran out of gas while driving them home, so she had to call her

mom to pick her up. When we called Jeremy, he said that he was turned off for two reasons. One he discovered that she was only nineteen and two when Alana's mom, Tam came to her, she also whispered to Jeremy that he could also date her brother if he's interested. You know, you like a family that gives. Mom was just trying to get either one of them a date

with Jeremy. A lot of thought that Jeremy must have given some sort of signal that he's into guys or something like that, otherwise the mom wouldn't have done that, and she insisted that she's really mature for her age. But in the end, Jeremy thought it was all too much and decided not to go out with her again. But everybody else on the textboard wants to go out with either one of them, so I'm sure they'll find

a date somehow. They'll be all right. Yeah, Or if you want to do a second ate up date, all you have to do his email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.