2nd Date Update PODCAST: Mystery Makeout

them go to the bathroom. If they have to use the bathroom, you make sure they relieve themselves right in your plane site, right there at the table. Make sure they will leave themselves right there at the table. I have not learned that. You're the other one that's picked that up. Not only is it sexy, we already know that, but every time somebody goes to the bathroom, they disappear. We hear that all the time and second date updates

if someone's going to ditch, that's what they do. Where people go out with someone and then they go, oh, excuse me, I got to take it real quick, and then they're never to be heard from again. And that's what happened to Tara, who's on the phone for a second date update right now, what's up Tara? Hey, how's it going? He just do you want a bathroom break? Yeah? Never let your day go to this freaking bathroom, Like,

don't break the seal. Oh my god. Okay, Well, before we get into him ditching you, where'd you meet this dude? So we'd met him bumble and we've been like chatting for a little bit and he's like a funny dude. Like we got along and I was supposed to be a concert with a friend and then last minute she totally diss me and I really wanted to go and I didn't have anybody to go with, so I bously like took a chance to asked the guys who come with me to the show? And he did and it

was fun. What's his name, by the way, his name's Ben. Ben. That's like a good opening that you took. Yeah, it's like super child, but not too much conversation, just enough, right, And did you guys have fun? It was a blast. We had so much fun. We were like dancing around. He was enjoying the show too. So I don't know, I feel like you don't have a good take on his actual emotions if he left in the middle of the date, not at all. I literally don't get it.

We were having such a good time up to that point. Literally five minutes before we were making out. Like, I don't get it. He made out with you and everything. Yeah, we were dancing. I mean there was kind of like this one point where we were dancing and it was like really crowded and we kind of like lost each other for maybe like five to ten minutes. I feel like we found each other. And right after that is

when like the making out and sued. So I figured it was fine, right, And if he was gonna dit you, why wouldn't he dit you when you lost each other exactly, That's what I was thinking. Yeah, that would have been the perfect time to get out and be like, oh sorry, it was crowded, and I thought maybe you left. And then like a little bit later, after all of these fun things, he was like, oh, I have to go to the bathroom, and then apparently the bathroom ate him.

Is there any way that he I mean, you said it was so crowded. Maybe he really honestly couldn't find you again, See that's what I was thinking. But even if you can't find somebody, you usually answer your phone. Oh yeah, and even if it's like dead that night, you call maybe the next day exactly okay. And you haven't heard anything from him at all, not at all, nothing. So what are you feeling right now? Are you pissed?

Are you I'm just annoyed and confused, Like, honestly, he's a bumble dude, so saying I'm pissed is like a little far okay, but I'm just confused. Like I give you a free ticket to a great show, I dance on you, and then we make out and that was so fun and then you leave, like really really like I know, I'm a great kiss there. Sorry if you're not. Was there anything awkward that happened after the kiss? No, like other than us losing each other, which didn't seem

like that big of a deal. Oh my god. What if he was cheating on you and then when he kissed you he felt guilty and he had to go, Oh well there's an idea. Yeah, I didn't think about that one yet. Did you know that hadn't crossed my mind? Thank you? How many times have you tried to reach out to him since you guys hung out? Um? I mean I texted him quite a few times at night, just because I was worried, and then the next day I hit him up, and then a couple of days

after that, and then I just left it alone. Yeah. Yeah, because he hasn't responded at all. Yeah at all. You're not being creepy at all. It's like a perfect amount of Yeah. I mean that's what I was wondering and texting him a few times at night. Like after you can't find him? Is understandable. You didn't freak out on him, did you. No. I was just like, hey, man, is everything good? Like where you at? And then I was like, okay, I can't find you. And then I was like, dude,

I'm gonna leave in like ten minutes. Yeah, that's normal. You're being a lot more chill about this than I think I would be. Yeah, I think i'd be really mad. Like I've had time to process. And again, I mean, he was really cute, but like I've also matched with way cuter guys. I just want to know, like it was a blast, Like I just want to know why. Okay, Well, we'll play a song, come back, call him to get

your second DA update. Okay, Okay, all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning dates if you're just joining us. For today's second day update, Tara is on the phone and she went to a concert with a dude named Ben and she got ditched. He said he had to go to the bathroom and then left and she hasn't heard from him since. And if you were listening to the first part I said earlier, this is proof that you shouldn't let people leave to go to the bathroom on a date. You should make him do it right

there in front of you. And I take that back. That's a little bit extreme, but I think from now on, if you're on a date and somebody says they have to go to the bathroom, you simply just follow them into the bathroom so that you know they won't leave you much better idea, Tara, you want to try that next time? Actually, yas, I'm taking notes. Okay, good. Have you ever been ditched before on a date? No? What? Never? I'm usually the one that does the ditching. Why this

is even more confusing? How long how long did you wait at the concert before you realize, oh my god, he's just gone. I mean, I was so really enjoying the show, so I definitely stay till the end, and then was like, oh, I don't know you people around me? So you still enjoyed the concert at least? Oh most definitely. It didn't like that ruin it? Oh good. I like your attitude. Like I said, I really just want to know why he would ditch me. Everything seemed like it

was going so well. All right, cool, Well, I'm gonna do host phone number right now and see if we can figure it out for you. Here we go. Hello, how can I speak to Ben? Please? Yeah? This Ben? Hello? Ben? Hi? How are ye today? I'm doing? Okay? Ye? Is Spanish for you? I'm sorry? What? Oh? Sorry? I should have introduced myself. This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Um, oh, okay, okay, cool.

Well I'm calling you today because one of our listeners actually emailed us asking if we get in touch with you. I don't really know why that's happening, but okay, that's what we're here for. Do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. That's where if somebody goes out on a date and then the person doesn't call them back after, they can email us to get that person on the phone and ask what happened. So you went on a date recently with a girl named Tara? Yeah?

Uh I did? She She wants you to call me, yeah, because she's been trying to get ahold of you, but you haven't answered any of her texts, phone calls or anything. And I mean that she's a bit of a weirdo. That kind of makes sense. What she's a weirdo bit? Yeah, wait, a weirder that you've made out with? What? No, no, weirdo that I absolutely did not make out with. Well, she told us that you did make out, that you kissed her. I don't know where that idea came from. Wait,

did you go to a concert with her? I did go to a concert with her. Yeah, that's true, but there was there was no making out at this concert. Okay. Well really, her story doesn't really match yours then, other than the concert thing. Okay, So she's she's telling you that I made out with her. Yeah, she says that you went to a concert, you guys made out, and then shortly after that you went to the bathroom and disappeared. Okay, Um, no, wait, no, one, what I mean you already said no on the kissing

did you ditcher though? Did you go to the bathroom and ditcher? I didn't go to the bathroom. I guess strictly speaking, I ditched her because she was hardly paying attention to me and I just left. Okay, so you did you did ditch her? Yeah, I mean I guess, yeah, strictly speaking, I did dis her. Okay, wait, hold on, go over the night. I want to hear what happened

in your words. Okay, Um, like you said, she got in touch with me, invited me out to the show, and you know, she was like in full long party mode when we got there, like she was looking around all the time, like she was fascinated by like the lighting at the venue and was paying more to engine that then to me. Well, in her defense, that day have good lighting, because you know, I'm a big fan of lighting. I mean, it was cool, but it's it

was all. It was like a moth to a flame, man, it was just the intensity of the focus was just But you're at a concert, Like, what do you expect her to do? Just talk to you the whole time that you mean you're supposed to listen to the show

and pay intended to the show. Well, yeah, I mean, we got there a little bit early, and when I would try to talk to her, she would be kind of staring off over my shoulder at something, and she'd be like yeah, yeah, yeah, like she she would just say yeah, yeah, yeah, and then go off on this whole other tangent. Really was like, yeah, I mean, I kind of hope so otherwise she's in for a really weird life. Okay. Once the show started, we were dancing.

I've never seen dancing like this. She's just like flailing all over the place and hopping up and down and left and right like I've seen enthusiastic dancing, and this was like verging on manic dancing. She's a manic dancer. And then we got separated in the crowd and I tried to rEFInd her. I looked for a minute or two, but then I realized, like, I'm just gonna be putting myself back into this really weird situation, so I just

I decided to leave. Okay. I want to know where the makeout comes from, though, because she told us that you guys made out, you lost each other for a few minutes and then found each other again and made out, and then he said, you had to go to the bathroom and left. I don't know what to tell you. I mean, there was no making out between You're a liar. You are so a liar, Terry, you're supposed to wait,

I'm sorry, but you are a liar. We totally made out, and that's tera if you can't tell already, she was on the other line listening. I wants to talk to you, okay, all right, yeah, So what's the deal? Why are you lying? We totally made out and then you did to me. I don't know what to tell you. Tera we had we didn't make out after we got separate, I did. I never saw you again. I left. No, we totally found each other and then we were like grinding up

on each other and then making out happened. What don't you remember? You pulled me in. It was like a low sloppy and nibbled me here a little bit, and then it was like a lot sloppy. It wasn't the best kit stober, But I mean, you know what, I wasn't going to hold it against you until now because you're lying. Um, well, yeah, I don't really have a response to that. Are you Are you lying? Ben? Did you make out? With her, and you just don't want to say that you made out with her industry. No, No,

I'm not lying. I didn't make out with her. I'm becoming increasingly glad that I didn't make out with her. Oh my god, Tara, how were you sober? I mean, how sober were you Tara when this happened. I mean I wasn't like exactly sober totally. I mean, I was really excited about this concert, so I may have like, don't little sounds to make it more fun, though I guess it worked if you were having plenty of fun, Tara, Were you like doing something else besides alcohol? Yes, yes,

I was. OK. I just wanted to make sure we're all clear on that. I mean I think we all thought it. But yeah, I mean, my friend and I had this whole plan and it was ruined when she bailed, so I figured I would still go through with my half of the plan, just with like bumble dude. But don't you think it's weird? Like it's kind of weird to like go out and do that on your own when the other person you're with isn't in the same state of mind. I'm not gonna say I totally thought

it through. No, but I regret very little. I had a blast. Okay, do you see like the possibility at least that when we got separated and then you found me again that it wasn't actually me that you found I mean maybe Tara, but I swear he looked like you. You were wearing a blue shirt, right, it was more of a like a green but no, all right, wait, hold on, does that mean Tara that you think that there's a possibility you made out with some random dude thinking it was Ben. I kind of its possible. I

was having a fun night. It sounds like you were. Okay, well, this is definitely making a little more funse I get it. Well, Ben, Ben, would you like to go out on a second date with Tara now that she's you know, it's really fun? Uh? I think I think fun is subjective. I was not having so like, I'm sorry, I'm really sorry that I thought I made out with you, but it was another guy and um, yeah, like it got out of control,

but we could definitely still like have fun. I'm not always that like out there and you know him, I don't know, Sarah, Like it was really strange. I don't know what to make of it. Really, maybe next time we can do something like a little more show like coffee. Yeah, what do you think, Ben, papamali and go to Starbucksum, if that's just a little bit out of control, I don't want to be around for the day when things get locked. That is a good that is a good thought.

You're planning for your future. Ben, Hey man, you are totally missing out. I'm a blast. Okay, Well your Tara, I'm sorry you didn't get a second date. And Ben, thank you very time. I appreciate it. Yeah, no, definitely, this was This was interesting. And I bet the random dude that she made out with once to thank you too. Yeah, seriously, who was that guy? Kara? If you ever find him,

call back, We'll do a second day up dat. There we go broken jupil in the morning and every single hey dude is texting in wanting a date with Tara. There's a booking jewel in the morning. There's a couple of ladies who also want to date with every single thirsty person. That's fine, everybody wants to date with Tarah. If you missed today's second date update, Tara wanted to

call a dude named Ben. She actually had plans to go to a concert with a friend, but her friend bailed, so she hit Ben up on bumble and then they met up at the concert and Ben ditched her. We got Ben on the phone and found out the reason that he did was because when he showed up, she was acting kind of weird and she was like staring at the lights, super happy, kind of spacey, and he

ditched her. And then she said that she made out with Ben, but it turns out she was so high on something that she made out with another dude and thought it was Ben. In the end, they decided not to go out again because I guess Ben isn't down with that. Yeah, that's all right. I don't think Tara's looking for a long term relation now. It doesn't sound like it. Yeah, exactly. Remember if you want to do a second day up, they don't have to do his email the show and we will call the person that

didn't call you back. It is Friday, so Young Jeffrey's Song of the Week is coming up at eight to ten Movement ninety two point five five