2nd Date Update PODCAST: Lost and Found

line date backfired, which means one of three things. Somebody farted, two, somebody's car needs to be tuned up because it backfired a few times or three. I said three things, but I only had two things. I'm out. Um, Well, let's go to Amy and find out what happened. Hey, Amy, how are you? Hey? I'm good. How are you good? So your email said that your date backfired. We'll get to that in a second. First, tell us about the guy you want to call. What's his name? His name

is Jay. Where'd you meet him? I met him online and it just seemed like we had a lot in common. I thought he was cute and good sense of humor. And you know, I've been doing this online dating thing for like over a year and it's getting kind of stale. You know, I'm ready to meet somebody nice, so you don't have to meet weirdos online anymore. I can understand that. Yeah,

So I thought this sounded promising. So Jay and I decided to meet up, and I just I wanted to make it more fun than usual, just like the average kind of date. So I asked him, before we meet, just let me be in charge of the date. And I'm okay, Yeah that was he was he into a woman that's in charge. Yeah, he seemed fine with it. I told him, it's a surprise. I'm not going to tell you what we're doing until we meet. I know it was me. I'd be like, sweet, don't have to

do any work. This is great. So what'd you plan for your date? Well, it's called the Lost and Found Couples Challenge. Oh no, what is it? Well? I thought

it would be really fun. You know, we met at a park, and what you do is you turn your backs to each other and then you each rock away for fifteen minutes, and then you turn around and walk back, and then you tell each other everything that you saw on your walk, Like you go have a drink or coffee and then so you just go on a fifteen minute walk and then come back and tell your date about it. Yeah, and the fun part of it is okay, good, I'm glad there's a fun part. Because I was looking

for it, I didn't hear it. No, it is, it's fun. You can't text each other. That's cheating. You can't text and say hey, where are you? You know, you just have to find each other, so, you know, you take a little different path and then you come back and meet up and find each other. That's the way it's supposed to work. It sounds like I mean, it sounds like it's something that like couples should do that have been together for a long time and need something new

to talk about and connection. I don't know, I think it's more like a get to know you kind of thing. I mean, I thought it was a really fun idea. Yeah, and I was like, you planning it took the work away from him, and then you gave him a whole bunch more on the date. It is unique. Did you seem to like it? No? Hence the backfires. What happened, Well, what happened was that I couldn't find him after the

fifteen minutes. I couldn't find him. We were supposed to meet up, like in the general vicinity, and I just couldn't find him anywhere. So I started getting worried, but you know, I didn't want to ruin the game by texting him, so I gave him a little extra time. But then I really had to text him because I just couldn't find him. Right, So did you find him finally?

Was he lost and scared somewhere? Well? No, no, he texted back and we agreed to meet up at this nearby a coffee shop, and so I went right over there and I thought he would be there, but he wasn't there, and I was waiting for like a half hour and didn't see him. So wait, did he never show up? That's right, he wasn't there. So I texted him again and I was like, where are you And he said, well, I'm here, and I said, no, you're not.

You know, like, I don't know if we went he went to a different and play for what because he was like, no, you're not here, but I was at the place where we planned to meet. That'd be frustrating to go on the first of all, the date and then not be able to find each other and then not be able to find each other in a coffee shop, right, exactly did you ever actually link up? I said, well, are you coming over? Like this is where I am. Are you coming over? And he said, you know, I've

got something else I have to do. It would be better for me if we just reschedule. I've kind of put a lot of time into this, and so he was just not into this. Sounds like it sounds like it did backfire and it turned him off after trying to search for you for two hours or whatever. But Amy, why do you want to go out with him again? He essentially stood you up on your date. Well, I thought that actually it went pretty well for those few

minutes that we did meet up. I mean, we liked each other, and I don't know what happened, but I think that we should give another try. I mean, it's not like something horrible happened. It's just, you know, there was a misunderstanding. So, you know, I still like him. I just want to see what happened. Okay, And I had to get a hold of him since he said, let's reschedule. Yeah, I tried to get a hold of him,

but he hasn't responded. Okay, Well, we'll play a song and then come back and call him and get your second day update. Okay, okay, thank you. Just make sure you're hanging out on the right phone. You don't go to a different phone you can't find you. Just hold on a second right, Okay, brooking jubil in the morning. Second date update if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Amy is on the phone, and Amy

really knows how to spark romance. On a date, she met this dude named Jay, and then they went to the park and walked in opposite directions together. Just they met at the park and then they left each other and that was basically her date. Very romantic. Amy wanted to do something a little creative, so she did this lost and Found couple's challenge. You're supposed to walk fifteen minutes in the opposite direction and then try to find

each other again. But they never found each other. They even ended up at opposite coffee shops after an hour of searching for each other, and it seems like the dude just got frustrated and didn't want to see her again. But now she's not able to get ahold of him. So we're about to get him on the phone and find out if that is the reason why. Maybe I'm all for creative dates. Would you do not run this by any of your friends before you like pulled the trigger?

I did, And I actually found this idea online and I've read that it's supposed to work great. So I don't know what happened. Yeah, it didn't work out great for you, but but I'm a Dallas who number right now and see if we can get him on the phone. Okay, okay, thank yep, here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Jay. Hello, Yeah, Hey, what's up? Jay? How are you? This is Jewel from the radio show Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry what this is Jewel from

the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Hi, Hey, why are you calling me? Good question. I'm calling you because we got an email about you from one of our listeners, an email about me. Yes, I like this, I say something, you repeat it with a question mark. This is a fun game we're playing. Jay got an email about you from a girl named Amy that you went on a date with Amy, that I went on a date with. Yeah, and I got another one for you to repeat too. Okay, Yeah, you're not calling her back,

and she's wondering why she contacted you. Because she's wondering why that is exactly what happened. We do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. Jay, I'll explain because you're obviously confused. And that's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then up not calling them after, people can email us to get that person on the phone and ask what happened. So Amy emailed us because she's tried to hit you up to go out again, and you won't respond to her. Oh,

he's trying not to ask a question right now? Is there a reason why, Jay? I mean, I don't really feel like sharing with Amy, What like, let's go. You don't have to share with Amy, you can share with us. Well, I mean, you guys are probably going to wind up like telling her or something screw her. No, oh my god, I mean yeah, we will tell her. That's why she wants to know. That's the whole deal. She said that.

I mean, she's been frustrated by online dating. She finally finds somebody that she's connected with and then it doesn't work out, and that that's a real bummer. You can understand that. I mean, I do understand that. I just don't want to like say something that's going to get back to her and she's going to like get mad or anything. Well, we can try to sugarcoat it for you. And we already made fun of her date idea when she told us about the yeah you guys walking in

different directions. So I'm not the only one that thought that was a dumb date idea. Yeah, I thought it sound horrible. Yeah, for real, can I do a lot of dumb dates? And I'm even on your pay On your side with that one was that it was it just the whole concept of the date. And she also told us how you couldn't find each other either. That

would be frustrating, that would make me want to leave. Well, it wasn't just a concept of the date, Like it's weird enough to just show up and have and be like, hi, okay leave Now that was a little weird, but I mean at first, you know, I was excited to meet her, so I was kind of cool with it. And then I started walking away and after a minute or two, I was like, I don't really want to just walk for fifteen minutes to turn around and walk back. Yeah.

So there was a are like a block away from where we had met up, and I kind of ducked in there to just grab a drink and hang out, and a couple of my buddies lived like around the corner, and one of them had texted me to see what I was up to. And I'm like, hey, man, you wouldn't believe this. I'm on a date with a check but I'm not on a date with her. I'm actually at this bar just hanging out for the next half hour. So they were like, oh, cool, we'll meet you over there.

And we had more than one drink, and then we had more than two drinks. All right. So since you didn't go on your walk and ended up getting drunk with your friends, she told us how she was trying to meet up with you at a coffee shop. Did you actually try to meet up with our Originally, when I went to go and get the drink, I had intended on meeting up with her back at the park, but then one of my buddies was like, it's happy

hour getting free over at the strip club. Oh my gosh, So we kind of slid over that way, and then she started texting me being like where are you? And I didn't want to be like hey, I kind of just got out of there, so I was like I can't find you either. We should try this another time. So you went. You went on a day date with a nice girl who put energy and effort into your date, and you ended up at the strip club your bros. Sounds like an awesome day. I don't know how much

energy she put into the date. Like the energy she put into the date was, Hey, I found a thing that we can not do together and not get to know each other. Well, that wasn't her intention. She was trying. Have you never screwed up a date before with a bad idea? Well, I've screwed up a date with a bad idea, but I was in person to screw it up. I didn't leave let it get screwed up away from me. Why aren't you going out with her now? Why aren't

you calling her back? She doesn't know, honestly. The next day, I just kind of felt really really bad about the whole thing, And I don't know if I can look her in the eye again if we ever go out of Yeah, I mean it is kind of messed up. No matter how bad the date was, to be on a date and leave that date to go to the strip club with your bros. I know you didn't want us to tell her all of that, so I'm glad we didn't, but you did, because she's actually on the

other line listening and wants to talk to you. She's on the other line. Yes, there you go, repeating my questions, my statements again. Yes, unless you hung up. Amy is still on the other line, Amy, or are you still there? Yeah? Am? Why didn't you just be honest with me? I mean, so you went to get drunk with your friends. I mean you could have just told me that. Well, I

didn't intend to be like really rude to you. It just kind of snowballed and then I felt bad about it, and I felt it would just be better to not continue. And honestly, I absolutely intended to come back and meet up with you after I had a drink and I just I got caught up, and you know, I had a couple more drinks and then a friend of point. Yeah we heard the story. Yeah, yeah, I heard the whole story. So is this supposed to make me feel better? Just the idea that you wanted to hang out with me.

You meant to meet up with me, you were going to, but you didn't. How am I supposed to feel about that? Well, I don't know. I guess kind of the same way that I'm supposed to feel about You wanted that idea to be a good first aid idea. It is a good idea. It's supposed to go much better than that. It's just that you didn't follow the rules that song.

I will say, Amy does have a point though, I mean, it is one of those things where it's not going to be fun unless both people really participated in it. Like literally, within five minutes of the date, you decided that going to drink by yourself was going to be more fun. You know what, though, it is kind of a good idea because it's you're supposed take a fifteen minute walk and then see what happens. You started to take your walk, and then that led you on a path to a bar and then to a strip club

in the middle of the day. So actually a lot can happen on this date. Yeah, you should have joined back up there been like check this out and seeing a reaction. I mean, don't you feel bad knowing that I was walking around the park and the coffee shop looking for you for hours, and meanwhile you were getting drunk with your friends and going to a strip club and throwing down singles. This is the fight that usually happens later in a relationship. Well, hey, look at it

this way. All those things that you saw on that long walk around the park for hours is now a thing you can tell me about. Oh come, oh, there you go. Now if you both have your stories, It's actually just kind of like it turned into a really really long game, the loss and found couple's challenge or whatever you called it. Amy, would you like like to get together and swap story? Jay, we'll pay for a second day. Will you got with Amy again? Wait? Hold on,

I already know his whole story. I mean he ruined it. Yeah, but he doesn't know yours could be fun. Come on, do you even want to go out with him? Amy? I'd be a lot more pissed if I were you. I think that we should do it over again and do it the right way, and if he can play by the rules, then we'll give it another try. Okay, So, Jay, are you down to try it one more time? And no going to the strip club? Actually go walking with you minutes to come back. Yeah, I'd like to, but

just with one little change. We meet up and use that time to talk about everything we've seen up to that point, you know, like our lives and where we've been. That's a regular day and we talk about those things. Look, I'm not letting you off that easy. This is a fun game, and I want to try it again and do it right, and then we can talk about other things. She really wants to do it, Jay, will you give

her another shot? You know, Amy, I feel bad about it, and I had a lot of fun chatting with you leading up to that first eight and I do want to really see what's up. So yes, okay, okay, you decided this is exciting or the start of a really unhealthy relations At least guys are actually going out again. Jay, Thank you for your time, Man, I appreciate it. Thank you. Guys. All right, we'll get it all set up and hopefully we can get an update from you. All right, all right,

take care man. Amy? Are you still there? Yeah? Amy? Why are you going out with him again? Yeah? Oh, I'm actually not. I'm just going to schedule it and he'll show up and then I won't, so it is still a successful second day up date. Let's take it broken. Jewil in the morning got a text in at seven eight five to nine two that says that sounds like a horrible idea for a date, but I'm kind of want to do it me too. If you missed it, we're talking about today's second day update. Amy wanted to

call this dude named Jay. She planned the date, and she had an interesting idea. She wanted to walk fifteen minutes in the opposite direction at the park and then turn back around and try to find each other so that you can share what you saw during your walk. But they got lost during the date and decided to try again another time. They never actually met back up. After they started walking in different directions. We got Jay on the phone and found out that he didn't want

to walk around. He thought the date idea was kind of weird, so he just went and got drunk with his friends at a bar, then ended up at a strip club a little while later, and then lied to Amy about it because the whole time they were like, oh, I can't find you, let's meet up at a coffee shop, and he never did. But he was actually with his buddies. She was upset that Jay didn't follow the rules and got drunk and went to a strip club instead, but she said she did want to see him again the

right way. I will say, though, he wins that game, like because he's got a way better story than she does. Yeah, time that he spent on the walk happened. He saw a lot more interesting things than she did. Maybe she saw maybe a bird and a homeless person. Well, Jay felt guilty and agreed to go on a second date and try it again. So looks like it might work out for them, unless he does it one more time. If you want a second date up, they don't have to do his email the show and we will call

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