2nd Date Update PODCAST: Line Dancing

you get it. Yeah, definitely he's really short. He's looking up to his mic. Yeah, exactly. So you have problems with the guys lying to you about their height all the time. Are you tall? I am? Yeah, I'm five ten. Okay, it's not super tall. I mean it's tall, it's not crazy tall. Do you have like some requirement where you'll only date a guy over however many feet? Niches? I prefer that they're taller than me, so at least six foot yeah, okay. A lot of girls think that way too. Yeah.

I know my best friend who's six with tall. She always wanted to date someone like six four. She ended up marrying someone five ten. So I'm just saying, keep your options open. You never know. There's just something about it that it makes me feel feminine when I can look up at the guy. Well, most of my life I've dated women that were taller than me, and I always thought it was funny when they had to been down to kiss me. But I can see how that

would be a little awkward sometimes for you. So the guy that you want to call today, was he tall enough for you? Yeah? He was? Okay, what's his name? His name's Jacob, Jacob, all right, and where did you meet Jacob? So we did meet over social media. He was really easy to talk to, and of course we talked about his height and he said he's six four and IZZI he is, actually Yeah, like, I bet you're pretty good at like being able to spot who's lyne.

Sometimes I can, but sometimes I can't and they show up and I just think, oh my god, why did you lie to me? Like I obviously know now that you were lying. It's just a bad first start. Yeah, well, this guy at least met your high requirements. What did you guys do for your date? So we met up at a bar just for a drink, and I mean, oh my gosh, when he walked in, not only was he told, but he was he's gorgeous. We had such a great time. We were laughing, we were telling a

bunch of different stories. Yeah, it was really good. Maybe when you're describing it, your smile sounds like it got bigger, like you have a huge crush on this guy. Oh my gosh. Yeah, I was just smiling. So what happened on your date? I mean, it was going great, and they had some line dancing that they were playing on the TVs, and we just started talking about line dancing. I told him how good I was at it, that I loved going line dancing, and in fact, he actually

likes to line dance and have gone before. Really yeah, so we actually decided to go right away. He said, why don't we get out of here and go to the spot down the street and we'll go line dancing. That's so cute. Was that? Why you think you're not getting to call back? You're not actually good at line dancing? Now you're the liar. Well, we actually didn't go line dancing there. The line was really really long and it

just wasn't moving. So he suggested that we go back to his spot, and he said, why don't we just go watch line dancing music or movies and we could line dance in my place. I've got beers, you know, I got the whole set up up there. So that's what we decided to do. He has a whole setup for line dancing. Yeah, that's weird. You shouldn't be wanting to call him back. Anybody else a whole line dancing set up at their places definitely suspect. I mean he

didn't have a line dancing studio or anything. That's a disappointment if you asked me, so, how did that go? I mean, did you guys just line dance tonight away? I mean we did a little bit, but it really kind of went more into like a pants party, pants on party. We all knew that was going now dance Like, I'm surprised you did any dancing at all. Yeah, I'm not set up for this. Yeah, if you wanted to come back here in line dance, that's fine, but no

funny business lady. Yeah, this cowboy doesn't do that. On the first date, you mosey on out of my apartment, spit in your tattoo that's in the corner. So got you guys hooked up? Then we did. Yeah, I mean we didn't go all the way. That's not usually something that I do on the first date, but you know things, things got fun and we had a good time, and I did say the night, oh you did, I did. Yeah. What was it like in the morning? Wonderful. You know, I had to get up in the morning pretty early,

so I kind of screwed it out. But he made sure to get up and walk me to the door, and yeah, everything seemed fine. So I was really excited to, you know, talk and go on it on another date. Okay, so everything goes good. You can't think of anything that were wrong. I mean I did think maybe maybe was I a little drunker than I thought, and I wasn't that great at line dancing, I don't know, or or maybe he's just a guy that likes to hook up once and then goes to you, which I think is

not very cool. Yeah, so I mean, if that's the case, honestly, I will put him on blast. I think that that's rude. I think it's not cool to just go someone like that, especially if it's just you're trying to get like a hook out. Out of out of something. If you're that kind of guy, I wouldn't mean I put him on blast, like like out on social media, like I'll call him out. Okay, you're gonna yelp review him or something if I'll do

that too. Well, we'll play a song and then come back and find out if something did go wrong with your second at update after this. All right, okay, cool, thank you? All right, hang on looking jubil in the morning date. Well, howdy, partners and partner at Folks and Cows looking to get poked. No, I don't know how. I don't know. I'm not very good at country stuff. But anyway, Nathalie is on the phone for a second day up date today and she wants to call us

dude named Jacob. They went line dancing because they're both big fans of line dancing, I guess, and they actually weren't able to get into the place they wanted to go too, so they end up going back to his place because he said, oh, I'll throw on some country music videos and we can line dance together in my apartment, and then that turned into the pants dance, which actually she's probably the no pants dance anyway, they messed around a little bit, they didn't hook up all the way,

but now he's not calling her back and she's trying to figure out why. Okay, Nathalie, are you ready to give Jacob a call? Yeah? I I just want to figure this out. I want to know if it was something I did, because I want to correct it. It's really hard to find tall guys. She's so desperate. She's like, I don't even care what his personality was like, but really, you really liked this guy. And it does seem, from your description, pretty baffling as to why he's not been

you a call back. Yeah. I have no idea. Okay, well, I'm gonna dial his phone right now and see if we can get him on the phone. If he's not doing ranching around, yeah, they do it the cowboys with their lassos and whatnot. So if he's doing that, then he's probably busy, you know. But if not, then we'll get him on the phone. Okay, Okay, all right, here we go. Hello, I'm gonna speak to Jacob. Please? Is he Jacob? What's up? Man? How are you? Um? Bye? Who is this? Good question? This is a jewel from

Brook and Jewel in the morning. Uh partner, Okay, I don't know. I don't know what that is. It's it's it's a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay. Uh yeah, So still don't know what that is, do you? No? All right? The reason I'm calling you today is because we do a segment on

our show. It's called the Second Up. That's or if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened or what went wrong basically, and we got an email about you from this girl named Nathalie. Oh okay, starting to make sense now, or no, you mean a

little more explanation? No, yeah, what okay? No? Yeah, but so you went out on a date with a girl named Nathalie, right, yeah, yeah, Well she told us about your date and said that she thought everything went great. But now you're not calling her back, Oh my god. And she wants to know why. That's why we're on the phone. People do this, Yeah, yeah, we do it like a lot. Surprisingly. I mean, but you gotta think

about it. People are getting ghosted left and right, and I mean that's what she feels like you did to her, and she has no idea why. Her description of the date sounded pretty dreamy. Why don't you guys just tell her that, you know you couldn't get a hold of me, don't lie, Thank you very much. Can you give us any kind of reason, though, I mean, it'd be better if we could at least tell her we got some sort of answer from you, you know, I mean she was cute. I mean it was a fine date for

most of it. Um. Yeah, the way you describe it doesn't sound like it though. No, I mean we were having a good time, she's cute, and we have common interests, and yeah, it sounds like you should never call her again. Well okay, Um, it's just there is something happened during the night that just freaked me out and just doesn't seem like a good fit. It's like nothing personal. It's

just you know, not for me. Okay. So if it's nothing personal, just not for you, why don't you let us know so we can tell her she really liked you. She's just like curious. Well she she she pulled out a gun on me. Nothing but big deal, No big deal. She just pulled a gun on me, Like a real gun, not like her finger and thumb. No, yeah, a real gun. We were waiting in line to go to this line dance in place, and and everything was going great till then and then all of a sudden, she's like, oh,

we can't go here. And I thought maybe like her x was in line or something, but I was like, what is it? And she pointed to a sign and it said no guns, okay, And You're like, at first, I thought she was like pulling my leg right, but then she reached into her purse and you know, sort of discreetly pulled out this gun and like pointed it at me. All right, she said, you ended up back at your place? Is that how she's like taking me back to your place right now? Yeah, we're leaving. Uh no,

I mean I don't know. I that was probably my bad. Like you know, you do things like when you're so she pulled out the gun and pointed it at you. So she was like showing me the gun, and she just like covered me with the barrel. See. I grew up with guns. My dad haunts. I grew up hunting. I don't own any guns anymore, but like the way I was taught is you treat every gun like it's floated, and you never point a gun at anything you don't want to destroy. Yeah, I'm just gonna say someone hasn't

taken gun safety because you would never do that. Yeah. So when she covered me with the barrel, I like flinched and shifted out of the way, and they're going to say another Essays word, which I would have done in my pants right there too. Someone put a gun

on me on a date. So I mean, like, I just don't get how you went from that being so scared and then immediately inviting her back to your house though Yeah, I mean I just freaked out and I was like I should probably get home, and she was like, yeah, okay, we can go home. So it was less of an invite from me you to go back to your place, and more she just kind of invited herself. And then she has a gun, so you're gonna let her come over? Say yeah, well, and she said this other thing like

when it happened, she was like, don't freak out. I'm not gonna shoot you unless you piss me off. I mean, I'm assuming that's a joke. I don't know. Like then it like my gut sank, and so when she invited herself over, I didn't say no. Yeah, and then she was there, so you had to make out with her. I mean, I get it. I mean we did stuff, but I wasn't that into it. Yeah, that's happened to me a lot when someone's told me at gunpoint, I will do anything. But it's a fun game sometimes if

you embrace it. Anyway, Hey, Jacob, thank you for being honest. Man, I appreciate it. Now I need to be honest with you because Natalie is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Natalie's on the other line, Natalie, are you there? Yeah, I'm here. Is there any reason why you didn't bring the gun up to us when we first talked to you? Honestly, it was like thirty seconds of our date, Like it wasn't a huge big deal or anything, so I just

didn't even think about it. Yeah. Well it may have seen like thirty seconds to you, but it felt like that gun was on me forever. Jacob, I told you, it wasn't even loaded. I mean, a girl got to protect yourself, doesn't she. But no, who are you protecting? Yourself from I mean, I'm a single lady out like you never know what could happen. Things happen out on the street, and you just got to be prepared. I just sounds like you can't. You don't even handle it correctly,

like I would recommend maybe mace. Yeah, I mean I you have mace as well. I have guns, and I have a couple other things that I can make sure that I protect myself, like to carry out a store. Like I said, a girl who got to protect herself. You know, I don't see anything wrong with that, Okay, but maybe like when you're out by yourself, but you're you're out with people, you're not like right, Listen, Jacob, I don't know you. It was our first day. You

never know what's going to happen. And at the end of the day, if something were to take place to both of us and I could protect you, right, Okay? Um, yeah, I just don't get bringing a gun on a date. That's uh. Listen. I'm licensed and registered to have and carry a to fealed weapon, and I think that that's okay. And it sounds like what you're saying you've been around guns yourself too. I mean Why are you so scared around them? Because you're pointing them at him? It sounds

like you're not handling it right at all. I think he's being dramatic. Yeah, it sounds like it. Yeah, that's sensitive. You know, gun pulled on you one time? You want to go out again? Yeah, Jacob, would you like to go out on another date when an athlete will pay for it if she leaves the firearms at home? Yeah? Uh?

Are you feeling scared to answer at all? I just don't have a good feeling about you know, if she wants to to her a gun like that should be her thing, and I don't want to like tell her that she can't bring a gun on a date and then like feel like she's doing that for me or resentful. You know that's nice. I just think it's not a good fit. You're He's not trying it. He doesn't want to change you, Nathalie. I had a good dealing about you, But now that I'm hearing all this, I actually think

that's probably better. Anyways, you couldn't even face me to tell me that about the gun. I mean, come on, and I'm definitely still putting you on blast. Oh well, hey, um, yeah, that sounds like a threat right there. We just talked about. Yeah, I wouldn't use that choice of words with a gun on blest, Like with a gun, what are you? What are you talking about? I'm going to do a blast on social media, you little That's what I'm gonna do. No second tape, but Natale at least you know why.

And and Jacob, hopefully you find a girl that it's a little more of your speed. Yeah, as long as someone doesn't point a gun at me on a date, Yeah, I think we'll have a good time. Well, good luck with that even existing. Yeah, broken jupil in the morning.