2nd Date Update PODCAST: Laundry Idiot

when you call him an idiot. What's up, Chris? How are you? How are you guys doing today? Pretty good? We get to you calling your date an idiot in just a second. But first, what's the idiot's name? But her name is Bobett? Okay, I did, but I didn't. Where did you meet Bobet? I met abound the club, and it'll always meet women at a club. It's always so difficult to loud everything, but uh, I instantly it also hurt weird. Okay, did you use a line or anything to approacher or you know? I don't have to

really use lines. I just kind of used some swagger. You call an idiot a few times, and then it's putty in your hands. Oh man, no, I'll get to that part all right. At first it was great. We're talking, we're danged, and we weren't even drunk. We had like one drink. And I found out that she had a bunch of mutual friends of mine. I mean literally like a hundred friends in comment on Facebook. I mean they're like real friends, though people like I really see all

hundred of them, maybe half. All right, so you you had a lot in common with her, yeah, and it just fell right. And for a while we went back to my place, had a very great night, woke up early and breakfast. Oh sorry, I know, I just wondering, she said. The night then, Oh yeah, I know, I'm not. I don't want to brag, but like, it was really good. Yea, the swagger again. It was nice. It was really it was really I didn't even use the word lovely, frankly, had a lovely evening. And then she woke up at

your place the next day. And when did the idiot thing happen? All right? It wasn't like I woke up and called her an idiot. All right, We had to be a bread fast enjoy your night, idiot. Yeah, that's not what happened. Guess all right. I woke up and she woke up, and we one got breakfast and we walked around and just were hanging. It was easy. It was just like a felty Yeah. When you say you felt it, I mean, are you thinking that this could

have turned into a relationship for you? Just felt like someone I want to hang out with, you know, just be around. I even brought up with her even was just half choking, but really kind of being serious. Afkina if she could see us in the future together all right? And did she seem down with that? Yeah? She smiled and she said sure, it was nice. And then then we were just laughing about it and talking about like what happened? Did we get together? You know who does

what chores? Oh? Okay, so you're really talking future stuff together. I was just kind of joking at first, and then we got into it because you know, she likes to cook. I do gisses, so it's the perfect combination there. And she works in finance and better with money, so I'll do the yardwork. You make the money. I'll make things pretty for you. Yeah, but we got over a bunch of stuff, just joking about it. But then I brought us laundry, and at first it was kind of playful,

but she didn't like laundry. Doesn't she really doesn't like, to a point where she was getting upset about it. It's like her whole demeanor change. She was this amazing, amazing woman in them, I'll bring up laundry and it was like I mentioned somebody murdering her father back. She got that mad just at the thought of maybe doing laundry one day in a relationship with you. To be fair, she explained that it was because her ex boyfriend just kind of leeched off her and made her do it.

So I get that, you know, I get that she doesn't want another situation where some guys just making her due clothes and I'm not that guy. That's not what I was trying to say. It just kind of came out that way. And then as we were joking a little more about the laundry, I thought joking she was getting serious. I was like, Oh, you're just being an idiot. Yeah, that's when you called your data an idiot, and probably the reason she's not calling you back. You're always been

trying to call her a real idiot. Yeah, but it sounds like what you were saying is you have to do the laundry in a relationship, you're the woman. And now I think that if you disagree with that, you're an idiot. No. No, that she's making this big deal about doing laundry where it's our first time hanging out. You know, we met the night before and we're just talking about small things, and I called her adotause she's making a big deal about something that's not a big deal.

It's laundry, And now she's making a big deal about getting called an idiot. That never feels good when you're the defense already. Now you're an idiot for being too emotional over a subject that we brought up. Like, I get what you were saying, but I can also see where on her side it would make her angry. I didn't think about it that way. You know that that makes me want to apologize even more because I want to let her know I'd even do all the LA hundred.

What was her reaction after you said that? Did she instantly get pissed? Yeah, that's when the date ended. She had to go. She had, really, Yeah, she had she had to do some work. Yeah, she didn't have to do anything, she just had to get out of there. I know, but I felt like I lost my charm at that point, so I couldn't really Guys, hung out for almost twenty four hours, it sounds like, and then suddenly you get into a fight over laundry that hasn't

even happened. You know, it was really stupid, and I realize that I'm the idiot in this whole thing. So I was just hoping you guys could maybe help me get out of it. All right, well we can try. We'll play a song and then come back and call her and get your second date update. Okay, guys, thank you so much. I really hope you can help save this. So sorry to hang on looking jubil in the morning. Second date. All right, let's call this idiot joining us

for today's second day update. Chris is on the phone and the idiot that we're about to call her James Babette. Why am I calling her an idiot? Because Chris did. On their date. Apparently they met at a club. They had a really great night together. Chris actually said he enjoyed it and thought it was a wonderful evening. They spent the night together and the next day they went to breakfast and they were talking about stuff, even like discussing future plans if they were to actually get in

a relationship. And at some point they got on the topic of chores, and then laundry came up and Chris called her an idiot And now he hasn't heard from her, sins Chris, are you about ready to get her on the phone? Yeah, well, let me make a couple of days clear, because I had to tell my side of the store of folly. Okay, first off, I should have called you guys sooner, because he's been about two weeks.

Oh it's been a while. Okay, Yeah, I thought maybe i'd hear from her, you know, I text her a couple of times, but nothing, So that's why I finally gave in. And also, if I didn't make it clear, I'm pretty sure she's like my perfect match. Oh that's really sweet. Do you like really dumb people? Then I'm kidding. I'm kidding, Chris. I guess my thing is it's like I assumed you apologize via text, right, absolutely. I just don't know why she would hold such a grudge over

this y you and me both. That's why I called you guys. Most people like it when you call him an idio if you apologize, usually it's something you should be able to get past. It maybe a red flag that you guys can't. Yeah, I hope not. I'm really into our guys. I'm really indore. All right, well, I'm a dollar fun of it right now, and see if we can help make things better. Okay, here we go, all thank you? Hello, Hi, got I speak to a bet please? This is she? Hey, how are you? This

is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Who is this Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, how are you doing? I'm good? What does this sit out? We do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up blowing them off after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened. And one of our listeners actually email us about you. Wait,

somebody contacted you about me. Yeah, congratulations. His name is Chris, and I guess it's been about two weeks since you guys hung out. Okay, you remember going out with Chris? Yeah, I remember. Are you still mad at Chris because you sound kind of angry in your voice. Yeah, I'm not happy about it. Is it because he called you an idiot? Yeah? Yeah, Actually I hear that turns people off sometimes, it's like that. I'm actually surprised that he told you guys that he

did that. Yeah, he told us all about your date, and I guess he feels really bad too that he called you an idiot. And he said he's tried to apologize to you and everything, but you just are not returning any of his text messages or phone calls. Yeah, I'm not going to because somebody who calls you an idiot on the first time that you meet after you just spent then with them, I mean, I don't like

what else is to come from that. Wait, wait, hold on though, I mean, like he said that you guys got into an argument about future laundry chores and you were getting really heated about it, and that's when he called you an idiot. And what he meant was like, you're being an idiot that we're getting so worked up over this. Still not a nice thing to say. I get it, but you have no way or room for forgiveness there. I mean, I just feel like this is not how I expect to be treated and how I

want to be treated. So why am I going to set the bar so low so that someone like this can basically be like verbally abusive to me? Okay, I feel like verbal abuse there is going a little bit far. Okay, but he just you know, triggered me and all went back to doing my most hated chore. You know, I hate laundry so much. I mean, go to school all these years, she's like, do laundry for somebody. So did he actually say that he wanted you to do his laundry?

I mean, not exactly, but it was kind of implied. But I think he was trying to be cute, like, look at we're gonna have a life together. Isn't this cute? And we're talking about our future? I know, but I hate laundry. I mean, I think everyone hates laundry. Honestly, you guys, it doesn't matter anymore. I actually met somebody else who does not talk about laundry, So I've moved on. All right, Well, maybe you can put it in the present for just a second, because Chris is actually on

the phone and wants to talk to you. What that better is? That's true? Are you guy? Yeah? I am actually and he's nice and he's sweet, and he's less argumentative than you, and he doesn't talk about chores. I mean, first off, I'm sweet, and i'm time and I'm willing to do chores. It was just a little cute conversation. Have you even talked to this guy about doing dishwashing?

I'll just talk about that. Oh maybe, sure. If you're going to spend the rest of your life with this guy, I want to get the I'm not saying, you know, I'm not saying that I am marrying this guy. I'm just saying I met somebody who makes me feel like he is paper. Yeah, Chris, I also feel like you move a little fast in relationships like I always thought I used to move fast with Damn. Like, one day, you're already talking about laundry, and then she starts dating

a guy. For what how long you been dating this new dude. We've only been on a couple of dates. But I can actually already tell that he is a less intense person than Chris's. So yeah, I mean, and Chris is already assuming that you're gonna marry this guy. Yea, yeah, Chris, what is that? I wasn't assuming that she's gonna marry him. I'm just saying, you know, we had something real and I thought, you know, you might be very special for me, and I'm going to compromise here. Okay, how about I

do the whites, you do the color. Chris? Are you not understanding or hearing what she's saying. It's not about who's doing whites and who's doing colors. It's about you chilling out a little bit and stopped having hypothetical fights. Yeah, yeah, Chris. Why are we even talking about laundry still? I mean, we had this conversation two weeks ago and we're still talking about it now on the radio for that matter. Yeah, because I'm apologizing and I'm telling you that all do

have the laundry all even folded, all folded too. I don't think it's about the laundry anymore, Chris. But she's saying it is. No, she's not. She's saying that that's what sparked the red flags that came up for her, that you're too much and I'm willing to pick up those red flags and wash them like I'm the white ones. You got pink flag, and then everything's all messed up. Yeah, you're saying some weird signals huge funny. I'll give them

that huge funny. I'm not trying to be funny, Okay, I'm trying to be very serious about something that's so so right and so real that's getting ruined by a stupid little argument. I'm willing to do what it takes. Chris. I've moved on, and I just need you to know that I told this new guy about our argument, and he told me that he loves to do the laundry. No one loves doing laundry. That's a lie. You were lying. Now. I don't mean it in a mean way, but you're one.

I'm just strength. I can now see why things unraveled so quickly on your date, but that I don't know what else to say at this point. You know what you could say that you could say that you go on another date with Chris, We'll pay for it. Would you like to go out with Chris again? Even if he were to do my laundry for me, I would still not go out on another date with him. Okay, you know what you are an idiot exactly. Do you see what I mean? You, guys, this is why he

is not the right match for me. Yeah, you called it again. I'm sorry. It's just my emotions because you just you're the one, and I feel so strongly about you, and it just comes out she just loves you. But Bet, when you're not being an idiot, that's all all right. I think I've reached my quota about talking about laundry and idiot. Thanks so much for calling. Yeah, thank you, b Bett. Chris, Sorry man, no second date. M guys, I'm shocked. I just I don't know where do we

go from here? How are we going to get her back? I don't think we are. I think we're gonna live our lives alone without Babett. Chris, you need to give up on that dream, all right? Well, plenty of other idiots in the sea, right, guys. Broken Jewel in the morning text seven eight five nine two said I don't know why she was so upset. I love doing laundry. Talking about today's second date update if you missed it,

Chris wanted to call this girl Babette. They met at a club and hung out all night, even had breakfast the next day, and Chris thought the reason he wasn't getting a call back was because at one point during their date, they were discussing future plans, like if they actually had a long relationship, and chores came up in the conversation and Chris said that he would do the

dishes if she did the laundry, which made her very upset. Yeah, and then that made him upset, and he called her an idiot, but he thought it was just playful banter. And then we got her on the phone and found out that she was actually very offended when he called her an idiot and said that she hates doing laundry so much it completely ruined their first date. She also wasn't calling Chris back because apparently she's been dating another dude who she says is less argumentative, and they don't

talk about laundry at all, which is probably a good thing. Yeah, he know it's going to be an issue though. If you're already fighting about chores, that hapn't even gone yet, right. Chris was heartbreaking heartbroken though, and did want another date. He said he'd even chip in and do some of the laundry, but she said no. Yeah, so they're not

going out again. Remember, if you want to do a second day up date, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back