2nd Date Update PODCAST: In Love

want to share Curro delicious. The fact that you want to get them pregnant probably not a good thing to share on a first date. And apparently that's why Justin's on the phone today. He may be shared a little too much on his first date. Now he's worried about it. Justin, We'll stop. How are you? Hey? How are you doing? Probably better than you? Hey, it's I guess it's just a preference. I guess. I don't know. Wait, you want to get someone pregnant? Or is Jubil making a joke?

I don't know if it's that much of a joke. Well, okay, so I feel like I've met the one after one date. After one date, is that crazy? H. I mean, it depends how you went about it. I mean, I guess some people have gone on dates and peoplere like, man, that's the one for me, and then sometimes they get married. Sometimes their heart gets broken. And because you're on the phone for a second day update, I might know what position you're in, but I'm not sure. So tell us

a story. What's the girl's name, Charlotte? Charlotte? All right, yeah, so I don't know. I just feel like I've met the one. This feels like already like a non negotiable for me. Okay, slow down. Where did you meet her? We met on online dating and the original plan for her first date was to meet up downtown and we were going to find a restaurant that we book liked. We didn't book anything. We're kind of like, you know what,

let's just let's just see what happens. And I was immediately attracted to her online, but when I met her in person, I was like, I was blown away. I was like, wow, Wow, this is really cool. Her personality was just radiating. Okay, that's really sweet, but it also could be really creepy if the feeling from her wasn't suprocated right, like it has to be both ways. Well, I don't know. I'm not a mind reader. I don't know. Was she giving you any hints on the date that

she was like crazy about you too? Well, we were hanging out and she didn't run away, so a good sign. That is a good sign. If somebody runs from you screaming, they usually are not into you. So that's good. That's right. Tell us about your date. Okay, So she didn't run away because she was shackled, right, she just didn't run Yeah, that's right. Okay, why can't you trust me if every time I on tire you try to run away? So that didn't happen. Tell us what did happen? So everywhere

we went it was just super busy. It was like forty five minutes to an hour long wait. Yeah, and you know how some girls would be like super judgmental. They're like, oh, how come he didn't book this place? Or you know, I don't want to wait that long? But she was just so chill about it, and she looks over to me and it was like the sexiest thing that you could say. It was like, do you just want to go grab some fast food? Oh? No, man,

I was like, are you serious? Is that the moment you knew that you wanted to marry her right there? And well, I enjoy myself some fast food, But on the first date, I wasn't expecting this attractive, awesome person to just look over at me and be like, yo, let's grab some fast food, bro, Like what okays? The sign of a low maintenance person. That's always nice exactly. So we were so hungry, and so we went to Kiss Cool and we just ordered this big feast, you know, chicken, gravy,

mashed potatoes, the works, the freaking works. And we're just sitting there stuff in her faces and it was crazy because I didn't even care, and she didn't even care. We were so comfortable with each other. Like there's just gravy sliding out her face, like you got something on your face? Sounds hilarious. Oh it's adorable. You ever get that feeling like we were so comfortable with somebody? Yeah, I mean that that is a good sign. It like means that you definitely have a future if you can

totally be yourself on somewhere. Did she feel the same though? Was she that comfortable too? That's what I'm worried about. You know. At that point, I didn't know, but the meal was over, and so I just looked it over and I was like, you know what, I probably shouldn't say this, but I'm gonna say it anyway. Oh, No, I think you're the one. Oh wow. Yeah. Usually, I mean, even if you're thinking, it's usually not good to share

that on our first date. Could scare people off. No, I was speaking from the heart, man, I said, you know what, I think you're the one. And she was definitely surprised. Yeah, I'm sure she was. Did she say anything? She was hard to read her. She wasn't very vocal about it. But when the date was over, it ended with the hug. And it wasn't I thought I was gonna end with a kiss. I thought it was well, of course, you thought I was gonna end with a baby house in the future together. Yeah, I kind of.

I kind of did the house. I take advance to all that, absolutely, But instead it ended with the hug. It wasn't like a like, oh I'm so excited. It was more like a mom's side hug. Yeah. I I don't know. Maybe I overshared on the date. I mean I was speaking from the harder what's going on. Sometimes you're supposed to shut your heart up for a little while. Maybe that's the problem. How many times have you try to get ahold of her since you guys went out

three or four times. I mean, I'm pretty sure that she had an amazing time also, so that's why I'm kind of confusing and why she's not reaching out back to me as well. Okay, well we'll play a song and then come back and call her and get your second date update. Okay, Okay, this really means a lot to me, So I just want to let you know. I know the whole future of the rest of your life hangs on this phone call. So yeah, we'll do it right after this. Hang on looking jubil in the morning.

Second date update if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Justin is on the phone, and Justin, I know this is the first time that you and I have ever talked, but I have to tell you I think I love you and I can see a long future with you. I like hearing that, Yeah, I know you do response saying that because I want hug you right now. I want to do more than hug you. But well, we'll get to that later, Justin, you and I depending on how it works with your second day update.

Right now, if you're just joining us, Justin wants to call a girl named Charlotte. They went out. They had some fast food because everywhere else in the city was booked up, and he thought that was awesome because she was like low maintenance. But he also told Charlotte that he thinks she's the one on their first date. And how you laughing, I'm not laughing a lot laughing. Yeah, it's just it's probably a lot for her to handle,

and that's why she hasn't gotten back to him. So we're about to call her right now and see if that is the case. Are you ready to go? Justin? Oh that Oh that makes me nervous. Well, now you're nervous. You're not nervous to tell them someone that you just went on a first date with that you love them. No, I just I don't know, Like she hasn't really reached out to me, so I mean I feel for her.

Feel first, you have a lot on the line, I think, is what you're trying to say, Like you've already invested a lot. Yeah, yeah, there's so much on the one right now. I mean, okay, you're a guy with a lot of feelings in you. Huh yeah, oh yeah, absolutely, and you know I love that. But just be prepared that she may say it's too much and just slow it down. You know what. I never want to slow love down. So okay, let's do this all right, don't yeah,

don't slow love down. Let's get to it. Here we go. Hello, h might I speak to Charlotte speaking? Hey Charlotte, how are you? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, I'm okay, I guess nice. That's good to hear. Can I ask what this is regarding? Sure? I think that that was her question. Oh I was waiting for you to ask. Yeah, well what is this? Got it? I'm not good at conversations sometimes. Charlotte. I'm calling you today because we got an email about you

from somebody who listens to our show. Um, okay, what did it to say? Well, it said that you were a fabulous person, and it said that this person loves you a lot, but you might not love them back. Okay, I'm sorry. You have no idea what I'm talking about? Do you? Is there something you're looking for for me is yeah, yeah, well maybe not we are, but somebody else is looking for something from you. His name is Justin and you guys went out on a date the

other day. Oh god, yeah, okay makes sense now, doesn't it. We do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then don't call them back, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out why. And Justin emailed us said that he was really into you, and yeah, I bet he said

that he did, so he obviously told you that too, Yes, enthusiastically. Yeah, And he says that now you're not returning any of his phone calls or text messages and he wants to know why. What did he tell you about our date? Oh? Well, he told us that you were trying to go to dinner downtown, but everything was booked, so you guys had fast food. He said the conversation was good. He also said that he told you he thinks you might be the one. He did say that. Did he elaborate on

what he said after that? No? Not really? Okay, great, so um, No, he did look at me and say, wow, you know, I think you're the one, and I'm like, take it back a little bit, but you know, I'm thinking, like maybe he had a couple drinks before our date. We were at KFC, like we didn't get to sit down restaurant where they serve alcohol. Then he told me that he said that to four other girls on a first date. What oh wait? Whoa? And like, I don't think I'm very old fashioned, but I think a soulmate

is a one and done kind of deal. So it started out kind of weird and then it just like went completely off the scale. What did you I mean what He's just like trying it out until somebody says it back to him, and then he's just going to seal the deal. Every time he said it, he meant it at the time at the time. That's not what soulmate means. And for me, like, when I do find someone I want to be serious with, it's not going

to be an at the time thing. It's going to be someone I feel a real connection with, you know. And how did you get to the point of telling you that? He said that before? When he looked at me and said, I think you're the one, I was probably making a face because I was pretty taken aback, and he was like, well, don't be scared. I've thought other girls were the one too, And then he starts telling me about the like he met, you're actually the one in four or the one in five. I mean,

what are you even thinking when you say that? Like even if I had been cool with when he first said it, which I wasn't, but if I had, then like, who's going to be the one at McDonald's next week? Like I don't even know you're the one, but I've had a lot of one. Yeah, right, Like that doesn't sound like a one to me anymore. That sounds like a group, And I don't want to be in your group. I think I'm good. So I mean, you just wanted to end the date and get out of there. You

didn't like why didn't you say something to him? What are you gonna say? That's gonna go? Well from there? Now I know something that he seemed to believe very earnestly, and my interest is now gone. What am I gonna do? But like, well, you know, at least I didn't spend money on a nice place to go for dinner. Thanks for your time. Finish up your fried chicken. And get out of there. Yeah, I like my fried chicken, but you know what I mean, right, all right, Charlotte, Well,

thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that. Yeah, I mean, it's just it was a lot. It started with a lot and then there was more, and I'm just I'm not responding to that. Okay, Well, since you were so honest with us, now I feel like I should be honest with you because Justin is actually on the other line listening and he wants to talk. Yes, he is, maybe not Justin are you there? Yeah, hey, Charlotte, I'm still confused on why you didn't call me back.

What's what's going on? What? What did you not? Just I feel like I just explained myself pretty clearly, and I feel like my not responding in the first place was a pretty clear message. I really don't know what you think you're doing. Thanks for dragging me on the radio. Well, I don't know. I just thought that we were supposed to be kind of you know, you know, you can have more than one soulmate. You have like a best friend, right, you have a you might have a lover, you might

have friends. I have one best friend. I don't have five best friends. Well, what about soul may business partners? Like, Listen, I don't want to out there. You don't make any sense, and I don't need to listen to you explain this to me again because I am not interested and there was no amount of explaining you can do now on the radio to make me interested. Listen, forget all that stuff that has happened so far. I just knew immediately when I met you that you were my soulmate, just

like I did with those other four girls. And try some business partners and whoever else? Do you hear yourself talk? You keep saying me and these four other girls like not supposed to be romantic. I'm supposed to be enticed by that. But I'm in this batch with all these other women. That doesn't make it feel special. Well, listen, I'm not going to shy away from love. I mean when we were sharing our cole slaw, I can picture you with our kids three years from now. Wow, oh

my god, Justin you have to stop. Are you also picturing the other women and their kids also? Are we all there in a group. Well, there's over seven billion people on the planet. I should say that I should only have one. No, we should just stop talking about it. We need to go forward. Yeah, let's stop talking about it, Charlotte and go on a second date with Justin. We will pay for it. Go out with your SOULMATEE. How

do you know I'm not your soul mate? I know for sure that you're not my soulmate because of all the crazy that comes out of your mouth, Justin. I mean, like, I think women appreciate a man who's in touch with his emotions. But I don't think that you're actually in touch with your emotions. I think you're just trying to live out a rom com or something. You know what. I don't really care what everyone else is saying. I really think that, Charlotte, you are one of the soulmates

for me of all. For real, I think that you will be linked to me as a soulmate forever. Wow. I really hope not I hope. So. I mean, I guess no matter why you choose who gets to be your soulmate, But I don't think this soulmate is choosing you back, Justin. Unless unless I haven't picked up on the right signals from you, Charlotte. No, I think you've picked up on my feelings signals pretty well, Oh well, maybe you and I are soulmates. We know each other

so well. Wow, look at that, Charlotte, two soulmates on the phone. You can have more than one soul mate. Okay, well Justin right now your soulmate Charlotte doesn't want to go out with your shows just have to be a memory. Yeah, Charlotte, after everything that we've talked about, I really we hope that you change your mind and I'm gonna be here for you. I'm gonna wait for you. Oh my gosh, until the next person goes to KAFC with the Chlotte.

Don't worry about it. Broken Jewil in the morning, text In at seven eight, five to nine two says I've met four soul mates already this morning, so it's going to be a good day. Talking about today's second date update if you missed it, this dude, Justin wasn't going to call back from a girl named Charlotte, And he actually told Charlotte on their first date that he thought she was the one but didn't understand why she wasn't

calling him back. And when we got her on the phone, we found out that he also told her that he said, you're the one to like four other girls on dates. Yeah, says it all the time, I guess. And he explained that he believes people can have more than one soul mate in life and he's just trying to cast a very wide net for one. Is not accurate. Then, in the end, Charlotte did not want to be one of Justin's many soul mates and didn't go on a second date with him. But he should be fine. You'll find

the one in a little while. I'll find another one. Remember you want to do a second date update? All I have to do his email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.