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2nd Date Update PODCAST: Hook Up or Hold Up

Jun 07, 201914 min
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Brooking Jewels. Second dat date. Dude name Mike is on the phone for a seconded up date today. He said he went on a double date with the girl he wants to call. I've only been on one double date and it worked out great for me. I got in an argument with the girl that I was with and ended up leaving everybody. So I don't think double dates are very good. And so it's no wonder that Mike's not getting a call back after his double date. Mike, did you guys argue on the actual date and then

you just ditched out? No, that didn't happen. That is so awkward for the other three people that were reviewed. She was terrible. She was a horrible person. Anyway, it's not about me, it's about you right now, Mike, what's the name of the girl you want to call today? Her name is Aaron? Aaron? All right? And where did you meet Aaron? So we actually met at a bark rawl? Okay, a few weeks ago. We had a seven legged bark crawl?

What is a seven legged one? It was pretty much you and the group friends get tired at your legs, like six of us tied at your legs and you just go to t bars all night and drink what and you're tied together? How do you fit through anywhere? Like you're six people deep? You actually crawl? Yeah, that's part of the fun. I mean, you have to figure that out or you just won't make it. You know. Wait, how do you hit on a person? Which did you have six other people tied to you? Are they all

just standing there awkwardly listening to you? I mean it's like if she didn't like me, she couldn't run away, right, right? So she was she tied to you? Was she in the group of people that were tied together? Yeah? She was, Oh okay, I see, okay, it was like one seven group of people tied together talking to another seven group of people. So yeah, she was really chill and we actually ended up you know, talking a lot about you know, movies and kind of other things that we were into.

And I take it she was tied right next to and not like at the end of all the people and you weren't yelling down the line. Yeah, she was right next to me. Okay, So did you ask her out that night? Well? Actually, the end of the night, we all ended up getting really really uh stated and I worked up the courage to ask her out. I thought, you may we're going somewhere else with direct. We're all drunk, we're all tied up already, a little bit of bondage,

a little bit of you know, I don't know. Okay, Well, so you you got drunk enough to ask her out, that's it. Yeah, okay. But my roommate was also in our group and she got to do her too, and they kind of hit it off also, so I suggested a double date with my roommate and I okay, So I invited Aaron over to be my date, and I got my roommates and by her guy over to be her date. Where did you guys do when you went out? So we invited them over to our place and we

drank and then we um. We made our way down in the bars again. Awesome. It's kind of crazy how we always seem to like end better bars. Somehow it seems to right. There's not a lot of food involved. This sounds lucky either. I mean we had some snacks. But okay, okay, how did it go? I mean it was cool, I mean I enjoyed myself. Okay, it got a little awkward at one point, my roommate started making out with her guy, and you know, I kind of suggested that we went up them, and she kind of

just laughed it off. So you were being really serious, like we need to make out too, and she laughed at you. Well, I thought I was being you know, smooth with that line. I thought I was gonna get at least a little pack on the cheek or something. But yeah, she just kind of laughed it off. Okay, So did you not get a kiss at all? I didn't know. Okay, And was that just the end of the date. You guys just hung out for a little while watching your roommate makeout with her date and she laughed. No,

it got a little awkward. So we pretty much just ended up getting the check and calling in a night. So what got awkward just that you were sitting there staring at your roommate swapping saliva? Yeah pretty much. Yeah. Yeah. I offered to get her a number of acting because she wanted it, and she actually took me up in my offer. So okay, so he got hern Uber home, and have you talked to her since? I've tried calling, but it just goes straight to voicemail. So nothing. Oh,

it doesn't even ring. Yeah, it sounds like you've been blocked or something. I don't know, hopefully not. All right, well try to find out. We'll play a song and then come back and call her and get your second date up date. Okay, all right, all right, hang looking cuble in the morning. You know, usually when the first date starts, I'm being tied up to a group of other people and there's all kinds of making out going on. I mean, usually you're in for a lot of fun.

But apparently that didn't happen. From Mike, he wants to call a girl named Aaron today who wasn't calling him back. They actually met at a seven legged bar crawl I guess him and six of his friends were all tied together and she was one of those people. Then he ended up asking her out. She hung out with him and his roommate and another dude on a double date. Things were going okay, but then it got awkward when his roommate started making out with her date in front

of them. He made a joke like maybe we should try to one um. She wasn't into that, and then she got an uber home and hasn't called him since. So see, if we can find out why. All right, Mike, you radio call her feel Let's do it. Have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe she isn't calling you back because she doesn't know you sober at all? No? No, I mean I don't know her sober either, so kind of the same thing. Right, Yeah, you could hate her sober. You might not even want to call her. But we'll

find out. We'll see if she's sober, we'll get her on the phone. Okay, all right, all right, here we go. Hello, I'm asking to Aaron. Please. This is she? Hey Aaron, how are you? This is Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, who Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Um, well are you? Is this like a survey or something or kind of I'm doing a survey on this dude named Mike that I know and anybody who's been out on a date with him. Have you been on a

date with a guy named Mike recently? Sorry? I'm excused? Are you being serious? We do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then don't call them back, after that person can email us to get you on the phone to try to figure out what happened. So Mike emailed us about your date. Okay, I get it. Now, do you mind talking to us for a minute about your date with Mike? Um? Sure,

that's fine. Okay. So he told us how you met like some seven legged bar crawl thing, and then he says that you went out on a double date with him in his roommate, but now you're not getting back to him. He said he really liked you and he can't figure out why. Is there a reason? Um, I don't know. I feel like the whole situation with him, it's just, you know, I really don't think it's gonna work out between us. So what situation? I mean, he didn't mention that he was in any sort of situation.

I mean, you know, just kind of what happened that night. Um, it just got kind of weird. But the only thing that he told us that was weird was his roommate started making out with her her date and wouldn't stop, and he thought that was awkward. Oh, he didn't tell

you about the situation with him in his roommate. No, Well, okay, So basically At one point, I was talking to his roommate alone, and she was telling me that occasionally, when she and Mike get bored, still hook up, maybe like once or twice a month or something like that, they're sleeping together. Yeah. Yeah, Like I kind of tried to play it cool like at the time, but I'm really like not cool with that at all. Not what I'm

looking for. You don't want to date a guy who hooks up with a roommate from time to time, No, and especially not too when he like lives with Like yeah, anyway, So I just kind of like the rest of the day, I was just kind of like, okay, just trying to sit here and let the time pass and again. And there's no way, like she wasn't joking, right, There's no way it could have been a joke or something. No. I think she was being very sincere. Oh oh my god, from what I could tell, Yeah, and she was like,

it's still a big deal. It's fully fine. I just want to let you know, like, how was that not a big deal? Yeah, you would think that would be a big deal. I think what's happening is the roommate likes Mike, and she was trying to sabotage your day with him. Well, either way, even if she's not the one who has feelings going to sleeping together and they lived together, so it's kind of like, I don't really want to get in between that. No, I remember, he

probably wants you to get in between it. That probably she's really hoping for her. But what if she's making it up. Though she's not making it up. You don't make up something like that. I don't know their roommates. Dude, that is, who is gonna date Mike when he's sleeping with his roommate? No one. Yeah, anyway, I'm kind of surprising didn't mention that. But yeah, well that answers our question. Yeah,

pretty pretty cut and dry there. Yeah. So you know after that, I don't really want to go out with him again or see him again. Yeah. Well, the goodness is you don't have to see him again, But I do want to see if you'll talk to him again, because he's on the other line listening. I wants to talk to him. What are you serious? Yes, I am, Mike is on the phone. Yeah, Mike, you're still there. Yeah, I've heard all of that. I mean, what's what's the big deal? What's the big deal I used to do.

It's not a big deal. I mean we're not exclusive. Oh my god, I mean that I don't really care if you're not exclusive. But you're like the girly live with only once in a blue moon, and it's purely physical, you know what I mean. So, I mean, we're not exclusive, and I don't I don't know why this is a big deal for real, you don't know why that's an issue. You're sleeping with somebody that you live with. No, I mean, are you Bryan to pressure me to be your boyfriend?

Is that what you want? Oh my god. God, women always trying to like ruin your life right away. It seems like you're trying to pressure me to not see other ladies. No, actually know, I you can go ahead and see other ladies. I'm looking for someone who doesn't have your situation going on. I mean, like, think about it, Like, how could she ever trust you if you guys did start a relationship. Yeah, I mean, my roommates beake too cool with it. I don't I don't see how you

wouldn't be cool with it. But just what if I mean, what if you're just sitting around and said we're starting to get serious. But one day, like what if I'm out of town and you just get really bored and you just you look up with her and like what then, Like it just sends well, if that did happen, I'd tell you, yeah, we're dating stuff with my roommate. I'd at least let you know. That is nice. I appreciate the honesty, but that's still just not really what I'm

going for. It's like thinking about it this way, Mike, Like if I ask you to come over to my apartment and then I told you like, oh, hey, I'm having sex with my male roommate over here, would you be like super cool with that? Like what would you think of that? I mean, I just want you to call me and after you've showered. Wow, man, I mean, I'm just saying we should be allowed to date other people. Why do you care who I date? We're not exclusive.

Did we sit down and have a conversation and say, hey, I'm your boyfriend, you're my girlfriend? Like that? We did not. Obviously, we haven't had that kind of conversation. And it's it's different too when the person that you're like seeing just live a just trend feet away from you all the time. I mean, that just makes it even weirder, Like, I can't it's just not something I'm into, Mike. Why aren't you just dating your roommate now? I'm not into her

like that. I mean, that's just weird. It's weird to date someone that you're sleeping with casually happen to live with you too. Odd. I'm with you there on that one, Mike. I mean, honestly, have none of you guys sucks up with any of your friends because you've been bored? Yeah, but it wasn't multiple times a month and I didn't live with them. I mean, I highly recommend it because it's pretty fun and it's pretty convenient. Convenient too that, Aaron,

it's convenient. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure it is. Well, I mean, keep on keep it on, Mike, But I don't think I can I have any part of that hold on, Aaron. Before you get to that, let me just ask you, would you like to go on a second date when Mike, we will pay for it? No, I'm sorry, No, Aeron. How about this? How about you come over one night with my roommate. We can all like have dinner and talk us over. Yeah, it sounds like you, Mike. Yeah, drinks.

I think Mike, you guys just have different boundaries, right. I think so yours are a little bit more open than hers, a lot more open. I mean, she's definitely open to come over whenever she wants. Okay, Aaron, Well, I'm sorry, you know you turned down the date, but you got an open invite over to Mike's place whenever you want it. That's kind of nice, right, thank you?

All right, Well, appreciate you telling us why you didn't call him back, and Mike maybe be more upfront about that with other dates that you go on, and you might find a girl that's right for you, or don't sing it at all, or just again start dating the roommate ill. I would never date her. She's like my sister. All right. It's getting worse, getting even worse for you, Mike, take care of broken Juwil in the morning.

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