Looking cubile in the morning. Second date update. The guy on the phone for a second date update today seems to know why his date went wrong. He says it's because he sort of kind of cat fished her. It's not really, but he kind of cat fished her. I'll let him explain. Daniel's up, how are you? Yeah? You doing not too bad? So you sort of cat fished your date. I guess you could say that I'm never on the dating app and we end up going out
to lunch. I guess the background real quick, is just that I am about sixty pounds heavier than like my photo on there. Okay, so you've gained some weight since posting your photo or you chose a skinny photo of a post. Well, I actually gained a bunch of weight because I had to move back home with my mom. I mean, let's play alongs her. But she's just like heavy butter cooker, like just right, I feel right. Yeah,
but you didn't update your picture with the weight gain. Well, the thing is, I didn't want to post a picture of me like heavy, just that would not be getting me very many swipes. So I you know, I just figured that I would be getting rid of that weight, which is what I told her when I met her. And it's true, like I've been on a diet like no carbs, just like you know, trying to get rid of this weight, and you know that I'm not gonna look like this in a two months. I get that.
It's like the same reason I keep my skinny jeans even though I can't fit into him eventually, don't still work exactly. All right. What's her name, by the way, her name's Kristen. Kristen. Okay, and you said that you explained that to her, so obviously you felt self conscious when you shot up. You're like, I know I'm gonna look different than my picture. Yes, so I was pretty upfront about that, and that seemed to be okay. What was her reaction? It was chill, like she wasn't like mad,
and she didn't seem genuinely upset. Maybe a little prize, but you know, it seemed okay. She didn't like body shame you and walk out her. No, she's a really nice person and I don't think particularly like shallow, so I think that was really cool. Okay, So tell us about the date then, how was it? Well, since I just told her about how moms diet. I felt like
I had to order a salad, you know. So what ended up happening was that she had ordered like this chicken parm sandwich, and when the food came, she went to the bathroom and I just, I don't know, I hadn't had like a card in like three days or something. The chicken parm just looks so good, So I was just thinking I could just take like a nibble or something. You ate her sandwich. I just took a bite and then that was just the best thing I'd ever tasted in my life. So I like, I had like another
bite or three. Anyway, you couldn't started what I know. When she came back to the table and half her food was gone, well I realized before she got back. So I flagged down the waiter and they had a soup and half a sandwich special for lunch. I was like, can you bring super real quick? So, thinking maybe that she would think that they brought that special and it was just half a sandwich, would I say that's an actually genius cover on. Yeah, it was a pretty good idea.
So he brought the soup and she came back and she didn't seem to notice anything. I didn't think that was the conversation good and everything else. Honestly, after like I had that half a sandwich, I felt like better than I felt in day. Oh my god, the conversation was great and we had a great time. And I mean the only thing like later there might have been a time when I would have normally tried to kiss her, but I didn't want to. I didn't want her to
smell the chicken parm sandwich. O. God, that sandwich. You'd be busted. Yeah, I will say, if you're meeting for lunch, it would be a weird thing to do. I'll kiss I think at the end of a lunch date. I just didn't want to risk it. You know, you just feel guilty the whole time, Like, how's the sandwich? You've never had that before? God? Yeah, did she seem into you at the end of everything, it just seemed like
a nice time. I mean, that's why I'm trying to see, like what might have happened, Like, yeah, I thought she would definitely be responding to me, like I said, like a nice person, but she's just totally ghosted me. And I'm I'm trying to figure out which maybe what part of it? Maybe she figured out that you ate her sandwich. I'd be pissed. Do you know how pissed i'd be. Yeah, I can imagine. I just hope that that's not it. Okay, Well we'll play a song and then come back and
call and get your second date update. All right, oct Okay, looking jubil in the morning. Second date update if you're just tuning in today's second date update. Daniel is on the phone and he thinks he might not be getting a call back from a girl named Kristen because he met her and he was actually sixty pounds heavier than his profile picture because apparently he lived with his mom for a little while and gained a bunch of weight because his mom likes to cook with butter. That was
his excuse. So but also he ate half her sandwich too on the date. So we're about to find out if either one of those is the issue. All right, Daniel, you're ready to give her a call? Yeah, I'm just gonna say, if it's really because you ate half of her sandwich, she's got to see the humor in it. I don't think that there's a woman alive that hasn't been super hungry. At some point, it felt like she couldn't eat what she wanted to. She should understand, I
really hope. So I still feel like, wow, I shouldn't have done that. All right, Well, I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now. Here we go. Okay, Okay, Hello, Hey, may I speak to Kristin? Yes? Is this Kristen? Kristen, how are you? This is Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, for real, Yeah, I'm on the radio right now and say that. I just said, this is Jewil calling from Brook and Jewl in the Morning. What's going on? Not much? What's going
on with you? The usual? I don't know you, so I have no idea what the usual is. I'm actually, you know, just taking a break from work and stuff and I got this call im a number. Okay, I guess I'll answer it. So nervous, you're like, giggle, nervous, I am. I'm calling you today because we do a segment on our show it's called a second date update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then don't call them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find
out what happened. And we got an email about you from a dude named Daniel. From Daniel, yep, okay, you remember going out with Daniel. Yeah, I went on a date with Daniel, right, and Daniel emailed us and told us about your date. He also said that you ghosted him after and you guys aren't even talking anymore, and he wants us to know if he did something wrong. He really liked you. He said that you guys had really good chemistry and lots of great conversation. What exactly
do you guys know about the situation. Well, you know that you guys met online and that you met up for lunch. He said everything seemed to be great between you two. He did say that he's a little heavier in person than his profile picture, and he thought maybe that was the reason. Yes, that is part of it. For sure, there were a lot of red flags. I'll tell you that he said that you were super kind about it, and that he explained that he had moved back into his mom's house for a while. He gave
way and you were way understanding. I mean, look, I'm not judgmental, you know, and it just didn't seem like if that's his issue, he's not mine, you know, so I'll just kind of listen. Okay, But you said red flags? So what red flags? Yeah, there were a lot of red flags. He started out with it he's living with his arrant with no explanation, and he ordered a salad and I ordered what was it, like a sandwich, but you know, not worrying about my weight or anything. But
he kept insisting that I would eat a salad. So he just like ketling trying to falad job my salad. When I finally said no, he just said okay, fine and slammed his fork down on the table. Who I was like, whoa, whoa okay, red flag? Yeah. Then after that, the work pard does. He kept for rating me about my food that I ordered, how well I ordered? And I think it was an eggplant parmesan believe, and it's just not as healthy as his salad, I guess. So
he just kept going, that's unhealthy. Do you know how many carbs are in that? Do you how much calories are in that? I'm like, just let me enjoy my half a sandwich. You know what? The heck the guy whom shows up sixty pounds heavier than his picture is food shaping you over what you should and should not be eating. I don't know. Maybe he was trying to make himself feel better because he wasn't allowed to have it,
but it didn't come off well to me. Yeah, I didn't even get dessert because I already knew what was going on, and I said no, and he pressured me to get the cheesecake. What he pressured you to get cheesecake after all that, I don't know if he was upset because he started to cry and walk away. No, wait, cry because you wait, cry because you wouldn't order the cheesecake, or because it was coming and he didn't eat any because I wouldn't order the cheesecake. At this point, I
was like, oh, he's just gonna shame. I would to try to eat my cheesecake. I want to enjoy it, you know. But when he started to cry and walk away, I was like very confused, like is he coming back? Is he's skipping out on the bill? But he came back and he paid the bill, and you know, we said goodbye. And I didn't think i'd hear from him, because I'd be embarrassed if I did that, you know. But since then I received a bunch of texts, and one of them would just put me over the edge.
It was asking for money for the bill because he said he only ordered salad, And I'm like, what's with this guy? I mean, no matter what, if you're going a day was one and you pay, it's pretty bad form to venmom after and be like, hey, you owe me for that? Yeah, I mean Red Flag City And look, I have only so many heartbeats in my life, and why waste them on someone that would It wouldn't benefit either of us, Like I'm not interesting. Yeah, I can
see why you actually ghosted him. Like I wouldn't give him any explanation either. I wouldn't give him any more of my time, makes sense, Christen, But can you give him a few more minutes because he's actually on the other line listening. I wants to talk to you. What Sorry, yeah, if unless you hung up? Daniel, are you still there? I'm still here, Daniel? Oh, Christen, Hey, Wow, I can't
believe I'm sharing what I'm hearing. Like, no, I'm on a diet, and it's just like, I don't know if you've ever bound on one, It's like it really messes with your head, So like I thought you would understand what I'm going through. I can't empathize who what's you're going through the other factors or the reasons, not the fact that you want a diet or you look differently. You know, you obviously are. You've got your own issues
and you could deal with that, aren't on me? Yeah? Okay, look, look, look, look I'll explain the salad thing and what really happened. Okay, okay, Well what happened, Well, basically, you went to the bathroom and you had your chicken parm sandwich there, and I tried it and then it was I basically ate half of the sandwich. Oh my god, are you kidding me? You ate my food? Well, I was weak with hunger. I guess I didn't realize, and you could have told me, Well,
I guess I could have. I just felt really bad. I'm really sorry. I didn't care what Daniel. That doesn't explain the anger over her not trying your salad, does it. Well, I just felt so guilty about the sandwich that I just really wanted to eat the salad, and then I would just feel like we were even you know, Oh my gosh, she didn't make you feel better because she didn't eat any of your salad. I didn't get mad at her. It was just like the hunger, like the
low bloodshedar like I was like hungry. You know what the hunger got mad at? Or? Did the hunger make you cry over? Dessert too had to be I mean, like I must have a severe low blood sugar count. Did you cannot be in a total a hole on your date on just being hungry? I don't think you get it though, like three days of no carbs, like I don't even know what I was saying, You know what I mean? It's pretty if I obviously need some help, Daniel, you really do you need to go see a dietician,
a therapist or something. You need to be honest with yourself. Hamburger not a therapist. I needn't, Daniel. What she's tried to say is try a different diet. If you can't function as a normal person not eating carbs, then maybe that's not the right avenue for you to lose weight. Maybe you need a lace that Hamburger with some psychotropic medication and make you feel better. I don't know. Later there's dating sites for this, you know, but I'm not on that they're a dating site for people who get
really angry over food. I'm sure there is something like that. Hey, you guys are looking at this the whole wrong way, like I'm doing a good thing and you're seeing me like struggle through the worst right here. So like it's only going to get better from here. I'm gonna get like looking and more control of this, so you know what I mean. Like, Okay, Well, in that case, Kristen, would you like to go out with Daniel on a
second date. We'll pay for it. He's getting better, you know what they say, date an angry chubby guy, marry a really stable hot guy. I think I'd wait till the chubby guy gets stable and then try to hate him. Well, okay, fine, don't have to be about it. I'm sorry. I'm just like honestly, like I haven't even eaten anything today yet, Daniel, I'm sorry, no second day, man, but go get just go shove a carrot up you behind and lea me alone.
Shove a carrot in you're behind and a donut in your mouth or something so you get some carves and calm down. You guys just aren't like getting that. I mean I mean, seriously, don't listening to me. Whoa, oh buddy, Sorry, sorry, yeah, I'm just I'm oh my god, I'm just like feeling kind of like dizzy and weak because, oh my god, like I had like a canned peach earlier. It's like, oh had, I'm so sorry. What kind of a diet
are you on? Broken juwil in the morning text in it seven eight five nine two says I'm on a diet, So I really understand where this guy's coming from. Talking about today's second date update, This dude, Daniel wanted to call this girl named Kristen. He's on a strict diet and while they were out on their date, he actually ate half of a sandwich while she was in the bathroom, and he thought that might have been a turn off for her. But when we called her, we found out
the problem was in fact Daniel's diet. She didn't notice that half for a sandwich had been gone while she was in the bathroom, but Daniel I was constantly telling her how unhealthy or chicken parm sandwich was ate half off, and then literally started crying when she didn't order the cheesecake. Just eat something. Yeah, this is not this is not
a diet that's going to work for you. On top of his will behavior at the dinner table, a few days later, he contacted Kristen asking her to venmo him half of the bill because he only got a salad. He blames his behavior on his diet. Yeah, that's what it is, says his mood swings will be worth it in the end. If once he's all slimmed down, oh man, if he can survive. Yeah. She says, you'd rather date a stable, chubby guide than an unstable skinny one. So
no second date. Remember, if you want to do a second at update, just email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.