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Oh whoa, We've never had a refund date before. That's why Evan is on the phone today to do a second date update. Evan wants his money back. What's up Evan? Hi, guys? Uh, I'm all right. You know, I'm just looking to get my cash back. Wait before we goity further, We're not talking about any illegal prostitution deal that went wrong, right, No, No, no prostitution. This is just food. I'm looking to get paid back for some grub. I did not know I
was spending money on. You know how many dates I've been on, Evan where I spend a bunch of money on dinner. I'm like, man, I wish I could get my money back, So kudos to you for using our radio show to do that. Yeah, that's the only thing I could think of. Well, let's start by talking about the girl that you want to call today. What's her name? Her name is Chrissy, Chrissy, okay, and how did you meet Chrissy? I met Chrissy because she's a local at
the bar. I frequent, kind of like my watering hole, you know. Okay, So you've run into her before or was that the first time you've met hers when you asked her out? We run into each other before, okay, all right? And then how did you ask her out? Finally? Well, one day I came to go get a drink after work and she just sat down next to me. And I'd always thought she was cute, and then before you know, we're grabbing a drink and chatting. Okay, And where did you guys go on your date? Oh? We went to
this Greek restaurant. So how did dinner go? Well, I got to be honest with you, guys. We're having a good time until we sat down for dinner. And I should note she asked to meet me directly at the restaurant instead of picking her up which was, you know, since a little more like the typical course of action. Sure, and we sit down at dinner and she orders every appetizer on the menu. Wait, and three full entrees. Wait? Hold on how many appetizers there on the menu? Is
there like two or like six types of hummus? You know, chickpeas and grilled lamb? And I don't even know what? Why? Why did she do that? That's what I was thinking. I was like, what the hell? So I ended up asking her, you are really hungry, what with all the food? And she looks at me and says, well, my kids first mentioned of ever hearing that she had kids have never had Greek food. Oh, she's she's ordering to bring
food home to her children. Yeah, she wants it all boxed up so she can bring it home for them. And did she make you pay for this entire bill? Yeah? I was expecting her to at least kick in some money, and she handed me the whole check. So that's awesome. You bought her kids dinner and you didn't even intend to. That's very nice of you. And the whole thing turned out to be a hundred and sixty five dollars and I just had a salad I had. Did you say
anything to her about it? I mean, I would hope if I were in that situation, be like, Hey, I'll pay for your dinner, but do you mind paying for your kids dinner? No? I didn't. I was so flustered at the time. I just hate it. Okay, is there any way like that she is out of a job that can't afore to feed her, chill threaten or something? I don't think so. I don't know why she didn't offer to pay, but it kind of seemed like she was using me and the fact that I like her
to get her to pay for dinner. How did the date end with her? The crazy thing is the date didn't end there. It kept going. Where did you go next? She demanded that we get more drinks together at another bar down the street. Did she take those drinks into go cups? So back to the kids too? I wouldn't be surprised if that did happen. How long were you hanging out with her after you bought all that food? Like? Another hour or two? Okay? Are you just a man
who can't say no? I was so confused inside, but I liked her, so I didn't know what to do. I got very nervous. So how did it all end? Then? Like, what was the moment you guys said goodbye to each other? Well, we're paying for everything, and she then she starts talking about how all men are just children who are trying to find their mothers. I don't even know where this came from. Get wait, wait, wait, So the check comes and that's what she brings up. I don't understand what
you're saying. Yeah, she starts vncing about how all men are just children looking for their mothers. Interesting, but why would they not know where their mothers are? Like all the men in my life know exactly what you're telling me. Obviously, the lady has issues. I don't know why she was saying that. And then she gets a text from her babysitter. Okay, and the babysitter wants her to come home immediately because she's already an hour or two over, and she leaves
me with the bill. So did she just cut like that? Like she just left right away, boom out of there? All right, So you don't necessarily want a second date, you just want to call her and go. You have to pay for the money that I spent on our date. Yeah, she sipped me on to bill. All right, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and try to collect your money. Yeah, thank you. I need to be reimbursement is all right, this should be interesting. We'll do
it right after this. Hang on five looking jubil in the morning. As somebody who's gotten a lot of calls from bill collectors in their time, I'm excited to be on the other end of the phone today. That's pretty much what today's second date update is. We're trying to collect a debt. Evan is on the phone, and in case you missed the first part, he went out on a date with a girl named Chrissy. They went out to a Greek restaurant and they sat down to order food.
She ordered pretty much everything on the menu, and he asked her why, and she said she wanted the extra food to bring home to her kids. One she didn't tell him about the kids. Two she made him pay for all that extra food, And now he wants to call her to tell her that she owes him money. All right, Evan, are you about ready to make the phone call? I am. I forgot to ask Evan, how many kids does she have? Just three kids. Oh, she's
deep in children, three whole children. What if when we get her on the phone, we can come to some sort of a compromise, Like she takes care of the tip, would you be happy with that? No, she needs to pay for the whole damn meal. All right, well, I'll dial her phone umber right now and get her on the phone. Then let's not waste any more time. Thank you. Hello, Hi is Chrissy there? Yeah, Hi Chrissy. This is Jewel
from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. What this is Jewil from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. And you're calling for me? Yeah? Your name's Chrissy, right, Yeah? Okay, Yeah, I think I'm calling for you. Did you recently go out on a date with a guy named Evan? Oh? I did? Okay? Did he die? No? He didn't. Are you hoping that he did? No? No, this is just like super weird. You're the Chrissy that I'm looking for you. Definitely? Are you went out on a date with a guy
named Evan? And Evan is a listener to our show? Okay, all right, and if your date with Evan? He emailed us and he wanted to see if we could get you on the phone to talk about something. Okay, why didn't Evan just call me? You know, I'm not sure. Maybe he felt like this would be a conversation better for you and I to have. All Right, that sounds pretty dumb, but whatever. Evan told us about your date. Yeah, and he talked about how you guys went out to
a Greek restaurant. Yeah, it was delicious, he said he really enjoyed it. He thought you were really cool. Cool, okay, but he did say there was one problem. Apparently you ordered a bunch of food. Yeah, what's the problem. Well, the problem is the food that you ordered. I guess was to take home to your kids. Yeah, Haisley, Brian and Jack. So what is the problem. He feels like you sort of wronged him in making him pay for the entire bill, basically buying food for your family. Are
you kidding me right now? No? Joke? Right? No, I'm not not at all. He emailed us. Yeah, and he said he wanted us to call you today to ask you to pay him back for the money that he spent on the extra food. What ye who wants to deprive children of food? What the hell is wrong with him? Yeah, but he feels like he was on a date with you, so he didn't have a problem buying your meal. It was just when you ordered. And it's myself and Paisley and Brian and Jent like that's the deal. But you
got it. I mean you gotta understand he didn't even know you had kids going into this estate. Look, if someone's going to take me out, they have to accept me for who I am, and I am a mother first and foremost. So I don't really understand what the problem is. And I think he's got some boys asking for his money. I mean, you honestly didn't offer to pay for any of the food that you brought home. No, I believe in chivalry, like open doors, love chairs, pay
for the chet. Yeah, but paying for your meal is one thing. Paying it for extra food so you can bring it home to your kids is another. Don't you think? Excuse me, am I on trial here? No, we're just we're literally just calling so he can get his money back because he feels like you owe him money for that. Wow, that's pretty pathetic. Is it like you're going through a hard time right now and you just need help hard time? No,
I don't need help. No, I have a job. My kids have never had great food, so I thought it was a great opportunity to take them some. So really, I don't understand what your problem is. It's just an interesting situation. I've never heard of anybody ordering extra food for their kids and then making their date pay for it. Yeah, well, then you've never been on a date with me, and that's probably very likely not going to happen. Sure, I
was thinking about asking you out right now. The thing is, I'm a mother, so my kids are always going to get their meals when they need them. So if I'm going to go out with you, I need to make sure that they are fet Do you have a problem with that? They're going to come first. But he mean, he does have a problem with it. Sick manners, basic manners. Are you a woman hater? I'm supposed to be on the same side. What are you talking about? What you think?
It doesn't even make sense because by the time you got home, which apparently you were one to two hours late for the babysitter, which is rude in and of itself, your kids were long past dinner time. Excuse me, how the hell do you know all of this that's because we talked to him about your day and he told us all that information. Wow. Yeah, and he's actually on the other line and wants to talk to you. What, Evan, are you there? Hey? Hey here? Oh you have to say, hey,
I'm here, Chrissie. I'm pretty I'm pretty upset. I'm gonna be honest with you. I really want back, Evan. Yeah. It takes a real scumbag to try and take food away from children and complain about what you paid for it. I didn't know I was paying for four people on a two person date, so that's really pathetic, Evan. What pathetic is lying about your intentions on our date. My
intentions were clear. I liked you and I thought you liked me, So I just didn't know that I was paying so much money for a two person date, and I'd really appreciate it if you chipped in. I just think it's crazy to expect me to pay that much. I think it's crazy that you have to call up a radio station to fight your bottles. That's pretty cowardly. What kind of man are you, Evan? Wow, I'm a
real man. Way to state your case there, Evan, If you were a real man, you would have paid for both bills and then asked me out on another date. I didn't expect that those dinners would clear me out for the month one month. Oh god, Evan, are you poor? I'm not poor, but I'm not Warren Bait either. Your expectations of me are ridiculous, and any guy who's going
to accept that doesn't have their head on straight. And I think that you should pay me back part of that dinner, and I think then we will be even before baby getting all the defensive. Defensive is one way to put it, but another way to put it is sticking up for myself. Well, Evan, you're not getting any money from me. Oh, Chrissy. I would like to ask, if you go on a second date with Evan, we will pay for it, so Evan doesn't even have to worry about it. Would you go out with Evan again?
The only way I would ever go out with that again is if we agreed upfront that he will take me and my children together so I don't have to deal with another radio embarrassment. I think she's upfront about the deal. Evan. Will you take her and her whole family out for dinner again? Sure? I'll take her her kids, the Queen of England. That sounds like a really nice date. It's congratulations you too. I guess you guys are going out again. You're a great man. Evan sarcast Oh, I
thought you were really saying yes. I thought the Queen of England was going to come along and everything that's sad broken jewel in the morning. A lot of hate on the text message board at seven eighty five to nine and two about today's second date update. Everybody is calling the woman from today's second date update pathetic, a horrible person. Somebody texted it and asked if she's a dominatrix. I don't know why you would pose that question, but
who knows. Maybe you can do in internet search and find out. It seems like you're interested in something other than the second eate update. But if you missed today's second date update, this dude, Evan when out with a girl named Chrissy. They went to a Greek restaurant and she ordered a bunch of food so that she could bring the leftovers to her kids. Not even the leftovers, just dishes, just whole dishes to her children. Evan felt like he was tricked and wanted her to pay him back.
We got Chrissy on the phone and she was appalled that Evan would claim would complain about feeding her children. She said, if somebody's gonna take me out, they need to accept me for what I am. I'm a mother. Wow. Yeah, I really thought we were going to get her on the phone and it was going to be some sad story about how she's a struggling single mom with three kids he needed some help. Instead, she was just making fun of him and calling hip hoor Yeah whoa him?
Just like a thank you maybe or I totally understand. I'm so sorry. I get paying for the kids, by the way, but that's if they're on the date. Yeah, if the kids came along, you could buy them dinnerly. And I don't believe her. She's not taking those meals to her kids. I think she's eating them, seating them all. Yeah, I think she's just embarrassed to say how hungry she really is being hungry. Argued back and forth for a while about who was right. In the end, she says,
no matter what, she's a packaged deal. Take her out on a date. You have to buy food for her kids, even if they're not there. Hey, you know, her kids are gonna be like thirty years old eventually, and she's still gonna be pulling this crowd. Oh yeah, she will be. She'll be like sixty years old, still single, probably, yeah, and still trying to get extra food to bring to her kids. Ultimately, there was no second date update and
no refund for Evan. He just spent a bunch of money to buy her food for herself and her children, and she doesn't feel bad about it at all? Did it? If you think about it? I mean, he's still you know, like I don't know, Sorry, I don't know what I say. Yeah, he's still bought foods for the kids, so he ste proud about that he's feeding children. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back five