2nd Date Update PODCAST: Friendsgiving Fight

the only thing I know about friend relationships. Other than that, I'm kind of lost when it comes to friends and relationships. But we're gonna learn a little bit from Lisa, who's on the phone right now, because apparently she wants to do a second date update with a friend of hers. Really, is that right, Lisa? That's right? Are you currently underwear? No? Okay, well then you're not good enough friends to even really call yourself friends. So yeah, your email was a bit confusing.

So you went on a date with your friend? Well, okay, So we have the circle of friends and we just kind of met a new guy and he just recently joined. We've been hanging out for probably about a year, and I don't know, I've just kind of had a crush on him, like since today I saw him his name's Emilio Amelia. It's really cool and we all get along really well, you know, And so I just kind of decided that I wanted to ask him out. So did you know immediately that you were asking him out on

a date or did he think it was just friendly? Backstory, we always do a friends giving and we come over, everybody brings something and we do this big party. Well, I figured, because it was going to be his first friends giving, why don't we go and have like a drink first, just he and I and it could be kind of a date and we could go to the party together and not everybody would need to know or anything, but he and I would know. Okay, it's like a secret date. Yeah, it kind of just like see how

it felt and did it feel good? It just yeah, she want to see how it felt. So I'm just wondering, how did it feel. I'm blushing so hard right now, my god, So it felt good. Go. But I think that that's a really smart idea because then you don't have the pressure of your friends also pushing a relationship on you if you guys find out that you don't actually click exactly. And I was like, I went back and forth on it for a couple of days, but I finally gave him a call and I was like, Yo,

what do you feel about this? And he was like, yeah, sure, let's go have a drink. So we did and it turned out great, Like we had great conversation and we didn't need the other people around us, you know, to have that conversation. Right. Did it feel like a date the whole time or was it just like two friends hanging out until you meet up with your other friends. Well, at first, it kind of felt like the latter the

two friends. But then he totally like ordered my drink for me when he found out what I was getting and he paid like it was a date. It was. I don't know, it felt like a date to me. Was there any outright flirting that was going on? Oh yeah, I mean there was definitely some like flirting or anything, but no like kiss or anything. Yet, you know, it was it was very he was a gentleman, all right. You wanted to wait until you got to your friends giving party so you guys could start making out of

the table all over the pumpkin pie. Ye just happened. We wanted to put on a show, um so fast forward. The date went great. We got to Thanksgiving and everything seemed to be fine. You know, nobody really knew. It wasn't anything that was super obvious, but the issue happened like when dinner was actually being served. Oh there's an issue, Yes, there is an issue. Unfortunately, we were all sitting at dinner and I guess some political craft was being talked about.

I don't I don't really know. It was kind of on the other side of me, but I guess it really upset Emilio and one of our other friends. They were like fighting and arguing, and all of a sudden, they both like it up from their chairs and we're getting very puffed puffed up, you know, like guys do where they're like, ah, so wait, this is Amelio and then one of your friends. It was at the table, yeah,

now like one of our friends getting ready. They look like they're about to beat the crap out of each other, and and I'm sitting there like, whoa what happened? Emilio? Are you okay? And everyone's trying to just calm everybody down because no one's like blaming anybody. It's just a conversation that went awry on what happened. Well, they start yelling and our other friends starts to like rear back to hit him in the face, and then one of the friends catches them, and Emilio just like leaves. He

just rushes off. He's like, I'm sorry, I can't do this. This is ridiculous, and he just leaves and he won't return my calls. I've been trying to text and call, and I thought we had a good time. And I don't know if he's if he's just embarrassed from what happened because he's like the new friend, or if there's something wrong with me. I don't know. Yeah, I mean, even if something like that happened and you guys were cool, you still think you'd respond to you right, right, like

maybe we could gossip about our crazy friend. And he hasn't said a word to you. He hasn't And I've sent him like text messages like hey man, I'm so sorry about what happens. Do you want to talk? And I've even called and left the messages, and my last message was basically, hey, I'm here if you need me. Things got heated, it'll blow over and then nothing still Wow,

And have you heard from your circle? Of friends if he hasn't talked to anybody, like everybody we kind of we have this group message, you know, and everyone's kind of like question Mark, question Mark and Melo and the other guy whose name was Rob. They're all like, Rob's taking a few days to himself. So it's always a Rob that starts a fight. It's always Rob. But I'm just so confused and I'm so hesitant, and i just feel awkward. Okay, well we'll help you out and make

it even more awkward. We'll play a song and then we'll come back and get your second day update. All right, thank you, thank you? Yea, hang up looking jubil in the morning dates. You know, Lisa, if you didn't have friends, none of this would have happened. I know. I tell them every day like this whole thing is your fault. No friends, you don't have to worry about other people.

It's great, trust me, try it out anyway. Unfortunately, you do have friends, and now you're on the phone for a second date update and if you're just joining us, Lisa wants to call her friend Amilio. They actually have been friends for a while. He's in the same friend group as her, and before a friend's giving event. They decided to get together early, just the two of them and have a drink as a date to see how

it went. And apparently everything went great. But then they went to the friends giving and this dude, Ameilio ended up almost getting in a fight with another dude over some political argument and then stormed out, and she hasn't talked to him since. We're about to call him and find out one if he likes Lisa and two if he's ever going to be back in that friend group again. And just to be clear, like none of your other friends are pissed at Amelia or Rob. Right, everybody understands, No,

they just thought that. You know, politics are crazy right now and people get an arguments and everything's cooled down. Like Rob's fine again. He's just kind of taking a rob to baticle, is what we call it, Rob Baticle, Rob Baticle. I like that. So he's off for three days, kind of being by himself, and so everybody's fine, but I just can't get Emilio to answer back. Okay, well I'm gonna call him right now and see if he'll pick up our phone and then find out if he

enjoyed your date or not? Thank you? All right, here we go. Hello. Hey is this Emilio? Yeah, this is Amelia. Who's this? Hey, Amelio? How are you? Man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, what's that? It's a radio show. Okay, take it. You're a daily listener super fan? Uh no, yeah? Sorry? What is it about? Merely? I'm calling you because we do a segment on our show. It's called the second Date Update. Have you ever heard

anything like that before? No? Okay, I'll explain. What it is. Is is if you go on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what went wrong. So we actually got an email about you into the show about me? Yeah, who is it from? Wouldn't you like to know? Yeah? Yeah I thought so. Well, if you give me your credit card number for easy payments, I can tell you who emailed the show. Don't listen to him? Okay, No, I'm

not going to give him a credit card number. But like, who are you talking about? It was worth a shot. I'm talking about Lisa. Uh, Lisa? Like like Lisa, Lisa? I don't know if that's her last name, but Lisa, who you probably know pretty well. She's a friend of yours and you guys actually went on like a little date before your friends giving. Yeah, yeah we did. Yeah, it's her last name. Lisa is Alisa, Lisa no Jewel, No, no, no,

it's not. Oh okay, Yeah, she emailed us. She told us about your date and said that she had a great time with you, and then also told us about what happened at your friends giving, how you almost got in a fight with another dude and stormed off. Yeah, the whole thing was kind of kind of awkward. It sounds like it. Yeah, I mean, I don't even think she really cares about that though, I mean she knows

politics can get heated. I think she cares because you're not calling her back, No I know, but like I don't know. I kind of just wanted to wait for like the whole thing to die down, and honestly, like it was stupid, like it's it's totally my fault, okay, But from her description, it's all died down, like it's yeah, yeah, she said she really enjoyed going on a date with you and really wants to go out with you again?

Uh yeah, I mean, like, honestly, I can't even believe she contacted you about this, Like it's actually like super embarrassing for me. What is I mean, it sounds like everybody understands that you just got in a fight, if that's what you're Yeah, no, I mean, it's just like I'm stupid and I just I put myself in a

really really bad spot. What did you do? Though? From everything from what she tells, this sounds like you've just got in an argument with your buddy and you have to explain more than that, because what are we supposed to do go back to Lisa and be like, well, it's all his fault and he made a huge, horrible decision, but we can't tell you what it is because Okay, um, maybe I'll just tell you guys, and like you guys can tell her because I don't think I'm probably gonna

talk to her after this. But like I'm seriously like I shouldn't have even agreed to go out with her in the first place. Okay, We've been friends with like the same group of friends for a while, and she was like, you want to go get a drink before the thing? And I can't say no because then things would be like really awkward later, you know, that night, and so I said I would because like I didn't

want to hurt her feelings and stuff. And so at the bar when we went out, I was starting to see that like, oh no, like she like really likes me, and like I don't think I can turn back from this, Like this is like a date. So we go after to this thing and like I kind of go hang out with like my friends, and like I could start to tell the way she was like talking to her friends and looking over at us that like she wanted more to happen. And so I was telling, like, my

friends are like, what's going on? Why is she like acting all weird with you? And I was like yeah, I told them, like we went on this date. And they were like, okay, well, what are you gonna do? And I was like, I don't know. I don't know how to like get out of this. I don't know what I'm supposed to do, and so they kind of

gave me this idea. It was so dumb, but at the time, like we were drinking and like we were being dumb and so um, they were like we should just like pretend that we like gott into a fight, Like, pretend we have a fight, and then you could like leave and be all mad and then you don't have to deal with that anymore. Stage he staged the whole thing. Wow. Yeah, And I'm guessing you're in a tough spot now because you didn't think into the future how that's going to

affect you. Yeah. No, I didn't think about anything. It was like we were kind of drunk, and like I was just thinking, like in that moment, I was like, Okay, how do I get out of here right now? About like making it about her? And so I was like, well, then she'll just think I'm mad at these dudes, and so like, oh man, he stormed out after me. Um, and then we just like I don't know, like him and I just went down the street and like drank,

you know for the red you see it too. We're probably drunk and cheers and like that was amazing that. I can't believe we pulled it off. But you are such an ahole? How is that easier than just being honest with someone and respectful of their feeling. It's especially if it's somebody who you considered I think Emilio knows that he's saying that he was drunk and stupid. I think that's why he sounds like he's feeling bad about it. Is that right? Yeah? Yeah? No, seriously, Like, and now

I don't know what to do. I don't know how I can ever like tell her that or talk to her again, even well, it's a good thing we did it for you, because she's actually on the other line listening and also talk to you. Oh my god, yeah, Lisa, are you there? Are you kidding me? Lisa's definitely there? Are you telling me that Rob was in on this whole thing? And you guys faking? So I don't feel bad a new flash. Now I feel even worse because

now everybody knows and is laughing at me. This, in any way a better solution, Emilio than saying, no, Lisa, I don't want to go out with you because I everybody was there. I didn't want to like make you feel bad in front of everyone. Like imagine, now I feel bad for ever. I don't know. I mean, I told you it was dumb. It was a stupid thing. Yeah, dumb thing. I'm awesome. Why can't we have a drink and it not be weird. That's right, Lisa, you tell them how awesome you are. No, just you're just like

not my type. What does that exactly mean, Emilio, Because I've seen the girls that you have gone out with. Whoa, Okay, you've known each other a year, and I've seen some questionable choices. Okay, well fine, you know, if we're just gonna like be all honest and upfront about it, then I'll just tell you. The deal is, you're not my type because I'm into girls who have bigger chests than you do. It's just likelys are the only reason you're not going out with someone I have. How much boom

do you need? Okay, well, yeah that's not big enough for me. I like them bigger. Enjoy not breathing ever again, my god, Emilio. See, I told you That's why I didn't want to tell you, because you douldn't understand, like, I have a type of girl that I like and they're bigger than you. To keep dating bimbos, big big bimbos, go enjoy it. Okay, Yeah, I know what I will. I will be hotter than you. Oh I doubt that. Enjoy your type well before you, guys, come to that conclusion.

I still have to ask him, though, would you like to go on a second date with Lisa? We'll pay for it. No, oh, Lisa, you're interested in the second day with Emilia? Or am I picking up the wrong signal? I honestly don't think i'd be able to fill out his bras so no, all right, well, it's kind of at least you guys realize you don't want to date each other. Any chance of you guys being friends. I mean, I don't see a problem. It's like we're still in the same group of friends, like if we were hanging

out at the same place. I don't care. No, I do have a problem because you just staged Ocean's fourteen at our friends giving. All right, well, I want you to work out the rest. But Lisa, thank you for email. I'm glad you got an answer to your question. And Emilio, I'll just text in right now seventy five to nine two if he got some Triple z's Amelia was interested

in you, That's what I'm talking about in the morning. No, text in at seven eighty five to nine two says I don't know about them going on a second date, but I would not want to be friends with anybody in that friend group. Talking about today's second date update if you missed it, Lisa wanted to call her friend Emilio.

They actually went out on a date before a friend's giving, and then at the friends giving them, they'd gotten a huge fight over something and then left and wasn't talking to her, And we got him on the phone and we found out that what really happened was he got a little drunk and really wasn't interested in dating her.

He didn't know that they were actually going on like a real date beforehand, and so he and his friends got together and staged a big argument so he could leave and wouldn't have to like be cornered to try to kiss her or something. At the end of the night, and he left and wasn't talking to her. But then he felt bad because he realized he was drunk and made a mistake, and how's he going to like get back in the friend group after he just staged that

whole thing to get away from her. He also said that she's not his type because she doesn't have boobs that are big enough and he likes ridiculously big ones. I guess just even in the recap. They all need new friends. Yeah they did, just a big breakup anyway, too much drama. No second date for them, and we'll see if they can remain friends. Remember, if you want to do a second day up date, just email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. Two point five