Need Leasic trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lesic at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels Second Date up date. For today's second Date update, a listener named Drew is on the phone and he says he had a very awkward first date with the girl that he wants to call the day. Although I don't know why it's awkward, it sounds amazing to me. His email said, she didn't say a word, so I
will love that. No conversation at all. That sounds amazing. Drew, How are you doing good? How are you guys? Not too bad? But even just jewels short description of that, I oh, it sounds awful. Yeah, it was very very strange. Um, I mean, I guess I should start from the beginning. Yeah, or just tell people how they can get this girl's number so they can go out with their then someone who doesn't need to waste time with words on a
first date. You know you're the only one that hates talking, No, I know, Well, I God builds up to like such a big point. But so I started talking to this girl named Bonnie off of like an online dating site, okay, and we're just like chatting just you know, like, how how are you? Did you see this movie blah blah blah. Yeah, normal like run in the Mill. Yeah, just like a typical whatever. Okay. And then like after a few weeks we're like, okay, maybe we should talk on the phone.
And nothing changed from like transferring it over from tech to talking. Well, that's I mean, that's great. Yeah, so we decided to meet each other in person. We're like, okay, we need to just do this, we need to see each other whatever. Yeah, what took so long? Why? I mean, why were you waiting so long? I don't know, Like we just kind of like, you know, scheduling complex. I would be busy, she would be busy. You know. Okay, so you finally figured it out and what did you do? Well?
So so we were like, you know, let's meet and she texts me like an hour before we're supposed to meet up and says, oh, oh my god, I'm so sorry. I double book myself. I was supposed to do this thing for my job and I hit meet up. I
was like okay, you know, like no problem. So then we planned to hang out a couple of days later and then she's like, oh, I'm so sorry, I'm sick O. Wait, this is a second time she's built Yeah, And I was like, you know, now it starts to sound kind of like a stamp, like, you know, like she's just blowing you off and never actually wants to get together. Yeah. But then I'm like, if you want to blow me off right, because she's investing a lot of time talking
to you and texting with you. It's almost like you guys are in a relationship before you even went on on a date. Yeah. And you know, I honestly was falling for her really hard. I was still like kind of in that like a enamored phase, like I'll still have hope, she still wants to see me. Whatever. And then we finally decide on the third time to actually go out on a date, and she shows up with this index card that says, I'm sorry, I can't talk. My voice is gone. Oh my god, she actually showed
up to your date and she couldn't speak. I've never it was like it was like a David Lynch movie or something. I just didn't know how to react to it. I was just like, what the well, I mean you didn't want to cancel on him again because she's already canceled twice. I think that it's nice that she followed through, but she didn't give you a heads up before that. No, No, honestly, like, if someone shows up with an index card like that is the weirdest thing I've ever heard. Yeah, and the
thing is is that she's actually gorgeous. Okay, it's just this weird thing where like I just kept talking to like I talked, I tried to talk my way out of it. So your whole date was her sitting there and you talking to her, trying to have a conversation. She would nod, she would nod, and then I'd be like, well, don't you want to just like go home if you're sick or whatever he is going on right now? And
then she wrote yes, sorry, oh okay. Well I would think it's a good thing for you that she wanted you to know she was interested enough to still go on a date when she couldn't talk to you. Well, I mean, can't she just text me? Then? Why? Why why are you using index cards and wasting paper? Like obviously she already canceled on you twice. If she cancels you on you a third time, then you're going to think that she's lying or she's cat fishing you, and you're not going to ever talk to her again. Of
course she had to go out on the date. I'm just saying that you shouldn't have gone on the date. But like it wasn't enjoyable. I was just literally just blabbing, like just on and on and on and on. Okay, well, I don't know, why do you want to call her for a second date? Then? Well, the reason that I want to call her is because I don't know if she's telling the truth or not. Oh, you think that the index card was a lie? Yeah? Why do you think it's a lie? Why do you think she didn't
want to talk to you? I don't know. I don't know. I think that she might be like hiding something. I have no idea. When's the last time you hurt? Well, when's the last time you guys talked or typed? Whatever? You do? Not since the date? He's think I haven't heard from her, So you guys went from talking every day absolutely nothing. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, like, whatever it's wrong with her voices obviously has affected her texting. It's affected her texting fingers too. She can't even tie
to you. I just want to figure it out. I just I just want to know. Okay, we'll play a song, then come back and call her and get your second date update. All right? If she's talking, yeah, right, that would be kind of a bad part for us. We'll do it next thing. Looking jubil in the morning. Second update if you're just joining us for today's second day update.
Drew is on the phone. And I'm really pulling for Drew today because I think that he went out with wife material for sure, because he went out on a date with a girl didn't say a word the whole time. That's a good Apparently she had something, she was sick and she couldn't speak, so when she showed up to the date, she actually had an index card written on it and said, hey, I have no voice. And they
sat there for a little while. He did all of the talking and then said, if you're sick, you should go home, and she wrote on her a index card yes, and then she went home and he hasn't heard from her since. More than anything, though, he just wants answers because he feels like she was faking, Drew. Are you ready to give her a call? Yeah? Man, I'm just worried I'm being catfished somehow, Like how are you being catfished when you've seen her in person? You guys have
talked on the phone, like, what is the catfish? She's suddenly going to have a man voice, and now that's even being considered catfish. I don't know. Maybe her twin sisters in jail and they have different voices, and she's I have no idea, you d man, super jaded. I feel like you need to take a break from internet dating. I'm going to, but I need to like solve this case. I'm pulling for the twin sister in jail story that
would be. I want to know. I just want to know. Okay, Okay, are you going to feel bad if she was actually sick? I maybe, But even if she was, if she really was sick, then she would have reached out to me. Yeah. I'm gonna dial her phone of her right now and see if we can figure it out for you. Okay, all right, man, all right, here we go. Hello. All right, I was looking for Bonnie. This is Bonnie. Hey Bonnie,
how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show from a radio Yeah, Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's the name of a morning radio program. Why why, I don't know, It's just the name we gave it. Why are we calling you? Is that? Is that what you're wondering? Oh okay, I thought maybe you're just wondering why we named it. That. Calling you today because we do a segment on our
show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up blowing them off after, they can email us and we'll get you on the phone and see if we can find out what happened. So you went out with a dude named Drew, Oh my god. Yeah, And Drew emailed us and told us a little bit of about your date that you guys met online. You talked a bunch, you finally coordinated a date, but when you showed up, I guess you had no voice, true, And she said
that it was awkward because you couldn't talk. And then eventually he said, if you're sick, you can go home. And then you went home and that's the last you heard from you. Yeah, okay, he also said that he really really liked you, and you guys talked for like a month or something leading up to the date. Yeah, we did. You don't sound like you like him as much as he likes you. I yeah, it's okay if you don't like him. I think he just wants to know.
I mean, I wasn't feeling good to day that. Wow, we were supp to have our date, and I just I didn't want to handful on him. So I ended up going to a restaurant and I got there and I asked the hostess where he was seated, and I look over at the table. He's already there, and he looks nothing like his picture, nothing like any photos. Wait, you hadn't lost your voice because you said you just asked the hostess. Yeah, I had not, And I I was just trying to figure out what what should I do.
I mean, I'm talking to this guy from Lark, So you feel like he can't you feel like he cat fishing or something. Yeah, I feel like he was trying to portray himself younger than he really is, and I didn't want to. I just felt guilty for leaving, So I ended up I was just like on the fly, I just asked the hostess for a pen and paper, and I'll just say I lost my voice. No, you guys, that's ridiculous. How different could he have looked? I mean, how old are you talking? Are you kidding me? Like
easily could be my uncle. Oh we're talking mid forties. I'm in my middle late twenty and the pictures on this profile were definitely in my age range. So when I saw him, it was quite traumatic. I was like, this is not this is not what I signed up for. I don't know who this guy is, and he barely looks like his photos. I could kind of tell that it was still him. Why not just cancel on him instead of sitting there acting like you can't talk because all the time we had s been talking already. I
felt guilty. I was trying to be nice. I didn't want to stand him up. Yeah, but you don't owe anything to somebody who's lying to you. I mean, did he outright tell you that he was your age or is it something you just assumed. We never had the conversation, but his photos make them look younger, So it's weird that he wouldn't ever bring that up, Like if he knows he's using photos from twenty years ago. He's probably
gonna git caught. Yeah, I don't know. I didn't stay that long on the date, If that's any consolate for you. He thought you might be faking, yeah, not having a voice, and I guess you were faking. But he did suspect that. I mean, it is what it is. He was lying. I'm not lying. You're lying, Bonny. True, you're supposed to wait. What's going on, Oh, Bonnie, that's Drew. He's actually on the other line listing I wants to talk to you, but apparently he couldn't wait until I called him into
the conversation. Drew. Yeah, no, I'm sorry, guys, but like, like she can't say that I'm lying. I'm not lying. Are you not lying? Those photos? Those photos that were on my profile, Yes, they were when I was younger, but those were the best photos. Like I put like a crappy photo of myself on the thing. He doesn't make any sense. Why did you, guys not tell me that he was on the line. Why did you write on a note card like a sociopath and then say
you couldn't talk. If that's what it is, then just say that I don't know why you went around this crazy. You know, Drew, I was doing you a favor. Okay, I stayed. I could have left. You could have just been stood up at that restaurant like an average forty five year old man. I might I might be I might be older, but I'm not like a Hannibal lecture type of person that writes like a why couldn't you just say don't know that, Drue? It is kind of weird that you brought up the whole point of how
she was gorgeous in real life. Didn't you at any point think like, oh, I better let her know that I'm significantly older than the photos that I used. Significantly Yeah, I just had it in again. It does sound like you're just like fishing for younger women by tricking them online. Oh that's Oh, I'm totally not doing that. What I'm doing is I'm taking the photos that I think best represent my personality. True, I'm gonna paint a photo. I'm
gonna paint a photo for you. If you were to walk into a restaurant blind, and you were you don't meet a woman. Don't interrupt me. I'm not done. Don't interrupt me. I'm not okay, and you're be a woman. And then this woman ended up being sixty five years old? What would you do? What if she she looked old enough to be your mother? Enough off beingcoholic? Okay? Oh oh big words? Or you know I'm not an idiot? Yeah, yeah,
I know exactly. Could you sound like a raving lunatic would actually go to a hostess and ask for a pen and paper? And then and then right that, let's sorry, I kid, Oh I'm the lady to day. You're the one who called me on the radio, you idiot? What else? What else do you have to do? Moron? Because they that called you text you reached out and you just thought you could just like do whatever the hell you want. And by the great, by the I know that you
feel like you're a very entitled person. Drew. Just settle it. Settle How old are you? How old are you? Drew? I'm not telling you? Oh that means you are really old? Well I sound a lot younger than you do, sweetheart. Oh, I think we have our answer here, Drew. I you know why I don't think we have our answer because you two sound like there's a lot of passion and I would love to see you guys go out on a second date. Bondie, would you like a second date
with Drew? We'll pay for it. Why don't you want an older man? Why? Why? Now you're just mocking her. He hasn't yet nothing better to do. So you're actually twelve, is what I'm hearing. I'm happy. I'm happy to do Drew a solid and I can death set him up with one of my mother's friends. Okay, Bondie, thank you for your time. Drew. I'm sorry you didn't get your second date. But maybe you update your photos online? Maybe that will help shut up? Why don't you update in
photos ugly? I've tried, but there's nothing that can really help that. Maybe I can borrow your photo in the morning text in at seven eight five nine two that says that Drew sounds pretentious. It is pretentious because he's older, yet a little more pretentious. When you get older, you get that money. We get that good four o K. You missed today a second date? Update this dude, Drew
wanted to call a girl named Bonnie. They met online and they talked for about a month, and then they agreed to see each other in person and when she finally showed up for their date. She had an index card that said sorry, I lost my voice and she couldn't talk, so the date was cut short. He was suspicious and her thought maybe she was faking, So we called and she admitted that she was actually faking it to get out of the date because she said he
looked twenty years older than his pictures online. I was, but listen, he never denied that he was twenty years older than his pictures. Yeah, you don't want to tell us. Seems like that means he's thirty years older than pictures. To me, he just said they were good pictures of him. A lot of people have good pictures from twenty years ago. So they gotten to a big argument about it and no date. They did not go out for a second date. Yeah, well she should have known when they were obviously taken
on a thirty five millimeter camera. Yeah. Remember, if you want to do a second date up date, all have to do his email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.