2nd Date Update PODCAST: Eavesdropping Waitress

be on the date. I don't get it. Now that you're thoroughly confused, let's talk to Tarana, who was on a date that she wasn't really invited to. What it'll make sense? Taran? What's up? How are you? Hey? I'm good? How are you? Oh my god, Taren, you just sound like a stalker right now. Really, no, it's not like that. That's what all stalkers say. This might actually be the first time we're doing a second date update like this. Taren.

I'll go ahead and let you tell the story. So what do you want to do today with a second date update? So I'm a waitress at an Italian restaurant and I was serving a guy who was on a date with someone else, but throughout the course of it. He was really really nice. She was very sweet and like cool, calm collected, and she was like a wannabe Kardashian. She was really rude. She was rude to me. She was snobby to him and everyone else around. And I'm

kind of interested in it. Oh my god. So you kind of were on the date, like you never think about that, but your server is actually on your date too. They're experiencing some things with you. I just got to kind of experience their whole date, and I saw how everything was happening, and just watching it happened between them. Can you give us some of the highlights of their date before we move on too? You get in a

date with him. Honestly, I felt bad for him because he was being very nice to her and he was being very calm with her, while she would just go on and on about herself. Anytime I came by or even walked by, she was talking about herself, talking about how amazing she is, talking about the men that she has like messaging her and texting her, and sounded like

she's trying to make him jealous. She even at one point said to him, She's like, I almost into outlet you like, I wasn't sure if you're good enough for me. She said that I'm serious, and what was his reaction? Could you see his reaction? She just kind of chuckled, and he was like, oh, he's but I hope you're having a good time and she's like, oh, yeah, I totally am, and to wait. Are you sure though that he wasn't into it because although it's totally baffling to

me too, some guys like that. I mean, I don't really know, but just reading his body language, if you know, how like you can you can see two people together and you're like, one person is totally not in this and they work out. That's what I kept getting the vibe of, Like, gud, he's trying to be really nice. He's not a bad guy, and he doesn't want to just up and leave her, but he was also not into it. This MutS me that one of the best things about being a waitress is being able to eavesdrop

on everybody's dates. I mean, Anne, get your own dates off with the whole thing too, but I mean it does kind of help. I mean you get to meet a lot of people that way. Yeah, I used to wait tables a lot, and I would love it when you get a couple who was in an argument. It was so fun to experience the awkwardness of going up to their table. I know they weren't in an argument, but still she was being pretty crappy to him. It sounds like, yeah, she just talked about herself the whole time.

She's very extremely high maintenance and selfish. Did you have any interaction with him? I did. She at one point got up to go to the bathroom, So I kind of saw that as my moment to kind of go in and just make sure, you know, I wasn't being creepy of like, hey, how are things going? Like with her? It was, you know, everything, okay, how's dinner? You know, any drinks and just kind of letting him know that I was, you know, they're supportive, trying to be low

key about it, okay, all right? And did he seem interested? I don't know, you know, I just didn't want to do anything to jeopardize my job or like tell her off and be like you get out of hair. Yeah, he is a sweet man and you're being in a hole. That would be awesome. Actually, I just told my manager, you have to leave how did you get his phone number? Well, the restaurant I work in is more of a classier restaurant, so you do need to make reservations. So his number

was in the reservation's book. Okay, now wait, I'm gonna stop you because now you're the one that's being a little sketchy. Well, no, I'm not asking him to go out. I just want to know if he's even interested. Do you think you'll even remember you? Well, that's where I'm kind of hoping you guys can help me out, if you see, if he does, yeah, we'll probably have to jog his memory with the actual date he was on. So other than I want to be Kardashian, how could

I describe her when we call him? I mean, she's really high maintenance. She had her makeup super super down, her hair. Okay, but but he might not think that, you know, because he was on a day with her. So what like just color hair? Yeah, something real quick, So I could be like, hey, you went on a date with this person. Do you remember? Um? She she was short, for sure. Um, she had long blonde hair, but it wasn't all real. She obviously had extension. The

color didn't match perfectly. But it was blonde, all right. She had like a really tight green dress, but it didn't fit the restaurant. It was kind of tacky. It was a little tracky. Okay, So I'm gonna say, hey, do you remember going out with a chick with really bad extensions and a tacky green dress and an Italian restaurant? You might remember that. Actually, I think it's a better Did he say anything to you any left? Like you guys flirt at all? I'm not really sure, like I

I you know, think them. I told him to have a great night, and he was like, thank you, you know you too, you know, thanks so much. So it was I mean, he made eye contact with me. Not everyone does that. So okay, okay, maybe he's into you. I mean I know that this isn't the tradition an all way of doing things, but I figure give it a shot. Why not? Okay? Cool, Well, we'll play a song and then come back and call him and see if we can get you a date in sort of

a second date update. All right, we'll do it next time, King jubil in the morning second date right in the middle of a second date update. And if you're just joining us, today's second date update is a little different. Taran is on the phone and she wants to call a dude. I don't know do we even know his hey, Tarn, do we even know his name? Yeah, it's Steve. It was in the book, Okay, Steve, So his name is Steve.

Tarn was actually the waitress when Steve was on a date with another girl, and Tarn witnessed the other girl being kind of terrible to Steve. So after they left, she actually got his number from the reservation book and wants to call him and ask him out herself. So it's sort of a second day update that she was kind of on their date because she was the waitress, but not really. So this is going to be an

interesting phone call for Steve. And do you want us to focus on the girl he was with or do you want us to just tell him that you waited on him and thought he was cute and want to ask him out. Um? I kind of want to just ignore that girl and get past her. Okay, that's a good idea. Now, what do you want us to say if he's totally creeped out that his waitress stole his number from the reservation's book. I feel like he's cool enough to just like go with it and kind of

feel it out and see where it goes. Yeah you think that, but you don't know him. He didn't really have any conversations together. Well, I guess if it doesn't go well, then I can just lie and say he forgot something at the restaurant or something. Okay, Lla somewhere if we can figure out a life for you if it doesn't work. But I'm gonna call him right now. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Steve? Yes?

Who's this Steve? What's up? Man? How are you? This is jew from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay have you ever heard of it before? Yeah? Oh you have? Okay, Sweet? You ever listen? Uh? Sometimes? Do you ever hear of a second date update before? Um'm not sure? Why are you calling me? So we do a segment on our show. It's called the second date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then they end up not calling you back after, you can email us and we'll get

that person on the phone and ask what happened. Okay, So you're calling you about a date that I went on. Yeah, you went out to an Italian place a little bit ago with a girl in a green dress, blonde girl, short, Naomi. I don't know if that's her name, I just was given the description. Is that Is that her name? Naomi? That's who you went out with? Yeah, that's her name. But I'm I'm confused because we have another date lined up. Yeah, no, that that makes sense to me? What makes sense to you?

But she she's not the one who wanted us to call you? Okay, yeah, so why did we bring her up? I mean, these are all this is weird. This is a weird one, even for us. Yeah, I'm confused. I've killed happening. So when you went out with that Naomi girl, your server actually noticed you and thought that you were really cute and wanted us to call you. Okay, do you remember her? Do you remember her? That was a good laugh. I knew. Okay, So you know who we're

talking about? The woman who served you that night when you were out on that other date. Yeah, I remember her. Okay, what do you think of her? She was professional, she was nice. I don't think she was very professional. I would argue with that. Did you think she was maybe cute. Uh, I think, so, I don't really remember I was one the dates or I wasn't really paying attention to them. Oh, you're one of those guys who pays attention to your date and there's a lessing after the waitress the whole

time whatever her. Yeah, I guess I don't really get what the point of this is. Why why are you asking me all these questions? Well, I'll just tell you, okay. So, Taran, that's the name of your waitress that night. She thought you were attractive and she wanted to meet you, like outside of the restaurant. Yeah, romantically, Okay, And she's actually on the phone right now listening to this conversation and wants to talk to you. She's on the phone now, Hey, Steve,

it's Taren. Hi. Hi, how is it going. This is weird. I know, I know, it's super weird. I just I just wanted to get in contact with you. I wanted to reach out, so this is kind of the only way I could think of doing it. Oh my god, awkward. Do you remember me for real? Or just saying that, No, I remember you? Okay. I just saw like the whole interaction between you and your date that night, and I just you just seem like a really sweet and nice guy.

And the way that she was acting just throughout the night seemed like her saying that she wasn't sure if you were good enough for her. I feel like you're way too good for her, and you deserve somebody who isn't completely high maintenance and into themselves. Twenty four seven. Whoa, ohoh you were really paying attention? Huh Well, I mean yeah I was. You know, you guys were one of my tables that I was taking care of. But it

wasn't hard. I mean, you couldn't really ignore it. She's pretty loud about a lot of the things, especially when like her food came out. Her pasta came out and she sent it back twice because the first time it was too salty and then the second time it wasn't salty enough. It's just it's like she finds reason to be difficult. Maybe she has like a diet thing with the pasta. I mean, I don't want to jump to any conclusions. She's just I think she's just particular about

certain things like that, about certain things. So wait, did you enjoy your date with Naomi Steve? Yeah? Yeah, Look, you said, you got another date set up, right, Yeah, we're hanging out next week. You're going out with her again after that whole debacle debacle. I mean, it was the first date, so I thought it went pretty well. I mean, it's not gonna be perfect for a first date.

I mean, okay, Like, I don't know you or anything, but just from the what I what I saw and what I do know of that time, is that you're really nice and no one should be treated the way that she was treating you through that entire dinner. You deserve way better than that. Well, thank you, But I think that you were just seeing it in a different way. She's she's she's a nice person. She is. Yeah, Taren, I don't I thought you were going to stay away

from talking about his dates. I mean, I'm sorry, I know I thought I wasn't going to do that, but I mean she in the middle of this whole thing, yelled out at him, aren't you gay? Like what what do you see in this person? Who? I mean, I dressed really well. People make that mistake sometimes, So yeah, I wasn't offended. She doesn't sound like she was very nice to you. She say she's like a big personality. She's just she harmless, she has a big personality, She's

super into herself. He doesn't really care about anyone else around her unless they're giving her all of the attention. And I know that I'm maybe stepping over my boundary cheer, but I feel like somebody's going to step in and be like, you gotta wake up, man, Like she is not right for you. She is not a good person, and you deserve so much more than that, like a hundred percent more than that. Thank you for saying that. So wait, I'm confused. Does that ring true for you,

see I? Or is Taren just coming off like she's attacking to your ta to be kind of crazy? No, as I said, she has a big personality. I could see why someone would see that. But I'm kind of more of like a easygoing, laid back kind of guy, So I'm kind of attracted to that in Naomi, I guess. So, I mean, I can understand on some level of like opposite attracts, but you don't need to be completely put down by the other person in order to have that. And you be really nice. I really think that you're

a nice, sweet guy. You're really attractive. I just don't understand what you see in someone like her, who is completely selfish and into themselves only. And I just I wanted to do this super weird thing. I know, it's like completely different, but I just wanted to give it a shot and see if you wanted to go out with me. Yeah, Steve, would you like to go out with Tarn on a first date? It's kind of a second date because you didn't even know you were being

watched while you were on your date. But would you like to go out with Taren on a date? We'll pay for it, I mean, I will say. If you're into big personalities. Teren's obviously one two because she called the radio station, stole your number, and here we are. Hey, don't compare me to the other girl. We are nothing alike. I'm just trying to help you. He likes the other girl even though you don't, darn well. I mean we've only gone on one day, We're not exclusive or anything,

so that would be open to a first date. He so yes? Hey? Is that a yes? I mean, as long as long as it's okay with her that I'm still going to be seeing Naomi. But I'm down Tarn. Now you have a battle on your hands. So you want to see if you can win Steve's heart from Naomi. How about we leave it at you go out on your date with her, and if you do so, happen to change your mind. I'll leave my phone number with the station here and you can call them and get

my number. Okay, okay, So Steve, if you go out with you know, the girl you were originally a day with Nail. If you got with her and she's a which is what Terrence says, then you can call us and we'll give you Terrence number and you can go out with Terren. Okay, Steve, you know what, go out with her one more time, because I think it's all it's gonna take for you to open your eyes in real life that she is not right for you. Okay, confidence, all right, Wow, all right. You you are fiery, aren't

you now? All of a sudden you're interested, Steve. Well, we'll have Terren's number here if you want to call us. All right, Okay, I'll see how this goes. I guess okay, I'll be waiting for that phone call of you telling me I told you so broken Jupil in the morning. I've been moving Cone's Donald Chubble with me