2nd Date Update PODCAST: Drunk Date

hunting ducks? Oh that's an option? Are you in a library? Well? What's going on? I'm just sill hungover last night, classic Chris. Come on, Chris, man up, get some bacon. You didn't know that we were doing the second Date update today. I mean I just emailed you a while ago. I really think you get back to me. So Clark, okay, you usually give you a day or two though, notice, So well, I guess there's nothing I was gonna get smashes as I did. Yeah, that's what everyone says. We've

all been there going for one drink. I swear I'm sure two or three of us are hungover today too, so don't worry. All right, So take a moment, think for a second really hard. Who is the girl that you went out with a few days ago. What's her name? It's Karen Hu And how did you meet Karen? Well, like, this isn't totally a second date update because I actually went on two dates with her. So is that still all right? Yeah, you guys, it's fine. All right, We're

gonna make an exception for you. Chris, all right, lazy, okay, So tell us, tell us a little bit about Karen. So I'm matched with her on tender and uh, we went out to a bar, had a good time. I mean I don't always get like wasted. But because you went to a bar, history hasn't proven you wrong. Yeah yeah, Wait were you drunk that night too, just like you were last night? I was pretty sober when I got there. It was all good, pretty sober, sober, good Chris, Thanks

all right? So how was the first half before you got wasted? I was good. I mean, she's a nice girl, and like, we have a lot of similar tastes and stuff. Then we end up doing some shots and I don't know how we got there. But I ended up talking about my X too much, and I know that's like not a good move. No, No, it's bad. Was she talking about her X though too? I mean that's the only thing that can kind of make it okay? Well,

depends on who your ex is. I mean, if you have like a Kardashian as one of your X, that could be a good talking point. Yeah, that doesn't usually work for me. No, you didn't take Kylie Jenner before? No? Well, okay, this probably was a pretty bad conversation then. Yeah. And when you're talking about your ex, was it like you're angry with her? You're lamenting her? Where's your emotions on your AX right now? Well? I mean I started out and I was kind of angry about it, but then

I ended up getting a little sad. Oh god, and I got angry again, you know, because I was mad that I was getting sad. Were there any tears being shed? Not that date? That date? Okay? No? What alcohol does take people a wire range. If you're feeling a little sad, you're very sad, I know. But you don't want to go through all those emotions with someone you're on a first date or second date with I guess and like, I definitely should not have done that, and I realized

I messed up. Yeah, so was the second date and improvement or did we somehow go even further downhill the second time? It wasn't my fault. I mean the bard had this really good special going and I sometimes when it comes to drinking, I I'm a bargaining country, you know, Yeah, I know. Two dollars PBRs. Man. You can't say no, Chris by one shot good, one free. You're not gonna say no to a second shot. Tell me I didn't start talking about your ax again. I did again, and

that was when I crying. Cry. Real men aren't afraid to shed their tears, Chris. It's okay, yeah, no, that that is true. But again, not on the second date where you promise that this wouldn't happen again. Now there's rules. Women are allowed to cry, but not till after the second day. Gosh, women are impossible, Am I right? Chris? Yeah? Yeah twice? And all of a sudden, did Karen stick around or she just get up and leave? Uh? I

don't remember. You're great out for that part. Yeah, just I wanted the bathroom came back a while later and she just wasn't there anymore. What do you think drove her away? Oh? I don't know. Hopefully an uber because she's pretty drink. Oh my god, you are a hot mess. I like him, of course you do, because it sounds like you're talking to yourself. That is what it feels

like for you, all right. So yeah, I now I messed up, and I definitely shouldn't have cried, but like it started out because I was so happy that she's given me another chance, and then you know, that kind of marshed with the alcohol into me crying about my ex. And I'm sitting at a bar, realized and I'm crying about two women at the same time. Why why should Karen give you another shot? A third shot? And I'm a good guy and she's had a fine time with me. It's just did I messed up? He knows a good

drink special when he sees one, there's a positive. I just feel like you should just call this one a loss and move forward. He Brook wants you to give up on your hopes and dreams immediately. But we believe in you, Chris, appreciate you. Yeah, Chris. I mean if Karen was my girlfriend, I would tell her, dude, no way, do not go out with this guy again. I mean

two brooks point. What should we say to her if we can get her on the phone, Like, how should we try and convince her that you're worth giving another shot? To um? All right, that sounds good, So maybe you should go pound like a red Bull vodka during the break. Well, we just need him to perk up a little bit and then we're gonna play a song. Come back. We'll call Karen and try and get you a third date. Update. This is a disaster if you guys can get her

to go on a date with me again. I promised all of you I won't get drunk again this time. Does anyone in this room believe him? I don't hold on Chris sudate. If you're just tuning in for today's second date update, we're on the phone with one of our listeners named Chris. And Chris recently took a girl out on two bad dates with a girl Na Karen, where both times he got too intoxicated and ended up

talking about his ex been there. Yeah, he cried on the second date, not the first one, before Karen finally ditched him. So now he's hoping that we can get him one more chance in the third date. Will be the charm. Yeah, and promises not to drink on the third date. He didn't say not to drink. He said he wouldn't get drunk. There's a big difference there. Yeah, come on now, Chris, buddy, how you feeling right now? A little better? I'm kind of nervous, so I went

ahead and the little hair of the Dog. No, no, yeah, I just need something on a level a little bit. Chris, alcohol is your enemy right now? Okay, Oh my god, it's a good thing. You probably don't want to remember this call. If it's going to go the way I think it's about to go, it cannot be worse than his first two days. There's no way. So, Chris, you're asking us to do something though that we don't normally.

Do you want us to call this woman after you've already been out on two unsuccessful dates but we haven't really heard yet? Like, what do you like about this girl so much? She seems like a lot more put together than a lot of the women I meet, and she has a really nice laugh, and we had a lot of things in common. I thought we were having a good time. Okay, I was having a good time. Yeah, you were good time with all three of her. Yeah.

All right, I'm gonna say that this isn't going to happen, but I have I have been surprised before, so uns I guess let's give it a go. Yeah, I think I'm ready. Let's go ahead and do it. All right, I'm about the phone number right now here we go? Oh hi, can I speak to Karen please? Well, so spa. Hey, my name's young Jeffrey and I work for the morning radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, Like the what the radio, my dear, yep, the radio radio, the

real deal. Give a moment to talk with us, um about this is not going to get better, Karen, I'm just scared. So the reason why we're calling is we do something on our show called a second Date Update. That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can reach out to us and we'll try and get a hold of them to figure out the reason why. Okay, okay, so we're calling about a guy that you went out with not once,

but twice. Oh my god, against your better judgment. And his name is Chris. Oh my god, yeah, yeah, yeah, he just regained consciousness and he wanted us to call you. Well, that does not surprise me. Oh my god, sounds like a hot mess. He is a hot mess. That is a very accurate description. Yeah, we know about the dates. He told us that he knows they didn't go perfectly. That's an understanding. I mean he's self aware for sure. It feels like we know why you're not calling him back.

What did you say, Well, I mean he said that you went on a date. He ended up getting a little bit too, you drunk at the bar and talking about his ex a little bit. And then he yeah, he told us. He told us that from angry to euphoric, and it went through the full range of emotions and he felt terrible about it, and then he asked for a second chance. And then he kind of did the same thing on the second date and cried even Yeah, he discovers so emotional and I it kind of came

out of nowhere. He did say he was crying about two women, not just as ex, but he's also cried and joy because you gave him a second shot, and that really brought him to tears. Oh, I went out on a second date with him because I mean, it wasn't even thinking of it as a date. I was more like I felt so bad for him because obviously he's not taking this break up well, and so I just wanted to be a buddy and like a therapist to him, like help work through it. Yeah, he is

just such a big mass. Well I gotta wait, hold on, Karen, I gotta say, if you went on this second date that you were going as a buddy and a therapist, it was kind of a crappy move to then ditch him at the end of the night. Is that what he said that I did him? Well, yeah, to be fair, he didn't exactly remember what happened at the end of the night, but he thinks that you walked out. Yeah. I did not, in fact, just ditch him. I called him an uber because you know, I mean, it wasn't

safe for him to drive home and crying and drunk. Also, they just started getting really weird and why I just was like, okay, I have to shut this down. Something else was weird about the date too. Oh yeah, So he started talking about his ex and then he was saying how they really really loved watching Making of a Murderer and like that's what you know they bonded over and the Netflix documentary. Yeah, well it is a pretty emotional series, so if you do get engrossed in it,

it could really bring you to tears. But I can also see if you're hanging out with a guy you don't know and he's crying over how to make a murder or whatever. I haven't seen it. It's a documentary that it would be kind of like a red flag. There's a difference between viewing and taking it to another extreme. Yeah, that's a good point. Well, I feel like this is something that we need to ask directly to Chris. What are you a murderer? That's not what the series is about.

We have to understand his emotions because Chris has actually been on the other line listening and he wants to talk to you. Are you here, Yeah, Chris, he's still awake. Hey, hey, Karen, Oh Chris, I didn't know you're on the phone. That makes me feel better. I guess what, Chris, do you remember crying over how to or what is the show called? Make a murder? False imprisonment really hits hard for me, you know, he's right. So wait, do you remember crying about it on your date? Yeah? I guess so it's

kind of floating back in there, you know. Well, you can see how that would be a little bit awkward for Karen to have to comfort you through that. Yeah, do you want to say something? You like called us to fight for your chance at another shot with this girl, and you're just like silent right now. I didn't know there was gonna be now, Chris, look, you need to talk to Karen right now so that we can try and help you to get another date. But you have to do a little bit of the work here, Okay, okay,

Oh yeah, at me, I'm sorry Chris overall. I mean, I guess why you might be over emotional. I just I really think you're just not ready to date. Yeah, where my emotions on my sleeves? And that's something you can't handle it. That's so stand upul he's getting drunk, Chris, What do you think you're ready to date? Yeah? I'm ready to date. Man, chrisrying? I think he's crying. No, I'm not, Chris, bud. Yeah, are you okay? You get

a little emotional right now? No? I think buddy, that you need to maybe spend some U time, just like Karen sane and maybe put down the alcohol for a while and go watch the second part of Making Him. It'll it'll take some time off. You could sober up and then you can rethink what we're doing here. Yeah. No, I don't think this is like the best time for me to be alone. I mean, Karen's a good listener and that's the kind of support that I need right now. Karen.

He needs you, and that's what every woman needs in her life. I need you. I am so sorry, but we Chris, you're there? Yeah? Okay, I couldn't tell from the the awkward silence. Yeah, this could be going on forever. I need to like get back to my life and okay, yeah, well, let's put your life on hold for one more second and let me ask you. Would you be willing to go out on another date with Chris? We'll pay for it? What? Yeah?

Is that a joke? Part? I have to ask at the end of each one of these segments, did you guys like to go out again? Karen? What do you please? So? Yeah? Oh my god, Chris, No, you need to reach out to your real friends. Chris, I don't think you're begging and crying hard enough issue. You got to really really dig into it. If you wanted to say yes, no, that is not the issue. If you want, I think it's worth a shot, I mean left to lose. Guys, you guys, seriously, I'm not going out on a date

with this guy. Yeah, okay, that's smart. What did we learn Chris today? What did we learn? Um, try not to email people until you're ready to get on the radio. No, not quite, I mean, but also yes, the thing we learned is never pass up a deal on four for one long island iced teas. What bar's that going on? Let's hang out to night Moving ninety two point five