Looking Jubil in the morning. Second date update. I feel like I start a lot of second date updates off this way. But when you're going to joke with a date, it's all about timing and appropriateness. For example, if you're out on a date and the girl's like, oh, feel a little bit under the weather today, probably a bad time ago. Well, I'm a guynacologist. I could help you out later after the weet. Oh my god, that's so gross and it's been said before. That's the sad part.
No idea, But Kurt thinks that a bad joke might have ruined his chances at a second date with a girl named Angie. What's up, Kurt? How are you? Hey? Very good guys? How are you guy? What's your joke? As bad as the one Jubil just said? Um? Timing wise, probably a little bit worse. Oh my god, what did you say. We'll get to that in just a second. First, tell us about Angie. Where'd you meet her? So we actually met on bumble? Okay, that means she chose you, she did. Yeah. I feel like guys would go in
with a lot more confidence knowing that they've been picked first. Right, Yeah, definitely. I mean, and that's probably contributed to the poor choice of joking. I don't know. Yeah, you got too comfortable, too quick, too comfortable too quick. Before you tell us about the joke, tell us about the start of the
evening with her. How was everything? It was just kind of weird right off the value, you know, because online we were texting each other back and forth, just not of joking mostly, and then on like the day of the day when I picked her up, she just kind of just didn't seem like she was in a good mood of first. Okay, see you started off thinking like, oh, maybe something else happened. She's not filling this. Yeah, like you know, obviously we had never been out or anything.
I didn't really know her that well, so this may have just been how she acted all the time. And so yeah, I mean I asked her a few times like if she was okay, and she just never seemed like she wanted to talk about it. Okay, okay, So what do you guys do We're at a dinner okay, okay. Yeah. Did she open up more at dinner or still kind of the same. She was still pretty much the same towards the end of dinner, though, was when she kind of like, let me know what was going on? What
was what was going on? So it was really sad, like her grandmother actually passed away, um, like, you know, within a week of us going out. Yeah, I getting a big settlement. So she was upset, but no jubol. Oh my god. She obviously really liked you if she thought, like, man, I'd still want to go out on this day, you know, exactly. Maybe this is the silver lining that I need this week. Did you mention anything about the settlement. Yeah, there was gonna talk of like any settlement or like a will
or anything. Thank god. Yeah, but that's a real bummer. How did you respond when she told you that, Well, I mean, this is kind of where I think I'm asked, ud. So my grandfather had actually passed away a couple months before, and you know, I was kind of telling her like I totally understanding. I was like, my grandfather actually passed away recently, you know, and obviously it's really tough. I was like, you know, but maybe we could, uh, maybe we could get my grandmother who was still alive to
hang out with your grandfather who was still alive. It took the opportunity to try to hook up your grandparents. And how did she take that? Well, she didn't really say anything at first, and then you know, she kind of started to like look around, so like I quickly let her out, like, hey, I'm just joking. I'm just you know, trying to make you feel a little bit better. And yeah, that was pretty much, Yeah, the end of the funness of the date, especially because like jokes are
supposed to be funny and that's not even really funny. Yeah, and now it's really been timing on my part and I wasn't thinking. I was just trying to make a situational a bit better. Yeah, but I could see like if you apologize that she should understand. I don't know, Kurt, I thought it was hilarious. Yeah, So how did everything end then after that? Well, pretty much it ended very
shortly after that joke. She was like, yeah, I just you know, she just said she was kind of ready to go back to her house, and I took her back. I didn't try making any moves or like, I didn't tried, you know obviously, you know, kissing her or anything. I wanted to stay respectful, you know, because I really did like her outside of that crappy jokes that I made. You know, she was really nice. Have you talked to her at all since? No, I haven't. She hasn't called
me back. Okay, I just feel like, I mean, people say awkward things and awkward moments on a date. I feel like what you said, though not funny forgivable. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Like I said, I was just I was trying to be lighthearted about it, but it obviously was maybe a little too soon, and I don't know. Yeah, she hasn't called me back. And it's kind of like surprising too, because I mean usually girls call me back.
Like I'm kind of like a part time model, so you know, even if girls don't like me, they generally will you know, reach back out to hook up or something. You know, you're attractive, you're hot, Yeah, I mean you know. Yeah, all right, so very least we can get her on the phone and see if you can apologize for your joke and try to get a second date. Well hopefully helpless shoes down to go back out of me. Like I said, I really liked her and I felt like
we connected. I just you know, I made it. Okay, Well, we'll play a song and then come back and get your second date update. All right, all right, guys, okay, hang on looking jubile in the morning. Second date update. Today's second date update brings up a very important question. What is the timeline on how soon you can joke about somebody's dead grandparents? I think we gotta figure it out. I think we should do it by maybe the age that they were when they died, like if they were eighty,
gotta wait eighty days before you make a joke. It's not actually a bad rule of thumb. Yeah, or maybe just don't joke around people's dead ends. How do you not jose you have to at least throw a joke or two in there. I just got to make sure that timing is right. And Kurt was on the phone for a second day update right now. His timing was definitely not right. He went out with a girl named Angie.
They went out to dinner. She was kind of a little down the whole time, and then she shared with him that she was filling down because her grandmother had passed away recently. And then Kurt decided to make her feel better with a joke, saying, Hey, my grandpa passed away recently. We should totally hook our grandparents up. They're single, and she didn't find it very funny. And then the
date ended very shortly after that. So I'm about to give her a call, and Kurt, one thing we should do in this phone call is find out how old her grandma was, so we know when the appropriate time to make that joke is. I think that sounds good. No, you guys, stop bringing up the dead grandma. I mean I think that this is your chance to like apologize and maybe say what you should have said when she
said that. You've had time to think about it. Do you know what your appropriate response would have been after she said her grandma kicked the bucket? I would have just said, I am really sorry to hear that. You know, there's anything I could do? Let me know, and then maybe change the subject. That's so good, But Hi, insight is twenty twenty, isn't it. It's a much better option. All right, Well, I'm gonna dial her phone number right now and see if we can figure out why she's
not going you back. Okay, sounds good? All right, here we go. Hello? Hi? Is this Angie? Um? Yeah? Who's this? Hey? What's up? Angie? How are you This is Jewil from Brook and jew Bil in the Morning the radio show. Oh I'm fine, How are you not bad? It sounds like you might be familiar with the show. Yeah, I mean I've heard it before. Thank you. Have you ever heard a second day update before? Um? Yes I have. Okay, wonderful. It might be excited to know that's why we're calling today.
Oh really Yeah? Yeah, that wasn't a very excited. Oh okay, what's going on? Have you been out on a lot of dates recently? Oh? Not a lot? Okay. Have you been out on a date with a dude named Kurt? Yes? I did go out with him. Cool? Any guests on who might be calling for a second date update? Just well, I guess it's him. But that's kind of weird. Why is it weird? It's weird? Yeah, I mean I'm not interested in going out with him. Yeah. I mean he
got that because you haven't called him back back. Remember the point of the second date update is find out why. Yeah, but I guess he really didn't get it because he actually called you guys, which is weird. Yeah. Oh so you're saying that it should be obvious why you're not calling him back. Yeah, yeah, I think so. I think. I guess it's not though, really is it the joke about your grandmother? Oh he actually told you that, Yeah, that was that was really I didn't appreciate that at all,
But that's not the whole reason. Yeah, I did tell us about that. He told us that he feels bad actually about making a poorly time joke when you shared that your grandmother had just passed away. So he does feel bad about that, but it's more to it. Yeah, yeah, I think that, Like the worst part was that he was going on and on about the fact that he's a male model. It was like very uncomfortable for me, and he kept like making all these faces like this is my relaxed face, and this is my space and
my evening romantic space. Who does that? Are you serious? He mentioned that it was weird you weren't calling him back because girls always call him back because he's a model. Yeah, oh please, So doesn't that give you an idea of like how growth he is? Wait, when did he start doing faces at a table? Like really early on in the date, Like he seemed like he was trying to impress me, you know, if there was a mirror behind me in the booth. I bet you he would have
just been looking at his reflection the whole time. Yeah, this dude is like, here's me, here's the world, and here's all my faces. And I was like, oh, I wasn't in a really good mood, you know. I mean, I just wanted to go out and have some fun. I'm sad about my grandma, and this guy is just ooh, he just made it worse. I'm surprised he didn't take that opportunity to show you his sad. Look. You know, he may have. He showed me a lot of Look.
What did you say to him? I mean I didn't know what to say, because I mean, he just thought that he was so entertaining, and I mean I sort of tried to get the point across that I wasn't really into being all these faces and I just kind of wanted some nice company and you know, but I guess he didn't get it. Okay, so long before the dead grandma joke, you were over this guy. Yeah, I mean that sure didn't help matters, but I don't It's not the kind of guy that I want to hang
out with. No. Yeah, well, Angie, thank you for being honest with us. Also, I want to let you know that I haven't been fully honest with you. What do you mean, Well, I mean that Kurt is actually on the other line listening to this and wants to talk to you. Oh, Angie, Oh my god, you're on the phone. Great. Yeah, I'm on the phone. And first of all, I know you're trying to bash mail modeling, but it's you know,
really insensitive. And you know, I was just trying to show you, you know, kind of like my talents and hoping that you would show me your talents. But you don't really have any WHOA, somebody got their feelings hurt, Kurt. I mean maybe I don't care that much about your talents right now. I have other things going on in my life. I just wanted someone normal to hang out with, but that's not you. I did not believe you didn't come in with an apology, Kurt, Like, oh my god,
I was nervous. I'm sorry. I mean, why am I going to apologize if, like everybody in the station, including yourself, is like making fun of what I do. Like that doesn't make any sense. I'm not gonna apologize for anything. Yeah, Okay, Well, I know that you think You're modeling is really great, So why do you care what anyone thinks of it? And I, like I said, I have other things going on right now, so I'm not so interested in you're bragging about your talents. I was just trying to have
a good time, Kurt. I don't think you get it. Like nobody's making fun of your career. They're making fun of you being so self absorbed. Well, I mean whatever, like however you want to spin it, you know, that's like on you. But I was just trying to be outgoing, trying to show like a little bit more of my personality on the date. But it's being spun around like I'm just sitting here with like some self indulged guy
on a date, and that's not who I am. That's not what I do, and that's what it sounds like. I mean, how many faces did you show her for your information? Actually have fifteen to twenty different faces that have all made me over a thousand dollars. That's good. I wish I could get paid for my face, Kurt. I do think that's a talent, but maybe just not on a date. Maybe save that for when you're actually
working and not across the table from someone at dinner. Yeah, it's like Jebel going out on a date and doing all his phone tap voices. Like no one wants that they don't. I'm sorry. I think a lot of people give male models a bad rap. And just so you guys know, I mean, I know most of you are in the radio and you know whatever Angie does, mail modeling. He's very hard and we grind every day to make
our careers possible. Okay, And you have to work on your diet, you have to work on your wordrobe, you have to keep up with what's going on, and obviously you need to practice your faces. I mean, as funny as this sounds, it's a very important part of what I do. One very very important thing that you just said, though, that I think probably makes it seem like you're a
little self involved. As you said, I don't even know what Angie does, and you went on a date with her and you didn't take the time to figure out what her career is. Yeah, Kurt, you never even asked me what I do. Well, you're too sad looking to really even talk to you, Like I was scared. So it's her fault that you didn't take any interest in her. Yeah, she was. She was just way too sad and we just way too down. I just didn't know what to say to her. I just didn't feel like I could
ask her anything. I could cheer up with some of your faces. I get it, Dudee, would you like to go out with Kurt on a second date? We will pay for it? Absolutely not. Yeah you're gonna pause after absolutely damn. And if you guys are wondering, I'm making this type of face disgusted, No way, remember again, dude, you nailed it anyway. Yeah, I stop making fun of my faces the real and they very much get me paid, all right, So keep grinding, Kurt. Angie, thank you for
talking to us. And you know, hopefully you can find a lady out there, Kurt that will appreciate you for all your different looks. That's great. Thank you so much. I appreciate your feedback. In the morning. Text in at seven eight, five to nine two says I'm a model and that dude gives us all a bad name. That
guy maybe a few others. But anyway, if you miss today's second date update, this dude, Kurt went out with a girl named Angie and he noticed immediately there was just she was in kind of a weird mood, and he found out it was because her grandma had just passed away. So Kurt tried to lighten the mood by making a joke saying that his grandpa died recently too, so maybe they should hook up his grandma and grandpa together.
And the joke didn't land well, but we got her on the phone and found out it's partly the reason. But the biggest reason was because he's a male model, and I guess throughout the date, he kept showing her all of his different poses, his different faces that he could do, his sad faces, happy face is what, I'm a serious face, and she thought it was weird. Today was a day that I was really sad that were just radio because I really wanted to see him visually. I feel like he was giving us all sorts of
angry faces at the end of that call. I'm also friends and Jewel, you know I'm talking about one of my best friends is a male model. But yeah, at least my friend knows that it looks bad. He doesn't practice or do anything in front of people at all because he knows it's conceited. It's a very good thing. He's such a good male model. You don't even know
when he's putting on a fenced. Oh but anyway, Kurt didn't get super offended with us and offended that people weren't taking his job seriously, even though it is kind of weird no matter what your job is to be doing it in the middle of your date. If you're a CPA, don't do an Excel spreadsheet and show me how cool you are. Yeah, an electrician isn't going to sit at the table and then rewire the outlets that right is right next to you. It's just that would
be weird. You wouldn't get another call back. Probably, so Kate decided she didn't want to go out with Kurt again, and Kurt's fine with that. He'll find somebody else to appreciate all of his many faces. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, just email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back, giving away another trip to Vegas in just about five minutes.
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