2nd Date Update PODCAST: Burn It Down

on the phone today for a second day update. His email said that he met the girl who he wants to call today at work. So I'm guessing it's a co worker or something. Julian, how you doing, I'm good. How are you guys? Good? So you're trying to dip your wiener in the penning, right? Is that what this is about? No, No, it's not at all. Okay, tell us a little bit about the girl that you want to call today. She's a co worker. Well, she's not

a coworker. She came in purchasing supplies at the office that I work at, so she's kind of a client co worker. Seal the deal there, So did you ask her out while she came in to deal with Like, No, because I think that's unprofessional. Basically, what happened is she came in and she was working with me or I was working for her, however you want to say it.

I didn't want to cross the line, I guess. And then she ended up coming back because she hadn't got her parking ticket validated in the lot, and so you validated it with your wiener? Oh my god? Right? Or am I right? No? No? No, I validated it and then had a nice conversation with her when I walked her out to the lot. Okay, well, where's the winner come into this thing? I haven't heard anything about a

wiener yet. No, there was no weiner involved in the validation. Anyways, I asked her if she would like to get dinner on Friday, and she said she would, and I got her number and I called her and we went to dinner. What's her name, by the way, Christina? Christina? And how was dinner with Christina? Dinner was good. I mean, I

feel like we had a lot of chemistry. And I like veal, and not everybody likes feal, and she wanted the veal too, so we ended up ordering the same thing, which I thought was kind of a cool thing, and dinner went good. You guys both ordered veal. In other words, you're both fans of slaughtering baby calves. I like that about both of you. Seems nice. That's not what I think about when I'm eating veal, like the way veal pay, so I'm not worrying about the process. Oh that's why

I like it. I just I picture the whole things go on while I'm eating veal. I like it. Now, why I like it at all? Actually, you're making me like it a lot less by giving me that story. So if dinner went well and everything else, why do you think she's not calling you back? You know, I don't know. I mean there were a couple of things. Now I'm trying to run the night through my head, and like, did I do something wrong? Did I you know, my fly open or my food in my face? Or

how I ate? Was the fly open? The winer? I knew it. I'm talking to you that you're a winer guy. I knew it. Yeah, that's you're right. How did you figured me out? But realistically, the only things that I think that could have possibly not gone, Well, I did have to take a work call, which I don't like to have to take work calls if I'm on a date. But I was expecting a client to call, so I had to walk away. Did you tell her at the beginning of the night that that was going to happen.

I did not tell her that I was expecting a call, But when I got back, I said, this was an important job call. I had to take it. Did you, I mean, did you leave her stranded by herself for like a half an hour while you were on some conference call or something. Well, no, I stayed at the table for a minute and then walked away. But it was no more than fifteen minutes long, I mean, and she had an appetizer and some wine, So okay, So it wasn't. I have a hard time thinking that would

be the reason not to call you back. If you're like, hey, sorry, it's an important work call. Yeah, that's me too. And then the only other thing I'll be honest with you. You know, I'm not going to say the restaurant, but veal is a particular type of food, and if you like veal, you like feel But I thought that it was okay, and I kind of was like, oh, you know, how's your veal and she's like, Oh, it's great, blah blah blah. And I was like, oh, she's asked me,

and I was like, it's all right, it's okay. And maybe I don't know, maybe she thought I was being hypercritical or a snob about the food, but I wasn't. I just giving my honest opinion. Honestly, I think both of you a red flag for me, Like, obviously, if a guy's taking a call in the middle of a Friday night date, he's going to be putting work in front of me our entire relationship. Wow, I'm just saying wait, wait, wait. But first off, you have to understand she's in the

same business. She knows that I'm in sale, but she wasn't taking a call dur in the dinner because she's a buyer. She's not a feller. She's not as important as I see. How did she understands that sales There are the time zones, there's other people, people that are working at different hours where when you're buying, you're not, as I don't say, in demand, but sometimes you have to answer the phone when you're selling because if you don't lose out of sale. Then you lose out of money,

and then you can't afford the dinner. I think a red flag. A red flag would be taking your wiener out at the dinner table, like you said you did earlier. Okay, for the record, I didn't take out my wiener for any portion of the date, dinner or after anything. All Right, So when we call her and ask why she's not calling you back, she's not going to say that. Okay, how did everything end with her? You know, I kind of went in for kiss and I kind of got more of a handshaped hug kind of thing. But it

was the first date, so was it awkward? I don't think it was awkward. It was It wasn't like I was like an inch from her lips and she stuck her hand to me. It was know, I mean I was kind of coming in kind of to like hug kiss and she kind of put her hand up a little bit. So it was it was that's all. She shut you down. I know, it wasn't a shutdown. It was just it was just that wasn't a shutdown. Shut It sounds like a shut down to me. If you go for a kiss and you get a handshake. Have

you heard anything from her since your date? No? I called her once and I've fixed her three times. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date. Update. All right, okay, great, thank hang on brooking Jubil. In the morning update, Julian is on the phone with us and today he wants to call a girl named Christina, and Julian claims that he wasn't shut down at the end of the date when he went in for a kiss and she shook his

hand instead. He still says that that wasn't him getting shut down, but in my definition of beginning shut down, that is probably the best way to describe it. Listen, I didn't get shut down. I waited for a kiss. It was you know, it was a professional date. You know, it was a work thing, so it wasn't appropriate. I understand. Let me get shut out either way, I think you got shut down. Yeah, all right, Well we're gonna get her on the phone and see why she's not calling

you back. Here we go on dollar phone of her right now. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Christina? Please? Yeah? This is she Christina? How are you? This is Jewil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Who is this Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio show. Um, okay, why are you calling me? What is this? I'm calling you because one of our listeners asked if I could get you on the phone to ask you a few questions. Okay, that's really weird. It's a segment we do on our

show called the Second Date Updates. So you recently went on a date with a dude named Julian. Okay, and Julian emailed us and said that you haven't been responding to any of his text messages or phone calls, so he thought maybe we could get you on the phone and find out why you're not calling Julian back. All right. He told us, you know, you're like a client where he works, and he asked you out and he said, you guys went out to dinner and had a pretty

fun time. That's what he told you. Yes, good time. So you didn't have a good time? Um, I wouldn't call it that. No, Okay, what was wrong with it then? Because according to him everything was great. He thought maybe he seemed like a food snob to you because he disagreed with you on the veal that you guys ordered. Yeah, he definitely has a very refined palette. That's one way to put it. Okay. He also said that he took

a phone call in the middle of the date. Oh yeah, he did that was it was a little rude, Okay, Yeah, I could see how that would upset you. I mean, that was even the worst part of the date. What was the worst part then? Um? I mean he's he's a very smooth sales guy, but he's kind of got this seething anger underneath all of it. Seeing he was seething anger underneath his charismatic salesman personality. I mean, yeah, that's literally the best adjective I can pick to describe it.

It's easing anger. What happened? Because when you described the date to us, he didn't say anything about anger or being pissed off him. It's a very very picky person and a very shallow person and quite rude. Actually what did he do? I mean, for example, he was super picky about the wine. I ordered red wine and it was brought to me, I guess in a white wine glass, and he got extremely upset and he turned it away

and made them bring it back. Is he one of those a holes at the restaurant that like acts like he owns the place when he's somewhere and that nothing's good enough for him. Yeah, it's pretty much exactly like. He went bathroom and when he came back, he was in a huge hus and he says, you know, there's

no more paper towels in the bathroom. You know, they's a fancy restaurant and then an establishment, and people should be refilling the paper towels and going on and on about this tiny and significant thing that how dare they go? It is annoying when they don't have paper towels. I will say that, but I don't know if I'd ever get that pissed off about it. It's not angry, it's annoying. Yeah, absolute worst part of the entire night. That paper towels

thing wasn't even it. I mean, he completely dressed down the waiter and just disrespected him when we were leaving. As he's leaving, he says, I paid forty dollars for a piece of beer I wouldn't feed to my dead. Grandmother says, you're lucky I don't come back and burn this place down to the round. And I was like, did I hear you correctly? He threatened to burn the place down? He did. He threatened to burn it to the ground. He said that to the waiter. I'm a hundreds.

That was the comment of the night. I've complained the restaurants before, but I've never threatened to burn them down. I would destroy this place. Did he realize what he was saying or did he act like this is just normal banter at a restaurant. Now he knew exactly what

he was saying. When we were leaving the restaurant, he turned to me and his attitude completely changed, and he made it sound like I had been suffering and I was a victim and that everything was absolutely horrible, and you know the things I didn't really care was so insignificant. It is mine. He must have been standing up for you. Yeah, I really want him to stand up for me and burn down the restaurant we were eating at. Some girls would be thankful for that. Some girl be what a man?

Yes he is as true gentleman. He threatened to burn down a restaurant in my honor, So I know it was really ridiculous. So I mean, I said good night and I'm going to leave at that. That's understandable. I guess I want to get out of there as soon as possible. Threats of arson on a first date you usually I don't want to fact to that as ever, again, that's just shame because he's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes?

I am, Hey, Christina, I wasn't angry. I was standing up for you. I was standing up for having good service at a restaurant. I mean, I worked hard for my money, and you know what, the service sucked and the food sucked, and there was no paper towels. What kind of place doesn't have paper towels. You have to wash your hands to go eat, and they don't want you to try your hands. I mean, I mean, right, you're I mean I'm not gonna not wash my hands.

If I looked, I saw there was no paper towels, and now I'm like, I'm gonna wipe it on my pants and I'm gonna walk out its. Look at my pants are wet. So I couldn't even impress you with that. I was like, I wasn't angry. I was I was being chivalry. I mean, I was defending you. You're having to burn the place down. I mean, how how is that chival? That's just threatening? Okay, okay, I think I

shouldn't have said that. That was me getting frustrated because I was like, Okay, the paper towels is one thing, the wine was another thing, the appetizer is another thing, because the deal was another thing. I got so frustrated. I'm talking. I stop you guys, stopped talking. I've heard this already. I heard you the rest sun I'm hearing

it again. You're just repeating yourself. You know, if like, if you keep focusing on little insignificant things and being a rude everybody, Like, I don't know how women can stand to go on a day with you. It's no wonder you've been divorced twice. Who what whoa whoa Wait, you just brought up my two divorces, so my ex wives I share that with you. Are you kidding me? I mean, that's rude, that that's that's that's mean. But that's an example. It's two strikes, and the women clearly

couldn't deal with all of your crap. My crap, my crap because I want good customer service, because I'm at a restaurant, and I want some customer at the other human brain and be respype. That's full about it. You were respect with you? Well, I'm like, that's why people in the service industry, you don't know if to threaten people. You know what. I'm in the sales industry. You know what. I take care of customers. They need to take care of customers. You should know them. I mean, we're in

this industry. But I don't even know what to say. I stayed in my case. I don't know. In the surface industry, sometimes you have to put your foot down to get some respect. So I was doing that with the waiter in the restaurant, and you know what, I think you need to show me a little respect because you know what, I was defending you. I think so too. That's why I'd like to ask Christina, would you like to go on a second date with Julian? We will

pay for it. Hell no, no, no, I don't you answered so quickly there, You know, if you're going to talk to me like that, no way, Julie, are you sure? I mean I could find you, guys a great restaurant that Julian could burn down. I'm gonna pass on that. You know what, if you want to settle for mediocre service, then you don't want to go date some schleck who will take you to the drive through. I want to go store restaurants where they treat you like a customer.

We're right, we are supposed to get this stuff. Come on, I mean, really, you know what, you know what, You've pushed the envelope so far. I was fine just knocking another date with you, but you know what, I really don't want to do business with someone who has FTHX like you. Oh oh, now you're taking personal and you're putting it in business. Really, I'm going to tell the people I work with my company will not be doing business that's your company anymore? Are you cheating me? Very

solid date? You know it wasn't a date. It was your attitude that did it. I am done with this conversation. Goodbye. Wow, Julian, what just happened? You didn't get a second date? And I think you might be losing your job soon too, because I want customer service. Well, I think it's because you're threatened to burn the place down. Yeah, you're a total douche bag about it. I apologize for the burning the place I mean that was you know, it was

one bathing after another and it pushed me beyond. But but I mean the rest of the stuff was all customer service, slow service, bad food, wrong glasses. I'm yeah, we know the list. Broken Jewel in the morning texted at seven eighty five to nine two says, I like how his whole attitude changed when she said she didn't want to do business with him anymore. Talking about today's second date update if you missed it, stud Julian wanted

to call Christina. They actually work together their companies too, and he went out with Christina. She said she wasn't calling him back because he got a little aggressive the whole night. He was very picky about the wine, angry that they were out of paper towels in the bathroom, which I support him for completely. He even screamed at a waiter because he said he paid forty dollars for veal veal that he wouldn't feed to his dead grandma.

Oh gosh, that says a lot, because I made a lot of deal in my dead and the thing about dead grandma, they don't complain very much. They just kind of eat the good anyway. He also threatened to come back to the restaurant and burn it to the ground. He was so mad. He sounds like a really reasonable guy. You guys, real level headed. Yeah, yes, there's no red flags there. What's her problem? He claimed that his behavior was just defending Christina, saying that she deserved a good

four style star meal. He was going to burn the place down in her honor. I guess anyway, romance written right though, I think there's a movie. She said no to a second date, and she also said that her company won't do business with him anymore. Yeah, it looks like that's a company that's about to get burned to the ground. So I have some insurance. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, just email the show. We will call the person who didn't call you back.