Need Lasic trust the experienced team at the Lasic Center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lasic at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jebels Second date update. A listener named Jake is on the phone today for a second date update, and in his email, he said that there was a strict no talking policy for their first date. So it sounds like an amazing date, like I wish they would do that on more first dates. So I don't know what went wrong.
What's up, Jake? How are you? Hey? Guys? How's it going pretty good? So there's a no talking policy on your first date? Yeah, I mean it's partially because there was like bad research, you know, on my part, but you know, it ended up being kind of cool. So hear me out. Okay, before we get into that. What's her name by the way, Kelly? Kelly. Kelly's not like a mute in this phone call is going to go not very well because she won't be able to talk to us either. Right, she could talk, but she's not
talking to me. I wish you could you guys. Okay, so hopefully we can get her to talk to you again. Tell us about how you met her? We met online and you hit it off right away, and she what was really popped out to me is like she liked music. She liked to see live music and stuff like that. So I thought, oh, this would be great. Okay, that's awesome. I mean, are you the one they had initiated the date? Yeah, I mean I asked her and then she agreed to
a first date. Sweet and what we What were you feeling when you were arriving at the date for the first time. I mean, I was really excited. I think she was gonna love it. I picked this this jazz club that had this jazz been playing, um that I thought it would be really cool. I know she's gonna like it because she likes live music and I've never been to this jazz club before, so it was going to be kind of a new experience for me as well. So I mean, when when, okay, do you both like jazz? Yeah?
That was the other thing that was on her her profile that she liked jazz music and definitely not okay. And how did did it all start? I mean, what was it like between you two in person? Seeing her in person absolutely stunning. I was so excited and When we got in, I had this table set aside. It was like really close to the band, so like get
the whole experience. And we sit down, we order our drinks and we start talking and I'm getting these dirty looks from people around me, and even one person like shushes me from behind. And I actually looked. There's a card on the table that says no talking during during play. So they had this policy where and they enforced it
where you couldn't talk while the band was playing. That's intense. Yeah, And I was like, oh no, I just invited this girl to this first day and we can't even talk to Like, I said, that sounds fabulous, but I don't think most people would like that. I started to freak out a little bit. But we get our drinks and there was cocktail napkins, and so she started writing questions on the cocktail napkins. I would answer them. It's really cute. It's like high school math class all over again, passing
notes back and forth. Yeah, and we and it actually worked, and we went back and forth and we ended up filling up both sides, all quarters of this cocktail napkin, every little inch with questions and answers and I mean it was a little awkward because there was sometimes I couldn't really read her handwriting, but you know that happens at a bar anyway. If it's really loud, you can't always hear the person, but you sometimes answered just in case, right, right, totally?
Did it go well? I mean, were you guys hitting it off based on your written conversation? Yeah, we were. And it was interesting because it was like talking online only in person, so you could see her reactions to reading what you were writing, and it was It was really cool, and the music was great and we had a great time. Afterwards, we were like, let's do this more, and so I invited her over to my place so
we could actually talk and she agreed. Oh cool. So I mean, you guys learned enough about each other via cocktail napkins to feel comfortable enough to go back to your place. Yeah, did you guys kiss at the end of the night. It was like one of those little pecks. It wasn't like a real, like intimate thing. You know. That's interesting that you would go back to your place and nut make out a little bit. Yeah, I mean it was kind of weird when she was there at
my place. It was a little awkward. I couldn't really figure out why. It's just the energy wasn't right. I was like actually thinking of like maybe we should just break out some more napkins and just right on that and just keep that vibe going for the night. Maybe she liked your penmanship more than the way you actually speak. Maybe. All right, have you tried to ask her out again? Yeah? Sure, And it's never worked out, like timing wise for us to schedule something, and I think that she's kind of
avoiding it. Well, we'll play a song and then come back and call her and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, And before you I just want to let you know that, like, no matter how this works out, I actually kind of kept the napkin. Anything that happens from this, it's just like a really cool memento to have about like a night that was really cool. Yeah, for your scrap booking. All right, we'll get your second day update right over your hanger brooking jubil in the morning, right in the
middle of a second date update. And if you're just joining us, Jake is on the phone and he wants to call a girl named Kelly. They went out to a jazz club for their first date, but I guess it was kind of awkward because they had a strict no talking policy, so they spent most of the evening writing notes to each other back and forth on cocktail napkins. They did go back to his place after talked a little bit, he got like a peck on the lips
and then she left, and she's definitely been blowing him off. Jake. I think maybe part of the reason that you're not getting a call back is because you're too much of
a rule follower. You know, maybe like I tried to do everything, you know no, but I mean, like you go to that place with a no talking policy and then you listen to their rules like a bad boy, the kind of girl that guy's life, the kind of guy that girls would have saw that rule in instantly just jumped up on stage, grabbed the trumpet, and pulled his pants down started playing it with his butt. That's
the type of bad dude. The ladies like, you know, yeah, butt trumpets every time, then disrupt the jazz club with their butt, and that's why they you're not going to call back. I kind of envy the people that can do that. I don't know about playing with my butt. But that's a true talent though, Jake. I mean, if she loves music. Yeah, we'll get her on the phone in a second and find out if that's the reason.
But I'm guessing that probably is it totally. Yeah, yeah, maybe that has never crossed my mind, though, Yeah, I don't think it's crossed most people's mind. I actually feel bad for you, man, like you kept the cocktail napkin because he wanted it to be a love momentum. You obviously saw this going somewhere. Absolutely, I think it's something cool to have that, like this is our first day, you know, totally. Well, I hope it goes well for you.
I do. I hope so too. Thank you. If it doesn't, always take up playing the trumpet with your butt, and then your next days always be successful. All right, I'm a dollar phoneum right now? Okay, all right, thank you? Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi is this Kelly? Yes, it is hey Kelly. How are you. This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the morning. Okay, I'm good. What's going on with you? Not much, just doing a radio show and thought we'd call you. I'm sorry, I'm confused.
You said you're with a radio show, and what do you need. Yes, Brooke and Jewel in the Morning, that's the name of the show, and we do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up blowing them off after that date, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened. So we got an email about you from one of our listeners. Now you didn't, Yeah, we did from who his name is? Jake? Oh? Him? Yes, him,
the dude you went to like a jazz club with. Yeah. Yeah, he emailed us told us that he really likes going out with you, told us about your date, and he also said that it seems like you don't want to go out with him again. So he wants to know why. Okay, you said it seems like I don't want to go out with him again. I'm going to clarify and say that I don't want to go out with him again. Oh that's a strong sentiment. Okay, can you tell us why? You know, it was just a really disappointing night. Um,
I was really optimistic. Were you hoping he would have played a trumpet with his but what she doesn't make a think sense to her. Yeah, I don't worry about that comment anyway. Why was it disappointing? Okay, I don't know what you guys knew, but we went to a jazz bar and yeah, he told us that. He said, you guys couldn't talk because there was like a no talking policy. So he wrote notes and he thought that that actually was a good thing, Like you guys bonded
over that and thought it was funny and stuff. Totally it was. I mean, that was really fun It was really cute. And then, um, you know, I was feeling good about the night, about him him, And then we went back to his place and he made me a drink and then he wanted to give me a grand tour of his place. Does he s something creepy in his house? We've heard that a lot on these second date updates. So I mean he kind of took me around so like the normal stuff, you know, like the kitchen,
living room, whatever, showing me the place. And then we went into this one room and there were glowing sticker stars on the ceiling and there were trophies on the wall and there were bunk beds, and I thought, oh my god, like, do you have a kid? Right? And he said no and started laughing and said that it was his room and that him and his roommates sleep in bunk beds because they want to save money because
rent is expensive. And it's not only him in his roommate in the funk bed, but the whole apartment, which is a one bedroom by the way, houses four people, and some of the other people are sleeping on like a pullout couch or on an air mattress because I don't want to save money. Well, I mean, you kind of got it understand that, like rent is insane. That seems pretty extreme, but right, I mean, like I'm all about, you know, finding ways to save your money, but I
don't know this is the right fit for me. You're not trying to date a dude with bunk beds, that stairs, that blowing stars on his ceiling. Yeah. This is the other thing is that he said, oh, well, my roommates aren't going to be back for another hour, so we can do stuff. Did he mean, like, obviously you think he was implying sexual stuff. I mean, most likely, but who knows. He's got bunk beds and stars on his shoes. He might have met Legos, he might have bought a
new Lego city or something you guys could have built. Yeah, I mean, if it's not the type of man that I see myself dating, because this apparently is a man child twelve year old bedroom, how do you know? I mean, Okay, the stars are one thing, but what if he's just really good with money and he's budgeting and he's saving for something, Like, I don't know, I feel like you're
passing a lot of judgment. I mean, I have priorities, and I think dating someone who's sleeping on a bunk bed with his roommate underneath, like, I'm not really trying to spend the night over. There could be a secret millionaire Jubil's right, Like, don't you have a place that you can bring him back to? Sure, but I also like going to other places, like you know, like all the other men I dated at least have their own room,
let alone their own bed. He has his own bed. Yeah, it's just yeah, yeah, I'm just I'm not into it. So I don't really know what else to tell you. Well, yeah, I think he told us everything you need to tell us. I do need to tell you something though. Jake is actually on the other line listing and wants to talk to you. No, he's not. Yep, he is. Jake. You there, Yeah, Hey, I don't get it. Are you Are you serious? Like, are you judging me for dude? I want to save money.
I live in this this bachelor pad with roommates. It's how we, you know, get by. I don't know if I would call this a bachelor pad. Your bunk bed has a slide, Dude, that's kind of awesome. Sorry to interrupt, but yeah, that's totally awesome. You didn't even go down at once. Just because we're older, it doesn't mean that we can't have fun in our own room. Jake. That's a kid thing. They have those bunk beds with slides. As an adult man, you should have a more appropriate bed. Well.
I mean, if you need me to take the slide off, I totally can. It's eg it's just plastic. Yeah, that's not what I meant. The bunk bed is a really great ideas we can stay in one room. Past girlfriends, I've had to actually like it because it's like, you know, we actually have to sleep closer and cuddle you know what I mean. And it's been really great. Yeah, cuddling with you, me and then your roommate below us. But my roommate is a really heavy sleeper. He won't wake
up for it and down that slide. I didn't even talk to you when I was there about the whole star thing on your ceiling, Like, what does that even for? I'm on a top bunk. It helps me read at night? What do you mean it helps you read? Yeah, it glows like for the first hour after I turn off the lights, and those are not bright enough to read by. Nice try though, that was a good try. Okay, So what I think they're cool looking? Yeah, there we go
the answer. I just think that I should be judged on the time that we had and the connection that we had on that night, and not on just like a piece of furniture that I have. Yeah, he's still saved up as allowance. So you guys go to that jazz. I mean, you've got to understand from her point of view, I don't think it's necessarily just about the furniture. It's that like you're sharing a room with the dude. Still,
here's the thing. I've been saving a lot of money doing this, and I'm actually I have goals what to do with them money. I'm actually going to buy a condo in the next five years. So there you go, Kelly. Like, he's not going to permanently be living in that bunk bed. I mean, the bunk bed might go to the condo, but who knows. But like so, Jake, you're telling me that I should trust you because you're saving money by condo, that maybe maybe you'll get him five years exactly. It's
gonna be a really nice condo too. How many roommates will you have in your condo? Hopefully just wanted. Hopefully it's gonna be you. Kelly. All right, Kelly, would you like to go out on a second day with Jake? We will pay for it, and who knows, one day you could be living in a condo with Jake with a bunk bed with a slut. I'm going to decline this one, but thank you so much, not even a second chance. There are some things that I prioritize in
my dating life, and bunk beds is not one of them. Okay, I guess I don't want to go out with someone who's going to just judge me for the furniture I have in my house. Sorry, I'm judging you, and honestly, I think that the rest of the girls that or you're going to meet and the rest of your life are going to judge you as well. And that's just kind of how it is out Burns. Sorry, Jake, no second day, but hey, one day you'll have that condo,
and then, yeah you will. And when you get that condo, ditch the bunk bed, all right, I guess note taken with the race car bed for that one own bed. About broken Jewel in the Morning text many five nine two says I'm forty years old and I would love to have a slide on my bed that I can actually use. She needs to stop being so stuck up. It's broken Jewel in the morning talking about today's second date. Up to date if you missed it. This dude, Jake
wanted to call a girl named Kelly. She wasn't calling him back because apparently he has like a kid's bed, Yeah, my kid's bedroom, bunk bed with a slide and everything else. He tried to explain that he has three roommates and they sleep on bunk beds in order to save money, and he claims that he's saving to buy a condo
in five years. Maybe it sounds more just like he enjoys kicking it with his friends in his place and sliding down a slide from his bunk bed and looking at the little stars that he's stuck on the ceiling. It's amazing how many people are hating on her. Yeah, yeah, I get and I defended the guy too, but I don't know that I would date a guy. Yeah, they
did not go out again. Remember, if you want a second day update, I have to do his email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back ninety two point five